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  1. #1

    paano ba maibabalik ang tiwala sa taong mahal mo pero minsan ka ng sinaktan???

    hi everyone....will you please help me kng ano maganda gawin para maibalik ko lang ang tiwala sa taong mahal ko pero minsan na nya akong sinaktan?!

    ....sobrang mahal ko ang bf ko pero parang until now hindi ko pa rin maibalik ang tiwala ko sakanya, kahit paulit-ulit nyang sinasabi na wala na syang ginagawang masama para masaktan ako, at sinasabi nya rin na hindi na daw mauulit lahat ng nangyari dati. pero on my part parang ang hirap ibalik, minsan nga naiisip ko pag nag aaway kami parang ako na lang yung may problema, feeling ko tuloy sobrang napapraning lang ako dahil nga sa mga nangyari dati...pag hindi sya nakakareply or text sa'kin bigla ko na lang naiisip na baka may kadate na syang iba, or sometimes pag hindi nya natupad yung promise nya iba na naman iniisip ko. minsan nga para na akong ***** pag hindi nya hawak cp nya iniisip ko sinasabi nya sa katext nya na wag muna mag text dahil busy sya, or pag hawak naman cp nya nag seselos ako kahit mga kaibigan lang katext nya...hanggang sa mag aaway na kami....pero ngayon narerealize ko na baka ako lang tlaga ang nag iisip ng masama sa kanya pano kung nag sasabi naman sya ng totoo sakin tapos mapagod na sya sa kakasabi sa'kin na wala sya ginagawang masama talaga at iwan na nya ako, *** ngayon palang gusto ko na baguhin yung takbo ng relationship namin...yung wala ng away or kahit anong kapraningan...guys help me kung ano maganda gawin *** mabalik ko tiwala ko saknya para ng sa ganun hindi na kami mag away....

  2. #2
    Ok lang yan, dapat nyang tanggapin ang results ng nagawa nya sayo. After a year siguro bago mawala yang ka-praningan mo, with some pasulpot-sulpot moments for the following years. :P

    And wala kang dapat gawin para maibalik ang tiwala mo sakanya, dahil sya dapat ang mag-effort para ma-gain ulit ang trust mo okay. Well siguro ang magagawa mo, sabihin mo sa kanya na ayaw mo na nagiging paranoid ka na kaya lang naging ganon ka nga dahil sa kanya, so sana tulungan ka nya na malagpasan yang paranoid phase mo na yan.

  3. #3
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    ^^ yup!*** nagkamali e dapat siya magpatunay na dapat nga ibalik yung trust mo sa kanya. saka di naman basta basta maibibigay yung trust ng love mo sayo pag nanloko ka sakanya di ba?

    ibang klaseng trust oo.. nabibili lang yun sa drugstore e, pero yung trust na yan aba!... ano yun swerte niya a!

  4. #4
    thank you po sa mga sinabi nyo kahit kayo pa lang yung nag reply sa'kin mejo na bawasan na yung isipin ko, sobrang nakatulong kayo...

  5. #5
    Hi Ts, I'll guess many of us went through this. Well I agree with you. rebuilding trust is really hard especially when you been hurt before.. or you been hurt by the same person.. In your situation, ill guess you both need effort to work for it! especially the guy, he needs to prove you, and make you feel that he rebuild your trust and faith again. As we know that trust is very important matter in a relationship. And without TRUST a relationship will go nowhere..

    Since you accepted him again to enter your life again and be part of it again. and you and give him a second chance. Well i suggest that you may both work for it! avoid doubts, that only you make suffer for thinking something bad at the back of your mind. do something that make you feel is right.. maybe changes in your attitudes or both..if you both willing to work your relationship it will! Trust it!

    Just always be honest with your feelings. Talk to him sincerely if needed. If there's something bothering in your mind ask him nicely.Trust it!

