Praning Stories...praning ba talaga or not?

[samantha_jones]

Well kwento kayo ng mga parning stories niyo about sa bf/gf niyo. Kasi ako naprapraning talaga ako ngayon.

My bf is training at a call center right now. Super busy niya because he really wants this job. Masaya siya when he makes me kuwento about the things that happen at work. Anyway I dunno but lately I've been staring at my ceiling and thinking about him. If he's with a girl. Baka may girl blah blah you know mga ganyan. Wala naman gaanong factors for me to think na ganun nga except:

- that he doesn't text me as much lalo na pag nasa training na sila okay lang yun I get it shempre bawal diba?

- I asked if we can spend time this weekend. Sabi niya sa susunod na daw kasi he wants to rest daw and he doesn't have much money kasi la pa daw sweldo. Pag may pera na daw siya saka kami lalabas. E kaya lang pwede naman magspend time ng hindi gumagastos mashado ah.

Well yun lang nababaliw na ako I dont want these things in my head. So praning ba o hindi?

[KaRa_14]

wahahha..ako den napapraning na ata...pero wait lang...boy poh ako ah..ginamit ko lang yung account ng sis ko...so here it goes...kc..*** girl ko..may crush siya sa isa sa mga studentsniya...its during our school' student teacher's week...3rd yr hs kaming 2 na girl ko..and *** crush niyang guy is 1st year...lagi siyang sinusundan ang everything...i think he has a crush on her din..tapos...simula nung nakilala niya *** guy na yun...less than 10 text messages na lang ang natatanggap ko from her..which is very unusual kc dati more or less 150 text messages ang natatnggap ko from her..tapos madalang na rin siya tumawag sakin...then i asked her kung naguusap sila ng guy sa fon..and she said yes...i asked her how many times a wik..then she answered na that wik daw...5 times nah.,..pero ako nung week na yon...isang beses palang niya ako tinawagan..and she said na freinds lang daw ***...hay...then...that guy is good in playing drums...sobrang kinikilig talagah siya everytime na naririrnig niya maglay ng drums *** guy na yon..and 1 tym...on our way home from school...pinatugtog *** song na tinugtog nung crush niya nung battle of the bands nung skul namen..and sobrnag kinikilig siya..i was irritated that tym./.bakit ganon?hay...basta,,

[blue_soldier]

Mahirap talaga pag ang ka relasyon mo is taga call center... THey have their own world.. tapos pag holiday dito ndi sa kanila holiday pa etc.

"E kaya lang pwede naman magspend time ng hindi gumagastos mashado ah.'

Yah, tama nga.. Kami nga eh kahit *** 69 lang na value meal ok na KKB pa basta mahalaga mag kasama kami.

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[ikan_pari]

samantha_jones... pagod lang yun. wag ka mapraning... baka naninibago lang sa work nya sched nya. kapag tumagal na puro ganyan lang ang nagyayari saka ka siguro mag isip. hehehe... luto ka nalang.

praning... praning... may praning sa paligid... KURIPOT PA!

[baby`bangski]

pareho *** ng friend ko.. *** bf nya nagwowork sa call center.. eh andami pa namang sex stories tungkol sa call center at kung ano ano pang tsismis, kaya lalo syang napraning.. kaya ayun nag-aaway sila ng dahil sa kapraningan..

tiwala lang un sa isa`t-isa.. ^_^

[samantha_jones]

ikan: I was gonna say nga di pwede barbero dito! hehe

Anyway, I trust naman my guy...hyperactive lang siguro utak ko and i wanna know na hindi ako nagiisa. I also want to know if I'm just being silly.

[sabaybunot]

here's my POV.

samantha, yes. praning ka. you have absolutely no empirical data that your guy is cheating. he's busy and tired. you're bored and missing him thats all.


and KaRa_14 or whatever your name really is, you're not paranoid, you're blind. you just lost your gf to this drummer kid and you don't realize it. my advice is talk with her and put your foot down. thell her you don't like it and set things straight. if she insists that everything thats happening is "nothing" and makes it appear that you're the one who are imagining things.. drop er like a hot potato.

[Athrun340]

wahahha..ako den napapraning na ata...pero wait lang...boy poh ako ah..ginamit ko lang yung account ng sis ko...so here it goes...kc..*** girl ko..may crush siya sa isa sa mga studentsniya...its during our school' student teacher's week...3rd yr hs kaming 2 na girl ko..and *** crush niyang guy is 1st year...lagi siyang sinusundan ang everything...i think he has a crush on her din..tapos...simula nung nakilala niya *** guy na yun...less than 10 text messages na lang ang natatanggap ko from her..which is very unusual kc dati more or less 150 text messages ang natatnggap ko from her..tapos madalang na rin siya tumawag sakin...then i asked her kung naguusap sila ng guy sa fon..and she said yes...i asked her how many times a wik..then she answered na that wik daw...5 times nah.,..pero ako nung week na yon...isang beses palang niya ako tinawagan..and she said na freinds lang daw ***...hay...then...that guy is good in playing drums...sobrang kinikilig talagah siya everytime na naririrnig niya maglay ng drums *** guy na yon..and 1 tym...on our way home from school...pinatugtog *** song na tinugtog nung crush niya nung battle of the bands nung skul namen..and sobrnag kinikilig siya..i was irritated that tym./.bakit ganon?hay...basta,,

mukang masayang gawan ng movie to ah lol ..

