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  1. #1
    Mkring 和 史蒂芬 charcan's Avatar
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    What kind of parents do you have?

    I have a very overprotective,
    very involved parents.
    I believe that my parents just
    do not trust me to be sensible and
    responsible. I can react to my
    parents' excessive fear by
    compliance or resistance. If my
    parents voice
    their fears in terms of doubts.

    I guess its in our culture talaga,
    na masyadong nakikialam ang
    mga magulang natin sa buhay
    ng kanilang mga anak. Kaya
    hindi maganda ang epekto nito
    for some. Nagiging dependent
    hangang sa pag tanda.

  2. #2
    parents ko 50th (golden) years anniversary na nila this year.
    never naghiwalay dahil nag away o may third party.
    sweet pa rin sa isat isa kahit puro rayuma na sila.
    hay.. ang sarap tignan pag ganito ang mga magulang.

    btw very strict sila nung teenager pa ako..

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    True. My parents are the same. But really in the end, it's gotta be the effort of the children to live their own. That's what we, my brothers did, it's not easy but my parents understood and they helped us out. I think they'll be proud of us in the end, yeah we took hits, yeah we didn't do as great sometimes, but we did it on our own.

    That should be the goal of parents. Sometimes the plane have to take off and fly, it may crash but its gotta try to lift off. It's better than parking it in the hanger looking pretty and not having any accident, but it's not a plane if it never flies.

    Parents gotta understand that. You're not going to be around forever, and if you never teach them how to float on their own they'll never ever will when you're gone. It's better you let them sink or swim when you're there to see them do it and perhaps help them, but never when they're all alone. That's selfishness on the parents part.

    I believe in the saying that (although not absolute) 'the fault of children as sons/daughters are the failures of their mothers/fathers as parents'.

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    my parents got married early at the age of 17 and 18. My mom who was 18 then and my father was 17. after 2 years of being marriage i was born. I could say that they have been a good parents to us. Im proud of my mom,cause being an early young mom she raised me well.Unlike teenage mom nowadays, if they got pregnant, they dont know how will they take care of their kids. But my mom she was so good in taking care of us. And so as well with my father.
    I have a strict parents. A parents that gives importance to education. They taught us how to respect people at early age. When my mom or my father is calling us, the word "po" and "opo" is always used by us to answer them.We were taught not to answer back. And now, my parents and i were just like siblings. I am very close with my mom. Sometimes i dont treat her as a mom but only as friends. we do jokes each other and we enjoy it. Whenever people see us, they always taught that we were like just sisters.

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    Wink

    happily married. strict sa curfews. strict sa suitors.
    sobra religious.


    nung college days ko, ang ga-gwapo ng pinatatawag ko sa bahay na boylets ko.aba... di binibigay sa kin. paano ko kaya makikilala diba??

    4th yr. college na yata nung nakipag-bf
    ako. Back in hs naman, eh ayoko mag-bf at pinagtsitsismisan sa campus ang lovestory niyo. Maraming magaganda sa campus pero bilang lang ang nag-bf dati.


    saka binilhan lang ako celfone 4th yr. college na, kaya text2x/ or tawag sa cel, kapag ligawan.

    pero kung anung strikto nila nung college days sa suitors eh
    yun naman ang kabaligtaran ngayon, kasi nagsusumamo na sila sa kin
    na mag-bf nako. (di ko kasi napakilala (2) EX ko sa bahay. Yung isa eh,break na kami 2months after graduation. 1month after graduation nagkakabalikan pa lang kami kasi ON & OFF kami....


    tapos nung working nako.. di na kasing gwapo ng mga boylets
    ko nung college days ang nakikilala ko sa workplace. Napormahan ako
    ng oldies(33), 23 pa lang ako nun
    . Tapos may flirt na crush ko, pero may gf na. Tapos may guy na na-inlove ako pero di pwede maging kami, kasi nag-resign nako, saka parang di niya ako type talaga as GF.

