How to attract girls, if you're not a head turner-type of guy?

[mimiwko1]

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Kapag mabango ang guy at malinis sa kuko at iba pang part ng katawan ^_^

[cessiechu]

Guys, in relation to my other thread.....'Saan makakahanap ng GF?'...
Paano ba ako makakaattract ng girls......


Thanks!



Post now!

alam mo sa simula lang mahilig tumingin ang girls sa itsura. pero sa katagalan kapag ang lalake ay sobrang baet at nag eeffort.. dyan kami tinatamaan dahil bihira na lang ang ganun lalake. aanuhin mo ang gwapo kung walang alam gawin sa buhay kundi magyabang. dba?

[popsky]

Sobrang bait?

Kapag tinanong ko mga babae bakit hindi nila nagustuhan ang sobrang bait na lalaki ang sagot nila boring kasi.

[shoelace]

Sobrang bait?

Kapag tinanong ko mga babae bakit hindi nila nagustuhan ang sobrang bait na lalaki ang sagot nila boring kasi.

haha, sadly this is true. siguro ages ago, women would be happy with sobrang mabait na guy, nagsisimba, never-been-mischievous, but really, we gotta urge for some excitement once in a while. mischief is fun. calculated risks are fun.

predictable life becomes monotonous, routinary and eventually, boring.

anyway, back to topic:
-wit definitely adds tons of points. if a guy makes me laugh/smile most of the time, i'd definitely seek him out. heck, i'd even ask him out. could use a good laugh all the time. it stalls aging too
-that thing about the money... i guess the better way to say it might be, a guy who is at leastfinancially at par with me. i'm using at least because if the relationship becomes serious, it is more beneficial if he can handle the financial aspect of the household comfortably. definitely frowning on guys who are not financially stable. at the end of the day, he might be a pain the d@mn @ss.
-healthy body is a plus too, good looks just bonus points. after all, i'd wake up in the morning with this guy's face right in front of me. it would be nice if it is pleasant, or at least makes me smile.

[shadows217]

To TS: taga saan ka ba? hindi kasi advisable na puro verbal advice eh...dapat nasa field ka...

tara punta tayong timog, panay, eastwood, ortigas o the fort, subukan natin.



pero seriously, you should be out in the field...

try mo, mag experiment ka, punta ka sa mall...tapos kumausap ka ng 5-8 na tao...it doesnt matter kung babae, lalake, gay, matanda o bata, hindi rin importante kung anung sagot nila, basta importante kausapin mo sila...

try mo silang tanungin nito... "saan ang malapit na cr?" "anu marerecommend mong shop for guy's/women's clothes?" "where is the nearest coffeeshop?" "which way is going to...?"

pag nagawa mo toh pm mo ako.

or better yet...kausapin mo yung mga masters dito...madami kang matututunan.

[KnightTemplar86]

I have same issue, actually me and my friend. We kept asking ourselves ano problem sa amin. Di kami pansinin ng mga girls, hehehe.

Hindi ako panget, sakto lang, my friend well, mas gwapo sa akin, hehe but we have same experience. Way back in college, famous kami academic wise, sa batch namin we dominate academic competitions, debates, sa class room favorite kami ng mga teachers, we answer the hard questions. Sense of humor meron din naman, tuwang tuwa mga classmates naming sa amin sa kakulitan outside the school (well mga friends namin yun).

We dress decently, we act with proper manner, no smoke, occasional drinker, can discuss any topic, goal driven.

PERO PAG GIRLS NA LAGAPAK NA KAMI. Well, they look into us yung admiration hanggang academics lang ata, lol. Buti pa yung classmates naming na mga walang pangarap sa buhay, soyi at alak lang ang alam, tipong mas madami pa bagsak kaysa pasado, hanep gaganda ng gf, dami admirers, dami gusto magpaligaw.
Depress na ako, hehehe

[shadows217]

I have same issue, actually me and my friend. We kept asking ourselves ano problem sa amin. Di kami pansinin ng mga girls, hehehe.

Hindi ako panget, sakto lang, my friend well, mas gwapo sa akin, hehe but we have same experience. Way back in college, famous kami academic wise, sa batch namin we dominate academic competitions, debates, sa class room favorite kami ng mga teachers, we answer the hard questions. Sense of humor meron din naman, tuwang tuwa mga classmates naming sa amin sa kakulitan outside the school (well mga friends namin yun).

