My girlfriend's sister

[sillyme!]

Hello,

I have this dilemna, well it's had, about my sister's girlfriend. I think this is almost common to guys wherein you have a big crush on little sister.

It's a "had" because I stopped thinking about it for quite sometime now since I was caught texting her sweet nothings and calling her a few times by my girlfriend.

The problem is, sometimes the what ifs keep coming back to my mind especially when I look at her and she glances back. Like what's it like if we are together. There was this time when I was helping her doing the dishes (read: tons) and I heard her murmured "hay salamat natapos din, mahahalikan kita eh". I just said "ano?" pretending I didn't hear it but it was clear as daylight to me. But it never occured to me thinking of giving up my girlfriend for her.

So, anyone experienced this? What did you do?

Thanks!

[pokerbuff]

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[2424]

My ex has a hot sister, she is even more beautiful than my ex. She treats me well, but I didnt think that she likes me or whatsoever. To me thats is just being courteous to the bf of her sister.

As for your condition, I dont think sisters will fight over a man because that is a major sin for a family. Maybe she is just being nice and being nice is better than treating you like crap.

If you want to know if she really likes you, why not try to kiss her? If she kisses you back your theories about her might be correct. But if you recieve a slap on your face or a kick to your nuts, wake up and stop day dreaming about her.

[sillyme!]

pokerbuff,

Nothing like that dude. Though it will be wild come to think of it.

2424,

Yeah, that's why I don't think about it that much. But sometimes I do get jealous whenever I see her with her boyfriend.

I'm not assuming she likes me too. Even if she did, we both know "we" wouldn't happen.

I don't have any intention finding that out either. Kiss her? Oh man, like I got the nerve to do that.

[pokerbuff]

Yeah, no harm intended bro. It's a sticky situation. I guess all I can say is to use your head.

[baklita]

perhaps, she inadvertently felt comfortable with you for
uttering such line, but you seemed to have jumped into
a hasty conclusion. lalake talaga... pinapaandar agad ang
testosterone. no insinuation whatsoever. lol

there's no harm if you stand firm untempted, de vaah?
libido mo, hah!

aihihihi!!!

baklita

[sillyme!]

pokerbuff,

Which one? Hahahaha.

baklita,

Hmmm...even the closest of my girl friends don't utter those words to me. But then again, it might have been said in jest.

Yeah, I should keep my testosterone level in check. But I gotta admit, there are times I imagine myself in bed with her especially when I sleep over. You know, she, creeping into my bed. Ahahaha. Real naughty.

There is just in the term "hipag/would be hipag" that turns me on. Ahahah.

Ok, I've got to stop now.

Maybe when my girlfriend and I get married and have a place of our own, I can finally stop this thought.

[pokerbuff]

pokerbuff,

Which one? Hahahaha.

All I have to say is:

One will make you revered...

...The other will make you a legend.

[Agent Bill]

Hello, Sillyme!

I understand what you are into. I had that same situation before. Trying to see what's on the other side of the fence. It might be true that your girl's sister is way way hotter than your girlfriend but you still have to weigh things up.

1. Family is more important, imagine your sister's girlfriend introduced you to their family again as her bofriend. Even if you break up with your girlfriend now and waited for 5 years to court the sister, it's still feels awkward and the bitterness between you and tour ex are still there. The sisters might just be bitter with each other too, just like if your ex will be your bestfriend's gf in the future. Haven't you imagine if your girlfriend will not disclose all your dirty secrets to her sister?

2. The little girl has a boyfriend already. Eventhough the green light is somewhat on from a distant, how can you be so sure that she really likes you? Try to come closer and the red light might turn on.


Better weigh the consequences dude, iligo mo na lang yan o kaya imaginin mo na lang na ka do mo yung sister nya habang ka do mo yung gf mo!

I hope this enlightens you abit.

Agent Bill

[Jonga]

well i have this theory that if you like a person's quality, most probably you will also find it in her/his family

i love her sister, but not the same as how i love my gf

[sillyme!]

pokerbuff,

That's funny sh!t dude.

Agent Bill,

I hafta agree. But I'm not making any assumption that she likes me too.

Di ba ka kasalanan un if you're imagining someone when you're doing it with your girlfriend? Unfaithfulness maybe?

Thanks for the enlightenment.

jonga,

Is that so? Isn't it weird to have that feeling? You love two girls both under the same roof.

For girls/guys, how do you make out of this:
I attended the presentation in our church wherein the sister was part of a play. My girlfriend and her family didn't expect me to be there because I am to work that night. I sat at the back and then I saw the sister's friend whisper something to the sister as if telling I was there. She then looked back.

[Sta|ker]

dude all i can say the lil sis can be concluded as a teaser...

[batinks13]

^^And the little sister is looking dangerous..i might say that she's slightly "flirting" with you..she maybe sensing that you have a crush on her, who knows, malakas ang intuition ng babae..

[sillyme!]

hmm that got me thinking. Actually, I even asked her once if ever I would pursue her would she say yes. And I got a resounding yes.
This is of course only if her ate and I haven't met. Sort of a clean slate for both of us.

Damn am I a flirt or what. But I'm over it now.

Feels good to actually have shared this.

[pokerbuff]

Over it now huh? Are you really sure about that or you're just trying to convince yourself? Believe me, may feeling ka pa rin sa kanya, at mararamdaman mo yun pag nagkita uli kayo, o pag kayong dalawa lang uli.

Being attracted to someone is not like a faucet that you can turn on or off. It has to die a slow, agonizing death.

And no, you're not necessarily a flirt (and not that being a flirt is bad to begin with). So what? Both of you are simply attracted to each other. That's the most normal thing in the world.

What's not normal, is you thinking it's not normal. (eh?) let me simply it:



What's normally not normal is that normally you are thinking that normally it's not normal.




Understood??

[sillyme!]

^^ gotcha chief, loud and clear. 'Cept for the last line. What does it mean again? Hehe

Thanks!

[crazy4ken]

nakakailang naman yang dilemma mo. okay lang yung maging crush mo sis nya, but to have nasty thoughts about her?

eeww.

[sillyme!]

^^ kaya nga mam dilemna, so what's with the ewww?

If this stuff makes you go "ewwwwww", please refrain from posting thank you very much. You're not being helpful at all.

[baklita]

how silly can you be? ang dali mong mapikon. kanya-kanyang
reaction laang ng pex member yan. kung gusto mo ng tulong
punta ka mangumpisal sa confession booth. dika ata sports, noh!

ewwww!

aihihihi!!!

baklita

[tonio_d_monio]

There was this time when I was helping her doing the dishes (read: tons) and I heard her murmured "hay salamat natapos din, mahahalikan kita eh".

I think its her way of saying "thank you very much" with a bit of "crush".

Thats how i read it. Had something similar with my pamangkin -- she's like 20 yo and she would say something like "ang swerte naman ng tita ko, sarap mong sigurong halikan, sana makahanap din ako ng tulad mo" and a number of other situations and comments.

Obviously she says that when my wife is not around, but other than that its fairly harmless. Nothing wrong with having a crush, basta keep ur **** in ur pants and try as best na wag galawin