for the girls- has mind games or making pakipot ever really benefited you?

[vincex]

^but do you agree that girls should be the one's making ligaw and not the guy? Assuming, as you put it, that they are "higher demand" males?

Also, do you agree that more males are of "higher quality" than females?

Do you think this should be in another thread? I might wind up hijacking this thread hehehe

[rickym]

kung sinong may kailangan, siya ang manligaw.

males make ligaw, not because they are of lesser demand, but because it is expected for them. now on who has higher quality of the two sexes, i really wouldn't know. what both sexes should do is go to the target rich environment. not where people will accept you because a lot of times pretty women get accepted and courted for the wrong reasons, to get laid and not taken seriously. there is nothing wrong if women expect this, but i suspect a lot of women think they are being taken seriously when they are actually only treated as property.

[freshbabe]

kung sinong may kailangan, siya ang manligaw.

males make ligaw, not because they are of lesser demand, but because it is expected for them. now on who has higher quality of the two sexes, i really wouldn't know. what both sexes should do is go to the target rich environment. not where people will accept you because a lot of times pretty women get accepted and courted for the wrong reasons, to get laid and not taken seriously. there is nothing wrong if women expect this, but i suspect a lot of women think they are being taken seriously when they are actually only treated as property.

^^ hmmmm this is the first time that i am agreeing w/ your post.

[freshbabe]

^but do you agree that girls should be the one's making ligaw and not the guy? Assuming, as you put it, that they are "higher demand" males?

Also, do you agree that more males are of "higher quality" than females?

Do you think this should be in another thread? I might wind up hijacking this thread hehehe

^^ ok ka lang? it's either di mo type or di ka type, and either you "click or not click w/ each other". that's how it really works. whether if you are of high quality or low quality. what's the use of chasing/courting someone if you know it in yourself that you don't stand a chance and there is no chemistry/attraction between you both. i believe in courtship-but the bottomline always is "how much does a person likes you-for you to get accepted or for you to be chased/courted.

[m_anne]

sometimes feeling niyo lang guys na pakipot ang girls pero the truth is ayaw namin sa guy n yun.. ayaw lang namin na makasakit na directly namin na sasabihin na ayaw namin sa inyo hahahah diba mga girls tama. hahahah pero pag like namin yung guy go agad heheh patatagalin lang nang konti sagot na agad

[vincex]

^^ ok ka lang? it's either di mo type or di ka type, and either you "click or not click w/ each other". that's how it really works. whether if you are of high quality or low quality. what's the use of chasing/courting someone if you know it in yourself that you don't stand a chance and there is no chemistry/attraction between you both. i believe in courtship-but the bottomline always is "how much does a person likes you-for you to get accepted or for you to be chased/courted.

So I'm assuming you said Yes to my query regarding "girls should be the one's courting they guys"? by virtue of your answer "how much does a person...." insinuating that it is NOT a no.

So I'll throw you the same question
1. do you think guys are of higher quality? (this is part of the premise of the original statement on why girls should court guys).

[vincex]

bumping this thread. No one has answered the last post. Including freshbabe

[Romanticure]

there are 4 types of pakipots based on my observation:
-- the one oozing with confidence they don't doubt the guy will play their pagkapakipot coz they are REALLY that pretty

-- the one oozing with confidence pero false confidence. they are just FEELING pretty. Boys never really go gaga over her. But her ego cannot believe the discrepancy between what she thinks of herself and the fact that not so many boys go gaga over her. there were only OCCASIONAL boys who went gaga over her. so whenever one guy goes after her, it's only but natural to glorify this glorious day by giving the guy a hard time for ego tripping coz that's what pretty girls must do and she gets to do it only ones or twice or thrice in her life

-- the traditional chick "im a girl your a guy so you must do what guys are expected to do since the olden times"

-- the one uses pakipot tactic to prolong the courtship

dami dito nyan.

[Erning]

The girls who are pakipot are those who are thinking really really hard because 50-50 lang sila dun sa guy na nanliligaw sa kanila, tignan nyo, kung gustong gusto talaga nila yung guy hindi yan magpapakipot. Pero hindi din magiging aggressive, tamang timing lang.

[ettevyvi]

I think not really pakipot and mind games and all that. Most guys use the Im-horny-and-we-are-polygamous-so-accept-it-b*tch arguments whereas girls change our minds the same number of how we choose an outfit per day.

