For MEN only - Our SUPERFICIAL preferences thread

[Alpha_Green]

^^
Exactly.

[DemiGod666]

Too much or not, if other guys can get high caliber women despite falling below par, then why change their standards?

most likely, these girls are looking beyond their superficial standards, hence they can still hook up with 'below par' guys. Money...fame...etc can make a woman change their preferences easily.

but if we only stick to the topic per se, then i bet no woman can get turned on by less than attractive guys. think Chavit Singson w/o the money and fame.....he'd be worthless to any high caliber woman.

but still, men can always dream to bed the most beautiful/worthy gals around. besides, dreaming is free.

[rickym]

but if we only stick to the topic per se, then i bet no woman can get turned on by less than attractive guys. think Chavit Singson w/o the money and fame.....he'd be worthless to any high caliber woman.

men know that. and men actually like that. because of that they are sure that they can get laid at 70 years old. a lot of old men won't tell you but they enjoy being milked. some even consider it even a status symbol to be able to afford a girl. when they grow tired of her they simple say, "finished contract". i actually heard of an old man say that.

[Alpha_Green]

hmmmm...i just can't stomach it in settling with average girls or worse fuglies when it comes to dating or just playing around. these girls just wouldn't stand a chance to at least *

Correct!! Thats the attitude guys should have.

Sino bang lalaki ang makasisikmura to have a relatioship with fat and ugly girls? Better being single

[isoy_gurl]

Sino bang lalaki ang makasisikmura to have a relatioship with fat and ugly girls? Better being single

actually meron. marami dyan. marami akong nakikitang ganun. usually nga, kung sino pang sexy at maganda biglang pinagpapalit sa hindi ganun kaganda at sexy na babae.

besides, hindi naman lahat ng lalaki may K mangarap ng mas higit pa sa kanya, dahil there are some guys that are also fuglies too, at wala pang power and money to back them up.

[DemiGod666]

Correct!! Thats the attitude guys should have.

Sino bang lalaki ang makasisikmura to have a relatioship with fat and ugly girls? Better being single

Truth hurts, really.

actually meron. marami dyan. marami akong nakikitang ganun. usually nga, kung sino pang sexy at maganda biglang pinagpapalit sa hindi ganun kaganda at sexy na babae.

besides, hindi naman lahat ng lalaki may K mangarap ng mas higit pa sa kanya, dahil there are some guys that are also fuglies too, at wala pang power and money to back them up.

yeah, that scenario of dumping pretty/sexy girls for lesser ones happens a lot, too. but you can be sure that these girls still fall on their ideal or passable category, be it superficial or not. men are visual creatures. whoever turns them on, will interest them, be it for serious or fun stuff. but then again, there will always be exceptions to the rule, but you can be sure that most men would rather stay single than settle for someone waayyy below their preferences.

lastly, if the guy/girl thinks they don't deserve to have higher standards, then don't dream for it....just learn to live with it....and deal with it.

...but with money and power, you can embrace it all! IKAW NA!!

[isoy_gurl]

^^ actually point ko lang is that feasible yung tinatanong ni alpha green about settling for less. it happens, relative kasi ang physical attraction. it might be lesser sa standards ng iba, but just right for others.

these superficial preferences apply to anyone who has higher eq, possesses a lucrative and impressive career, money or power; if they want to be rigid about their standards... regardless sa gender (oo nga pala, for men nga pala to, sorry ).

[Alpha_Green]

actually meron. marami dyan. marami akong nakikitang ganun. usually nga, kung sino pang sexy at maganda biglang pinagpapalit sa hindi ganun kaganda at sexy na babae.

LOL asa ka pa. Bakit ako halos wala ako nakikita? Guni guni mo lang siguro yan. Those guys who do that are probably those who realize they are GAY. They later marry for social acceptability or have a gf para pang front na hindi sila bakla. Kaya wala masyado pake kahit panget gf o asawa nila.

