no gf/bf since birth?!

[recycleBin]

kasama rin ako dito i'm 21 years old NGSB din haha,

I'm not ugly pero my konting "looks" daw,

ewan ko ba, I do not find love, I'll preferred to just wait there

Nakakainis lang kasi tulad dati may nagustuhan ako liligawan ko pa lang sana binasted na ako , hindi pa daw siya ready, binalikan ko after 1 year .. hindi pa rin ready kaya ayun basted pa rin siguro talagang ayaw lang niya sakin.

Now, working na ako in office, may girl akong nakasalubong, she's pretty but I think she's a kind of sossy yung sosyal ang style ng pananamit, even in foods sossy -- in short for me hindi kami bagay

Kaso yun lang I caught her always staring/looking at me for less than 10 seconds, I'd never knew her even her name so, there's no reaction from me whether her eyes starts looking at me..

Sabi naman ng kaoffice mate ko , type daw ako, eh di ko naman type.. hays lagi na lang ganito kapag gusto ko yung tao ayaw sakin, kapag ayaw ko naman sa tao gusto naman ako...

Same here, 21 yrs kaso college pa lang. Ganun din, liligawan pa lang binusted na.

Gusto ko rin subukan ulit after a few months kasi mahal ko talaga, sana magbago ang isip.

[whitediamonds]

There's a right key for every lock.. there is a right size pair of shoes for every feet..

Kung ayaw sa iyo, e di huwag.. dun ka na lang sa may gusto sa iyo, malay mo magustuhan mo din siya after..

[cloudfenrir]

experience is the best teacher.. nakaka-relate ako sa inyo kasi nung high school at college lagi akong basted and depressed afterwards. try and try lang. I know it will hurt me to be rejected but it also makes me stronger in the long run. I had a string of GFs from college until present and I have a current GF which I really love! She is not my 100% ideal girl but everything is working fine.. we are engaged now..

Tips for you guys/girls:

1.Lower your standards
2.Initiate conversations with them
3.Improve your personality
4.Be marketable
5.Emphasize your talents and not your weaknesses when pursuing someone

Good Luck Friends! Just want to help out!

[dhenn_7up]

experience is the best teacher.. nakaka-relate ako sa inyo kasi nung high school at college lagi akong basted and depressed afterwards. try and try lang. I know it will hurt me to be rejected but it also makes me stronger in the long run. I had a string of GFs from college until present and I have a current GF which I really love! She is not my 100% ideal girl but everything is working fine.. we are engaged now..

Tips for you guys/girls:

1.Lower your standards
2.Initiate conversations with them
3.Improve your personality
4.Be marketable
5.Emphasize your talents and not your weaknesses when pursuing someone

Good Luck Friends! Just want to help out!

that's what I am not able to learn still now since reserved type ako, mahiyain kapag stranger lalo na kapag kilala mo nga di mo naman kaclose... ewan ko ba , ugali ko lang talaga na they must first initiate a conversation kasi hindi naman ako makikipagusap kung di nila ako kakausapin - ganito ang personality ko.

I do not know how to be marketable, at hindi ko alam ang rason bakit parang takot na takot ako sa mga babae hahaha

[darkwoman]

When I was between 20~25yo, I always wonder why guys do not court me. I don't look bad. Now at 28 and still a member of NBSB club, I no longer care. Wala akong magagawa kung hanggang kaibigan lang ang turing ng lalaki sa akin. What matters is I am enjoying life kahit walang boylet.

[BlueandWhite8]

Your time will come, you just have to wait.

I used to be very shy, but I learned how to interact with girls in a few years. Try to look good lang, be friendly. If you guys are really shy about approaching someone, try to go out in a group.

And remember the rule, date someone within 2 levels of your looks. LOL

[TastyXtina]

ako... for the record im gay but not the effem-type.. im out.. ican say that i am goodlooking, maputi, matangos ilong, decent, makinis, 5'10", magaling pumorma pero lahat ng nagkakacrush sakin girls.. hahahaha.. but i look to them as just friends...

