define the ideal husband.

[BigoteAtBalbas]

Girls look no more! Here I am, your ideal husband!

[redheadd07]

Girls look no more! Here I am, your ideal husband!

http://i829.photobucket.com/albums/z...likeachump.jpg

[BigoteAtBalbas]

^ what that?

[java_chiq]

i dont have an ideal husband...nor would i think of the concept of one.

i am no way near being an ideal wife for anybody so i'll settle for anykind of guy who'll love me

[PiNaYfLaV]

God-fearing
responsible
able and willing to provide for his family
masipag
understanding
jack of all trades
patient
at tapat sa asawa

nakalimutan ko..

dapat gwapo

[kaningbrown]

Mabait. Mayaman. Magaling sa Kama.

Pili ka lang ng dalawa.

[Alpha_Green]

That's very rare. Every married guy friends of mine are cheaters, flirts, or planning to cheat. If you think your husband is loyal, it only means he's too good to get caught.

One of my newly married friend with a pregnant wife just hit on a girl we met up a few weeks ago. I was at their wedding Another married guy I know rents an apartelle for his escapades. His wife is pregnant with their third child. Everytime our barkada go out for a drink it's almost guaranteed we'll get laid or get a bj or a hj.

My advice for women is this. Pick a guy who is timid around women, the shy type. Pick the nerds, quiet types, and workoholics. They have lesser courage to strike a conversation with young women. The guys who play the field when they're single will keep playing the field even after they're married.

Wow you got some "suave" guy friends there. Must be exciting to be part of your barkada (no sarcasm in there, I really mean it). Cheating while his wife is pregnant? Man, he's got balls.

I had a neighbor before, she taught she had the perfect husband. When her husband died of heart attack, she found out she was wrong. Nalaman niya na may kabit at anak sa labas when they also went to the funeral and the wake. Thats why she wasn't crying that much at her husband's funeral.

I have to agree with what you said there. Usually, the guys who are loyal are the ones guys with low self esteem and low level of manliness. Guys who women crave for, the manly ones, the confident ones, charismatic ones and rich ones or the ones with power, those are the guys who are more prone to cheating. I haven't known any cheating man who isn't like that. So if they want one trait from their husband, they would have to sacrifice losing another.

[rickym]

Wow you got some "suave" guy friends there. Must be exciting to be part of your barkada (no sarcasm in there, I really mean it). Cheating while his wife is pregnant? Man, he's got balls.

I had a neighbor before, she taught she had the perfect husband. When her husband died of heart attack, she found out she was wrong. Nalaman niya na may kabit at anak sa labas when they also went to the funeral and the wake. Thats why she wasn't crying that much at her husband's funeral.

I have to agree with what you said there. Usually, the guys who are loyal are the ones guys with low self esteem and low level of manliness. Guys who women crave for, the manly ones, the confident ones, charismatic ones and rich ones or the ones with power, those are the guys who are more prone to cheating. I haven't known any cheating man who isn't like that. So if they want one trait from their husband, they would have to sacrifice losing another.

what you're saying is quite similar to what napoleon hill said in his book

http://books.google.com.ph/books?id=...age&q=&f=false

"1. The men of greatest achievement are men with highly developed sex natures; men who have learned the art of sex transmutation."

[siyado]

Wow you got some "suave" guy friends there. Must be exciting to be part of your barkada (no sarcasm in there, I really mean it). Cheating while his wife is pregnant? Man, he's got balls.

I had a neighbor before, she taught she had the perfect husband. When her husband died of heart attack, she found out she was wrong. Nalaman niya na may kabit at anak sa labas when they also went to the funeral and the wake. Thats why she wasn't crying that much at her husband's funeral.

