im 3 months pregnant and scared to tel my mom

[KAZUKO]

hey people i just wanna ask some help and advices from u coz im really having a hard time telling my mom about my situation i just turned 22 last december and havent finished my studies and i stil act as a baby preo paglalambing kol ng un then eto n nga ngkabf ako nun last aug *** alm may gf *** tas ang ***** ko kse nkpgbalikan cia aun tinanggap ko ulet cia preo un *** niloloko nia padin ako ang kpal ng mukha cia *** last sex ko ee now i know accurate **** *** sa ultrasound nattakot ako sbhin sa mama ko pero nhi2rpan nko lse ndi nbibigyan attention baby ko yoko **** ipaabort sobrang nkakaawa lalo na nung nkita ko cia ultrasound d ako makpaniwala kala ko d **** ako capable na mgkaanak what will i do?? huhu

[peejhay]

You better tell your Mom about your pregnancy. At first, she might get upset but in the end, she'll still be there to support you no matter what. It's good that you still have your sanity for not having the baby aborted and I know for sure that once the baby comes out and you assume your role as a mom, maturity will set in! I am wishing you a healthy pregnancy!

[timeassasin]

First step you need to do is to tell your mom. You'll need her now more than ever lalo na ngayon at nagaaral ka pa. Ganyan din kami nung nabuntis ako. I was so afraid to tell her about my pregnancy hanggang sa I decided to tell her na nga. Hayun, siyempre nagulat, nagalit, disappointed, etc. Pero in the end, nawala din lahat yun especially nung lumabas na yung baby. Gusto pa ngang iwan sa kanya yung baby ko eh para magbonding daw sila hehe. Bottom line is no matter how screwed up your life is, your mom will never leave you and she will always take care of you.

Anyways, you're 22 na right? You're not a minor anymore. At least may choices ka na para makatulong sa expenses pagnanganak ka na like having a part time job while studying.

[caryatid_kitten]

Trust me on this, I've seen this several times: The parents will be VERY disappointed at first, then when the reality of having an apo comes in, I'm sure they will be super excited! Some will even go to the extent na sila magpapa-baby shower! LOL. The apo changes everything! So don't worry.

Personally, unless you were raped, abortion shouldn't be an option. I'm "pro-life" that way.

[C_Lina]

trust me its better to tell your family cause they are gonna find out sooner or later!

[KAZUKO]

thanks to all who replied *** po maumpisahan kung paano ko sasabihin sa mama ko give me some tips how to start ntatakot **** ako eeh kasi *** dad po ng little angel ko ndi na kame mtgal na niloloko nia *** *** me i trusted him pero ayun ginwa tas eto nbuntis pako ng wala sa oras! wala pa **** ako nasasabihan na kakilala ko super worried n nga po ako sa situation ko e d kc ako nbbigyan ng attention dpa kasi nila alm

[peejhay]

Hello again! Please type in full and do not use textspeak in your sentence construction. As you can see, there are a lot of **** on what you wrote above. Anyway, you can tell your mom at the time when she's in a good mood, probably early in the morning. You can start with something like, "Mom, I've something very important to tell you. I know you'll gonna be mad at me but please understand me as much as you can. At this moment, I'm so down and I know you're the only one who can help me on this... Mom, I'm pregnant"
Look into her eyes and be sincere. Good luck!

[EYEABA30]

kawawa si baby pag di mo kagad nasulosyunan yang problema mo which is sabihin sa mom and family mo. kasi pag ganyan magiisip ka ng magiisip thats bad for a pregnant woman like you. you should be happy all the time and eat healthy para kay baby. especially at this stage importante kay baby na maalagaan ng mabuti lalo na nasa tyan pa lang sya. im sure magiging masaya mommy mo pag nalaman nya na may little angel sa tummy mo. everythings gonna be ok...kanta yan ha...hehehhe cheer up

[anne_dy]

Tell your mom, dont worry she will understand.
Mas matakot ka sa risk pag nagpa abort ka.

1. Baka di ka na magka anak
2. Baka matuluyan ka di lang yung baby, since *** namang legal na abortionist dito, di safe.
3. Habang buhay mong dadalhin yan sa konsensya mo.

[fefs]

if you can talk to your mom first mas maganda kc siya ang mas makakaintindi ng situation mo ngayon find a private moment and tell her what happened... tell her everything don't lie kc maslalo lang magiging worst kung mag lie ka pa sa kanya... then if your mom will understand thats the time na sunod mong kausapin ang dad mo trust me your mom will back you up for this... sa una maaring sila'y mabigla pero walang magulang ang di kayang matiis ang anak... and for the guy who just screw you the hell with him... karmahin din siya sa ginawa niya sayo... tandaan mo lagi may anghel kanang kasama at un *** nasa sinapupunan mo...

[sinnerorsaint]

madali lang yan ts....kausapin mo ng masinsinan ang mother mo...straight to the point. sabihin mo: ma, wag ka sana magagalit, me sasabihin ako...im pregnant 3 months na...

expect mo na yung galit...at the end of the day, family mo lang ang makakatulong sayo..walang inang makakatiis sa anak...ang anak makakatiis sa parents pero hinde ang mga magulang mo...that's proven...gudluck...

anyways, im four months pregnant na..and ansarap ng feeling...

