How to attract girls, if you're not a head turner-type of guy?

[Mike Cortez]

pero mukhang mahirap yan pag yung girl classy/model type. hehehe. or case to case basis din. basta try lang. hehe.

[confirmpassword]

This is a sure win - Don't let her feel that you are interested or she's the only one. Give her a confusing signal that will let her think that you like her but she's not sure that you are interested at all. Don't give so much info about yourself. Be mysterious, yet interesting. Let her know that you are also interested with another girl.

Don't call her often.

Last time I did this, I told the girl bluntly on the phone that I have a lot of prospects, she got upset and told me she needs to go to sleep already. She didn't call me for a week. We knew each other for just a few days and we talked on the phone. I made her feel comfortable with me and I made sure the conversation is interesting. Till I dropped that bomb and told her I'm seeing another girl. lol!

She called me up after a week, and told me that she'll be going overseas and we might not have a chance to see each other again.
She wanted to go to my place and asked for directions. I said, ok, I'll cook dinner at my place.

But, I knew she was bluffing. She's using pressure tactics on me. lol!!

[Mike Cortez]

i think that only works on average girls. im not sure if okay yan sa mga girls na parang almost celeb / model looking type na okay lahat meaning 10 ang rating ng kahit sino. pero case to case basis din.

[C.I.C.C.I]

Guys, in relation to my other thread.....'Saan makakahanap ng GF?'...
Paano ba ako makakaattract ng girls......


Thanks!



Post now!

I dont think that women nowadays are that shallow just to go after a man's look but if you insist:

1. Cultivate and excel in playing a musical instrument. Not just an ordinary instrument something more classy...maybe from the violin family.

2. Excel in your maths and sciences.

3. Graduate with honors .





More importantly , couple the above with good manners and humility even if your'e entitled to bragging rights

[confirmpassword]

i think that only works on average girls. im not sure if okay yan sa mga girls na parang almost celeb / model looking type na okay lahat meaning 10 ang rating ng kahit sino. pero case to case basis din.

You haven't actually seen the girl right? lol...

[boynext2u]

This is a sure win - Don't let her feel that you are interested or she's the only one. Give her a confusing signal that will let her think that you like her but she's not sure that you are interested at all. Don't give so much info about yourself. Be mysterious, yet interesting. Let her know that you are also interested with another girl.

Don't call her often.

Last time I did this, I told the girl bluntly on the phone that I have a lot of prospects, she got upset and told me she needs to go to sleep already. She didn't call me for a week. We knew each other for just a few days and we talked on the phone. I made her feel comfortable with me and I made sure the conversation is interesting. Till I dropped that bomb and told her I'm seeing another girl. lol!

She called me up after a week, and told me that she'll be going overseas and we might not have a chance to see each other again.
She wanted to go to my place and asked for directions. I said, ok, I'll cook dinner at my place.

But, I knew she was bluffing. She's using pressure tactics on me. lol!!

Hindi kaya isipin ng babae na babaero ka?

[wiseman_13]

pre sense of humor tska self confidence
maniwala ka....tried & tested yan

[Mike Cortez]

You haven't actually seen the girl right? lol...

do you see the big red X on top of your head? i have seen the girl and you are wrong. lol back at you. lol.

[jesus_is_savior]

all you need is a basic understanding of the evolutionary psychology of women, rigorously and fearlessly applied. you gotta know what buttons to press.

there are thousands ways to seduce a woman, all kinds of workable systems. but they all boil down to 3 words:

1. contempt
2. control
3. excitement

women want men that don't need or want them. they wanna be told what to do and they want edge, adventure, drama, whatever you wanna call it.

present that package to them, and they will bite. guaranteed. and then when you have them under your spell, you get up and leave. you leave. trust me, next time she sees you, she'll tear her clothes off. guaranteed.

[Alpha_Green]

I'm too tired to repeat what I keep saying here in PEX since time immemorial whenever people ask advice similar to this...

so whatever lonewolfe said in his post in this thread...I am saying the same. I agree 100% with what he said.