I have to agree with what you said there. Usually, the guys who are loyal are the ones guys with low self esteem and low level of manliness. Guys who women crave for, the manly ones, the confident ones, charismatic ones and rich ones or the ones with power, those are the guys who are more prone to cheating. I haven't known any cheating man who isn't like that. So if they want one trait from their husband, they would have to sacrifice losing another.

girls, don't buy this absolutely ignorant post. the only thing i'd conclude about guys who cheat is that they are people who will have lots of regret later in their lives. manliness? come on, dude. what's so manly about deceiving a woman who takes good care of you and your family just so you could stick your di-ck into some other girl's vagina (or wherever else you like sticking it into)? that's nonsense and just plain selfishness.

if you can't give up such things, then don't commit. i'm sure you'd find other women out there who would want the same things as you. simple, isn't it?

also girls, you're not the only ones affected by cheaters. as a guy, they make my life harder because i find it harder to convince my girlfriend that i'm not cheating in the couple of times that she got paranoid

[Alpha_Green]

^^
So you're assuming that all wives of cheating men don't deserve to be cheated because all of them they care of their husbands and kids? and because all wives are "good" by default? Maybe you're the ignorant one. Just because your gf/wife is good don't fvckin assume every wife/gf out there is the same!!

Thats your opinion and sure I respect that but for other men (and other husbands) they have a different opinion and they don't think the same as you do.

[JUST_JT]

^^
So you're assuming that all wives of cheating men don't deserve to be cheated because all of them they care of their husbands and kids? and because all wives are "good" by default? Maybe you're the ignorant one. Just because your gf/wife is good don't fvckin assume every wife/gf out there is the same!!

So did your father cheat on your mother? If so, did she deserve it?

-Just_JT
Well?

[siyado]

^^
So you're assuming that all wives of cheating men don't deserve to be cheated because all of them they care of their husbands and kids? and because all wives are "good" by default? Maybe you're the ignorant one. Just because your gf/wife is good don't fvckin assume every wife/gf out there is the same!!

Thats your opinion and sure I respect that but for other men (and other husbands) they have a different opinion and they don't think the same as you do.

why marry the girl if you think she's not wife material in the first place? isn't that the man's fault due to his lack of judgement? now you're saying he has earned himself the right to cheat on his wife because she didn't turn out the way he imagined her to? more nonsense.

if you don't like something about your wife, why not be a man and take it up with her instead of taking revenge behind her back? palyadong diskarte. or maybe they're afraid of their wives? so much for manliness

also, yes, i'm assuming there are more good wives out there who are cheated on than bad ones. most of the stories i hear about are like that.

[Alpha_Green]

what you're saying is quite similar to what napoleon hill said in his book

http://books.google.com.ph/books?id=...age&q=&f=false

"1. The men of greatest achievement are men with highly developed sex natures; men who have learned the art of sex transmutation."

and according to women, they want men of great achievements and ambition.

Pressuring their husbands to achieve great or to have great ambition and yet wanting them to be loyal at the same time is kinda like choking their husbands already. Ok, so your husbands already loyal to you, don't pressure him to "achieve great" anymore. There are two birds in the air but he only has one stone.

[GrieverLion]

"walang ganyan na husband" ,, "walang ganyan na wife"

really now, everyone here is so negative.

goodluck nalang

There are a lot of happy healthy couples out there, why can't it be you?

[kreuk]

why marry the girl if you think she's not wife material in the first place? isn't that the man's fault due to his lack of judgement? now you're saying he has earned himself the right to cheat on his wife because she didn't turn out the way he imagined her to? more nonsense.

if you don't like something about your wife, why not be a man and take it up with her instead of taking revenge behind her back? palyadong diskarte. or maybe they're afraid of their wives? so much for manliness

also, yes, i'm assuming there are more good wives out there who are cheated on than bad ones. most of the stories i hear about are like that.

way to go siyado...

the guys who keep on cheering on cheating ek ek and feel all happy about it are the ones who have never enjoyed a "real" and healthy reciprocating relationship where they have been taken cared of.

[Alpha_Green]

why marry the girl if you think she's not wife material in the first place? isn't that the man's fault due to his lack of judgement? now you're saying he has earned himself the right to cheat on his wife because she didn't turn out the way he imagined her to? more nonsense.

Are you turning the tables making it look like it's men's fault always?

There are women who risk marrying men who are prone to cheating and they risk it for money and security. In the first place they should know what they're getting into already. Now when they get cheated on, they plead for other people's sympathy? Style talaga ng mga babae.

