To greet or not to greet your ex on his birthday...

[barelythere]

If you are in the process of healing, then no.

[hellboy_0713]

She's the very first one to greet me this year. I dunno, but it's been several years since we parted ways.

Makes me kinda miss her.

ako din it is weird kasi she was the least person I expected to greet me, infact she was the first one who greeted me. so makes me think hmmmmm

[daintyme]

for my first bf., we don't talk anymore.,, so we don't greet each other.

but for the 2nd ex bf, we're good friends, so kahit anong oras pa, we still greet each other kapag birthday.

[Aizrith]

email lang siguro, sometimes i also receive greetings on mail when i check my old email accounts. Di na lang ako ngrereply.
I do greet them sometimes. Wala naman masama. Basta hanggang greet na lang lalo na kung may karelasyon ka ng bago.

[mother&wifey]

kung grineet ka nya at kung naalala mo,then greet mo.wag lang mag expect together with that greeting

[softy]

why not...just make it simple - HHB! (period)

but if medyo may feelings ka pa sa kanya or nasa process ka pa ng grieving , much better na wag na lang. continue NC/no contact until you regain your power back and you won't care anymore whether he will reply or not.

[mondee]

why not, babatiin mo lang naman eh, wala namang masama dun.

[abusado23]

binati ko sa text..bahala na sya kung tatanggapin nya o ano yun para sa kanya basta binati ko sya...

[JobyBryant24]

To greet shempre. Anu masama dun. Malay mo yun na pala yung key for a second chance.

[ettevyvi]

No, if you broke up badly. Sino ba sya? Di naman kayo "friends" di ba?

[IwantTObreathe]

yes. just did a couple of days ago. we called him, (my mom and brother) just to greet him a happy birthday.

close ako sa family nya, vice versa. our relationship may have failed but our treasured friendship will never be ruined.

this is the beauty of TRUE friendship.

I thank you, bow.

[kleenexlambot]

depende sa mood mo. pero dont expect anything in return

[F-A Soldier]

No. I don't ever talk to my exes. For fckssakes. Get over it.

[jaykirsten]

wag mo na greet para maka move on ka na ng maayos...

pero kung naka move on kana sa relationship nyo, eh i greet mo na sya wala naman siguro masama dun

[Dalter]

Hi Guys!! I am really new with this social network and i was so amazed with all the discussions about moving on. I was like interested to be part of this group and share my experienced with my exbf.

Its been a month and 16 days i am brokenhearted and his birthday on 13/04/2013. I wanna greet him and give him a greetings with cake, flowers and greetings card with messages of our common friends and this is gonna be a surprise greetings from me but i wont do it personally which is someone will hand over to him "because i dont wanna see him coz i am afraid that he will ignore me or something". I will do this because this is my promised to him when we were together and we swear to each to other that i will be in his bday if he celebrate but since he will be in his work - i decided to just give my presence of stuff that i have mentioned. Right after this crazy things that i wanted to happen - i will stop thinking about him and move on then unfriend him at FB.

But no expectation in return once i did this - just doing it because i made a promised.

Do you think i should greet him personally or that's alright to send my stuff for him by someone? Please help me out. Thank you.

[akoyiyoikayakin]

huwag na.sayang lang yung cake etc.haha.yung promise mo that was when you're still together.deadma na yun after ng break up.pero kung gusto mo talaga edi greet mo nalang.cakes,flowers,card ? wushu kunyari ka pa eh.I sense a part of you is hopeful na magkakabalikan pa kayo.forget after ng birthday saka i-unfriend sa fb ha.di nga? hmm.babae talaga mapagkunwari jk

"but no expectation in return once I did this-just doing it because I made a promise"

hmm ok.sabi mo eh.haha.tsk.guilty din pala ako sa ganyan.after break-up kunyari may favor na gagawin for the ex.sasabihin sa sarili ok lang.im doing this only because may pinagsamahan naman kami.pero in reality.hopeful at may wishful thingking pa pala na magkabalikan

question lang : sinong nakipagbreak ts?

[akoyiyoikayakin]

oh wait there's more...


cakes,flowers and card for ex's bertdey ha.edi todo mo na.para mas maging special isama mo na combo gift na break-up sex saka bertdey sex.hahaha.jk


welcome sa pEx

[balbolski]

Hi Guys!! I am really new with this social network and i was so amazed with all the discussions about moving on. I was like interested to be part of this group and share my experienced with my exbf.

Its been a month and 16 days i am brokenhearted and his birthday on 13/04/2013. I wanna greet him and give him a greetings with cake, flowers and greetings card with messages of our common friends and this is gonna be a surprise greetings from me but i wont do it personally which is someone will hand over to him "because i dont wanna see him coz i am afraid that he will ignore me or something". I will do this because this is my promised to him when we were together and we swear to each to other that i will be in his bday if he celebrate but since he will be in his work - i decided to just give my presence of stuff that i have mentioned. Right after this crazy things that i wanted to happen - i will stop thinking about him and move on then unfriend him at FB.

But no expectation in return once i did this - just doing it because i made a promised.

Do you think i should greet him personally or that's alright to send my stuff for him by someone? Please help me out. Thank you.

mas maapreciate pa talaga kung birthday sex. think it over.

[gehgehlai]

Oo naman yes! Tao din naman siya nagbibirthday din

[ycel_i_am]

No

Kung ikaw ang nang iwan- bakit pa? baka nakaka move on na yung tao tapos pag ni greet mo, maging back to square one ulit sya.

Kung ikaw ang iniwan- baka umasa ka pa na magiging kayo ulit. sayang naman efforts mo to move on

Keep your distance until the wound is healed.