My Wife wants a threesome..

[maximo24]

^^ "to each his own".. there are always two sides in a coin..

yeap but that two sides reflects only one coin.. thats them being a couple as one.

[mrconfused]

ah yeah it happened DURING ME.. if it had been an intentional cheating issue.. that could be a different story.. but maybe she was just too vulnerable that time.. maybe due to the liquor or maybe due to those opportunistic men who acts like a rabid horny dogs that took advantage of my wife's weakness.

But she made the right decision by the way. She made this confession 3 months our child was born. If she did it earlier, I could have took a gun and spill the horniness out of those *******'s brains.
But I think I've made the right decision about forgiving too.. if I had splatter the brains of those fvctards in the wall, you think it'd make my son proud of me?

[mrconfused]

question lang..
about you forgiving him..
unconditional ba yun..?

say, what if one of those guys..
created a sex video of him and your wife..
will that change how you feel..?

ahh yeah i've thought of that. lol
maybe that'd save her some time telling me all the details.. lol

[schatzi]

It's human nature for both men and women to be inclined towards having different sexual partners, it's just up to the individual person and as a couple on how to deal with it.

Nasa sa inyo na lang bilang nasa isang relasyon kung ano ang gusto ninyong gawin. Mas mabuti na nga yung magkasama kayo kung gagawin ninyo yun kesa sa gawing patago ng isa sa inyo.
Siguro importante na kung sino ang mapili ninyo, pareho ninyong gusto at wag gumawa ng mga bagay-bagay na hindi sang-ayon ang isa sa inyo. Pareho naman na kayong "adults" kaya kayo na ang bahala, pag-usapan nyo na lang. Whatever works for you both as a couple.

[F-A Soldier]

I agree, but my friend, there are ways to keep your dignity without going to jail.

And think about it, she's your wife this is why you can say "it was only because of weakness" and that it was those 'other men, horny opportunistic' who's at fault...weakness? Weakness happens once. Two, three, more times? LOL. There gotta be excitement in between those moments of 'weakness'. There's always a pocket of coldness in between the sheets. LOL

What I say to people: Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me. Fool me three times,...oh honey it's for free.

[homy]

@TS: glad to hear that you have a big heart (although others might disagree), hirap nun ha.. and that you both have moved on..

now the question is, is going into threesome the next best thing for both of you? nagpost ka nga dito kasi gusto mo malaman.. this is going to be a very picky issue kasi for one, different standards ang mga tao na nakakabasa.. different upbringing and experiences contribute to different outlook (i should not be telling you that)..

i think you are pretty much decided to go into that direction.. it won't matter to us who you do it with (pero may suggestion nga lang ako whom to do it with) or when you did it, cause in the end, kayo pa rin dalawa mag eevaluate nung exercise na yan sa relasyon nyo. ang masasabi ko lang talaga, 100% mo din harapin yung pwedeng kapalit na mangyari sa inyo (good or bad)

[mrconfused]

Acting like a saint? Between you and me, who's the one who admitted to himself that his wife got fucked by different men on my watch and she acted like this was no big deal, even to the point of patronizing it with "Promise you won't get mad" so that she doesn't feel guilty. And you forgave her.

Who's the saint? Because if it were me, she'd gotten the slap to the face and a boot to the azz out of my life. (I've never ever hit a woman, nor plan to, but there are very few circumstances that I would).

And now she wants to fck another man with you? LOL. Who's the saint? Because definitely I'm no martyr.

I guess I got enough self worth. I mean I've partied from dusk till dawn, debauched women but I could still say in this situation: you're a dumbass. Not all debauchery narn't no standards.

But hey, to each his own! LOL. Kampai.

Nobody would ever dream of this thing to happen not even once on their lives. I never even imagine before that this thing could happen to us. What about you? What if it happen to your wife? What you gonna do? Got yourself dominated with anger? I think that's not gonna change anything. It could have been easier for me if there is no baby involved in this mess.