My tip and only tip for you : bugbogin mo .. putolin mo kamay para di na makapagtext at drums lol

ako ata naprapraning ngayon walang magawa hehe

[meteora]

ikan: I was gonna say nga di pwede barbero dito! hehe

Anyway, I trust naman my guy...hyperactive lang siguro utak ko and i wanna know na hindi ako nagiisa. I also want to know if I'm just being silly.

yup...you're just being silly...in other words...napa praning ka na nga...
c'mon..you have no proof yet... maybe he's just burned out.... it's a new experience for him so maybe he's still adjusting to it... and perhaps, he wants to balance out his time between his job/training and his personal time with you. Hindi mo naman kailangan i-expect na he should give you all the attention all the time.

[RosaLia]

napa-praning?.. pasali nga dito sa thread na ito..

haaaaaaaaaay!..naku nakaka-praning ang trabaho napupunta lang lahat ang suweldo ko sa mga Bills.. ang dami ko kasing cars.. doon lahat napupunta sa car Insurance ko ehh.. nakaka-praning talaga.


RosaLia

[samantha_jones]

Hahaha mahirap nga yan rosalia dahil ako din pag walang pera naprapraning! Haha

Thank you thank you all for making me realize how silly I am pero still...can't help it.

I dont expect naman that all of his time will be for me lang...pero OA yung time niya sa work...

[ikan_pari]

^ikaw samantha_jones ha... hihingi ka ng advice tapos sasabihin mo cant help it! nakoh!!! nahawa ka sa isang certain pexer no??? sya din minsan lang sila nagkikita ng "gf" nya... pero may sched na daw sila ngayon... nyehehehehehehehehehehe!!!

[samantha_jones]

Hahahahahaha nyah wag ka naman ganyan!!! Ayaw kooo!!!

Anyway kakatawa so in my ka-praningan I browsed a certain girls profile sa friendster...pero I forgot to turn on my view profiles anonymously setting so pag nagcheck siya ng friendster niya malamang nandun ako sa who's viewd me page!!! Argh!

[The Delorian]

samantha...naku, matuto kang makinig sa mga instincts mo...may sinasabi sayo ang puso't isipan mo na dapat mong pakinggan.

there is a reason for you to fear, for one, marami talagang temptation sa call center, and you won't be able to know this kapag hindi ka oriented sa industry.

it's true na pagod mostly ang boyfriend mo, not to mention the fact na baliktad na ang oras ng mundo niya, but it is also true na sa call center industry, hindi uso ang salitang "Don't sh*t in your own backyard.".

being paranoid is really never a solution, siguro magsimula kang mag imbestiga. Usually, ang babae, pag may kutob, tama....

[zEraTuL_25]

hirs a gud one.. my gf's been whinnin about how come i seem to doubt her all the time... she's rili not the dubious type. ako kasi first howe nya, blah blah blah.. and then all of a sudden she says she got no fubu and no other man aside from me para maging ganun ako kapraning. i guess i rili am coz i started wondering how come alam na nya yun meaning ng fubu when she's the type hu hasnt thought of lust and the sort kasi she wud always change the topic "dati" pag may pagka-lecherous na dating ko (its diffrent now anyway)

[ikan_pari]

samantha...naku, matuto kang makinig sa mga instincts mo...may sinasabi sayo ang puso't isipan mo na dapat mong pakinggan.

there is a reason for you to fear, for one, marami talagang temptation sa call center, and you won't be able to know this kapag hindi ka oriented sa industry.

it's true na pagod mostly ang boyfriend mo, not to mention the fact na baliktad na ang oras ng mundo niya, but it is also true na sa call center industry, hindi uso ang salitang "Don't sh*t in your own backyard.".

being paranoid is really never a solution, siguro magsimula kang mag imbestiga. Usually, ang babae, pag may kutob, tama....

may point sya samantha_jones... tignan mo nalang ang example ni b_s... really... diba? tira dito tira doon... tira sa janitor, tira sa guard, sa kasabay sa elevator, pati sa magtataho sa kanto!!! kaya kailangan alert ka... wag praning kind of alert, but alert pa rin!

[ikan_pari]

hirs a gud one.. my gf's been whinnin about how come i seem to doubt her all the time... she's rili not the dubious type. ako kasi first howe nya, blah blah blah.. and then all of a sudden she says she got no fubu and no other man aside from me para maging ganun ako kapraning. i guess i rili am coz i started wondering how come alam na nya yun meaning ng fubu when she's the type hu hasnt thought of lust and the sort kasi she wud always change the topic "dati" pag may pagka-lecherous na dating ko (its diffrent now anyway)

sabi ko na nga ba e... as i said in your thread... makulit ka. in truth ha, your girlfriend isnt the one whining. you are the one whining sa kanya... siguro lagi ka nagseselos saka napaka possesive mo...