[siyado]

all you need is a basic understanding of the evolutionary psychology of women, rigorously and fearlessly applied. you gotta know what buttons to press.

there are thousands ways to seduce a woman, all kinds of workable systems. but they all boil down to 3 words:

1. contempt
2. control
3. excitement

women want men that don't need or want them. they wanna be told what to do and they want edge, adventure, drama, whatever you wanna call it.

present that package to them, and they will bite. guaranteed. and then when you have them under your spell, you get up and leave. you leave. trust me, next time she sees you, she'll tear her clothes off. guaranteed.

i agree that many women are hooked by such things. the thing is though, i'd never take women like that seriously

[Atziee]

Sense of humor is the best way to get the attention of the girl. Pag madalas mo mapatawa yung girl panalo ka. pero wag ka lang masyadong corny. haha. saka dapat medyo suplado ka din or dapat mukha ka din suplado. when your in a group mas maganda kasi mas malalaman mo when a girl is into you or may chance ka kasi sayo lang siya naka focus or mas intersado siya sa mga sinasabi mo kesa dun sa iba. Pero base from experience pag may napapatawa ako na girl madalas nila sinasabi na "playboy ka no?" or "chickboy ka ba?". ewan ko kung ano ibig sabihn nun pero i don't think it's anything bad naman. just make them laugh para maging comfortable sila sayo.

[cecill]

Guys, in relation to my other thread.....'Saan makakahanap ng GF?'...
Paano ba ako makakaattract ng girls......


Thanks!



Post now!

geez...this is freaky...dude if you're asking this question then i bet you have had no gf since birth.

okay okay...it's a free country. so let's just give you some tips:
1) determine first what type of girl you want to attract.
2) try to get them interested by being interested in them and their lives.
3) be able to hold a sensible conversation. Yes, that means answering more than one word retorts.
4) always be well groomed...doesnt mean you have to be hunk but at least smell nice and look presentable.
5) be a gentleman...believe me even if women cry out for equality of the sexes...we still love being made to feel like a princess.
6) look her in the eye
7) be honest
8) dont brag if you dont have proof
9) keep your promise
10) be consistent

no go forth and get that girl...

[confirmpassword]

Hindi kaya isipin ng babae na babaero ka?

No. Not at all. I only said "prospects" not actual relationship with someone. Technically, I'm not involved with anyone yet, but there are prospects I'm eyeing on. It kind of challenges the girl.

Actually, in reality, no matter what "tactics" you do, even if your personality is ok - humorous, fun to be with, good guy, bad boy, etc. if the girl doesn't like you, there's no chemistry, that's it. Don't push it.

Even if you said, "Your eyes are the same color as my Porsche".

We should not generalize. It may or may not work.

Some girls may be average looking but so hard to get, some girls may be very beautiful, but very friendly and accommodating and their hearts are open for you.

People have personalities, likes and dislikes. There are actually no rules to this.

2 cents.

[confirmpassword]

do you see the big red X on top of your head? i have seen the girl and you are wrong. lol back at you. lol.

No. I do not hallucinate.

Modesty aside, one is blond and the other is Japanese.

[makalagot]

Simple lang, pag bumirit na ako.. magsilapitan na yan sila hahaha.. honestly kahit di ako gwapo pero lumalapit sila sa akin maganda daw boses ko.. yong iba nainlove

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[Alpha_Green]

Daanin mo sa diskarte, tulad nito....

LINK

Napost ko na yata to dati, don't we all wish women were like this.

[rickym]

all you need is a basic understanding of the evolutionary psychology of women, rigorously and fearlessly applied. you gotta know what buttons to press.

there are thousands ways to seduce a woman, all kinds of workable systems. but they all boil down to 3 words:

1. contempt
2. control
3. excitement

women want men that don't need or want them. they wanna be told what to do and they want edge, adventure, drama, whatever you wanna call it.

present that package to them, and they will bite. guaranteed. and then when you have them under your spell, you get up and leave. you leave. trust me, next time she sees you, she'll tear her clothes off. guaranteed.

i agree that many women are hooked by such things. the thing is though, i'd never take women like that seriously

if that is true, then in short the typical woman is for entertainment and not for taking seriously?

[j0seph_lomb0s]

kung gusto ka talaga ng girl, she will accept you for what you are. Di kasi ako funny person pero di rin naman ako suplado. sinubukan kong maging funny or magkaron ng sense of humor, hindi maganda ang kinalabasan. nainis pa yung iba sa akin. KSP ( kulang sa pansin) daw ako.

meron talagang magaling magpatawa like willie revillame, bayani abayani but I'm not that type of person. kung gagayahin ko sila, maging peke ako.

[Dhugz]

Dapat magpagwapo at maging yummy sa paningin ng babae, yung malinis, maganda ang katawan, at Astigin