[RocktheRep]

we just found out my sister's 3 months pregnant last December. How did she do it? She texted my mom while she's at work, and when she got home the following day, all of us are expecting her press release. we are all ready to listen to her side of the story without prejudice. she's single, and fell out of the relationship before she discovered she's pregnant. we could not care less about her not being married. what's important is she, and her baby will be safe, healthy, and will feel the love of the people around her.

our parent's taking care of her every whim, and me, as a brother is excited to be an uncle. disappointments will last for a very short time. you'll never expect how much care and support your family can give you at a time like this, and remember, you cannot find it anywhere but at home. my sister's better and happier now, and she's looking forward and excited for her angel.

i'm going to give you the same advice i gave my sister, do not ever ever ever think of having the baby aborted. don't even try to f**k up the cycle of life. it's not the way it's supposed to be. you'll never know how will it come back to you.

[cajunken]

Kung gusto mo PM mo samen number ng mama mo kame magsasabe ^.^ Well, Sana masabi mo na sa mum mo yan! Pag naghanap ng lalaking mananagot dyan.... Ituro mo nalang ako! *just want to make you smile... Just tell the truth ok?

Hakuna Matata ~ Timon and Pumbaa

[F-A Soldier]

Well they're going to find out sooner or later.

Suggestions:
1. Singing it in a song
2. To a standup
3. Song and dance...always work.

In all seriousness, good luck. The sooner they know the faster you're going to lose that heavy feeling inside you.

[KAZUKO]

guys thanks sa mga wonderful advices nyo! talagang nakahelp siya saken, ngayong araw natoh pupunta kameng makati medical and ok *** kaya *** OBGYNE *** mgsabe? lol anu ba yan! huhuhu baka malayasin me preo alm ko hindi niya magagawa un kasi kagabe sobrang saket ng head ko kasi *** take *** medicines ko kasi ntatakot ako makaaffect sa little angel ko eeh gusto kona **** malaman nya para mabigyan ng attention *** pagcare sa baby ko like prenatal vitamins and health food natatakot n nga ako kumaen ng isda puro ba naman isda dito huhu kaya nagpapabile me pero she got mad kasi paanu nlng daw ako kung wala kame hindi nya lang alam situation ko. pero need ko talaga courage para sabihin kasi hindi ko talaga kaya ng magisa maloloka ako especially hindi naman ako palalabas ng house loner huhu


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[shoowaruno]

Hi kazuko
Ako, I am 3 months and 2 weeks pregnant. And I am just 20 years old. Yun nga lang, graduate na ko and I am working for 2 years na. I have a supportive boyfriend (32 y/o). You should tell your mom, kasi sooner or later lalaki rin ang tyan mo. You have to tell her. Nanay mo pa rin yan. Ang nangyari sakin, I told my parents na I am having one on the way.. As expected, nadisappoint sila. Lalo na they are both abroad. Pero ngayon, we are in good terms. Maayos din yan. Kaya mo yan

[KAZUKO]

Hi kazuko
Ako, I am 3 months and 2 weeks pregnant. And I am just 20 years old. Yun nga lang, graduate na ko and I am working for 2 years na. I have a supportive boyfriend (32 y/o). You should tell your mom, kasi sooner or later lalaki rin ang tyan mo. You have to tell her. Nanay mo pa rin yan. Ang nangyari sakin, I told my parents na I am having one on the way.. As expected, nadisappoint sila. Lalo na they are both abroad. Pero ngayon, we are in good terms. Maayos din yan. Kaya mo yan

eh ikaw kasi may boyfriend na responsible and pananagutan ka kaya medyo madali sabihin ako kasi wala na *** father matagal na kameng wala and ayoko nadin dun kasi sobrang panloloko ginawa nita tas binuntis pako ang kinahihiya ko wala ako tatay mapapakita eeh haay unexpected talaga toh hindo akalain

[shoowaruno]

I see. Have faith. Tell your mom. Kasi sila (your family) rin ang makakaramay mo when you are really really down. Hayaan mo na yung guy. Di siya responsible. Think positive. Masama sa baby yung puro negative kasi yung mood ng mom naabsorb din nya (accdg sa medical book). Pagppray din kita

[fefs]

wag mo ikahiya yung anak mo kahit wala siyang ama pakita mo sa anak mo na kaya mo siyang buhayin at palakihin ng mag-isa. tandaan mo may mga magulang na laging nasa likod na susuportahan ka at mga kaibigan, at higit sa sa lahat yung nasa taas.

[aaron_gabriel]

you better tell your mom sooner kasi it isn't healthy for your baby na you worry too much. it will affect your pregnancy. your mom will be disappointed,worse, she'll get angry. but she can't stay angry with you mas lalo na you have no one to turn to but her. i'm sure your mom will not abandon you just like what your moron bf did. at hindi nakakahiya ang magka-baby without a father. anyway, i'll include you in my prayers, sana you'll have the guts na to tell your mom coz your baby really needs a good care. God bless!