[thesweetesthing]

its either they very choosy or they have a face that only a mother could love

[zaxe124]

darkwoman - ok lang yan.. masarap ang single ^_^

[gAsHy]

that's what I am not able to learn still now since reserved type ako, mahiyain kapag stranger lalo na kapag kilala mo nga di mo naman kaclose... ewan ko ba , ugali ko lang talaga na they must first initiate a conversation kasi hindi naman ako makikipagusap kung di nila ako kakausapin - ganito ang personality ko.

I do not know how to be marketable, at hindi ko alam ang rason bakit parang takot na takot ako sa mga babae hahaha

Pati ako member nito and parehong pareho tayo nang pakiramdam nagkakagusto ako sa girls pero sobrang nahihiya akong makiusap/.

[chessa]

when i was 21 or 22 i posted in this thread for i was genuinely, as in 100% certified (LOLs) part of this club but now.. guess what i'm married.. what do you know, i was supposed to marry my first boyfriend pala who i actually met when i was 22 in a job interview. ndi mo akalain. hehe. we were engaged a month after i was 24 and now we're married. ganun ***** tlg ang fate...

[marchmallows]

when i was 21 or 22 i posted in this thread for i was genuinely, as in 100% certified (LOLs) part of this club but now.. guess what i'm married.. what do you know, i was supposed to marry my first boyfriend pala who i actually met when i was 22 in a job interview. ndi mo akalain. hehe. we were engaged a month after i was 24 and now we're married. ganun ***** tlg ang fate...

wow talking about fate...i remembered a friend, she met her current bf din during a job interview.

At 25, still no bf. masaya naman especially when you hear your officemates saying they can't just go out since they need approval of their bf/gf while you, on the otherhand, can go anywhere you want. pero sympre malungkot din...it's just a matter of how you deal with the situation.

[IwantTObreathe]

may question ako. I have a guy friend who claims he is NGSB. Hindi pa nga naman sya nagkaka-GF.

Pero nagkaron na sya ng dalawang FUBU. Sabi ko, di na nya pwede i-claim na NGSB sya kasi parang exploited na sya.

What you guys think?

[kimrod16]

when i was 21 or 22 i posted in this thread for i was genuinely, as in 100% certified (LOLs) part of this club but now.. guess what i'm married.. what do you know, i was supposed to marry my first boyfriend pala who i actually met when i was 22 in a job interview. ndi mo akalain. hehe. we were engaged a month after i was 24 and now we're married. ganun ***** tlg ang fate...

'first and last'.

[marchmallows]

may question ako. I have a guy friend who claims he is NGSB. Hindi pa nga naman sya nagkaka-GF.

Pero nagkaron na sya ng dalawang FUBU. Sabi ko, di na nya pwede i-claim na NGSB sya kasi parang exploited na sya.

What you guys think?

landian mode lang haha. maybe because for your friend, having a girlfriend is different from having a fubu. Think: ano ba ang involved with a fubu? it's more of carnal desire di ba whereas if girlfriend ibang level. there's love involved

[teeyara]

so yung fubu hindi pwedeng maconsider na relationship??

[tavor]

Me too. NGSB at 26 years old.

Mahiyain kasi ako when I was still studying pero now, medyo exposed na ako to different kinds of people and I know how to strike a conversation when I wanted to talk to a certain person. Pero STILL, that conversation on how to confess to a girl that I like her still knocks me all blind and crazy na hindi ko na talaga alam ang gagawin ko for THAT RISKY moment right there.

[IwantTObreathe]

Me too. NGSB at 26 years old.

Mahiyain kasi ako when I was still studying pero now, medyo exposed na ako to different kinds of people and I know how to strike a conversation when I wanted to talk to a certain person. Pero STILL, that conversation on how to confess to a girl that I like her still knocks me all blind and crazy na hindi ko na talaga alam ang gagawin ko for THAT RISKY moment right there.

halika nga,nang ma-train kita.

[Aizrith]

NGSB here also ..

please train me also..

master?

[IwantTObreathe]

NGSB here also ..

please train me also..

master?

I don't believe you. pero.. sige. add me sa ym! go!!