Your REACTIONS CATCHING HIM/HER CHEATING

[chigusa]

What was your exact reaction after you caught your boyfriend/girlfriend cheating through either a text message, a friend, a phone call, & red-handed(actual)?

What was your initial reaction, what did you felt, said, or did at that moment? What was the exact feeling (what was going through your mind, feelings)?

What was his/her reaction, what did he said or did at that moment? If there's a third party (the person you caught him/her cheating with), what was his/hers? What did you do about it after?

[maxieGRL]

with x-BF #1: i beat him up. then went on a datigng spree for months.

with x-BF #2: he was in the states but i called him to confirm and broke up with him then got myself drunk.

first reaction..disbelief. i was wishing that it wasnt true but deep inside i knew it was.

then i literally felt my heart shatter.

[April_Loves_Gin]

Had a bf of 4 years who cheated on me on the later part of our relationship. Just found out he really cheated on me 8 months (with no communcations at all) after we broke up. His current gf (I never knew her personally) called me up crying over the phone because she said my ex was still trying to contact me. Through the course of our conversation, I found out na pinagsabay kami. At ang maganda pa dun, katabi ng girl yung ex ko so huli talaga sya. Heheh. My initial reaction was, "tama ang instinct ko so buti nalang minura-mura ko sya nung nagbreak kami kahit wala akong hard evidence nagcheat sya that time". The girl knew that she was the 3rd party so I doubt that she was even surprised. The ex naman, ayun naghahanap pa rin ng alibi para dun sa gf nya now. What I did was let the fact sink in, then told my friends about it. I didn't cry but it was hard being slapped with reality.

[chigusa]

angat

[mortenharkett72]

uminit ang pakiramdam na parang may tumusok tusok na maliliit na karayom sa mukha ko. I talked to him in the nicest way as possible. Grabeng pakipaglaban sa luha at galit ang ginawa ko. Di ko na pinakinggan ang dahilan nya, nagpaalam na lang ako.

At the same evening, I lost a also my best friend dahil silang dalawa ang nag cheat sa akin.

[chigusa]

Hmm, why is it always that the "best friend" is involved in cheating your bf/gf?

[mahreeyell]

ouch.

di ako nagpakita sakanya na i saw them...

then i texted hm "u promised ud never hurt me"

nagets naman nya na i saw them.. hahaha

[shanse]

^^^Glesy ikaw ba yan? That was the very same situation my friend had 5 months ago. since january of this year pa pala sya niloloko, yun nga lang hysterical sya. at nagfaint pa sya. pakiramdam daw nya, gumuho ang mundo nya.

and yeah...of all people bakit dun pa sa tinuturing na best friend laging sumasabit?

[merrick_mayfair]

eh paano kung lust lang talaga? carried away lang yung mga mushy ek ek?

how would it affect you? lalo't di naman kayo kasal?

[alexet]

**** lust *** un o whatever! **** man *** 4 the sake of "respect' ,di nya dpat gwin un ,noh! *** if ever na mngyari skin un..i dont be scandalous. much better **** *** pag-usapn ng mabuti though it hurts! at ska pag nkita mo in personal silng dlawa mgksama, the best way also 2 do is to shake hands with him/her, and say." hi, ako *** nmn *** bf/gf nya"....hehehe...!

[NikkoPH]

napaluhod ako after founding out she cheated on me.. then i broke down and cry.. **** ang sakit! sa school pa yun.. daming nakakakita pero wala akong pakialam, nangyari na.. i just have to let it out that day..

pero im fine now, im totaly over it.. charged to experience na lang although i had invest so much to that girl.. anyway everythings is alright now, lesson learned na lang..

[aina_crazy_girl]

nabaliw ako. as in. seryoso talaga.

[miaka913]

I just sat in my chair as my exBF told me that he cheated on me with his own cousin (eeeew). I didn't cry. I didn't scream at him though felt the urge to beat the living sh*t out of him (he just wasn't worth the energy). I was utterly disgusted.

I told him to let the door hit him on his way out and that I never wanted to see him ever again... /end of story.

[chigusa]

Originally posted by aina_crazy_girl
nabaliw ako. as in. seryoso talaga.

What did you do?

[iratootsie]

1st time I caught him: i slapped him and didnt talk to him for like a day.. then talked to him after he begged me to forgive him (which i did) and we patched things up

2nd time I caught him: (yes, there was a second time) i hit him really hard, cried myself to sleep and then broke up with him. Eventually we got back together because obviously, i loved him like crazy.

we are not together anymore and guess who broke up with who...

he broke up with me because he said he didnt love me anymore.

stupid me.

[echos]

a friend told me na he was having an affair with this prettiest gay sa skul nila..i was really shocked coz pinagtatawanan pa namen yung guy na yun and he even told me na never siya papatol sa bading..

pinatawag ko **...pagkahello palang nya i was screaming to death..i can still remmber na super wrong grammar nako kahit tagalog dahil sa sobrang galit ko sa kanya..and take note i didnt cry i was forcing my self na maiyak para mailabas ko yung nafifil ko pero hindi talaga ako naiyak i think anger was..all over me..

then a few months after that nung medyo okei na kame we talked about what happened and told me na..it was all my fault coz the gay was reaaly sweet caring and affectionate sa kanya..samantalang ako daw..wala as in manhid..ouch..and they lasted for like a year..eww..but were gud friends na..forgive and forget na ang drama namen..

pero there are times na kapag nag-aasaran kame hed crack up and say na "atleast ako hinid ako pinagpalit sa bading!"

[anne_373]

when i proved that i was the third party, well yeah, its so painful like hell, that to the extent that i was so weak to yell at him but just cried and asked him why... as usual iyak kuno ang gag* and ive moved and never turned back and thought that its never my lost.

[pr1mrose]

hmmm ganti lang pwde na...! worth it mag loko kpg loko loko bf mo... *** matauhan...

[clawed_out]

i don't get mad. specially on ugly people. i make sure i get even.

[chigusa]

^ How would you get even? To what extent?