what would you do?

[cecill]

What would you do if this happened to you?

Your bf told you that he will accompany his son (yes, may son na siya) to a recollection in baguio over the weekend. He told you this on his own. When he volunteered that information you were appreciative of his gesture to tell you where he would be over the weekend. He even told you when he would be leaving and when he would be back in the city.

Then out of nowhere you came upon the information that there will be a recollection but it won't be over the weekend...sa Monday pa...and it won't be in Baguio...sa school lang ng bata.

What will you do? Obviously you were lied to...how will you confront the guy?

[cocoy_01]

definitely confront him.. get his side.. hmmm.. from your story, sablay and date and place ng recollection.. kanino kaya siya makikipag-recollection?

[cecill]

may kutob ako...with his biking buddies. i tried calling him just to listen to his background and yun nga...i heard his friends in the background. Nag bike trail sila...ang di ko maintindihan kung bakit kailangan pang magsinungaling....

[meteora]

siguro, in the past, may idea na sya ng you don't approve of it. But either way, it's wrong...so yeah, just confront him and have a heart to heart talk with him. He doesn't need to lie to you.

Mag aral ka na rin kaya mag bike para kasama mo sya hahahahaha...

[purpleshadow]

Actually it happens 2 me a couple of times...

1. d nya inaamin pg andun *** bst friend nya s haws nla
2. on one particular day I know gumimik *** with his boss and co.. pro he lied 2 me sbi nya hndi *** mkkisama s drinking spree nung group.. mg jjoin *** pro d iinom, pro kinabukasan mskit ang ulo...
3. some events n d ko n msydo maalala...

explanation:
1. He knows n naiinis ako s knya pg alam ko n andun *** bst friend nya s haws nla kc tgal2 nya mg reply s mga txt ko and feeling ko d *** msydo ng ppay attention s conversation nmn thru txt.. (every nyt kc un kc *** habit nmn)
2. He knows n mggalit ako pg nalaman ko uminom *** kc bawal s knya un eh..

I think he doesn't mean n inisin **** ko... I think my mga circumstances *** **** n d maiwasan.

Inaway ko *** **** kc ms gs2 ko n mlaman **** *** 22o kysa mg cnungaling p... I hope n d n nya uulitin un ulit...

[Leih1234]

I have to ask. . .

Can you tell me why he lied when he is just with his friends? Do you have strict rules about going out of town with his friends?

Second, how did you know about the real date of the recollection?

[sabaybunot]

may kutob ako...with his biking buddies. i tried calling him just to listen to his background and yun nga...i heard his friends in the background. Nag bike trail sila...ang di ko maintindihan kung bakit kailangan pang magsinungaling....

have you ever stopped him from being with his friends before? like made him feel guilty whenever he'd be out drinking with em or threw a tantrum and dialogues like"siguro mas gusto mo kasama barkada mo kesa sa akin noh?" if you answetred yes to any of my examples then i'm guessin you also got the answer to your own questions regarding why he would lie to you..


this is something some women will not understand.. there would be times that we would rather be with our buds than with our SOs... it does'nt mean we love our GFs/wives less but it just means we just want to have a good time with some friends.

i may be jumpin the gun here but ..

just muh 2 cents folks

[shychic]

Definitely confront him about it. Compromise about certain things in your relationship. It's ok to have some time off from each other. There are certain needs that only friends could fill. Believe me. throw a little pinch of understanding na rin

[PeRsIaN_KiTtY25]

oo naman no! kung *** xang ginagawang kalokohan bat kelangan pa nyang gumawa ng kwento leche **!