She doesn't want me to cheat just because of what happened. She just said, if ever I planned to fck someone, maybe she can come along and we gonna make it a 3some. 2 girls and 1 guy.

And did you read and understand what I've wrote?

Sabi ko naman, what if kaya may nangyari sa inyo noon? Sabi nya, ewan ko lang, ano kaya nangyari sa buhay ko ngayon kung may nangyari samin noon. Ano kaya kung puntahan ko? Itry ko kung may masamang motibo nga sya? Yan ang biro nya. Sinakyan ko naman ang biro nya. Sabi ko. Matuturn-on ka kaya? She laughed back and said, siguro kung kasama ka matuturn on ako. Sabi ko, threesome?

[Nightwing05]

ahh yeah i've thought of that. lol
maybe that'd save her some time telling me all the details.. lol

of course..
she can just..
show you how it..
all happened..
funny, eh..?

[F-A Soldier]

You know what TS, I'm sorry. I just really feel sorry for you. I really do, and it was no place for me to talk because I don't have a wife. Personally, if it happened to me, she won't be with me. I got enough self worth and self esteem that if I had to let go of people along the line, I can. I am independent now, I can always be. To my kid? I can be a father without being a husband.

But dude you think that fcking another woman would solve the problem?

Two wrongs don't make a right. I think the feeling of 'we're even' last two seconds to find out that you can't erase the fact.

But I guess there's only one way to let people know what it is, so I guess I shouldn't stop you from doing what you want to do.

[mrconfused]

@Homy, that's right bro. Everyone has their own views. ^_^

@F-A Soldier, I already forgive her! I could no longer take it back.. lol, so whatever you say brother. Doesn't make any difference. Past is past. You didn't answer my question. What if it happened to your wife? What you gonna do? You gonna slap your wife? Left and Right? And leave your child? Does slapping your wife would make any difference? Does leaving your child will makes his future better?

[F-A Soldier]

@Homy, that's right bro. Everyone has their own views. ^_^

@F-A Soldier, I already forgive her! I could no longer take it back.. lol, so whatever you say brother. Doesn't make any difference. Past is past. You didn't answer my question. What if it happened to your wife? What you gonna do? You gonna slap your wife? Left and Right? And leave your child? Does slapping your wife would make any difference? Does leaving your child will makes his future better?

Slapping my wife, no. you're right. But a boot to the *** with divorce will. I'VE GOT ENOUGH SELF ESTEEM TO KNOW THAT I CAN FIND ANOTHER WIFE THAT WILL LOVE ME AND FAR BETTER THAN HER. I won't use 'love' or 'my child' as an excuse to the fact that I would rather eat my ego and dignity because I don't want to complicate my life.

As for my kid, there's no custody battle that cannot be won with proper attorneys.

And plus what kind of future does a boy have who's parents marriage therapy includes fcking other people to make things better. LOL.

Good future...that child have.

[mrconfused]

You know what TS, I'm sorry. I just really feel sorry for you. I really do, and it was no place for me to talk because I don't have a wife. Personally, if it happened to me, she won't be with me. I got enough self worth and self esteem that if I had to let go of people along the line, I can. I am independent now, I can always be. To my kid? I can be a father without being a husband.

But dude you think that fcking another woman would solve the problem?

Two wrongs don't make a right. I think the feeling of 'we're even' last two seconds to find out that you can't erase the fact.

But I guess there's only one way to let people know what it is, so I guess I shouldn't stop you from doing what you want to do.

I understand bro. We all have different views. Like I said, it would depends to the situation and depends on what are at stake. And its an advantage for the child if he grows up in a complete family.

I didn't said I'm gonna fvck other woman just to get even lol.. :P
It was her dilemma, that I'm gonna get even with her. that's why she said, that she'd allow me to fvck other woman if I want to get even, only if she's involved too.

