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    Dahilan Kung Bakit Dumarami ang Matatandang Dalaga

    Obserbasyon ko lang, marami at parami ng parami ang tumatandang dalaga. Ano kaya ang dahilan kasi magaganda naman sila. Ang turnoff lang sa akin ngayon sa kanila ay yung ngang matanda na sila. Kung naging kasing-edad ko lang sana. Sila kaya mismo ang ayaw ng mag-asawa?

    Ano tingin ninyo?

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    Because women are no longer mainly dependent on men thus marriage. It's funny how after so many years (traditionally) women came to understand that in terms of life sexually we, men, are the ones defined by the opposite sex. Dave Chapelle said: "Women's test in life is material. Men's test in life is a woman."

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    san ba sa pinas?
    e outnumbered ata kasi ng mga girls ang boys satin kaya ganun, kaya meron talagang tatandang dalaga
    tapos dumadami pa nagfefeeling dalaga kahit may dalag naman

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    Is it negative to be "matandang dalaga"?

    what if the woman is just sorrounded with men that may not be capable of being a good father, can you blame these women for not wanting to get married?

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    ^ Hindi naman negative. Wala akong sinabing negative. So sa theory mo dahil ang nakapaligid sa kanya hindi capable na maging good father? Hindi ba sapat iyong maging good husband na lang at saka na yung good father?

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    okay, well.

    being a good husband means loving your wife and being able to take good care of her , right?

    If the husband cannot support their children. Then the duties will transfer to the woman, or maybe to other people (in-laws or parents). If that happends, then how could a man claim to be a "good husband" if he will only bring misery to the marriage for not being able to be a good father? I believe that being a good father is a very important element of a good husband.

    If you cannot be a good father, then why get married? If the woman doesn't mind not having children, then that is another topic...

    Ang sa akin lang, yung ibang matandang talaga are just women who are not selfish. They think first before putting themselves in a situation that might hurt others (like children) as well.

  7. #7
    I want to add,

    kaya maraming matatandang babae
    kasi marami sa mga lalake
    madali lang para sa kanila, to choose not to be a good father.
    Mas mahirap sa babae, na itakwil ang sarili nilang anak.
    I am not saying all men are like this.
    Pero, we know that these anecdotes of irresponsible men
    are sort of becoming common in our society.

  8. #8
    ^ Wala salagay mga trabaho yang mga babaeng yan? Kasi kung meron, sila na lang magprovide sa family. Kung mabait si lalake kahit mahina ang kita, go na sana tutal maganda naman ang kita ng karamihan sa mga matatandang dalagang ito.

  9. #9
    yung iba ayaw ng magulang pag asawahin kasi wala silang maasahan sa pagtanda nila..

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    ^ May magagawa ba ang mga magulang sa mga matatandang dalaga na yan kung gusto nilang mag-asawa? Ano yun, ipapapulis?

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    Quote Originally Posted by threepeat View Post
    ^ Wala salagay mga trabaho yang mga babaeng yan? Kasi kung meron, sila na lang magprovide sa family. Kung mabait si lalake kahit mahina ang kita, go na sana tutal maganda naman ang kita ng karamihan sa mga matatandang dalagang ito.
    For some women, it is better to be an old maid, than to be in a relationship that does not meet their standards. It is also not healthy in the long run, there will be some sort of problem in that kind of set-up.

    If the man really likes the woman, he should work hard to at least be at a point where he will be a "good father" before proposing Marriage. Seryoso yata marriage, it is not just about the husband and wife, it is also about the CHILDREN's lives.

  12. #12
    @alien: very well said!!

    onTopic:
    on my own POV..... women nowadays are being smarter.. but of course, there are lots of factors why women prefer to be a spinster.
    just a few factors why women end up being one:
    1) they may had bad experiences in their past relationships so they decided not to love again if they'll undergo the same heart ache and pain.
    2) they are too happy with their single life.
    3) they find themselves overrated.. or
    4) they are very much unselfish (tulad ng sinabi mo alien)

    for sure there are more factors apart from these but one thing's almost a fact.. it's their CHOICE.




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    Quote Originally Posted by threepeat View Post
    ^ May magagawa ba ang mga magulang sa mga matatandang dalaga na yan kung gusto nilang mag-asawa? Ano yun, ipapapulis?
    emotional blackmails..some parents are good in acting..

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    ^ Ano nga kaya ang nakararami sa mga matatandang dalaga, iyong choice nila o wala silang choice? Yung choice nila, ay yung may nanliligaw naman pero ayaw sagutin o kaya mayjowa pero ayaw pakasal.

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    some women prefer to be soltera because they know that being a woman is not synonymous to being a wife. and that men are not necessary for their lives to come full circle.

  16. #16
    Quote Originally Posted by enzoulken004 View Post
    emotional blackmails..some parents are good in acting..

    Pwede rin.

    Sige, isa yan sa mga reasons. Though personally wala akong kilala. Pero may nabasa akong ganyan. Dun sa Like Water for Chocolates.

  17. #17
    Quote Originally Posted by pomona View Post
    some women prefer to be soltera because they know that being a woman is not synonymous to being a wife. and that men are not necessary for their lives to come full circle.

    Malalim pomona. Malalim yang being a woman at to come full circle.

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    Quote Originally Posted by enzoulken004 View Post
    emotional blackmails..some parents are good in acting..
    and there are those who are held hostage by their obligations. daming ofws na ganyan. nagtrabaho at pinagtapos ang 5 kapatid. tapos yung mga pamangkin naman, tapos yung anak ng pamangkin! tapos nung umuwi ng pinas, walang ipon, walang gustong mag alaga!

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    ^ Sana maging eye-opener yan sa mga matatandang dalaga na magkaroon sila ng sarile nilang buhay.

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    Quote Originally Posted by threepeat View Post
    Malalim pomona. Malalim yang being a woman at to come full circle.
    yan yung kabaliktaran ng mga babae na namatay o iniwan ng asawa, naglulupasay na at paano na daw sila ng mga anak nya. o yung naiba na ang pagkakasalansan ng mukha kabubugbog ng asawa, or makakasulat na ng encyclopedia sa chronic na panloloko ng asawa pero hindi pa rin magawang palayasin o layasan ang damontres!

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