    Edi yung last EX ko na matagal ko ng kakilala (college days pa), pero nabasted ko na yun, at binabalikan ako para manligaw... pursigido kaya ko sinagot.Eh wala namang balls na harapin magulang ko, so ayun kumalas nako, pero di rin ako masaya sa kaniya.

    3 years ago pa yata ako napormahan ng gwapo talaga, at
    take note ... sobra younger pa sa kin (di naman naging kami)
    nag-abroad kasi.. at ayaw ng commitment. (kristianjohn)

    pero di nila ako minanduhan sa career moves ko, may mga plano ang dad ko sa kin, pero labag nga sa kalooban ko edi pinagbigyan niya ako... so ayan ang dami kong failures sa career, at walang buwan yata na di niya ako sinisisi sa kinahinatnan ng depreciating kong career.


    so eto mas priority ko career(revive), at kung maari na humiling kay LORD,na sana eh maging "alas" ko sa buhay ang pagkakaroon ng matinong mapapangasawa at maayos na buhay mag-asawa, comfortable living.

    Kung minalas man ako sa career. Para lang sa magulang ko, para
    matahimik ang kalooban nila na... nasa maayos na kalagayan ako sa buhay. DIBA?
    Last edited by freshbabe; Jul 1, 2010 at 11:17 AM.

  6. #6
    Parents ko? Super supportive, laging nandyan para sa'min. Dami ko ng beses napatunayan, recently lang sa nanay at tatay ko. Kahit ang laki ng nagawa kong mali, pinatawad nila ko, tinanggap pa rin sa kabila ng lahat ng ginawa ko, dahil lang sa isang lalaki. Pinagkatiwalaan nila ko pero sinira ko yon, dahil sa sobrang bait nila, tinanggap pa rin ako.

    When my world collapsed, kahit nasa abroad ang tatay ko, siya una kong tinawagan, sinabi ko sa kanya lahat, wala akong itinago, nagalit siya, pero tinanggap pa rin ako. Pinatawad sa ginawa ko.

    Nung gabing hindi ko na kinaya, lumapit lang ako sa nanay ko, bigla ko siyang niyakap. Stubborn ako sobra pero nung niyakap ko siya, niyakap niya din ako, lalo akong naiyak, then I told her everything. Still, despite all what happened, tinanggap pa rin. Noon ko narealize na kahit iwan ako ng lahat, magulang ko hindi ako iiwan. I was so blessed having them as my parents.

    When I was in highschool, lagi akong napapagalitan, there are times I hated them both. Pero narealize ko hindi, mali, na napakswerte ko pala dahil sila ang mga magulang ko.

    Dahil sa pagmamahal sa'kin ng nanay ko, she even swallowed her pride at pumunta sa bahay ng ex ko, hoping na maging maayos ang relasyon namin. Ganon niya ko kamahal, dahil nakikita niyang sobrang hirap na hirap na ko. She even cried with me. Sobrang sakit non para sa'kin na makita siyang umiiyak, at ako ang dahilan. Mas siya pa ang umiyak ng tuluyan akong iwan ng lalaking pinaglaban ko.

    Sobrang swerte ko sila ang mga naging magulang ko. I couldn't ask for more.

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    yes super strict din pagdating sa pag boboyfriend. nagkaboufriend ako at the age of 20. walang nanliligaw sakin saamin. takot kasi sa tatay ko.

  8. #8
    Quote Originally Posted by ForAllofMyLife View Post
    parents ko 50th (golden) years anniversary na nila this year.
    never naghiwalay dahil nag away o may third party.
    sweet pa rin sa isat isa kahit puro rayuma na sila.
    hay.. ang sarap tignan pag ganito ang mga magulang.

    btw very strict sila nung teenager pa ako..
    Congratulations sa parents mo. They make such good role models.

  9. #9
    basta I'm proud to be their son.