  6. #6
    SEXYMILD- advice ko *** kung nahihirapan ka ng ibalik ang tiwala mo sa BF mo,drop him. Kse lalaki rin ako at ramdam ko kung meron pang tiwala or wala na ang gf ko,kung lagi rin sya nagdududa sa kin maiinis din ako.Kung tlagang mahal mo sya,bakit di mo ibigay yung 100% na trust sa knya. Ikaw ba sa tingin mo buo ang tiwala nya ***?Or baka **** kaya di mo maibigay ang tiwala sa mo sa knya,eh dahil nagchi-cheat ka rin sa knya??Yung tipong kapag nkatalikod sya,nagf-flirt ka rin sa ibang guy.What i mean to say,takot ka sa sarili mong multo..sorry to say this but this is only my opinion as a guy.Im just being frank.

  7. #7
    Ms. TS,

    Is this man really worth taking the risk again? If you think you still can't trust him, then just let him go. It will only cause you numerous fights and endless arguments. Sometimes using your head is also a necessity.

    Come to think of it, he cheated on you once, chances are, he can do it again. Let's say there is a 70% possibility of him cheating on you again.

    The first time he cheated on you, it was really devastating, I know it because I've been there before. And I know that it wasn't easy. Can you live each and everyday thinking that he might be dating someone else? Cheating on you? I don't think so.

    Want a piece of advice? If you feel like you can never trust him again, then just let him go. You don't wanna live your life having regrets for taking him back. Sis, wala pa akong nakilala na lalaking babaero na nagbago.

    I hope my advice helped you.

  8. #8
    Ako ba ito??

    ^^ We are n the exact same situation sexy mild.. dapat ata tayong 2 ang mag usap..

  9. #9
    for now im trying my best para maniwala sa mga sinasabi nya, hindi na lang din ako nag eexpect ng kung ano. 2days na kaming walang away...enjoy ko na lang muna yung time na andito sya kase po lapit na ulet sya umalis eh...pagbalik nya at ganito pa rin sitwasyon namin siguro dapat ko na nga syang i-let go kahit masakit para sa'kin...

    ang laki ng naiitulong ng mga sinasabi nyo...thank you tlaga muawhhh

  10. #10
    Quote Originally Posted by aicute12 View Post
    Ako ba ito??

    ^^ We are n the exact same situation sexy mild.. dapat ata tayong 2 ang mag usap..
    bakit po??? share mo naman sa'kin...

  11. #11
    Girl, I think , you better analyze yourself. With what you're saying , hindi ka truthful sa kanya, kasi nagdu-duda ka pa rin despite na you have forgiven him.

    Inulit na ba niya *** ginawa after he said na hindi na niya gagawin ulit yun? If hindi pa , then give him the chance to prove himself that totoo ang sinasabi niya sa **.

    Nakakapagod ang ganyan , masakit sa ulo.

  12. #12
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    follow your instincts,girl.

    if you think you cant really trust him anymore, why prolonged the agony? let him go. It's so hard to hold on to a relationship na wala ng trust kasi hindi na magiging at ease ang isip mo and holding on to a relationship without trust is pointless.

  13. #13
    trust is the most important thing in a relationship, kung wala na yun why do you still have to stay? you might say na mahal mo kasi or hindi mo kayang mawala or baka kasi magbago pa siya. whatever your reason maybe, dadating yung point na pareho kayong masasaturate sa relationship. ikaw laging duda, siya naman dahil laging pinagdududahan. he might eventually cheat on you again kasi iniisip nya, since lagi ka na lang nagdududa kahit wala siyang ginagawa eh totohanin nya na lang para naman may sense mga galit mo di ba? hehe. nakakaasar pero true yung ganon. anyhow, bottomline nun kung nagawa nya sayo before, kaya nya gawin ulit kaya magbreak na lang kayo para matapos na. haha. joke!

    well actually depende talaga yan sa tao eh, sa tingin mo ba nagbabago na talaga? wala bang basis ang mga pagdududa mo?

  14. #14
    been there before. nakakapraning naman talaga lalo na pag di naman niya iniintindi yung feelings mo. tama sila, if he had broken your trust, then he should be patient and more understanding why you are feeling that way. pero kung tingin mo di mo na talaga maibabalik yung trust mo sa kanya, let him go. palagi ka lang kasi magdududa niyan at iyan din ang magiging dahilan ng ikakasira ng relationship ninyo.

