groom at the bride shower party?

[alstar]

hi gurls, my college friends are planning to have a shower party before my wedding this october. is it ethical to invite my fiance to attend?

[wanna23]

hindi yata pwede un kasi party ng bride lang yun eh.di magplan din ng stag party ang groom.

[ninjathet0312]

Hey, anong masasabi ninyo sa aberdeen court? is it worth to have the wedding reception there? Anybody who have experienced or attended a wedding there? how was the food? and the set-up/ambiance? just want some feedback and advice from anyone. thanks.

parang maling post ito.... gawa ka ng sariling thread para mas madaming magreply...

[ninjathet0312]

IMHO, a bridal shower should only be for girls and so is the stag party. can u imagine how a groom would feel if all the ladies around her are talking about their kikay things, girly night and out and ex-BFs? on how the invited ladies would hold back their kikay thoughts knowing that there is "somebody" who might find the topic as "alang kwenta'? (come on, most men dont appreciate kikay things) the same goes with the groom's stag party. not only that i find it awkward but i also find it a little inappropriate. but if u want, you could just have a despedida de solatera for both the bride and the groom where all your circle of friends could be there...i know that despedida de solteras are just for the brides (kaya nga SOLTERA EH) but there's no harm naman in having this celebrated by the couple..

[rabbaddal]

The bride to be would and her female friends also have to inhibit themselves from doing naughty stuff and miss out on the "one last hurrah".

[agentm]

what about gay friends? is it ok to invite them as well?

[anne_373]

im not yet married but if time comes i would rather have it as in joint nalang. his friends and my friends together!!! at least iwas disgrasya din. hehe. and i guess mas masaya pag together. pwedeng after several games or activity then separate na pero *** tipong within the vicinity parin.