[chipmunks_2]

hmmm... working at a call center huh? naku! mahirap nga yan.. aside from the fact na iba ang time ng work nya sa work mo(assuming graveyad shift sya.. kung hindi ngayon since training nga sya, there will come a time na magiging ganun nga ang shift nya in the future) and that would mean male-lessen ang time nyo together, marami pang chances na magiging super close sya sa mga ka-team nya. Lalo pa ata kitang tinatakot.. hehe.. sori ha.

Pero, depende naman kasi sa inyong dalawa yan e.. Kung talagang nagmamahalan kayo, walang makapaghihiwalay sa inyo.. makakagawa kayo ng paraan for every problem ul be having.. now, tungkol dun sa pagkapraning mo, i think normal lang yan e.. since bago pa nga *** *** bf mo sa work nya, ur unsure pa kasi sa work place nya, di mo pa kasi kilala mga ka-close na ofism8s nya(since baka *** pa nga syang ka-close masyado dun coz nagttraining pa *** sya), and naninibago ka pa coz parang feeling mo he doesn't give u time na now dat he has work na.

Ang advice ko *** sa yo, kung tlgang mahal mo sya, hold on *** po.. hayaan mo muna syang mag-adjust sa new work nya.. just be there for him.. pero, demand time pa rin if u think na nagkukulang na sya sa yo..

Kasi, alam mo i had a somewhat same experience as what ur having ryt now e.. my bf then wanted to take masteral so nung time na nag-aaral sya for his entrance exam and at the start of his classes sa lasal, i totally supported him kahit na napapraning na rin ako sa kakaisip why di na nya ko masyado tinetext and why di na kami nakakalabas masyado after ofis hrs.. saka sinabihan ko na rin sya before pa sya mag-exam dun e na sana mabalanse nya *** time nya sa work nya, sa studies nya, and sa kin kasi kung hindi, sabhin na nya ngayon pa *** para di na *** masyado masaktan pero sabi nya kaya daw nya.. pero, ayun hindi pala.. so sa bandang huli i gave up na rin sa knya.. i didn't fell i was loved e.. i tried to understand he has other things on his mind pero i had needs din **** saka i was hurt that i wasn't one of his top priorities so i had to let him go.. Oh well!! Enuf of that..

[samantha_jones]

Okay update lang... the past 2 days he hasn't been texting me at all. At first hinihintay ko pero kagabi nagtext na ako sa kanya. I kept on asking him what's wrong. Pero di naman niya sinasagot yung question...I called him na nga pero he was in a hurry to put the phone down nasa biyahe kasi (which is hindi naman bago sakin, ayaw niya mawalang ng fone maganda kasi fone niya) and when we said goodbye he didnt even say he loves me which he always does and I texted him "You didn't even tell me you love me." Nagreply siya sabi niya "sorry nasa biyahe ako I luv u!" Tapos I asked him if we can go out on saturday ang have breakfast buffet sabi niya kung okay lang ba next next sat kasi super bz week.Nagplease ako...sabi ko sandali lang...in the end sabi niya OK pero diko alam if okay as in aalis na kami. Anyway kaninang morning I asked him why he's been cold to me lately...sabi niya "hindi ko din alam. Bakit ganun ba tingin mo bub?" Bub is endearment namin. Tapos...sabi ko "Oo e. Anong bang nagawa ko? Aware ka rin pala sa kinkilos mo. Why do you do it? It's breaking my heart." Sabi niya..."bsta bub. ndi ko alam. l8ly kasi parang ayaw ko magisip mashado mas gusto ko pang matulog nalang ng matuloh. wala ka naman nagawa e. ayoko lang talaga muna magisip ng tungkol saten"

Now the question is...anong ibig sabihin nun? The only thing I can think of is he does not love me anymore.

[rabbaddal]

Anyway kaninang morning I asked him why he's been cold to me lately...sabi niya "hindi ko din alam. Bakit ganun ba tingin mo bub?" Bub is endearment namin. Tapos...sabi ko "Oo e. Anong bang nagawa ko? Aware ka rin pala sa kinkilos mo. Why do you do it? It's breaking my heart." Sabi niya..."bsta bub. ndi ko alam. l8ly kasi parang ayaw ko magisip mashado mas gusto ko pang matulog nalang ng matuloh. wala ka naman nagawa e. ayoko lang talaga muna magisip ng tungkol saten"

Now the question is...anong ibig sabihin nun? The only thing I can think of is he does not love me anymore.

If this way he's been acting matters so much to you, then it's time for you to lay down your cards by letting him know your greivance and coming up with specific ways to remedy the situation. Don't ask him what the matter is anymore, and don't settle for open-ended answers. Just tell him that you're not happy with the way things are and ask him to either do something about it. Otherwise, it's time to take a look at the sustainability of your relationship.