[MERGED] Pregnant or not?

[Sta|ker]

If you made love to someone but she hadn't felt an orgasm but yet yours cum out.. Will she be pregnant?

[Ira]

Will she be pregnant? I don't know. Can she get pregnant? Yes.

[deng2001]

doc ira is correct in saying that she can get pregnant kase where did you 'cum' ba? inside or out? pero kahit out there's a possibility. a girl not reaching orgasm does not have anything to do with getting pregnant...

[Sta|ker]

in... okay...

[crush_09]

My problem goes like this after having an intercourse with my bf..
I've got this problem that eating me inside.. it's our 2nd time ... and I'm afraid I get pregnant.. this happened last 2 days before my monthly period.. I'm not yet ready to get pregnant.. I'm nervous.. how does a woman get pregnant ba.. do i need to take any contrceiptics everytime we make it? pls help

[Ira]

If you're afraid of getting pregnant, then you either don't do it yet or you be smart and use contraceptives. It's obvious that you aren't emotionally nor psychologically ready yet to have sex and to be responsible for the consequences, so I hope you take heed. It only takes a single sexual episode and only one sperm out of millions of sperms present per semenal discharge to fertilize your egg and to get you pregnant, so you have to be careful every single time you have sex. Either insist that your partner wear a condom even before you start fooling around (not when he's already about to penetrate), or you take control of sex by seeing an ob-gyne so that you can be examined properly and you can be started on other types of contraceptives.

[crush_09]

reply lang ako mam Ira, I'm just afraid of the fact that I could get pregnant dahil mamagalit ang parents ko if ever, I'm afraid to go to an gynecologist for sure my mudra would refer me to her friend.. my mudra is very concervative.. she does'nt even have an idea that I'm having sex.. Is there a posibility that I can get pregnant that easy.. eventhought we use withdrawal...I love my bf.. and he does also.. pinagiisipan naming maigi ang ganitong bagy.. kaya di madalas kaya lang pagnagiingat bka.. di rin effective.. meron bang tlagang posibilty na mangyari un.. it's just happened 2 days after my period.. actually it's just last night..
what is fertile? pls help

[Ira]

You can get pregnant as easily as the next female. You can be fertile at any time of the month, even when you have your period. Fertile periods are times when your ovary releases an egg. If you don't want to see an ob-gyne, insist that your boyfriend wear a condom before he even penetrates.

[crush_09]

so if that's the case when should take a pregnancy test..
pls reply...

[Ira]

During times that you suspect or you are worried that you are pregnant, just buy a pregnancy test kit (any brand would do). There will be no early sign or symptom that will tell you with 100% assurance that you are on the way.

[Lolita]

I too am sexually active but I don't want to get pregnant. My boyfriend and I always use a condom and we try to do it after my period.

I have heard that the chances of getting pregnant 3 days after your menstruation is low. Kasi the blood has already flushed out the egg from the uterus. The critical days are the 14 days before your period kasi these are the days that you might ovulate.

I am having a problem with the cycle because there are a lot of 'myths' surrounding it. A friend of mine said that she saw a segment on Discovery Health stating that it is VERY HARD to get pregnant because the egg cell can only be fertilized on one day in a month. So chambahan lang daw yun. It's like she or the program is saying that the woman's egg can only be fertilized by a sperm for only 24 hours. After 24 hours, the egg will still be there but I guess it cannot be fertilized anymore because it has already 'expired'. Is this true?

With the CONDOM, I have read some statistics through the internet that 3 out of 100 women can still get pregnant even if they used a condom. Why is this so? Hindi ba reliable ang condom?

Another thing, where can I buy spermicides? They say that it is better to use a condom and a spermicide para super safe daw. Do I still need a prescription or is available over the counter?

Hope somebody can answer my questions.

[Ira]

The sperm is viable around 48-72 hours, so let's say your ovary releases an egg within the viable period, you can get pregnant. Anyway, as you know, it only takes one single sexual act to get pregnant, so I wouldn't risk it.

3 out of 10 women get pregnant even when their partners use condoms partly because they don't know how to use it. Condoms are placed onto the penis upon arousal before penetration, not when the male is already about to reach orgasm. Used properly, condoms have a good batting average. Check out previous pregnancy threads for the stats.

There are condom brands which have spermicides admixed with the lubricants. Just check out the label, they're indicated. You can get them over-the-counter.

[White Shadow]

Ganito kasi: my friend (girl) was consulting with me, but i didn't know what to tell her about her situation...

Situation nya: What if a guy would hold his penis in his hand and in the process get a few drops of fluid on his fingers (but hindi pa siya umaabot sa orgasm)... then he would use the same fingers and put it inside the girl's vagina? What are the possibilities na magiging preggy ang girl?? (Could you give me a number percentage just to give my friend a clear picture?) I'm worried about her kasi eh, and she's worried just as well... she's in the middle of her period when that happened sabi nya...

Could you please explain doc...

[PAOUEE]

definitely nope ... right dr. ira?... the only way for a girl to get preggy is sexual intercourse & if a sperm is injected in the female's uterus thru science... but not with the situation u have mentioned...

[burn_stampede]

i agree with PAOUEE a girl can not get preggy without sexaul intercourse but with the wonder of science it can be done with the injection of sperm!!

[Ira]

While the chances are very slim to nil, a female can get pregnant that way. You can innoculate sperm into the vaginal tract that way.

[:Þ]

You should ask virgin Mary about this problem.

[jopert]

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so that means ejaculating "on" the vagina is still dangerous because the semen can still seep(spelling?) in?

oh my God!

[vitamin C]

We did it. Me and my girlfriend did it, without any protection. I inserted mine, after a few strokes (even before i felt ejaculating), i pulled it off. When I touched the tip of my thingie, it was dry -- i think it's (maybe) a sign that nothing came out of me.

(I guess) It was her dry season when we did it, because her thingie is dry, even before sexual stimulation or kissing, or similar to that.

What do you think, Doc? Do you think we're safe?

Thanks!

[Ira]

You can secrete semen even before orgasm. And a woman's getting pregnant does not depend on her state of arousal or non-arousal. Her chances of getting pregnant would be about the same as having unprotected sex.