It happens, when two people of opposite genders are best friends, one of them is bound to fall in love with the other.
Hinde naging issue sa kin na best friend ng boyfriend ko babae. Ako din naman best friend ko lalaki eh. I didn't even think much of it.
Before naging kami ng boyfriend ko, he came from a bitter breakup with his ex that he was a complete wreck to that point that he drank so much and was basically depressed about a lot of things.
Most of his friends advised against him getting into a relationship just 8 months after he broke up with his ex kasi nga he was a complete wreck coming out from it. But when his other friends met me, ok naman and they like me and the talk that a relationship with me was a bad idea stopped.
With his best friend naman, siyempre I was curious and I wanted to meet her kaso she didn't want to meet with me. Sabi ko fine. Di ako mamimilit bahala na boyfriend ko when he'll want me to meet her.
9 months na kami ng boyfriend ko. One day my boyfriend told me he was never talking to his best friend again. I found out that she was totally against our relationship that 3 weeks earlier, she and him went on a complete row on my basis. She kept saying that he ought to break up with me etc. etc. and that being with me was a bad idea. I've never even met her and she has no idea how I am and for her to say such things was downright uncalled for. Anyway, my boyfriend defended me and chose me over her and told her that he's not going to talk to her anymore. She then threw all the presents he gave her through the years at him.
Listening to the story, it was then I realized that she was truly in love with him. Who wouldn't be, sobrang ok ng boyfriend ko.
Yung ibang kaibigan ng bf ko hanggang konting hirit lang about him not to be in a relationship. Ganun din ako with my best friend, there was one ex I didn't like pero hanggang hirit lang. Pero I didn't go all out wacko and demand that they break up and throw gifts back.
I told my boyfriend. You know, she's in-love with you which is why she acted like that. He said...Yes, I realized that too but I only love her as a friend and if I really wanted to go out with her, I had that chance before even meeting you but I can only see myself as being her best friend and nothing more and if she can't respect the fact that it's you I love and I want to be with you, I don't want anything to do with her even if she is my best friend.
Today after 3 weeks of non-contact, she called him and acted as if nothing's happened.
Hinde ko inexpect na ma-bother about this. Dati-rati kapag kausap ng bf ko yung bestfriend niya, NR lang ako. Ngayon, ewan ko ba.
Nakita ng boyfriend ko yung change in expression ko during her call to him. Siyempre he asked what was wrong. Masaklap kasi, I am that easy to read. I didn't want to say anything. I don't feel any jealousy towards her pero I feel angry that she'd go through her way to meddle into a relationship and fight with him just because she didn't get her way. Kaso I don't want to be some sort of villain by demanding that he never talk to her kasi nga best friend niya. I mean nangyari na sa kin with my best friend. Inaway ako ng ex-gf niya and I didn't talk to him for several months until nakipag-peace best friend ko sa kin. Pero I'm still here as his friend and the ex-gf is gone from his life. Para sa kin kasi, never come between your boyfriend as his friends and vice-versa.
I do trust my boyfriend and I know walang mangyayari sa kanila. Like I said noon pwedeng maging sila pero talagang hanggang kaibigan lang trato niya sa bestfriend niya. And in my case ganun din kami ng best friend ko, hanggang kaibigan lang kami...
He says he won't talk to her anymore to make me happy. Kaso it's not making me happy either, makes me feel worse. Kaso I can't hide the fact na naiinis ako sa best friend niya and knowing na in-love siya sa boyfriend ko isn't helping.
Sorry kung mahaba...I just needed to vent. Ewan ko ba. I'm trapped in a situation where I want him to stop being friends with her na hinde. It's a conflicting emotion. I feel I should be more refined than this to be this petty but I can't stop feeling angry.