Playing the pakipot type has advantages. Some guys like to play and toy with girls like there's no tomorrow. Might as well as use the female strategy to know if you're a player or not. Besides, thats the only time we're going to have our "revenge". For all we know, some guys play hot and cold after the girl said "yes". And in my opinion, those guys are not really serious enough and/or mature enough to be in a relationship. They have a lot of growing up to do and cannot use petty reasons onto why they act like jerks. Sure, the girls can be b*tchy but for remember, for every b*tch you meet along the way, there's always a jerk who made her that way. And vice versa.

[vincex]

-- the traditional chick "im a girl your a guy so you must do what guys are expected to do since the olden times"

Hmmm don't they hit the girl over the head with a stalactite or some other club like implement and drag her to his cave? hehehe

[Callgurl]

yes minsan..pag nasa mood..nakaka challenge eh..pero pag matagal tas bc ako ay next time na lang ang pakipot ang artee eh ahaha

[vincex]

Can some girls here post what are the typical modus operandi (types of mind games) played by girls?

Maybe we can have mind games of guys as well. In another thread perhaps,.

[rickym]

Can some girls here post what are the typical modus operandi (types of mind games) played by girls?

Maybe we can have mind games of guys as well. In another thread perhaps,.

i usually don't even bother, i just ask them all out. bahala na if they want to go out or not. i usually don't even bother to think if they are avoiding me or making pakipot because either way it's just simpler not to go out with them besides di pa naman ako nauubusan.

[shininglunacy]

mind games are a waste of time, whether from women or otherwise (yes, men play mind games, too).

some people though get a kick out of being on the receiving end - probably after the hunt more than the kill. so yun. to each his own.

as for me, nah. i'm too old for mind games :P let the younger ones have all the fun

[rickym]

as for me, nah. i'm too old for mind games :P let the younger ones have all the fun

true.

basta wag silang umangal pag nasunog sila. i was just out with a girl the other day and was talking about inconsistent women. the girl i was talking to said natamaan siya and she said she two timed her boyfriend (something she claims her bf forgave her for). she also said that what made her bf leave her was that she would always make him under and threaten to leave for the smallest reasons. one day, the bf just agreed. and she has been trying to get him back ever since. and when she called the guy he just said na ayaw na talaga niya.

now she wants to go back to her province and show him that she is more beautiful. she will fix her hair and reduce. hay naku. once a girl tried to do that to me and asked kung di na siya maganda. i said, "nasa pilipinas tayo ang dali kumuha ng magandang babae suyuin mo lang o maglabas ka ng pera ayos na, ang gusto ko ngayon matinong babae". oh, i ended up dating her barkada after that.

[vincex]

^ hey I know a similar story like that.

The girl is fat *****y and has a pretty face. for the longest time she's been "breaking up" with her bf and waits for him to make suyo and they make up all over again, for her to ***** again and break up again ..and wait for him.

I was just laughing when the guy no longer returned and replaced the girl with a hipon the week after. hehehehe

Till now, she's still single. For apparent reasons.

[rickym]

Maybe we can have mind games of guys as well. In another thread perhaps,.

mind games of guys?

all we really have to do is to act like the girls. it won't only piss them off, but it will make them avoid us like hell.

i'll tell you a few things i say which piss them off.

when they ask me out, i say, "sige, pag may time"

when they are late, i ask them to follow me to the next place i will go. kunwari meeting place sa mall, then they are 30 min late. i tell them to follow me at the internet cafe in another street, but i also tell them to text me first since i might transfer from there too. apparently girls hate this cause they want the man to meet them in their place not vice versa.

when they hint that they are after money and security, i tell them that i have no problem with that since praktikal rin ako and i will never take anyone seriously unless they are as rich as me. she however is a friend so there is no problem.

when she texts na alanganin yung tipo bang she texts back, then she delays her text. make sure you are in pex so that you actually forget that you are texting her and feel no urge to text her back and ask why she isn't texting back.

[barelythere]

LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOL@kung sinong may kailangan, siya ang manligaw.

hanep!!!

[vincex]

^^ hmmm that's a good example of men mind games..

anyone else? Just curious. Although I agree that mind games are a waste of time but sometimes certain people deserve it.. just like they deserve being lied to.