[baklita]

indulging into sexual adventure with your partner plus another 3rd
party can lead to unwelcomed consequences. if you incline to give
in to your sexual fantasies... be prepared to face complications
you're not ready to handle. tell me who's going to get hurt and may
severe the so-called family ties?

don't prey on uncharted territory if you must.

aihihihi!!!

baklits

[mrconfused]

Slapping my wife, no. you're right. But a boot to the *** with divorce will. I'VE GOT ENOUGH SELF ESTEEM TO KNOW THAT I CAN FIND ANOTHER WIFE THAT WILL LOVE ME AND FAR BETTER THAN HER. I won't use 'love' or 'my child' as an excuse to the fact that I would rather eat my ego and dignity because I don't want to complicate my life.

As for my kid, there's no custody battle that cannot be won with proper attorneys.

And plus what kind of future does a boy have who's parents marriage therapy includes fcking other people to make things better. LOL.

Good future...that child have.

Well, we hadn't fvcked other people yet. And in case we will, I don't think I'm gonna tell my son some bedtime stories about me and his mother's escapades.. lol, I didn't eat my ego bro. I literally throw it away.. lol

As far as I'm concerned. I'm just trying to save this relationship. Because I'm a man who doesn't want to have any regrets in life. So I try to rebuild this up (not by trying to fvck other people lol) but by building the trust, and honesty for each other. In case, in the future this thing happens again.. thats the time I will give up with no regrets..

My wife cheated on me(if thats what you call it). But were not having any issues about that anymore.

[mrconfused]

I've already been through hell and back..
Is there anything left that could turn my whole world upside down?
I'm not saying that I'm gonna go for a threesome.. ^_^

[skull_leader]

A wife asking for a threesome looks like a troubled marriage. Since you've forgiven her, why don't you guys forget everything, move on and live a normal life. Allowing her to get it on with another guy with you there is like giving her a license to do it without you in the future. She's done it before and based on your story, it seemed like those weren't moments of vulnerability; being drunk is not an excuse, you still know what you're doing no matter how drunk you are. Regarding the FFM threesome she's proposing, it's like opening another can of worms when you've already opened one before and never learned your lesson. There will always be consequences whichever you choose.

So forget the threesome and just focus on rebuilding your relationship with your wife; you can make your sex life interesting without participations from other parties.

Just my two cents.

[homy]

now this gets confusing

...
As far as I'm concerned. I'm just trying to save this relationship. Because I'm a man who doesn't want to have any regrets in life.

saved naman na ang relationship nyo di ba?

So I try to rebuild this up (not by trying to fvck other people lol) but by building the trust, and honesty for each other.

so this is what the thread is all about? your wife wanting the threesome? or was it really you who opened the idea or wanted the idea after learning that your wife "came" with her 1st infidelity and it got you turned on? maybe your wife, being the guilty party in the first place, wants to ride with you just to get over with her guilt of you being mr. niceguy? don't you think so? or i just read too much between the lines.. hahaha

[mrconfused]

To all those who had replied and shared some advice.
My heartfelt gratitude guys. Thank you..
So no threesome for us anymore.. lol
Thinking about the possible consequences, most of you are right..
thank you once more..

[mrconfused]

now this gets confusing

saved naman na ang relationship nyo di ba?

I'm just explaining to Mr Soldier why I forgive my wife and why I didn't slapped her, and Why I didn't booted her ***.

so this is what the thread is all about? your wife wanting the threesome? or was it really you who opened the idea or wanted the idea after learning that your wife "came" with her 1st infidelity and it got you turned on? maybe your wife, being the guilty party in the first place, wants to ride with you just to get over with her guilt of you being mr. niceguy? don't you think so? or i just read too much between the lines.. hahaha

I'm always the Mr. Niceguy. I didn't asked her a threesome. She opened that part. Prolly your right.. She was just guilty cuz she came that time.. lol

[homy]

good for you have a good day