would you return all his gifts?

[pensive25]

after a break up, would you return the gifts he has given you? i am thinking of returning kasi the gift na he gave me...ayoko naman kasi itago tapos pagdating ng panahon makikita ko at maalala ko na naman sya...is it bad manners to return this?

[meteora]

It's really up to you but You don't have to. Binigay na yon eh. Pride lang ang pinalalabas mo nun. It's not gonna change anything.

Pero if you really want to send it back...uhm...wag...benta na lang natin...hehehehe...joke only

[pensive25]

di pwede benta e hehehehe...gusto ko lang ibalik sa kanya...ayoko kasi maalala na nung binigay nya sa akin yun, ang ganda ganda ng relationship namin...tapos ngayon iniwan nya ko sa ere...haaay..bahala na.

[meteora]

kung ako sa yo, ipamigay mo na lang sa kahit sinong pwedeng gumamit for example, sister or brother mo, or ipangregalo mo ulit. pano kung ma-pride din yung ex mo tapos itapon lang nya ulit say sa ilog or sirain or basagin, sayang naman. sa hirap ng buhay ngayon, kahit yung maliliit na bagay, mahalaga na yon para sa mga taong willing na gumamit...that way, nakatulong ka pa....think about it.

[phoenix14]

para ikaw yung ex ni bf ko.. She was calling him kasi daw she wanted to return the ring.. sabi ni bf itapon na lang kung ayaw **** niya itago or give it to someone na may gusto. ayaw talga ng ex nya.. in the end umamin din na she just wanted to see my bf. She was hoping when they see each other, magbabalikan sila..

pero as for me, I woundn't return it. one of my exes gave me a ring din, when we broke up I gave it to a friend.. ang saya pa nung friend ko when I gave it to her..

[*margaux*]

yup, bad manners yun if youre goin to return the things that he had given you... i agree to the previous posts, bigay mo nalang to one/some members of your family or relatives or even to your best friend but kung ako sayo, benta ko nalang - hindi ko lang siya maaalala, nagka pera pa ko. =) joke!

[andeeleigh]

kung ako di ko na sosoli, in the first place it was given to me. atsaka kung talaga maaalala ko siya, at naghihinayang kang ipamigay, i suggest ilagay nalang sa isang box tapos itago, alam ko one day kung di na masakit *** pagbrebreak up ninyo, magagamit mo narin *** things na nabigay niya sayo.
kung binigay mo sa kanya definitely ipapamigay rin lang niya dahil di naman niya magagamit yon sayang din

[samantha_jones]

Hindi ko ibabalik...ipapamigay ko na lang kung talagang asar ako pero most likely knowing my sentimental self I will keep it it's soemthing to laugh at when the time comes that the pain is not there anymore...

[GreatBop]

yah.. it's better to just dispose it. than return it back.

[candy_kulet]

i wont. shempre diba.. he gave it to you nah.. its not about being selfish eh.. its about respect and taking about "how to cherish something.."

though it'll take time for all wounds to heal... pero sooner or later when you see his gifts.. matatawa ka nalang ****... parang "how it used to be.."

[mango96]

ako rin i wont either pamigay ko or tago ko na lang then pagdating ng panahon may maaalala ka malay natin matawa ka pa kahit naman siguro pano may pinagsamahan din kayo hehehe.

[lil_gurl301]

they never gave me anything so i guess wala akong dapat ibalik or anything.

[orangepink]

I'll give back his ring as soon as I can afford to have it shipped. May insurance fee ata pag jewelry eh.

[milk.pink.cosmo]

girl, u dont have to. please don't. if u think u cant stand seeing the gifts around your room, u can either keep 'em or give 'em to someone else... even trash 'em.. but don't give it back.

would u like him to give back all your gifts din ba?

[pensive25]

i do return all gifts pag nakipagbreak ako..and its ok for me to get my gifts back..with my recent ex, its not because i want to see him, i could just send it via mail/post...ayoko lang ipamigay sa iba...baka may iba syang pwede pagbigyan ng binigay nya sa akin...tutal may iba na naman syang napili kaysa sa akin e.

[orangepink]

would u like him to give back all your gifts din ba?

hmmm in our 6 yrs together, I gave him : a jade ornament for luck, a jade bracelet for (again) luck (baka ndi swerte yun look at us now hehehehe jk), several shirts (to my horror, ginawa niyang pambahay), boxers (the only gift I gave him which he really liked), a belt (he liked this too). after that I don't remember na. The belt, the shirts and the boxers, he can keep. Ginamit na niya eh but I don't mind if he returned the jade ornaments unless that would bring me bad luck.

Anyhow, I'd like him to keep them but yung ring kasi, well...we gave each other rings to symbolize our everlasting love but well....wala na daw yung love sabi niya so I'm wondering why bother keep it?

When he surprised me with that ring, I was soooo happy. I remember we've been steady for almost 2 yrs at that time and I know he wasn't the romantic kind of guy. So when he surprised me with that ring, I was so ecstatic like finally, may pagka-romantic din pala siya. Now, I just keep it in a box. I wanna send it back to him though. I don't feel like keeping it. But I'll think it over.

[cromwell09]

nope.,

sa katunayan binigyan ko pa ** ng new gifts b4 kami maghiwalay.,

galing kc ako nung bicol.,

tpos paguwi ko ***.,

di ko inaasahan na mkkpgbreak na **.,

kaya *** mga binili ko.,

binigay ko prn cknya.,

hai..........

ciao!

[cromwell09]

nope.,

sa katunayan binigyan ko pa ** ng new gifts b4 kami maghiwalay.,

galing kc ako nung bicol.,

tpos paguwi ko ***.,

di ko inaasahan na mkkpgbreak na **.,

kaya *** mga binili ko.,

binigay ko prn cknya.,

hai..........

ciao!

[EmmriE]

why give it back?? bigay na yun *** eh...

my adviser told me na pag bigay na sa yo yun, u shouldn't return it kasi sayo na yun. ikaw gusto mo bang ibalik sayo yung mga binigay mo sa kanya???

[Posh21]

i wouldnt return the gifts given to me by my ex/exes. bigay na yun eh. il just keep 'em for memories sake. i wouldnt want my gifts returned as well.