  10. #10
    I can say I'm lucky to have parents like them kahit di naman sila ganun ka stable financilally, (kaya ko naman hehe) ok lang. mabait ang parents ko at open minded. hindi sila strict, sobrang luwag nga eh pero kapag sobra na magsasalita lang sila, its up to us kung susundin namin. so far so good mababait naman kaming magkakapatid. gusto ng magulang namin na magkakasundo kami, walang away kasi sa huli naman pamilya mo parin ang tatakbuhan mo sa mga oras na problemado at gipit ka di ba? Very understanding, wala ka masabi... maalaga din... kaya tuloy kaming magkakapatid, mga dependent parin sa kanila kahit ang lalaki namin. dependent sa alaga, not financially. nagpapatimpla parin kami ng milo at pa minsan nagpapalambing kami. mga baby damulag na nga tawag samin. Happy ako at sila magulang ko. Happy ang family ko hehe!

  11. #11
    i cant evaluate them as one. mommy is almost always dependable and dad is...uhmm ....rarely. mommy glued the family together. love them both. but i love mommy more.

  12. #12
    Quote Originally Posted by annengerzie View Post
    I can say I'm lucky to have parents like them kahit di naman sila ganun ka stable financilally, (kaya ko naman hehe) ok lang. mabait ang parents ko at open minded. hindi sila strict, sobrang luwag nga eh pero kapag sobra na magsasalita lang sila, its up to us kung susundin namin. so far so good mababait naman kaming magkakapatid. gusto ng magulang namin na magkakasundo kami, walang away kasi sa huli naman pamilya mo parin ang tatakbuhan mo sa mga oras na problemado at gipit ka di ba? Very understanding, wala ka masabi... maalaga din... kaya tuloy kaming magkakapatid, mga dependent parin sa kanila kahit ang lalaki namin. dependent sa alaga, not financially. nagpapatimpla parin kami ng milo at pa minsan nagpapalambing kami. mga baby damulag na nga tawag samin. Happy ako at sila magulang ko. Happy ang family ko hehe!
    ^^^ ganito din parents ko(gusto magkakasundo at magtulungan kami & understanding at mabait naman, pero minus the affection(pa-timpla milo or kalambingan) & yun nga super strict.. kahit sa mga lalaking anak, pero ang cute niyo ha!!!.. we bond with sense of humor, tv/dvd(if there's time), food trip(sobra), lunch out-resto(every sundays), travel abroad & local trips.
    Last edited by freshbabe; Jul 2, 2010 at 06:09 PM.

  13. #13
    Quote Originally Posted by RedhotOne View Post
    Congratulations sa parents mo. They make such good role models.
    thank u...tama ka.. 11 nga kaming magkakapatid eh..dami noh
    masaya naman kahit sobrang ingay pag magkakasama.
    youngest nga pala ako..

  14. #14
    my parents are somewhat strict when I was still a youngster and when I was still on school as far as I vividly remember, they were so overprotective... They set rules and boundaries from foods that are contraindicated to chose down to style of outfits not to have.. But not to the point naman that it's like asphyxiating me...As for the necessities, they are still good providers, more that enough what I want sometimes
    Not until I graduated and landed a job, they turned to be very sweet and affectionate...I never thought that, they will be very supportive...

    Dad's been so caring, he treats me sweetly despite of my frailties, he never fails to console me.. As for my mom, she nags sometimes and talks excessively pin pointing from do's and don'ts when it comes to decision making...


    That's why, I am thankful and lucky enough that they're my parents... couldn't ask for more!