We dress decently, we act with proper manner, no smoke, occasional drinker, can discuss any topic, goal driven.

PERO PAG GIRLS NA LAGAPAK NA KAMI. Well, they look into us yung admiration hanggang academics lang ata, lol. Buti pa yung classmates naming na mga walang pangarap sa buhay, soyi at alak lang ang alam, tipong mas madami pa bagsak kaysa pasado, hanep gaganda ng gf, dami admirers, dami gusto magpaligaw.
Depress na ako, hehehe

kulang sa demonstrating value at making a connection...

[DemiGod666]

I have same issue, actually me and my friend. We kept asking ourselves ano problem sa amin. Di kami pansinin ng mga girls, hehehe.

Hindi ako panget, sakto lang, my friend well, mas gwapo sa akin, hehe but we have same experience. Way back in college, famous kami academic wise, sa batch namin we dominate academic competitions, debates, sa class room favorite kami ng mga teachers, we answer the hard questions. Sense of humor meron din naman, tuwang tuwa mga classmates naming sa amin sa kakulitan outside the school (well mga friends namin yun).

We dress decently, we act with proper manner, no smoke, occasional drinker, can discuss any topic, goal driven.

PERO PAG GIRLS NA LAGAPAK NA KAMI. Well, they look into us yung admiration hanggang academics lang ata, lol. Buti pa yung classmates naming na mga walang pangarap sa buhay, soyi at alak lang ang alam, tipong mas madami pa bagsak kaysa pasado, hanep gaganda ng gf, dami admirers, dami gusto magpaligaw.
Depress na ako, hehehe

to sum it all up, and as one poster above said, you both seem to belong to the nicest bunch of guys. In short mabait.....so therefore, pretty boring too. are we right?

id say go beyond your comfort zone and just be a little more daring in your ways w/o trying too hard. for sure, you'll do just fine.

[shoelace]

kulang sa demonstrating value at making a connection...

so quick to jump to a conclusion.

[shoelace]

I have same issue, actually me and my friend. We kept asking ourselves ano problem sa amin. Di kami pansinin ng mga girls, hehehe.

Hindi ako panget, sakto lang, my friend well, mas gwapo sa akin, hehe but we have same experience. Way back in college, famous kami academic wise, sa batch namin we dominate academic competitions, debates, sa class room favorite kami ng mga teachers, we answer the hard questions. Sense of humor meron din naman, tuwang tuwa mga classmates naming sa amin sa kakulitan outside the school (well mga friends namin yun).

We dress decently, we act with proper manner, no smoke, occasional drinker, can discuss any topic, goal driven.

PERO PAG GIRLS NA LAGAPAK NA KAMI. Well, they look into us yung admiration hanggang academics lang ata, lol. Buti pa yung classmates naming na mga walang pangarap sa buhay, soyi at alak lang ang alam, tipong mas madami pa bagsak kaysa pasado, hanep gaganda ng gf, dami admirers, dami gusto magpaligaw.
Depress na ako, hehehe

i don't know what to say to this... tough luck?

[noitanigami]

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mga ganto dapat para hindi sila mapagod

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[shadows217]

so quick to jump to a conclusion.

yup, may pagka geeky din ako before, so i know.

besides, he has all the tools - status, intelligence, perhaps money, looks etc., skills na lang kulang. if he learned the skills, naku magsasawa sa babae yan.

[shoelace]

yup, may pagka geeky din ako before, so i know.

besides, he has all the tools - status, intelligence, perhaps money, looks etc., skills na lang kulang. if he learned the skills, naku magsasawa sa babae yan.

alright then. it looks like you've got things all figured out i'm sticking to my reply to the question, as helpful as it might be: tough luck :P

[shadows217]

yup, cool... to each his own...

[lancealmekian]

I have same issue, actually me and my friend. We kept asking ourselves ano problem sa amin. Di kami pansinin ng mga girls, hehehe.

Hindi ako panget, sakto lang, my friend well, mas gwapo sa akin, hehe but we have same experience. Way back in college, famous kami academic wise, sa batch namin we dominate academic competitions, debates, sa class room favorite kami ng mga teachers, we answer the hard questions. Sense of humor meron din naman, tuwang tuwa mga classmates naming sa amin sa kakulitan outside the school (well mga friends namin yun).