Yung iba naman, as I have mentioned before, ginagawang PRACTICE yung mga average looking and ugly girls. They try to sharpen and improve their skills with these type of women and once they achieved that they dump them then go for the girls they really like, yung mga magaganda at sexy talaga. Praktisan kumbaga, to develop their skills in dealing with women and their confidence. Siyempre kung di ka pa ganun ka comfortable sa diskarte skills mo, hindi agad maganda lalapitan mo.

besides, hindi naman lahat ng lalaki may K mangarap ng mas higit pa sa kanya, dahil there are some guys that are also fuglies too, at wala pang power and money to back them up.

but they have sense of humor and diskarte skills which would be enough for women to pull their panties down for them. Some guys kahit pangit ang face, basta matangkad nakakakuha pa din ng hot chicks.

[Alpha_Green]

yeah, that scenario of dumping pretty/sexy girls for lesser ones happens a lot, too.

Kung may nakikita kayo na ganyan, then thats probably the reason why a lot of men cheat. Once their average looking wives start to age a bit, they start to find them unattractive quickly so they now look for a hot, young mistress or fck buddies. Hindi mawawala ang pagiging superficial ng mga lalake lalo na sa LOOKS department. Visual talaga kasi sila.

If you are not really that physically attracted to the woman you are marrying, you would just find yourselves CHEATING later on.

[Alpha_Green]

these superficial preferences apply to anyone who has higher eq, possesses a lucrative and impressive career, money or power; if they want to be rigid about their standards... regardless sa gender (oo nga pala, for men nga pala to, sorry ).

No.

Not really.

Different types of guys attract different types of HOT girls. They may not have a successful career or money but as I have mentioned in a previous post, they could have sense of humor, diskarte skills, bad boy etc. They can still maintain HIGH standards and preferences.

Actually kahit wala silang ipagmamalaki pwede pa din. If they get along with the girl and their personalities match each other, pwede na siya sagutin ng mga magagandang chick.

[isoy_gurl]

LOL asa ka pa. Bakit ako halos wala ako nakikita? Guni guni mo lang siguro yan. Those guys who do that are probably those who realize they are GAY. They later marry for social acceptability or have a gf para pang front na hindi sila bakla. Kaya wala masyado pake kahit panget gf o asawa nila.

Yung iba naman, as I have mentioned before, ginagawang PRACTICE yung mga average looking and ugly girls. They try to sharpen and improve their skills with these type of women and once they achieved that they dump them then go for the girls they really like, yung mga magaganda at sexy talaga. Praktisan kumbaga, to develop their skills in dealing with women and their confidence. Siyempre kung di ka pa ganun ka comfortable sa diskarte skills mo, hindi agad maganda lalapitan mo.




but they have sense of humor and diskarte skills which would be enough for women to pull their panties down for them. Some guys kahit pangit ang face, basta matangkad nakakakuha pa din ng hot chicks.

ganito na lang.

sense of humor and diskarte vs. power and money?

obvious choice. no brainer.

Kung may nakikita kayo na ganyan, then thats probably the reason why a lot of men cheat. Once their average looking wives start to age a bit, they start to find them unattractive quickly so they now look for a hot, young mistress or fck buddies. Hindi mawawala ang pagiging superficial ng mga lalake lalo na sa LOOKS department. Visual talaga kasi sila.

If you are not really that physically attracted to the woman you are marrying, you would just find yourselves CHEATING later on.

wala naman kinalaman to sa infidelity. ang sinasabi mo kasi walang lalaking papatol sa fugly. obviously you're wrong. as i've said relative ang physical attraction. walang basagan ng trip. :P

No.

Not really.

Different types of guys attract different types of HOT girls. They may not have a successful career or money but as I have mentioned in a previous post, they could have sense of humor, diskarte skills, bad boy etc. They can still maintain HIGH standards and preferences.

Actually kahit wala silang ipagmamalaki pwede pa din. If they get along with the girl and their personalities match each other, pwede na siya sagutin ng mga magagandang chick.

again, mga may sense of humor na pinagsasabi mo bonus lang yan. icing on the cake baga. kung wala kang pera, wala kang sinabi sa buhay, at pangit ka pa... mangarap ka na lang, at the end kalevel mo lang din ang kababagsakan mo.

tingin mo ata sa lahat ng babae mababaw... sense of humor, sus!

