im pregnant and he's getting married to somebody else

[_haianna_]

ei guys! some people here knows na may story...sa iba here it goes...
I had a fiance for 7 years but last feb we broke up and then after 2 weeks he went to Japan cos he's a drummer of a band and they have a 6 months contract there...the day after he left I found out that I was pregnant so when he called me up I told him that I was pregnant..he was shocked but he promised that he'll help me out...but we both agreed that we wont get back to each other anymore since he really caused me pain cos he told me that he had sex with this girl when wer still together. we used to talk regularly on the phone but we had a fight one time so I asked him not to call me muna so after a month he called me again and told me that he's getting married in japan! I was so shocked and started to cry...I still love him so much! then he said, "bat ka umiiyak akala ko ba wala ng TAYO?" and he told me na ayaw na nya talaga...i never told him naman na magbalikan kame eh ang akin lang wawa naman yung baby kse he said that he's staying in japan for good...Im so confused kse all his relatives told me na di daw totoo yun..

[vrc1023]

hello _haianna_

I dunno kung ano gusto mo ( di mo kasi namention sa post mo eh ) ... Your ex told you naman and you both agreed that you won't get back together anymore ... Advice ko lang sa iyo ... try to move on, kung totoo nga na he's getting married in Japan already then just try to accept that hindi na talaga magiging kayo ulit. Iniisip ko kasi hindi naman niya siguro gagawin na joke yung ganung bagay, specially he knows na you're in a delicate condition.

Move on ka na, it's hard but you have to be strong for you and your baby. And don't you ever think that your baby is kawawa kasi wala yang ex-mo ... your baby is lucky kasi ikaw ang mom niya, and ang kawawa is your ex kasi he chose not to include you and your baby sa life niya.

[GreatBop]

well worry about the financial support lang. seems to me naman na he's a responsible father, diba.

worry about the kid muna.

[_haianna_]

thx hah. i love him parin talaga pero ur ryt **** wala na talagang chance. its just rily sad kse we always wanted to have this baby! its rily strange kse last month I asked him if may girl na *** dun sbi nya wala daw nag tatrabaho lang daw *** ng maayos biglang after a month he's getting married na parang impossible pero I rily dont know...

[kreuk]

many pinoy males now live to tell romantic lies so that they can screw a girl w out condoms, make a baby, then leave.

[mrs_diddy]

all you need to do now is pray and believe in God always.....

sa story mo, i believe that its not true na ikakasal na sya, nasulsulan lang yan at natakot sa magiging responsibility nya sayo. anyway, it's not your loss sister just dont make any regrets and think that your baby is a gift for you from God. God let this happened so it means that its meant to be happen. Everything happens for a purpose, right? so, cheer up! hold on to God and trust in Him.

[baby_07]

What exactly do you really want to happen between you and the guy? I thought it was okay for you not to go back together? Of course, he'd feel it was okay to date other women since you've had that agreement. And I don't think him being married with someone else would make him abandon his child for good. You said it yourself that you both wanted the baby.

If you still love him, why did you make such agreement in the first place?

[_haianna_]

mrs_diddy--> thx! i know this are all gods plan and i dont ever wanna question it. Its just that sometimes I feel sad everytime I think about the Love we once had and all our plans, but I know that if were really meant to be then God will make a way for us to be together.

baby_07--> i tried to show him that I could go on without him cause I was really hurt when he told me that he did it with another girl...If I am to use my mind I wouldnt consider getting back with him but God knows how much I love him and I still hope that we could work things out...

[fifigirl]

if he doesnt want to come back to you then jst forget him...be strong and just focus your attention on your baby...he is going to be a married man soon so better to forget him now...

[b e b e]

all you need to do now is pray and believe in God always.....

sa story mo, i believe that its not true na ikakasal na sya, nasulsulan lang yan at natakot sa magiging responsibility nya sayo. anyway, it's not your loss sister just dont make any regrets and think that your baby is a gift for you from God. God let this happened so it means that its meant to be happen. Everything happens for a purpose, right? so, cheer up! hold on to God and trust in Him.

agree ako **. dpat keep praying hold on. theres a coz for a this!

[_haianna_]

im really havin a hard time movin on...i know i dont have any choice naman cause if he really wants me out of his life la naman me magagawa eh but its just hard...

[hoop_master]

pag babae ka at nabuntis ka ng kung sino man, di ibig sabihin nun na papakasalan ka na. di nga guarantee ang pagkakaroon ng baby sa isang relasyon e (mag-asawa, mag-bf/gf, mag-fubu, mag-live in)

ang masakit na nangyari sa inyo eh kung kelan kayo nagsabing wala nang balikan tsaka ka nabuntis. siguro kung walang nabuo di mo masasabi na mahal mo pa sya.

kaya mo siguro nasasabi na hindi ka pa nakaka-move on kasi iniisip mo din kung pano na yung bata? sino magmamahal sayo pag tuluyan na nga syang nagpakasal sa iba? yung mga worries being a single mom/parent... suporta, etc.. mahirap nga yan.

kung wala na talaga, mahalin mo ang magiging anak mo sa pinakamagandang paraang alam mo. pag ganun, siguradong mamahalin ka din ng anak mo paglaki nya/ habang lumalaki sya at di mo na kakailanganin pa ang tatay nya.

[cinabon]

What's important is the kid... it's not worth it..i'm sure pag andyan na yung bebe mo, you'll forget about him...and thank him one day for giving you a part of him...

[B-nique]

yup...worry about the kid first...siguro ang makukuha mo na lang sa guy eh financial support.