guys have it easier........right?

[ice]

to everyone out there!!!....

for guys, when they find "THE ONE" for them, they do everything they can to capture the heart of that girl....but what if we girls find "THE ONE".....what can we do to make them realize it..???

[Eina]

There's no reason for the girl not to make the first move. If you're convinced that you've found the person for you, why let him slip away?

Life is as easy or as hard as you make it.

[Assassin_Mage]

Eina is right...

we live in a new evolving world, If you really like the guy, then what is to stop you from going after him?

Tsismis? opinion of the people? to hell with all that rubbish, it is you life, your happiness that is at stake. Not theirs or anyone elses. It is your move.

[FarOutFreak]

Originally posted by Assassin_Mage:
It is your move.

"Players Cologne for men: Make your move."

Biro lang. You think guys have it easier? For my part, if I find someone, it'll take so much effort and preparation just to say that I like the girl.

For both genders, it doesn't matter who makes the first move. Anyone can. Society has made it that guys usually are the first ones. And it is our option not to conform to society.

[abraqkadabra]

they are absolutely right there's no force on this earth that can stop you from making "THE ONE" notice you..

as they say in the nike ads...

JUST DO IT.. look where it took MJ..

[Seele]

Perhaps externally, our society shows that guys have it easier. However, this is not completely true.

MEN: Men have to to externally express their intentions and perhaps feelings. This is obvious during courtship when a man does almost everything to get the girl's attention. This happens because men have a loose connection with the cosmic energies.

LADIES: Haven't you ever wondered if it was TRULY the man's choice to get into a relationship with a girl and not the other way arround? I have had a good number of relationships and I believe that the Ladies have much more to do with attracting the men they like and successfully having them. Externally though, the men have to do all the work. But the truth of the matter is the women have started the ball rolling. This is a topic which my girlfriend and I talk about quite often. We both agree that the ladies (if they only knew more about their prowess) can definitely get "the man of their dreams". The women have very good connection with their emotions, hence they have a good grip at the cosmic energies. If one can send out signals to the cosmos, the cosmos will be glad to deliver it to the intended receiver. This is one advantage the ladies have. This does not mean that the men cannot use this power. The cosmos is for everyone.

[brownpau]

Yup! You go, girl!

[Glock]

There are certain societal norms that we HAVE to consider...Society, evolved as it is, STILL labels girls who make the first move as FLIRTS, although I personally think that there is NOTHING wrong with girls making the first move, (makes finding girls for us a hell lotta easier). It'd best to keep our mediocre ways... Guy courts girl, girl says yes, raise a family. The cycle goes on and on...until society chooses to accept alternatives and options

[ice]

i still believe it is easier said than done...i personally think that it is ok for girls to make the first move...im all for that..but when faced with real people and real situations, this stuff rarely happens...persisting with this thought is like assuming that everyone in our society has an open mind...
do you realize how many hypocrites are out there?...
preaching about non conformity but condemning the simple act of emotional expression when coming from women....
aint that right?

[PuNkChick]

...ayan nga mahirap eh.. alam mo kung sino gusto mo..ayaw ka lang paniwalaan..

[baste]

........ there are some time when guys have it easier and some time when girls have it easier

[Red Wine]

absolutely!!!!

[nuh-uh.]

[This message has been edited by Mister Dean (edited 06-07-2000).]