your bf/gf wants to stay here...

[SykesGrrrl]

in connection to the topic "staying here or migrating to US",

1. what if you really really want to migrate to the states and the one and only opportunity is staring you in the face, but your beloved bf/gf -THE ONE- doesn't want to migrate. will you stay or will you go?

2. the situation is reversed. your beloved -THE ONE- is offered and had taken the chance to migrate to abroad, but you really really do not want leave the Philippines, would you go for the sake of your loved one, or would you stay?

[Dunedain]

You'll be constantly singing the tune from the Clash: "Should I stay or should I go?

[*keyah*]

With the case of me and my ex-boyfriend, I'm leaving, he's staying, he can't leave. So we tried to make the most out of the time I have left here. Kaya lang what we had ended eh a year and a half before I actually leave. Oh, well, we were gonna end it anyway.

[tin28]

thats a situation facing me right now.

ako babalik ng canada, bf ko mas gusto magstay dito...he's stopping me from going but since this was part of my plan long before i met him and this is what i really want in life, im still going, as for the relationship, sabi nya kaya nya maghandle ng long distance relationship so were giving it a try.if it works e di okay, if it does not, then theres nothing u can do.
but he's alsow willing to follow...he's just going to save up for a tourist visa for canada

[gream]

i think somethings gotta give - you, him/her or the relationship. perhaps it would be best if its the relationship.

[maxieGRL]

my boyfriend now studies in the U.S. he is currently here for vacation. he however is leaving by the end of the month.

i completely understand why he need to study in another country afterall it is for our future. so i would let him go. with complete trust in him..

[LaTtE`M]

Never let romance get in the way of pursuing your personal legend - Paolo Coehlo

[aajao]

Originally posted by tin28
thats a situation facing me right now.

ako babalik ng canada, bf ko mas gusto magstay dito...he's stopping me from going but since this was part of my plan long before i met him and this is what i really want in life, im still going, as for the relationship, sabi nya kaya nya maghandle ng long distance relationship so were giving it a try.if it works e di okay, if it does not, then theres nothing u can do.
but he's alsow willing to follow...he's just going to save up for a tourist visa for canada

goodluck, tin where in Canada would you be?

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LDRs (long distance relationships) work but very few percentage of it survive. it really depends on both persons how they will handle the situation.

as for the thread starter's situation/s, its between prioritizing and choice. whatever your choice will be, if love is really present in your relationship, then, there wouldn't be any problem.
suggestion: if one isn't willing to go, let go of the relationship for the mean time (depending on your agreement) then when time comes and you still love each other, then you are meant for each other. but if not, then at least both of you are free.

[tin28]

Originally posted by aajao
goodluck, tin where in Canada would you be?

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LDRs (long distance relationships) work but very few percentage of it survive. it really depends on both persons how they will handle the situation.

as for the thread starter's situation/s, its between prioritizing and choice. whatever your choice will be, if love is really present in your relationship, then, there wouldn't be any problem.
suggestion: if one isn't willing to go, let go of the relationship for the mean time (depending on your agreement) then when time comes and you still love each other, then you are meant for each other. but if not, then at least both of you are free.

im going to stay in vancouver...

sa toronto ka right?...
basa ko sa blog mo mo eh

[the_shining]

Originally posted by SykesGrrrl
in connection to the topic "staying here or migrating to US",

1. what if you really really want to migrate to the states and the one and only opportunity is staring you in the face, but your beloved bf/gf -THE ONE- doesn't want to migrate. will you stay or will you go?

2. the situation is reversed. your beloved -THE ONE- is offered and had taken the chance to migrate to abroad, but you really really do not want leave the Philippines, would you go for the sake of your loved one, or would you stay?

Iha, its only a matter of knowing & standing by ur priorities.
Once u figure it out, nothing can stand by ur way.

[dont_try_me]

ako din, m gonna leave na before the year ends... my boyfriend has to stay... pero he told me na he's gonna wait... ill come back din naman... (i promised na ill go back.. i just dont know when...).. and he'll save money for him to be able to visit me...

i trust him, he trusts me.. coz i love him and he loves me!

[SykesGrrrl]

PEEPS!

sorry for the misunderstanding. it's not my personal situation. as i stated, i started this thread in connection to another thread here which is "Staying here or migrating to US". hehe

as for me, i am not attached at the moment. so, it isn't really an issue. even then, i already know what i should do depending on the circumstances.

given that we will soon be married, i will stay with my sweetheart or go with him if he is migrating. but if marriage is still far, i can handle a long-distance relationship. if he isn't ready for one, then we have to talk about our relationship. true love will always find a way, no matter what.

[septerra]

hmmm... I'm in a long distance relationship right now. going through it is quite hard pero we're holding on kahit na medyo bago bago pa lang kami. Since I'm in a situation na rin na I have to go in the near future actually in the next 9mos I'll be leaving na rin... di ko pa siya natanong. I'll ask her about it when I see her... pero I'm promising to her na to give me about a year, I'll go back and get her, pakasal na din kami. and since di pa siya graduate by then, I'll let her finish her studies then we'll migrate together since yun ang gusto niya rin.

long distance relationship cannot survive if only one partner is making the initiative to let it go places. but if both partner does their part and make it a point to keep the fire alive... it would really work out... and lastly... TRUST is the major factor here... once its lost... its so hard to get it back

[ms_suave]

1. i will go...i wouldn't waste the opportunity...if he really loves me..he will let me go..i wouldn't go there if it wasn't for me and for him...

2. i'll go with him..for one simple reason.. "iLove him"...