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    Quote Originally Posted by freshbabe View Post
    ^^^ ganito din parents ko(gusto magkakasundo at magtulungan kami & understanding at mabait naman, pero minus the affection(pa-timpla milo or kalambingan) & yun nga super strict.. kahit sa mga lalaking anak, pero ang cute niyo ha!!!.. we bond with sense of humor, tv/dvd(if there's time), food trip(sobra), lunch out-resto(every sundays), travel abroad & local trips.
    Hehe same here. Pamilya kami ng asaran. pikon talo hehe
    bonding din kami sa tv at sa mga movies except lang pag horror and sa mga morbid movies (kasi ayaw ko di kaya ng powers ko ) sa ffod grabe sobrang bonding ba pwede kong matawag dun or sobrang lamangan sa hati hehe. makukulit kasi kami. imagine mga nasa 20s na ang tatlo samin yet nagkikilitian parin kami para kaming mga bata hahahaha! kaya nga di ko magawang mag abroad or mag board kahit malayu ang office ko. Iba talaga pag sa bahay hehe

  16. #16
    Quote Originally Posted by Milkk View Post
    my parents are somewhat strict when I was still a youngster and when I was still on school as far as I vividly remember, they were so overprotective... They set rules and boundaries from foods that are contraindicated to chose down to style of outfits not to have.. But not to the point naman that it's like asphyxiating me...As for the necessities, they are still good providers, more that enough what I want sometimes
    Not until I graduated and landed a job, they turned to be very sweet and affectionate...I never thought that, they will be very supportive...

    Dad's been so caring, he treats me sweetly despite of my frailties, he never fails to console me.. As for my mom, she nags sometimes and talks excessively pin pointing from do's and don'ts when it comes to decision making...


    That's why, I am thankful and lucky enough that they're my parents... couldn't ask for more!

    ^^^pero minsan talaga minsan parang "perfect" ng parents mo tapos tatanungin mo sarili mo kung "perfect child/anak" ka ba??
    Ako aaminin ko, na sana i could be "perfect" and yung "maipagmamalaki nila talaga" ---na dedepress talaga ako kapag naiisip ko na "im not perfect", or why am i not perfect?? Sana ganito na lang ako or ganyan... May friendships ako na, siguro kung naging magulang nila ang magulang ko... baka naabot na nila kaagad-agad yang mga pangarap nila sa career nila. Anyways i really did my very best --- just to be the perfect daughter (to the point na i was repressing my happiness para masunod ko lang sila) but really circumstances just happen, and "i am really not perfect" and FAILURES are part of ones life. And i still will always yearn for that aspect na "maipagmamalaki din nila ako"...

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    divorced, re-married, I have a step-brother I grew up with who's a year older than me from my step-father's previous marriage and I have younger brothers from my father's current marriage. both are in their late 40s and are suceessful career-wise. they both took off the training wheels and started letting me make my own decisions my junior year in college. I have it good that my mom who lives half an hour away would extend me the courtesy of calling first before she comes over. although my dad still discusses with me at length some of the decisions I am making and he wishes that I work with him in the pi.

  18. #18
    nakakatuwa naman mga kwento niyo, ang sasaya ng family niyo... nainggit ako bigla, heheh!
    from broken family kasi ako eh... di ko na nga maalala the last time i saw my mom and dad together, na buo kami at masaya...
    only child ako kaya kahit broken fam lahat ng gusto ko nakukuha ko, especially from my papa, papa's daughter eh! heheh! nung naghiwalay sila kay papa ako napunta kasi abroad si mama... police si papa kaya medyo strict at ayaw ako nakikitang umiiyak lalo na kung from school... alala ko tuloy nung paguwi ko from sch na naiyak ako, nagalit sakin... the next day binilhan ako ng balisong, heheh! kaya ayun naging boyish ako, akala nga mga relatives ko magiging tomboy ako, heheh! once lang ata ako nabilhan ni papa ng manika, at wala din mga dress... sa kanya ko nakuha yung strong personality ko... hays ka-miss si papa...
    kahit malayo si mama may communication naman kami lagi... papa died before my grad day in elem... gabi gabi kasi nainom, pag pinagsasabihan ko, sinasabi lang sakin last na daw, hayun natuluyan na nga... alala ko sabi sakin ni papa pagkagaling niya hosp "dont worry anak, aabot ako sa grad mo, ako pa rin magsusuot sayo ng medal mo" huhuhu!
    si mama ang naka-attend ng grad ko... nung nakay mama na ako saka ko nalaman may kapatid na pala ako, nagalit ako nung una pero oks na din kasi may kapatid nako... kung di siguro nawala si papa di ko malalaman na may kapatid na ako... kung di siguro nawala si papa, nakow! yari yung mga naging ex ko, or kaya naman di pa ako nagkaka-BF, heheh!
    oks naman ako now with my mom and new fam din, i have 4 step siblings at nice naman sila lahat at 1st siempre ilangan pa pero it went well naman at 1 half bro na super guapo at malambing! heheh! kaya love na love ko!

