What should a gal do...

[cathybee]

Why is it always like that? Why can't the girl just tell the guy that she likes, point blank, that she likes him without the fear of humiliation? Guys, sometimes, kala niyo kayo lang ang nahihirapan talaga pero pano naman kaming mga gals na tahimik na lang na naghihintay na magsalita yung guy na they feel the same way for them and worse, those guys might turn out courting other girls pa. Ouch! So, what can you say, people? What should a gal, who's in love with a guy, do to know if the guy feels the same way? Also, what can she do to make him like or love her back?

[cbie]

y don't you try make some moves? siyempre yung mga moves na pa-simple. like, maging extra sweet ka. there's no real harm in doing it. tsaka weakness kasi nang mga guys yung sweet girls e... gud lak!

[babes]

girl, if you're stressin' over him just tell him!! or ask him to lunch! you can't wait for him he might be one of those guys who don't know how to make a move in that case you might be waiting for a loooong time!
just tell him! nothing ventured nothing gained!!
if you were interested in a job position would you apply for it? or wait for them to seek you out? (or something like that)

[weye]

cathybee, i know how u feel. society sort of restricts women to simply expressing their feeling once the guys has said it - definitely not before. y? i don't know either. maybe because women have always been seen as the 'weaker' sex. anyway if u do tell the guy bluntly that u like him, he'll most likely shy away. so don't. not if u really like him but if u just want to prove that women are equal to men, then go for it, girl! i'd recommend what cbie mentioned. make pa-simple. he'll end up noticing it sooner or later and u don't lose any of ur dignity as well. good luck!

[ctv]

there is nothing wrong when a woman takes the initiative in expressing her feelings towards a guy. of course, subtle is the key word here. being agressive can also work for you. it is true that there are guys who get intimidated when the girl makes the first move (who would want to get involved with a person like that?). you just have to be yourself. of course, you already have thought of the qualities that you find interesting in him, and that you are just maybe being a little impatient for him, to say to you, the magic words that you want to hear. maybe he is still trying to sort his feelings din towards you. but if he is taking so long, just get to the point and tell him straight. it is just the same with guys when they want a girl. first they will try to get to know everything that is worth knowing about the girl. then they try to spend as much time with the girl as possible, tapos they try to interpret the signals that the girl is giving out. then, and only then will he profess his feelings towards her (or not). basta sabihin mo, magpatawa ka padaplisan mo kahit ano. basta gawin mo.

[megan]

cathybee: take ctv's word for it. well said, man!

As the song goes, "wishing and hoping won't get you into his heart"... but then, never make drastic moves esp if you don't know the guy THAT well. Pag di sya nakuha sa "pa-simple", assess if he's worth the effort of making the first move.

[cathybee]

thanks guys!
i think i like the idea of padaplisin muna hehehe...but anyways, as far as i can see, the arrow is pointing towards telling him!For me, it's one tough order, hehehe. Well...for one, i think i had tried making hints about really liking him but he seemed not take any hint at all. Is it really like that? Guys can't take hints?


[This message has been edited by cathybee (edited 10-04-1999).]

[M!]

cathybee: baka what you did wasn't enough or too simple and subtle that he didn't get what you were trying to tell him... or (and i hope this isn't it) baka he already knows that you like him kaya lang he doesn't really care.

...anyway, you'll know naman when a guy likes you eh.

[barfly]

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