[DemiGod666]

O siya, wala nalang basagan ng trip.

basta for me, i don't remember getting turned on by an average or an outright ugly woman. for the former, i guess her skills can do the trick so chances are, i might just give in , but as for the latter, .

[Alpha_Green]

basta for me, i don't remember getting turned on by an average or an outright ugly woman

Me too and same more most guys I know.

[shadows217]

chinita at maputi...mala yukie nakama

or

tanned...mala jessica alba

katawan = maria ozawa

[Alpha_Green]

ganito na lang.

sense of humor and diskarte vs. power and money?

obvious choice. no brainer.

I am not contending which trait is better. What I'm saying is the former can also be effective as the latter as a means of attracting hot chicks if you are just an average looking guy.

wala naman kinalaman to sa infidelity. ang sinasabi mo kasi walang lalaking papatol sa fugly. obviously you're wrong. as i've said relative ang physical attraction. walang basagan ng trip. :P

Anong walang kinalaman?

Meron.

Kung meron man pumapatol sa fugly, meron pero konti lang at dun sa mga pumatol, obviously....later on...mangangaliwa sila dahil di naman kagandahan misis o gf nila. Alam ko pano mag-isip ang lalake kasi lalake din ako.

again, mga may sense of humor na pinagsasabi mo bonus lang yan. icing on the cake baga. kung wala kang pera, wala kang sinabi sa buhay, at pangit ka pa... mangarap ka na lang, at the end kalevel mo lang din ang kababagsakan mo.

tingin mo ata sa lahat ng babae mababaw... sense of humor, sus!

At the end kalevel lang ang kababagsakan? Eh sabi ko nga maraming lalaki ang mas pipiliin nalang ang maging single kesa yung mag end up sa kalevel nilang babae.

Kung ako pangit at walang pera na lalaki mas pipiliin ko nalang mangarap rather than end up with a fugly girl. Dapat MATAAS ang standards ng mga lalaki lalo na sa LOOKS department.

[chizmojo]

No.

Not really.

Different types of guys attract different types of HOT girls. They may not have a successful career or money but as I have mentioned in a previous post, they could have sense of humor, diskarte skills, bad boy etc. They can still maintain HIGH standards and preferences.

Actually kahit wala silang ipagmamalaki pwede pa din. If they get along with the girl and their personalities match each other, pwede na siya sagutin ng mga magagandang chick.

You said it yourself, based on your post it appears that you don't have the right diskarte or skills. Worse, maybe you have the money but then you really suck at attracting the girls you like. And then you reason out your high standards.

Maybe its time to shift the paradigm. Life begins at 40 so its okay to get out of the closet.

[Alpha_Green]

You said it yourself, based on your post it appears that you don't have the right diskarte or skills. Worse, maybe you have the money but then you really suck at attracting the girls you like. And then you reason out your high standards.

Maybe its time to shift the paradigm. Life begins at 40 so its okay to get out of the closet.

Shift in paradigm? No thanks. I choose not to.

[shadows217]

if i am to put my two cents in, i believe that in terms of attraction,both initial and retained, it all boils down to skills...

physical attraction takes place at the onset, but it's the set of skills that maintains the attraction for even a long time...

every person, albeit XX or XY, has certain set of characteristics that are hard wired within, these are our subtle bodily movements, our reaction towards attraction, that most of us, especially women are not totally aware of, because it is their subconscious that is making these movements. and all of us share these...

on another note, status may be reflected in several ways, money, power, social approval, etc...

for me the most important thing is how you perceive yourself...kung pangit ka na nga, pangit pa tingin mo sa sarili mo eh wala talagang mangyayari sayo.

[Alpha_Green]

for me the most important thing is how you perceive yourself...kung pangit ka na nga, pangit pa tingin mo sa sarili mo eh wala talagang mangyayari sayo.

Right, and part of that is not limiting yourself and your actions based on how you see yourself. Like for example 'liligawan ko lang yung mga babaeng hindi kagandahan kasi di naman ako gwapo o mayaman'. What kind of fucked up thinking is that????? Mga taong ganyan mag-isip at may defeatist mentality ay hindi aasenso sa buhay.

[shadows217]

true true...

i 'know' a few people, geeks tong mga toh...who can outplay the hunks inside the club...

it's all about having game...