Have you heard it in the news lately, on what happened to Chavit Singson and his wife?

if you don't like something about your wife, why not be a man and take it up with her instead of taking revenge behind her back? palyadong diskarte.

Like what? divorce? man, in other countries, divorce laws and family laws favor the wives more and of course, the narrow minded people out there and the feminists always side with women on situations like that. Lugi parati ang lalaki diyan because of those d@mn sexist laws. Sometimes divorce isn't the smartest thing to do. This topic has already been thoroughly discussed in a lot of threads here.

also, yes, i'm assuming there are more good wives out there who are cheated on than bad ones. most of the stories i hear about are like that.

Bad assumptions. Its because of people like you who think like that...that feminists are able to get anything they want these days. Oh well off topic.

I have a feeling this argument will just go around in circles again so I'll stop for the moment. I have said what I want to say here.

Nasa huli ang pagsisisi ika nga, its just up to women to wait till their husband's funeral and see if there will be "kabits" ang "anaks sa labas" who will be coming out. Masakit yun.... na you've realized you've been lied to all this time. Problema na nila yun.

[JUST_JT]

and according to women, they want men of great achievements and ambition.

Pressuring their husbands to achieve great or to have great ambition and yet wanting them to be loyal at the same time is kinda like choking their husbands already. Ok, so your husbands already loyal to you, don't pressure him to "achieve great" anymore. There are two birds in the air but he only has one stone.

So did your mother pressure your father to achieve greatness? If so, did this lead to your father cheating on your mother?

-Just_JT
I.will.hound.you.'til.you.respond.

[rickym]

Are you turning the tables making it look like it's men's fault always?

There are women who risk marrying men who are prone to cheating and they risk it for money and security. In the first place they should know what they're getting into already. Now when they get cheated on, they plead for other people's sympathy? Style talaga ng mga babae.

i kinda get your point here. there are some things that women do which are not grounds for an annullment and what can a man do? i have talked to two women, both not bad looking who don't enjoy sex, they feel it is dirty. i can imagine the husband trying to make love to her, and she is there with a contorted face. can this marriage be annulled? i don't know, and would you if you were the husband? one husband even asked permission from the wife to fool around. and the wife felt offended.

now for all the men, would you cheat if your wife were like this?

i know of another case where the man was marrying his long time girlfriend who had doubled her waistline. and since he was filthy rich. even without marriage he gave his fiance a house and lot. when he would come home. his fiance would no longer greet him, but she would greet her father and dog when they would come. he wanted to cancel the wedding but was pressured by his parent(s) not to, nakakahiya raw. so they got married and on their wedding night they just both cried and told each other that it's over.

legally if the man screws around even with his wifes permission he still might be considered as a cheater.

so in your opinion, what bad things would a woman have to do that are so bad that you should ethically be allowed to cheat.

here are a number of possibilities
1. refusal to have sex with you
2. refusal to enjoy sex with you
3. gained weight, refuses to workout or diet
4. nagger
5. acts like she does not enjoy sex if your salary is not high enough
(a woman told me that some women do this)
6. others

[BigoteAtBalbas]

and according to women, they want men of great achievements and ambition.

Pressuring their husbands to achieve great or to have great ambition and yet wanting them to be loyal at the same time is kinda like choking their husbands already. Ok, so your husbands already loyal to you, don't pressure him to "achieve great" anymore. There are two birds in the air but he only has one stone.

I don't see anything wrong with that. Some people just need a little push to achieve greatness and ambition. The two "birds" you are referring is not in conflict with each other thus you can do both. And gosh bang bang, being loyal is your responsibility; your woman doesn't need to remind you of that.

From your words, it seems like you have totally lost trust to all women. You really need to see a shrink

Kaya ka siguro iniiwan ng mga pinay kasi wala kang ambisyon sa buhay, walang sariling sikap at kahit anong tulak nila sayo walang epekto ha ha

I think somebody here is going to grow old alone

[BigoteAtBalbas]

redhead quote mo ako ulit