"Sadly enough Nice guys finish last."
Nice-guys are used and abused for their efforts and it is just a matter of time before they hear their girlfriends use the F word - -
Friends! followed by plans of keeping in touch by talking on the phone the next time it rains or when the Jerk she is going out with, is blowing her off. As your'e talking to her on the phone, she'll probably stopping the conversation a few times so she can be checking her voice mail and email to see if the Jerk bothered to call.
There are really only two reasons why a woman would be in a relationship with a Nice-guy:
1) Money and the concept of financial security, and/or
2) Being able to control him to meet her every want, need, desire and wish.
If they say it is for ANY other reason, they probably lie about other things as well. The attraction just isn't there with a Nice-guy for many reasons. However, when she realizes that her biological clock is ticking and it's time to settle down she might
realize that her fun social prospects. have either run dry or are looking for a job. So what does she do? She settles for a financially established and secure Nice-guy to take care of her the rest of her life and just wishes she had half the fun today as she did in the good old days with the fun and Jerks she dated.
Iím not blaming women. If I were a woman, I would do the exact same thing. Letís see, if I were a woman, (Bitress 41) I would have as much fun and sex as I could with as many wild and crazy, Jerks as possible until I was in my mid to late 20's. Then, I would start looking for a Nice-guy that went to college even got his MBA, had a well-paying career or business that I could settle down with. I would begin to control him by giving him the hottest sex of his life as a reward to meet my every want, need, desire and wish. He would become like a genie in a bottle that I would just rub a few times and get what I want. (Sounds familiar?).
But donít worry. Everybody knows that "Nice-guys win in the end". What end? Marriage-?--otherwise known as early retirement for most women. At least thatís what women want you to believe as they are running around having intense fun and sex with Jerks until they want to settle down with a Nice-guy to foot the bill for security in her life (i.e. house, car and children) when the party is over. This is equivalent to a sports car having miles put on it and then when the motor a shot, finding another owner that you can go a little slower with and wonít know the difference anyway. After all, She would cheat on him with his best friend or co-worker. Even better, his best friendís wife or female coworker! This way, he thinks he turned me into a lesbian! Then I would take Mr. Nice-guy, to the cleaners for everything heís got.
She would justify this by saying: "After all those lonely nights that he worked in so long and forgot about me at home and all the work I do to keep this house running smooth -- I deserve it!..
Now that the good times in partying stages are over. It's like going around after parties are over and finishing what people didnít drink (watch out for those floating cigarette butts. Yuck!), and eating the leftovers that fell on the floor, or people spit out on their plate.....