JEALOUSY ... BANE TO RELATIONSHIPS, SIGN OF IMMATURITY

[LadyMarmalade]

sign of immaturity? i don't think so!

[ironman]

As the song goes ... "Jealousy, look what you've done to me ... you are the cause of all my pain ...." You can say that again! It's one of the major causes of stress in a relationship.

Are you the jealous type? Come to think of it, jealousy is a sign of insecurity, of immaturity. If you're confident about yourself, about your self worth, there's really no need to be jealous of anything or anyone. Such confidence can be gained through experience, achievements and hurdling the tests of maturity.

How do you deal with your or your partner's fits of jealousy?

[Red Wine]

no, no, no.... how does HE deal with mine????

[rhytz]

I always believe that all bad habits can also bring good intentions.

I'm the jealous type person pero it doesn't necessarily mean na i dnt feel good about myself,insecure or immature.

Sbi nila jelousy is one of the signs that u love the person dearly basta ba i know my limitations eh at nasa lugar ako, i dnt think it would ruin something nice-relationship!

[GForce]

Ditto, rhytz. And another thing, I'd worry if my partner doesn't even experience the slightest feeling of jealousy at times (not that I would intentionally give him cause for jealousy).

[This message has been edited by GForce (edited 05-30-2000).]

[Renthead]

jealousy is a tool of the devil. trust completely.

[FineST]

jealousy is a sign of insecurityl. being jealous is not a sign that you that someone, but parang you dont trust that someone.

[life_bunny]

jealousy is bad...but bad things don't mean they're wrong...a person who trusts completely will be betrayed absolutely...and it'll hurt a lot...

it won't hurt to be suspicious once in a while, it will only show that you're concerned about who she's with...PLEASE NOTE: ONCE IN A WHILE...not being too possessive...

[PuNkChick]

agree with LadyMarmalade *apir*

[Mister Dean]

Hi, ironman!

I have to admit, between myself and *happy*phantom*, she has more reason to be concerned, because at one point in time, I was a professional musician and DJ. So, that meant late nights without my coming home early.

I don't think it's so much a question of maturity of the person as much as it is a question of maturity of the relationship. I think the element of mutual trust has to come into fair play. She and I have agreed to trust each other completely, and I think that things have turned out just fine. Of course, now that my bachelor days are pretty much over, she needn't worry. And I'm very m... mo... m... mo... monogamous (okay, so it doesn't slip off my tongue that smoothly, but you get the point).

[ironman]

Hi Mr. Dean! I'd like to see a "mature" relationship where either one of the two players is immature. People make up relationships, not the other way around. Relationships "mature" if the people involved get to grow, individually as well as together.

There are people who can be unreasonably jealous. If you haven't experienced the worst kind, jealousy causes very deep hurts, pains and strains the relationship to breaking point. So I wouldn't look at jealousy as a sign of love. It's selfishness, it's self-centeredness, it's a sign of fear --- fear of losing something or someone we hold dear to somebody else (baka iba na ang kinakasama, baka iba na ang iniibig) ---- fear of not getting recognition (iba na ang iniisip or iba na ang pinapansin) --- fear of losing or not gaining status (bakit siya na-promote, ako hindi?). It takes some measure of maturity to conquer these fears. It usually means the conquest of one's self. Oftentimes we can't do this by ourselves ... we need the support of our partners, family, friends ...

[wAgKaNgMaKuLoT]

tama ka nga ironman.
jealousy makes go

[winterswirl]

my boyfriend NEVER gets JEALOUS: is it good or bad?

[VINCEsanity]

question...attention: Mister Dean & ironman...

my boyfriend NEVER gets JEALOUS: is it good or bad?

is it good or bad?

baka naman hindi mo ang nararamdaman, aywa lang nya ipakita sa iyo physically? tama ba . o kaya fully confident sya na mahal namahal na mahal mo sya and he believes that he deserves you

[winterswirl]

hmmmm....for yur first theory...i wouldn't know that right?

for the second one, i really believe so

i just sometimes feel weird, kasi kahit naman papano, kailangan selos diba? hindi yung sobra na over na possessive...pero, not getting jealous? at all? parang weird

la lang

[VINCEsanity]

VINCEsanity

hmmmm....for yur first theory...i wouldn't know that right?

for the second one, i really believe so

i just sometimes feel weird, kasi kahit naman papano, kailangan selos diba? hindi yung sobra na over na possessive...pero, not getting jealous? at all? parang weird

la lang

correct , alam mo rin pala eh, you can see at their facial expression kung nagselos nga ba o hindi at pakiramdaman mo na lang din.

[winterswirl]

sorry for being such a paranoid girl...hihi...guess it's the time of the month, that's why i feel so weird and all...

thanks ha?

hihi...

[VINCEsanity]

hihi...

sorry for being such a paranoid girl...hihi...guess it's the time of the month, that's why i feel so weird and all...

thanks ha?

hihi

hihi,parag may hika... joke lang ha baka magalit sya eh ok sa tawa ha, cute .. hehehhehehehehe. anyway pakiramdaman mo na lang and be good gurl to him and keep the faith all the time

[winterswirl]

yah, i have always been a good girl naman eh...sumobrang good na nga eh hehehe...

i just have to learn to be more confident about myself and his love for me , para okay

[powerpuff]

everybody gets jealous. just take it in a positive way. if ur bf gets jealous, at least u know he cares dba? kesa sa dedma n d mo alam kung mahal ka or ***.