may karapatan ba kong mapraning?

[*+~ quiet lady ~+*]

nagbrobrowse ako ng myspace profiles. i saw a comment from one of the close friends of my bf. *** close friend na un ay super like niya dati pero the girl daw only saw him as a friend. pero there was a time in his life that he called the girl his soulmate. pero now daw, they're just friends. nothing more. chaka love na love daw niya ko and proven naman yun sa pinagdaanan namin these past few months (which i agree to)

*** comment na iniwan ng girl sa page ng bf ko is parang hello lang. so, no harm *** part na un. pero, dahil sa pagkaintriga ko, i checked the girl's profile. then i checked one of the pictures and *voila* may comment sha dun which said ... "Hot pic! Sexy!" ... nung nabasa ko naisip ko na "aaaaannnnnooooooo!!?!?!??!?!?!? "

tanong ... may karapatan ba kong mapraning? i mean, i'm not out of line or anything? dapat ko ba sha iconfront? sobra lang ba kong selosa?

girls, ok lang ba sa inyo magiwan ang bf niyo ng mga ganyang tipo ng comments sa iba? (at lalu na if like niya dati un?)

guys, dapat ba mathreaten ang girl if nagiiwan kayo ng ganyang comment?

[chenchie]

Naku naku ha! Hehe E kelan pa ba ang msg na yun? Recently *** ba or tagal na? E dba mga boys ganun naman talaga eh kaya wag ka na mapraning. As long as feel mo and alam mong love ka nya dpat wag ka magworry. Normal *** na sabhin ng guys un kahit may gfs na ***. Pero at least d naman acknowledge nung gurl *** cnabe nya dba.

[baklita]

ako rin isip bata... at selosa... lahat ng may hitsura ay soulmate ko... si tom cruise (o cruiser) , si brad pitt (o ipitt), si james bond (o turban), si piolo pascual (o paulo-ulo), si ara mina (o tabana), si elizabeth ramsey... wana ko sey!

aihihihi!!!

baklita

[lalaki ni hudas]

patingin muna na "Hot pic! Sexy!"

[ayane]

patingin muna na "Hot pic! Sexy!"

pwede! tignan natin kung sexy nga!

but personally, if it happened in the past, i ignore it. i don't even mind if he calls this or that pic of a girl, sexy or hot! i'll actually be flattered (especially if the girl he calls 'hot' is really 'HOT'! since he knows how to appreciate beauty and he picked me!

[hell-ga]

ako siguro mapapraning pero ok lang un mas lalo nlng ako mgiging confident in loving ny bf para walang mang agaw sa kanya noh... bsta di k dapt mapranning or magng super selosa bka you will drive ur bf away.that's it.

[schmoozer]

quiet_lady, ok lang naman na mag-admire ng ibang tao. its normal, guys pa. as long as he's not doing anything to concretize (i.e., nahuli mo ba sya na nagtetext ng sweet nothings sa girl, lumalabas ba silang dalawa lang, etc.) that admiration sa girl na yun, then i don't think dapat ka mapraning. Kung naging faithful naman sya sa yo, its not fair to think something like that. Give him the benefit of the doubt. hold on sa sinabi nya syo na love na love ka nya. just make him love you more. pero open one eye na rin, just in case, magmaganda yung girl!

[basketballero]

quiet_lady,ok lang un baka naman matagal na rin *** comment nung bf mo dun sa girl.i agree with schmoozer...make him love u more na *** and better din ***** to observe pero wag lang *** tipong paranoid ka na *** tipong kahit wala naman dapat ipagselos e nagseselos ka.wag ma-insecure icpin mo lang na mas better ka dun sa girl,dba gf ka nya ngayn?so it means mahal ka nun at di *** isa.=)

[pnay808]

agree ako sa lahat.hayaan mo muna.dedmahin mo muna yun nabasa mo.babaw pa kasi yun para magisip ka ng kung ano sa bf mo.

[canard]

tama sila tignan mo yung date... baka nga naman nung crush pa nya yung girl kaya nasulat yun. liit na bagay lang yan... now pag recent lang yung comment nya, it could be naman na dahil friends nga sila. diba? minsan ganun e. wag ka ma insecure... kung nagbago treatment sayo ng bf mo saka ka nalang magtaka...

