Mahal mo pero hindi mo gusto

[CoolCucumber]

Posible

[Tee_Z28]

de noh... pwedeng gusto mo (like mo) pero di mo mahal(love)...

[mysticrain]

labo bro!!peace

[kelly_ganda]

labo! if it was the other way around, that's possible.

[LaTtE`M]

Recipe for having a querida.

[queenkatie]

pwede...mahal mo...pero hindi mo gusto...malamang in denial ka lang

[CoolCucumber]

^Pero pa'no kung in-apply 'to sa mga kapamilya?

Tulad kunyari ng nanay o tatay mo. Hindi mo sila gusto, kasi wala ka naman talagang choice dahil yun ang binigay na magulang mo e. Pero hindi ibig sabihin nun na hindi mo sila mahal, 'di ba?

Puwede ba yun? Or is liking a requisite for loving?

[prettyann]

possible. maybe mahal mo pero hindi mo gusto ang itsura yung tipong hindi sya swak sa standards mo pero inspite of his imperfections, love mo pa rin sya...

[baby_07]

^ pwede rin sa ugali. there are people who stay in the relationship in spite of the countless heartaches and sufferings brought about by the different personalities that tend to hover their partners. And those who stay kahit alam nila na niloloko na at sinasaktan na sila (verbally and physically). Of course, they don't like their partners for being themselves but they chose to stay because they love them. Bittersweet!

[CoolCucumber]

^Or maybe they choose to stay so as not to get embarassment and/ or intriga?

Alam niyo naman dito sa Pinas, lahat pinag-uusapan.

possible. maybe mahal mo pero hindi mo gusto ang itsura

Ahahahaha! Yan ang true love!

[Tee_Z28]

sa pamilya? You only not like them because they seem to not agree with everything you do... try to befriend them .. and you'll see you'll like them...

MATAKOT ka chong, kung MGA MAGULANG MO DI MO NA MAHAL, DI MO PA LIKE! *** na may sayad dun

[Tee_Z28]

or pwede rin naman ... LOVE MO (Gf/BF mo na ngayun) BUT never mo naging CRUSH (LIKE)... This happens mostly sa girls eh.. hindi na dumadaan dun sa like stage... natutunan na lang talagang mahalin yung guy sa pag spendtime nila together

[CoolCucumber]

^Not necessarily "crush".

Yung para bang mahal mo as in familial love pero hindi mo gusto... like pangit kasi ang ugali or something. Labo ba? Hehe...

Pero not really as in GF/BF thing. Yung parang there's this need to love this person because s/he's supposed to be an important part of your life. Kunyari nga yun, mga kapamilya. Alam niyo yun, parang no way out na ewan.

Ano, posible kaya

[my_identity]

Pwede mo bang mahalin ang isang taong di mo gusto? Pwede pa siguro vice-versa pero pag ganyan imposible yata. Malabo nga.

[littlegurl]

ang labo ng tanong!

you can't love someone you don't like..

kasi dun muna mag-sstart sa pagiging like mo then mamahalin mo..

diba ganon?..hmmm parang sinabi mo narin na love me and then gugustuhin na kita

i hope someone gets my point.

[CoolCucumber]

I get all your points.

Eto naman isa ko pang halimbawa (haha ang kulit ko): Kunyari mag-asawa pero nagkakalabuan na. Mmm... tulad kunyari ni Martin and Pops (hahay showbiz!). Hiwalay na sila 'di ba? Pero siguro naman meron paring "love" between them. Pero hindi nila gusto ang isa't isa kaya hindi pa rin talaga puwedeng magkabalikan sila.

Alam niyo yung mga mag-asawang ganun

[Tee_Z28]

AH! They gave up... yun un... the love they have for each other is no longer enough to sustain a give-and-take INTIMATE relationship...

sa ganyang sitwasyon SIGURO meron pa love but until such time that both of them are willing to give up their SELFISH desires, di ma rereconcile yan (ayan spokesperson daw ba ni pops at martin?) But we'll never know diBa? Di na gusto ni POPS kasi pointless...

korek si littlegurl

[anne_373]

i guess its possible. loving someone.. you can accept the things na ayaw mo sa kanya.-- so meaning pwede diba?

like for instance, you dont like his porma, or his bisyo, etc but still you stick with him coz you love him..

tama po ba?

[daveMachews]

baka mahal mo pero pangit

[mysticrain]

have you heard of this song

"I used to loved someone that i didn't like
We used to wana break up every other night

I used to think relationship was a lot of stress
I used to think that pain was a part of happiness"

well it seems that you can love a person even if you dont like them...