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  1. #1

    Tamang Disiplina Sa Isang 2 1/2 Yr Old Son

    hi mga mommies,
    grabe na ito... araw-araw ata lalaong nadadagdagan ang pagiging makulit ni jerome ko... hindi ko na nga alam kung paano ko didisiplinahin ng hindi ko pinapalo. minsan tuloy *** pasensiya ko paigsi ng paigsi... hindi ko na talaga alam kung pano ko siya madidisiplina ng hindi siya umiiyak... kasi sabi nila pag pinapalo mo daw ang bata lalong nagiging matigas ang ulo... ano sa tingin nyo???? ganon ba talaga ang mga bata?? sobrang kulit!!!!!! hayyyy!!!

  2. #2
    yan ang tinatawag na terrible-two. pag sinwerte ka, aabot ng terrible-three, four, five - haay walang katapusan!

    i have a 3 1/2 year old boy myself na saksakan din ng kulit at likot. i normally have him go to time-out. nung 2 siya, 2 minutes time-out. ngayon 3 minutes na. i just make him sit sa corner and ignore ang mga iyak niya. i try to talk to him afterwards to explain to him what he did wrong. ganoon din kasi ang ginagawa sa daycare sa kanya. pero pag over na, i just walk away from him and let him be for a while. pag mahinahon na kami, saka kami magbabati.

    don't worry, di ka nag-iisa! kids sometimes try to push all the buttons and see how far they can go. basta pag may isang bagay siyang ginawa na ayaw mong makasanayan niya, impose the rule para maging aware siya na di pupwede yon kay mommy. you and hubby should talk too para parehong page kayo - baka kasi ma-confuse ang bata kung may mga bagay na di pwede sa iyo pero pwede kay daddy and vice versa.

  3. #3
    http://www.boomspeed.com/carolrobert/mickey.gifI have one makulit too( 2 yrs and 3 months old), but so far he knows his limitation,and honestly speaking,never ko pa sya napalo,I might say sobrang mabait sya (mommy kasi eh ),I mean kahit sa shopping mall/grocery,never pa sya nag tantrums, kapag sa bahay alam nya kung hanggang saan ang drama nya, and ang parusa,upo sya sa chair nya,( he called it thinking chair, from blue's clues)we let him cry hanggang gusto nya,kusa naman tumitigil,after a while kinakausap namin.I think dahil sa sobrang smart ng mga bata ngayon ang kailangan talaga eh diplomasya at super habang pasensya.

  4. #4
    I think consistency in the parents' actions and words are important in disciplining a very young child. They usually imitate grown-ups, especially the parents, so if they see the parents doing things, like quarreling, etc., the tendency is for the child to this also.

    Although the child may be "smart", "intelligent", etc., parents also have the responsibility to provide guidance and should be a model of good behavior.

  5. #5

    more kulit years pa

    2-5 daw yang super-mega-kulit period. sabi ng mga matatanda, HINDI NA BALE MAKULIT HINDI NAMAN SAKITIN... disciplina? well, reverse psychology sometimes works, tapos isa pa yung model adult, name drop yung model adult niya and say, "si daddy, hindi ganyan nang maliit siya ek-ek-ek..." also give a lot of encouragement. tapos always include him sa mga activities kasi gusto nila busy sila sa always. anak ko 3 yr old gustung-gusto ako tulungan sa kusina, so pinagbabalat ko ng bawang, luya, carrots, patatas, basta yung matitigas na madali naman manipulate, using tutoong peeler pero never ko pa pinahawak ng knife at sinasabi ko na sharp yon at magkakaroon ng sugat... just enjoy the kakulitan, kasi di naman yan daw maglalast, when they grow older baka complaint naman daw e, hindi ka na kinukulit at iba na barkada...happy holidays!

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