Paano kapag ayaw ng magulang mo sa karelasyon mo?

[rumilbhoni]

Sana may magpost dito.

[zevil89]

depende. Kung nagaaral pa ako , nakikitira sa bahay ng parents ko at binibigyan pa ng allowance then stay as friends muna ako with my GF. Nakasalalay ka sa kanila the least you could do is respect their wishes.

Pero pag nagttrabaho na ako at may sariling income na cyempre i do what i want to do

[swondering5]

that has happened to me. umm... my ex's parents ayaw sakin. i didnt know at first of course. it was very stressful on him. when i found out i realized that was why he was stressed nga. his studies, school tas he always had to defend me pa to his parents.
Family blessing is very important to me and i would not want to disrupt a family;s harmony. when i found out about it, it was hard, but i broke up with him.
ayun masaya n cia *****. jaribee happy na.

[kk0203]

it depends dun sa karelasyon mo. kung kaya ka niyang panindigan sa magulang niya, eh di go for it. pero kung nagdadalawang isip pa siya iwanan mo na lang.

[decent]

tanong ko lang kapag ba nagbunga ng supling ang relasyon ninyo aayaw pa ba ang magulang? baka nga ipakasal ka pa nila..

[WolfcreekBabe]

basicaLLy, ang first question mo most LikeLy is "bakit?"

then y not ask your parents about that. and if you find their reasons rational enough, then go for their advice. walang parents na hindi nag iicp ng kng ano ang mas nakabubuti sa anak.

but if you find their reasons irrational, then pwd mo fight yung Love mo. as Long as sure ka sa ginagawa mo and never ever make mga bagay na aLam mong hindi mo pa kaya.

you and ur parents can talk about that. there's no better soLution than to have a sit-in, sincere taLk with them

[Simply Gorgeous]

ay FUTURE prob ko to. Pagnalaman ng parents ko na may anak na bF ko?

bAlaBag! ... patay kang bata ka

[pinya_ako24]

nangyari skin to before yon na nga iniwan ko sya kasi nag scandalo na *** mama nya sa boadinghouse sabi pa mayaman ba ako huhuhuhu at papakasal nya kami ng anak nya hayzzzzzzzz hirap maging mahirap

[cuddlygurl]

nangyari rin sa akin ito nung college ako, itinago ko na lang sa parents ko *** bf ko, ang alam nila wala na kami pero kami parin, pero hindi rin nagtagal kase mahirap din *** nagsisinungaling sa parents.

[userNameless]

you'll later realize na tama ang reason nila kung bakit ayaw nila sa karelasyon mo..

[starry_night]

Pambatang tanong ata ito ha If you're both working I don't think mahirap ipag-laban niya. At least alam nila na kaya ninyong buhayin *** isa't isa in case

[zevil89]

you'll later realize na tama ang reason nila kung bakit ayaw nila sa karelasyon mo..

i have to agree with this one. You'll realize it either when you break up or get/got someone pregnant

[baklita]

relasyon sa di kalaunan parang walang katiyakan o may nakikita
silang di kaaya-aya. wala namang parents ninais ipapasubo sa
di kanais-nais na relasyon ang anak.

kadalasan tama ang kutob o payo ng ating mga magulang. mas
nakikita nila ang buong picture habang tayo ay parati one-sided,
de vaah? de vaah?

nasaan ang bahay ni juan? saan? lol

aihihihi!!!

baklita

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[ishtep]

yung naging first bf ko ayaw ni mommy sa kanya or rather ayaw ng buong family ko sa kanya.. kawawa lang daw kasi ako in due time.. i have to think for myself din daw hindi lang yung feeling ang ine.entertain..but syempre at first i was hard-headed, pinakita ko na love ko yung guy then later on i've realized din na tama talaga sila.. i broke up with the guy a month after our anniv.. he understood me naman because he can see what's our situation..

and now yung recent guy whom i really love, nasa process of "knowing him" pa rin sila..they like the guy but they want to know more personally about him..& alam din naman nila na love ko yung guy..they're just taking care of me lang...

[mheng21]

this was happen to me, ayaw ng mom ko sa karelasyon ko, pero pinilit ko pa dihn ang gusto ko tinuloy ko pa din ang relasyon nmin, umabot pa nga kami 3 years weh,

but on the other hand nauwi din sa hiwalayan, *** yun nalamn ko na tma ang mom ko na wala ding magandang maidudulot sakin yung pakikipagrelasyon sa knya. sa una di mo marealize yun kasi nabubulagan ka ng pagmamahl sa knya but malalaman mo unti unti na di *** worth it.

hope this can help

[zevil89]

i understand parents and you'll understand their way of thinking too when you grow up. Kaya ayaw karamihan ng parents na magka BF daughter nila habang nagaaral pa kasi mga lalaki talaga , maloko mga yan (this coming from a guy) .

[alb_jo]

eh, what if gusto nga ng parents mo sa ka-relasyon mo pero ikaw, ayaw mo na?

[sannamagan]

Hay naku, at first I listened to what other folks had to say.

Nangyari tuloy, I was getting into relationships for the sake of pleasing my parents, uncles/aunts instead of pleasing me.

Finally, drew the line - it's my choice, it's my life, i'll take the responsibility for this relationship - she's my choice - whether they like her or not.

So when the usual dialogue about "if you don't follow us, wala kang mamanahin ni singko sentimos" came about - i just said i don't care if i don't inherit anything, my future wife and I will save on our own.

Though in fairness, my mom always had this thing about me as "not the marrying type".

[psychosonicindy]

my dad liked my SO, mom liked the ex-fiance




but the decision was ultimately mine

[zevil89]

pag gusto ng parents ko pero ayaw ko simple lang naman. Sabihin mo lang na "di ko type e"