We dress decently, we act with proper manner, no smoke, occasional drinker, can discuss any topic, goal driven.

PERO PAG GIRLS NA LAGAPAK NA KAMI. Well, they look into us yung admiration hanggang academics lang ata, lol. Buti pa yung classmates naming na mga walang pangarap sa buhay, soyi at alak lang ang alam, tipong mas madami pa bagsak kaysa pasado, hanep gaganda ng gf, dami admirers, dami gusto magpaligaw.
Depress na ako, hehehe

my take. i think you two seldom, if ever, approach women. listen to this. no matter how marketable you think you guys are, if you don't do the approach, if you don't talk to them first, if you don't muster enough balls to blurt at least the word "hello" then you're royally screwed for life. rarely do girls approach guys first (so you can't really count on that happening) and in the remote instances that they do, more often than not it just won't work out the way it should if you talked to them first.

second, both of you are too self-centered. how do i know? puro introspection ang sinulat mo e. malamang ganito rin ang tema ng conversation nyo ng friend mo. wag kayo masyado self-centered. go out there and just fucking enjoy people's company. don't be on the look out for girls, because when you're like that you're in a frame of mind that says "we're not getting any and we need to get some!" which is coming from a needy, desperate stand. enjoy nyo lang company ng lahat ng tao, lalake o babae. women and men alike are attracted to people who have relatively higher perceived value than they do, i.e. if you're seen as someone who won't add any value to their lives then you're just seen as wallflowers. people on the lookout for a lovelife are seen as low-value most times because there has to be something wrong with them that they have to be on a lookout in the first place.

third, sheesh. grow some balls. if you feel something for any girl then just say it, whether you like her or you just plain want to get in her pants. one-liners like 'i think you're wonderful -- and i mean it, even if i'm trying to get in your pants(/trying to get you to suck my balls)" are winners.

lastly, there are literally thousands of good dating tips on google. do your homework. walang masyadong matinong advice dito sa pex. karamihan din dito engot, at yung marurunong, they're either too stupid to put their techniques to words; or they're too busy enjoying the real world to even have time to type anything to help all the losers here.

[TheRedRiderHood]

just my two cents

1. do not pretend, just be yourself.
2. open up a good conversation.
3. have a sense of humor
4. be a gentleman

most women look beyond physical features.


one more thing i think the title should be
--> How to attract WOMEN, if you're not a head turner-type of guy?

not girls.

[shadows217]

you know women say one thing and mean another...

FOR EXAMPLE:

sasabihin nila eto gusto nila sa guy... but that is not necessarily what attracts them to guys...

the things they want in a guy is what they want from a relationship...

attraction is not a choice...that's why it can be worked out...

[TTJ]

I have same issue, actually me and my friend. We kept asking ourselves ano problem sa amin. Di kami pansinin ng mga girls, hehehe.

Hindi ako panget, sakto lang, my friend well, mas gwapo sa akin, hehe but we have same experience. Way back in college, famous kami academic wise, sa batch namin we dominate academic competitions, debates, sa class room favorite kami ng mga teachers, we answer the hard questions. Sense of humor meron din naman, tuwang tuwa mga classmates naming sa amin sa kakulitan outside the school (well mga friends namin yun).

We dress decently, we act with proper manner, no smoke, occasional drinker, can discuss any topic, goal driven.

PERO PAG GIRLS NA LAGAPAK NA KAMI. Well, they look into us yung admiration hanggang academics lang ata, lol. Buti pa yung classmates naming na mga walang pangarap sa buhay, soyi at alak lang ang alam, tipong mas madami pa bagsak kaysa pasado, hanep gaganda ng gf, dami admirers, dami gusto magpaligaw.
Depress na ako, hehehe

baka naman akala nila may relasyon kayo.

[Aizrith]

thanks sa tips

[pilotmarker]

Don't aspire to become a head turner. You'll have a difficult time with your current gf. Relationships won't last long. You also have to carefully budget everything as your prospects grows. It ain't cheap. When a pretty girl comes along giving you go signals, you will not be interested anymore after witnessing a horrible cat fight between your girl and another girl and another girl.

Be yourself, be a nerd, a geek. Live a carefree life. Wait for the right one to come along. She'll come.