share naman dyan..those "torn between 2 lovers" experiences

[dylan_gurl]

im into that kind of situation kasi ngayon eh.. i need to know how to handle the situation. at kung papano ma solve ang ganyang problema. im confused! help..!!

[dylan_gurl]

guys, i need your opinion bout my situation. ganito kasi un.. i have this boyfriend for more than 2 years. our relationship was ok, we get along so fine kahit may pagka long distance ang relationship namin. kasi once or twice a month lang kami nagkikita at nagkakasama. then just late last year i met this guy from a common friend at naging close kami.til nagkadevelopan.. at first ayokong i-accomodate ang feelings niya towards sakin though i knew inside myself that na iinlove na rin ako sa kanya. we settled for just goin out as friends for almost 5 months. alam nya rin kasi na may boyfriend ako. at hindi nya alam na may feelings din ako sa kanya. til that night na nagka prankahan na ng feelings sa isat isa, kasi sinabihan nya ako na manhid daw ako. dun na nag umpisa na he pursued me. til naging kami na di alam ng boyfriend ko. i love this guy but i still dunno kung hanggang saan pagmamahal nya towards me. sabi nya sakin sigurista daw ako kasi kumbaga may spare part daw ako in case hindi uubra ang relationship ko sa isa sa kanila. alam nya na alanganin ang sitwasyon nya sakin but he still dont wanna give up on me. ayoko rin naman sanang niloloko ko ang boyfriend ko but a haven't decided yet to whom i would settle for good.nagiguilty ako sa boyfriend ko pero i don't wanna loose this guy neither.. sino ba pipiliin ko? yung taong tested na ng time ang relationship namin but i don't feel i love him that much like before? or this guy i love right now pero hindi pa ako sigurado kung gang san pagmamahal nya sakin? i really have to decide na coz i know sooner or later malalaman to ng boyfriend ko. ayoko ring makasakit ng damdamin for the fact na wala rin naman syang masamang ginawa sakin. naiisip ko tuloy na napakasama kong tao. at bakit nagkaroon ako ng ganitong sitwasyon..

i need some advices and opinions, im so confused..!

[boldon]

Always remember... you can never have the best of both worlds... tanging *** lang makakapagsabi sino ba sa kanilang 2 ang mas makikita mong kasama in the long run... a person you feel most comfortable with... your bf stayed with you for a problem-less 2 years and yet u felt something is missing... this one came along and still you're not composed... not necessarily that his treatment may be the same pag nakipagbreak ka sa current bf mo to go with him... baka ganyan lang yan kasi nanliligaw pa lang...

[sundae_mcdip]

haay same dilemma ** ***..ako nmn more than 5 yrs n *** ng bf ko and on-off *** dhl lagi *** may pinag-aawayan...then suddenly may dumating na parati anjan for me...pero d ko p naaayos *** problem n 2..

my advice?weigh it very well..cyempre mahirap mkpgbrk s bf n 2 yrs na dhl nasanay k n s knya and super comfortable kn s knya...mhrp gumawa nng decision n pagsisisihan afterwards kaya dpt alamin mo kng *** *** mas magiging masaya ka...may masasaktan k rn nmn tlg s isa s knka dba..

hope it made sense..hehehe

[Velvet14]

im into that kind of situation kasi ngayon eh.. i need to know how to handle the situation. at kung papano ma solve ang ganyang problema. im confused! help..!!

go with the flow.. Kung masaya ka ba sa nangyayari at ang puso mo ang duma-dikta just do it, bakit ka magwo-worried sa sasabihin ng iba.. Its nor your fault and no ones fault either. I will called that pusong tuliro.




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[dylan_gurl]

only one person knows bout my situation, friend ko. minsan sya din nalilito kasi minsan muntik na akong mahuli, na missend ko sa boyfriend ko ang message na dapat sa new guy ko.
haayy.... !!

[dylan_gurl]

iniisip ko rin yan... na baka dalawa pa sila ang mawawala sakin..



but this new guy, alam nya ang sitwasyon. hndi ko nga alam bat sya nagpapaka martyr. kaya nga nacoconfused ako sa attitude nya.

[joe_higashi]

first of all its not possible to love 2 persons, yep you are confused.

[dylan_gurl]

yah, im really confused. sakit sa ulo talaga pag iisispin ko lang.



... pwede kayang wala nlang masasaktan sa kanila?

[dylan_gurl]

. this one came along and still you're not composed... not necessarily that his treatment may be the same pag nakipagbreak ka sa current bf mo to go with him... baka ganyan lang yan kasi nanliligaw pa lang...

to think , its possible...

