Ladies: What would you do/How would u react if ever a lesbian friend...??

[WildFire21]

...if ever a lesbian friend admits that she's in love with you? Just looking for some reactions...

[moonberry]

um i found out recently that one of my friends is lesbian. it's pretty awkward now. and she didn't even hit on me! can you imagine the mental stress a sitch like that will cause?!? sheesh, i don't even want to think that such a disclosure is, in any way, possible with me and her..

[This message has been edited by moonberry (edited 05-13-2000).]

[irresistible]

i graduated from an exclusive school for girls. from gradeschool till high school, i've been with lesbians. it's a good thing i'm not homophobic and i keep an open mind. i have lesbian friends. some are now straight (after being exposed to boys! hehehe!) and some gano'n pa rin. i guess gano'n na talaga sila. it's their preference and i respect them. they are people too.

i was courted by a girl when i was in high school but she wasn't my friend so that probably made the situation easier. but if ever a lesbian friend admits that she has feelings for me, syempre at first magugulat ako. pero i'll talk to her in a civil manner and tell her that friends lang talaga kami. hindi ko s'ya iiwasan or anything and i'll ask her na 'wag rin s'yang umiwas. i'll assure her na kahit mahirap iwasang hindi kami magkailangan, i'll always be her friend.

[yeee]

ok lang

[Denise`]

yikes!!

i'd probably avoid her...

[WildFire21]

Really Denise?
Glad to hear those responses. Anyone else?

[CaRaMBa]

Omigad! I'll freak out. But, if she's a REALLY close friend, I'll probably talk to her about it. Kung aquaintance or normal friend lang, I'll probably keep my distance.

[Annie20]

umm.. if a friend of mine admits she's in love with me.. i won't mind.. but that doesn't mean i'll give in to the relationship she's offering... her mistake for me.. was that she didn't admit immediately.. and she let me to get close to her na ang pagkakakilala ko sa kanya e straight..

iba ***** reaction ko if she admit na lesbian siya as soon as i've known her..

btw .. i am not against such kinds of relationships..

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[blurredstar]

close friend or not, i'd be shocked. i mean, i'm not against gay relationships / ppl but as to what i've said in other threads, i just can't see myself in such a situation/relationship. hmmm.. what wld i do? i'd talk to her about it. though it's hard if she's a close friend because most likely we've talked about a lot of personal stuff and then suddenly...whoa!!! but it's better than leave her hanging/lost or worse abandoned.....

[barfly]

bump

[frOZen_tEaRdRoP]

i also came from an all-girls school,and if u yourself have studied there u would be exposed to lesbians coz really,they're everywhere in the school,in the library,restroom or prayer room.its okay if a friend of mine would tell me she likes me,but i wouldnt give in to her offer of a relationship,that is if i dont like her.im not saying that getting into relationships like that is right,but lesbians or homos are humans too,they have the right to love and be in a relationship.if you like her then go for it,that is if you can handle the perks and the hassles of that not so normal relationship.

[Bea19]

Same here ako naman all-girls yung college ko. Before nakak shock ma expose sa mga lesbians, pero nung nagtagal medyo parang normal na din. Ako nung may nanligaw sa aking lesbian parang nandiri ako pero nung naisip kong may feelings din naman yung tao medyo naging sensitive ako. Pero in short di ako pumapatol so I had to turn her down gently.

[*keyah*]

I would talk to her, tell her that I could never feel that way towards her.

[cutie_8]

for me its ok lang kc i do have a lesbian friend... we're from exclusive HS so its normal she having gf's but when we got into college pinagsasabihan nanamin *** because we need to grow up na.. pero kung di *** nakikinig its ok friend ko naman *** so it means tanggap ko *** kahit lesbian ***..

[season]

just like denise: yikes! i'd avoid her like the plague too.

it's actually happened to me before, and i didn't avoid her, and she thought (*cringe*) i liked her! gads! got me into a freaking mess. never again.

[bagel]

i'd avoid her too. it's just too icky.

[benetton06]

i been courted by lesbians before and now i'm into a relationhsip like that....my partner is very caring and kind...they should not be discrminated because they have feelings too....and i observed that they value women than boys...

to all people who thinks that lesbians are needed to avoid...shame on you!!!

[TookieSan]

ano kasi...a friend of mine, way back in HS...told me na love na daw niya ako..syemps..gulat me. pero ginawa ko..i talked to her..i conversed with her..sabi ko mposible magkaroon ako ng feelings like dat twards her...friends lang talaga kami...

nothing wrong anyway if nasabi niya...it's up to you pano mo tanggapin at unawain ***** niya... d*mn ryt they have feelings too...just imagine putting yourself into her position.hirap yun!

at first, kakailang pag nagmeet *** sumwer den d mo lam ano na gagawin mo..duh! be yourself and don't avoid her...pero make linaw to her what you two have ...

[im_a_chick]

avoid her siguro. that's awkward kasi eh.

[ann3]

Originally posted by TookieSan
ano kasi...a friend of mine, way back in HS...told me na love na daw niya ako..syemps..gulat me. pero ginawa ko..i talked to her..i conversed with her..sabi ko mposible magkaroon ako ng feelings like dat twards her...friends lang talaga kami...

nothing wrong anyway if nasabi niya...it's up to you pano mo tanggapin at unawain ***** niya... d*mn ryt they have feelings too...just imagine putting yourself into her position.hirap yun!

at first, kakailang pag nagmeet *** sumwer den d mo lam ano na gagawin mo..duh! be yourself and don't avoid her...pero make linaw to her what you two have ...

oh my god, ur totally right.. we think alike...

nakakaasar nga *** ibang nandidiri sa mga tomboy or bisexuals eh, uncomfortable din kasi. so immature of them..duh!? tao din un na ginawa ng Diyos, nagmamahal at nasasaktan... kasi for me, we shouldn't judge person for what they are (gender i mean),...

just sharing a piece of my mind..