  15. #15
    pinag iisipan ko nga talaga kung ano magandang gawin para hindi na rin ako mahirapan, pero alam nyo yun kapag nag aaway kami kahit hinahamon ko sya na mag break na hindi sya pumapayag kase sinasabi nya sa'kin na wala naman daw talaga sya ginagawa at mag tiwala lang daw talaga ako sakanya...as of now pinababayaan ko na lang muna sya sa mga gusto nya gawin...enjoy ko rin yung life ko ng hindi ko sya lage kasama...deadma ko na lang din mga sinasabi nya sa'kin kc pinag aaralan ko pa kung dapat ba talaga ako maniwala sa lahat ng sinasbi nya...hayyyy....

  16. #16
    that's the hardest thing to do..
    you can't avoid to think that he/she will do it again..
    just a matter of choice on what to believe in.
    and self control..

  17. #17
    ilang months na rin yung nakakalipas pero hanggang ngayon may doubt pa rin ako.. ang hirap..

  18. #18
    Quote Originally Posted by sexymild_25 View Post
    bakit po??? share mo naman sa'kin...
    Same here?!!! Actually?!!! pangalawa na toh?!!! he cheated twice na?!!!

    May gana pa magsabi sakin na mapa ibang company daw kami.. emotional pa rin daw ako?!!!

    let it go na lang daw... kz past na... well, I'm trying...

    pro pag may third time pa (w/c my closeness n nmn siya now at sis *** daw ang turing)... haayyy... batukan nyo na *** ako mga peeps!!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by sexymild_25 View Post
    hi everyone....will you please help me kng ano maganda gawin para maibalik ko lang ang tiwala sa taong mahal ko pero minsan na nya akong sinaktan?!

    ....sobrang mahal ko ang bf ko pero parang until now hindi ko pa rin maibalik ang tiwala ko sakanya, kahit paulit-ulit nyang sinasabi na wala na syang ginagawang masama para masaktan ako, at sinasabi nya rin na hindi na daw mauulit lahat ng nangyari dati. pero on my part parang ang hirap ibalik, minsan nga naiisip ko pag nag aaway kami parang ako na lang yung may problema, feeling ko tuloy sobrang napapraning lang ako dahil nga sa mga nangyari dati...pag hindi sya nakakareply or text sa'kin bigla ko na lang naiisip na baka may kadate na syang iba, or sometimes pag hindi nya natupad yung promise nya iba na naman iniisip ko. minsan nga para na akong ***** pag hindi nya hawak cp nya iniisip ko sinasabi nya sa katext nya na wag muna mag text dahil busy sya, or pag hawak naman cp nya nag seselos ako kahit mga kaibigan lang katext nya...hanggang sa mag aaway na kami....pero ngayon narerealize ko na baka ako lang tlaga ang nag iisip ng masama sa kanya pano kung nag sasabi naman sya ng totoo sakin tapos mapagod na sya sa kakasabi sa'kin na wala sya ginagawang masama talaga at iwan na nya ako, *** ngayon palang gusto ko na baguhin yung takbo ng relationship namin...yung wala ng away or kahit anong kapraningan...guys help me kung ano maganda gawin *** mabalik ko tiwala ko saknya para ng sa ganun hindi na kami mag away....

    Haay.. naku ako rin may ganyang problema laging may third party involve.. ayun naglelet go na ako...

    Pero meron akong mga kaibigan ganyan din.. ang hirap na ngang sabihan eh kasi nagloko na.. sige pa rin... pero nde na nila maibigay yung 100% trust.. laging may "what if"

    pero tama yung ibang nagpost dapat yung bf mo ang mageffort at maintindihan nya na sya ang nagkamali at hindi madaling mawala yung doubt...

  20. #20
    ewan ko ha, kase parang kahit may effort, basta, i really can't explain why..parang may doubt pa din.. siguro nga baka sa takot na maulit ulit..

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