[dylan_gurl]

this new guy, i gave him a chance. kami na rin for more than a month. there are some inhibitions on my part at first, but i was thinkin..i would know more the person pag naging boyfriend ko rin sya..
what do you think guys, tama ba yung ginawa ko na bigyan namin ng chance ang isa't isa..?

[joe_higashi]

ah so you have a relationship with someone then? you entertained another guy.. that only means that you don't really love the other/first person.

you should have broken up with the first before giving that other a chance.. do you know the meaning of betrayal? if you betray someone do you really love him/her?

thanks.

[dylan_gurl]

ah so you have a relationship with someone then? you entertained another guy.. that only means that you don't really love the other/first person.

you should have broken up with the first before giving that other a chance.. do you know the meaning of betrayal? if you betray someone do you really love him/her?

thanks.

one thing na pinoproblema ko rin is...i dunno kung pano makipag break sa boyfriend ko..kasi parang di ko rin kaya.. ayokong magkamali ng desisyon..
this new guy, he's still under observation kumbaga. nakakaguilty nga talaga..to think na wala namang ginawang masama ang boyfriend ko (as far as i know ha..) against me.. i think one factor din ang distance namin sa isat isa.

ewan ko ba...nalilito ako kung ano ang dapat gawin...

[joe_higashi]

ah K distance problema mo? uhm your first BF is not doing a good job then on keeping in touch.

Tama desisyon mo na yan. i suggest dun ka na sa 2nd kasi kung sya laging nandyan eh di mas maggogrow yung relationship nyo.

sensya na but you have to break up with the first IMHO.

I hope you can make up your mind remember: Happiness is a decision too

[cyberblue18]

hay naku... been there before... mahirap talaga! my advise probably, weigh your feelings between 2 guys... know who can make you happy... and who you love most! its really hard i know at nakakaguilty pero dba mas nakaklaguilty kung papatagalin mo pa at papaasahin mo pa *** isa sa kanila... pag-isipan mo mabuti i suggest! para in the end d ka mag cc... ako i chose the 1 i love pinagpalit ko *** bf ko for 2 yrs dun sa new one kc i know di ako maghahanap ng iba if i still love him... getz? labo noh??? nywayz, at least now i know im happy kung masaktan man ako, im ready to take ol the risk! may sounds selfish kc happiness ko *** pinili ko pero its better this way kesa naman pilitin ko sarili ko n ibalik *** feelings dun sa isa, nagiging unfair lang ako sa kanya and specially sa sarili ko.... ayt?

just pray! maybe you can ask for a sign from him...

[st.anger]

one thing na pinoproblema ko rin is...i dunno kung pano makipag break sa boyfriend ko..kasi parang di ko rin kaya.. ayokong magkamali ng desisyon..
this new guy, he's still under observation kumbaga. nakakaguilty nga talaga..to think na wala namang ginawang masama ang boyfriend ko (as far as i know ha..) against me.. i think one factor din ang distance namin sa isat isa.

ewan ko ba...nalilito ako kung ano ang dapat gawin...

cheater! either break up with one and then entertain the other.

[joe_higashi]

hay naku... been there before... mahirap talaga! my advise probably, weigh your feelings between 2 guys... know who can make you happy... and who you love most! its really hard i know at nakakaguilty pero dba mas nakaklaguilty kung papatagalin mo pa at papaasahin mo pa *** isa sa kanila... pag-isipan mo mabuti i suggest! para in the end d ka mag cc... ako i chose the 1 i love pinagpalit ko *** bf ko for 2 yrs dun sa new one kc i know di ako maghahanap ng iba if i still love him... getz? labo noh??? nywayz, at least now i know im happy kung masaktan man ako, im ready to take ol the risk! may sounds selfish kc happiness ko *** pinili ko pero its better this way kesa naman pilitin ko sarili ko n ibalik *** feelings dun sa isa, nagiging unfair lang ako sa kanya and specially sa sarili ko.... ayt?

just pray! maybe you can ask for a sign from him...

but feelings are unpredictable and sooo unreliable.

think na lang that you are betraying someone and you don't truely love him because your cheating on him. just like what our friend st. anger is sayin' do you cheat people you really love?

[dylan_gurl]

just pray! maybe you can ask for a sign from him...

may i ask, you've asked for a sign before? give me some examples please..?

[dylan_gurl]

but feelings are unpredictable and sooo unreliable.

think na lang that you are betraying someone and you don't truely love him because your cheating on him. just like what our friend st. anger is sayin' do you cheat people you really love?

yeah..feelings at times are fickle..

sometimes im thinkin of rekindling my love to my boyfriend..but its hard without him near me..

[joe_higashi]

then you arriving at a decision is getting more and more easier don't you think?