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    Quote Originally Posted by jerseyvixen View Post
    divorced, re-married, I have a step-brother I grew up with who's a year older than me from my step-father's previous marriage and I have younger brothers from my father's current marriage. both are in their late 40s and are suceessful career-wise. they both took off the training wheels and started letting me make my own decisions my junior year in college. I have it good that my mom who lives half an hour away would extend me the courtesy of calling first before she comes over. although my dad still discusses with me at length some of the decisions I am making and he wishes that I work with him in the pi.
    Quote Originally Posted by 224blue View Post
    nakakatuwa naman mga kwento niyo, ang sasaya ng family niyo... nainggit ako bigla, heheh!
    from broken family kasi ako eh... di ko na nga maalala the last time i saw my mom and dad together, na buo kami at masaya...
    only child ako kaya kahit broken fam lahat ng gusto ko nakukuha ko, especially from my papa, papa's daughter eh! heheh! nung naghiwalay sila kay papa ako napunta kasi abroad si mama... police si papa kaya medyo strict at ayaw ako nakikitang umiiyak lalo na kung from school... alala ko tuloy nung paguwi ko from sch na naiyak ako, nagalit sakin... the next day binilhan ako ng balisong, heheh! kaya ayun naging boyish ako, akala nga mga relatives ko magiging tomboy ako, heheh! once lang ata ako nabilhan ni papa ng manika, at wala din mga dress... sa kanya ko nakuha yung strong personality ko... hays ka-miss si papa...
    kahit malayo si mama may communication naman kami lagi... papa died before my grad day in elem... gabi gabi kasi nainom, pag pinagsasabihan ko, sinasabi lang sakin last na daw, hayun natuluyan na nga... alala ko sabi sakin ni papa pagkagaling niya hosp "dont worry anak, aabot ako sa grad mo, ako pa rin magsusuot sayo ng medal mo" huhuhu!
    si mama ang naka-attend ng grad ko... nung nakay mama na ako saka ko nalaman may kapatid na pala ako, nagalit ako nung una pero oks na din kasi may kapatid nako... kung di siguro nawala si papa di ko malalaman na may kapatid na ako... kung di siguro nawala si papa, nakow! yari yung mga naging ex ko, or kaya naman di pa ako nagkaka-BF, heheh!
    oks naman ako now with my mom and new fam din, i have 4 step siblings at nice naman sila lahat at 1st siempre ilangan pa pero it went well naman at 1 half bro na super guapo at malambing! heheh! kaya love na love ko!
    ang kocute ng story nyo!
    sa lahat ng nag post
    maganda basahin ang
    kabutihan ng mga magulang natin
    (magtutula nanaman ako) LOL

    anyways post pa dun sa mga di pa
    nagpost about their parents....
    pasalamat naman kayo...

  20. #20
    Quote Originally Posted by charcan View Post
    I have a very overprotective,
    very involved parents.
    I believe that my parents just
    do not trust me to be sensible and
    responsible. I can react to my
    parents' excessive fear by
    compliance or resistance. If my
    parents voice
    their fears in terms of doubts.

    I guess its in our culture talaga,
    na masyadong nakikialam ang
    mga magulang natin sa buhay
    ng kanilang mga anak. Kaya
    hindi maganda ang epekto nito
    for some. Nagiging dependent
    hangang sa pag tanda.
    ^^^ parang pareho tayo ng parents.

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