[*+~ quiet lady ~+*]

the comment was this weekend lang ... either saturday or sunday. kaya lalu nagpantig *** mata ko!! but you guys might be right. pero at one point in his life, he actually referred to her as "the one" / "soulmate" ... is that something i should be threatened about? i saw that soulmate thing nung june ata ... mejo kakameet pa lang namin nun. so, i tried not to care at that time. pero now, iba na ang setup.

canard di naman nagiiba *** treatment sha. same pa din. mejo sweeter ng konti.

baklita ... natawa ko sa post mo. wagi!

ayane ... thanks for that, i never looked at it that way. actually, the girl is pretty talaga. chaka maappeal ... kaya mejo napag-argh ako sa comment. but now that you put it that way, dapat nga sigurong maflatter din ako. ahaha.

schmoozer chenchie hell-ga pnay808 basketballero ... thanks you guys. so far, he hasn't done anything to make me doubt him. sobrang paranoid lang ako. sana nga di ko sha madrive away with the kapraningan. pano ba maggetover ng kapraningan?!?!?!?!?!

[pnay808]

simple lang,isipin mo yun positive na pwedeng mangyari,hindi yun negative gaya ng naisip mo na baka mawala sya sayo mapunta dun sa sinasabi nyang "soulmate" nya.isipin mo lang yun sabi ni ayane,at mawawala yan kapraningan mo sa bf mo.kasi sa totoo lang,wala din **** akong nakikitang problema since sabi mo nga,yun treatment sayo ng bf mo hindi **** nagbago at napapakita **** nya sayo na mahal ka nya.

[meteora]

guys, dapat ba mathreaten ang girl if nagiiwan kayo ng ganyang comment?

that's up to you. why do you even need to feel that in the first place? You've already won over the so called "hot pic-sexy" girl, right?
instead of focusing on that girl, focus instead on how to make your bf feel that he is important to you so he won't take you for granted. small things like that are sometimes the cause of breakups so don't get too paranoid.

[*+~ quiet lady ~+*]

wow ... therapeutic pala ang PEx. you guys have been so helpful. kumakalma na puso ko.

[schmoozer]

quiet lady, isipin mo na lang na he chose to court you instead of the so-called soulmate of his. that means, mas lamang pa rin ang beauty mo, o diba? guys will always be guys. best efforts lang sa lahat para smooth sailing ang relationship. goodluck!

[radiskull0415]

baka appreciative lang **** ang bf mo saka comment lang **** un at ***** naman e wala silang attachment..

sabi mo pretty *** girl at ma appeal e baka naman na insecure ka lang, relax ka lang, as long na tingin mo e super mahal ka ng bf mo ikaw ang pinaka maganda para sa kanya at walang makakatapat nyan.

Have faith and trust on your bf but still be observant....

[*+~ quiet lady ~+*]

quiet lady, isipin mo na lang na he chose to court you instead of the so-called soulmate of his. that means, mas lamang pa rin ang beauty mo, o diba? guys will always be guys. best efforts lang sa lahat para smooth sailing ang relationship. goodluck!

true ... haay.

radiskull0415 ... mejo nga nainsecure ako. but last night, i talked to him. sinabi ko na mejo nairita kong makita *** comment. we had a super long discussion at suma tutal ... sabi niya, mas dapat sha mapraning sa akin coz of what happened sa past naming 2. pero alam daw niya kung nakanino heart niya ... kahit ano daw mangyari .. ako pa din daw love niya. di daw mababagoyun. hohum. kaloka ang love life.

[radiskull0415]

*+~ quiet lady ~+* see what i mean? sabi ko sa inyo mga girls all you have to do is trust kaming mga guys, alam naman namen kung sino dapat priority namen in terms of relationship basta magtitiwala lang kayo at tanggalin ang insecurities sa katawan...

[basketballero]

quiet lady be optimistic lang lagi...u should be focusing on other things to make ur relationship grow.stop dwelling on these things coz sometimes yan *** nakakasira ng relationship.mas maganda ka dun sa isang girl kaya stop worrying.=)

[rayzle]

that's is quite alarming. it's natural for you, girls, na magreact ng ganyan co'z same here with us but nothing seems to be afraid of if you trust him so much di ba.