i'm a Christian but i'm a bi...need help!!!

[gmufool]

hi,i am in the middle of confusing with my sexual identity...i a ma born-again christian and being a homosexual is a sin...God only created man and woman...what i am right now is not God's opinion...tell me what to do!!!at night,i don't ask forgiveness co'z i know i am still living in the sin and i don't have the face to asked God's forgiveness...i just always ask for His understanding...and i always feel that i want to cry...so painful for my heart and my conscience...

[titaniumarked]

Originally posted by gmufool
i am a 19bimale...i am going out with my bf for about 5 years...last december, we officially commit ourselves,by the way he is an american and living in u.s.,we plan to be together or living in dis coming december...wanna give me some advices on how to handle this kind of relationship...some do's and don'ts so i will be careful about it...thanx in advance...

after 5 years, you're still bothered by your conscience?

[LaTtE`M]

Originally posted by gmufool
hi,i am in the middle of confusing with my sexual identity...i a ma born-again christian and being a homosexual is a sin...God only created man and woman...what i am right now is not God's opinion...tell me what to do!!!at night,i don't ask forgiveness co'z i know i am still living in the sin and i don't have the face to asked God's forgiveness...i just always ask for His understanding...and i always feel that i want to cry...so painful for my heart and my conscience...

If you can't live with it, and you personally feel that you are only being persecuted instead of being understood, get out.

Otherwise, live by what you think is proper.

[Ice Burn]

I heard this on the show QAF when a gay character Emmett joined a Christian group whose purpose was converting gay people into straight people and how trying to be straight nearly destroyed his life. I'm not saying that your born again group is bad but I think you might find some light into this conversation of Emmet with his best friend Ted.

Here's how it went...

Emmett: "I don't think God appreciates it as much as you do." (on his gayness)

Ted: "I think God appreciates it even more...Because He created you in His image...At least that was what I was always taught...And since God is love and doesn't make mistakes, you must be exactly the way He wants you to be...The way He intended you to be...And that goes for every person, every plant, every mountain, every grain of sand, every song, every tear...And every ******...We're all His Emmet, and He loves us all..."

QAF Season 1, Episode 14...

[gmufool]

yeah after five years eh nakokonsiyensya pa rin ako...ganyan naman talaga kapag me conviction eh...ganun naman talaga sa mga Christians na nawawala sa landas,*** conviction eh nandoon pa din after so many years...ang hirap kalaban ang sarili...God's understanding is what we need...and i think it's the best thing that i could ask with God

[IMAlive]

Originally posted by gmufool
hi,i am in the middle of confusing with my sexual identity...i a ma born-again christian and being a homosexual is a sin...God only created man and woman...what i am right now is not God's opinion...tell me what to do!!!at night,i don't ask forgiveness co'z i know i am still living in the sin and i don't have the face to asked God's forgiveness...i just always ask for His understanding...and i always feel that i want to cry...so painful for my heart and my conscience...

well alam mo naman pala eh... so i suggest you make a choice, exercise your free will...

God's will or your will?

what would it be?

and yeah pls. do come join us sa B.A. Christians on Love thread.

thanks and GodSpeed!

[SunnySideUp]

Originally posted by gmufool
yeah after five years eh nakokonsiyensya pa rin ako...ganyan naman talaga kapag me conviction eh...ganun naman talaga sa mga Christians na nawawala sa landas,*** conviction eh nandoon pa din after so many years...ang hirap kalaban ang sarili...God's understanding is what we need...and i think it's the best thing that i could ask with God

nakokonsiyensya ka tapos hinihingi mo ang understanding ni God for what? para ipagpatuloy mo eto for another 10 years.

[gmufool]

wish ko lang po,sana wag nyo na masyado lalo ako i-descriminate...i am here to need and seek some advice...hindi po para i-discrimante ninyo at sabihin nyo na dapat ako ilougmok sa isang tabi...pandirihan...at hayaan sa kalagayan kong ito...i post my problem to seek advice and ur opinion not to persecute of what and who i am...kahit nilagay ko ito sa public,u don't have the right to tell me those things that are really unacceptable...be nice naman...kung di ka rin lang makakatulong,then shut up...wag mo ng dagdagan pa *** problema...

[SunnySideUp]

at anong gusto mong sabihin namin, go for it....ikaw narin ang nagsasabing hindi ka masaya dahil sa "guilt" mo, so bakit mo pa ipinapagpatuloy?

truth hurts but if you know how to accept and rectifify your mistakes then isa kang tunay na tao.

[LaTtE`M]

Originally posted by SunnySideUp
nakokonsiyensya ka tapos hinihingi mo ang understanding ni God for what? para ipagpatuloy mo eto for another 10 years.

Hirit ba yan ng isang Kristyano? Matatawag mo ba ang sarili mong Kristyano sa ganyang panghuhusga?

Eto saloobin ko isyu na ito:

Ang pagiging kasalanan ng homosekswalidad ay hindi sa nararamdaman nilang "kakaiba", kundi sa kung ano ang reaksyon nila dito. Hindi kasalanan ang pagkiling (tendency) sa homosekswalidad. Ang kasalanan lamang ay ang gawaing homosekswal (homosexual acts). Kaya gmufool, ikaw lamang ang makapagsasabi kung may mali kang ginagawa. Kung sa tingin mo'y wala ka namang nilalabag sa kagustuhan ng Panginoon, at buo at matibay ang iyong pananalig kay Kristo, wala ka dapat alalahanin.

Mahirap, o kadalasan ay hindi natatanggal ang homosekswal na pagkiling. Mahirap din para sa iba na intindihin sila. Para sa maraming homosekswal, ang kanilang oryentasyong sekswal ang krus na kanilang kailangang pasanin.

[SunnySideUp]

I have nothing against any type of sexuality. Ang hindi ko lang makuha ay iyong sinasabi niyang nakokonsensiya at nahihirapan na siya samantalang 5 years na niyang ginagawa...ano eto kaplastikan?

[LaTtE`M]

Originally posted by SunnySideUp
I have nothing against any type of sexuality. Ang hindi ko lang makuha ay iyong sinasabi niyang nakokonsensiya at nahihirapan na siya samantalang 5 years na niyang ginagawa...ano eto kaplastikan?

Hindi. Ang tawag dyan ay tuliro.

Ang nakikita ko, naguguilty si gmufool kasi nararamdaman niya pa rin yung tendencies niya kahit na alam niyang masama. Not necessarily may ginagawa siya. Pero andun yung temptation. He/she thinks that that temptation is the sin itself when in fact it isn't.

[SunnySideUp]

huwag na lang siyang magdrama dahil kung 5 years na kalaban mo ang konsensiya mo ay baka baliw ka na ngayon.

basta ba wala siyang inaaping ibang tao at nagmamahalan sila eh di hamak na mas mahal siya ng Diyos kaysa sa isang mamamatay tao.....kung sa pakiramdam niya ay kasalan ang ginagawa niya then humiwalay siya para matigil ang kadramahan niya sa buhay niya.

[p0werpuffgirl]

Originally posted by gmufool
hi,i am in the middle of confusing with my sexual identity...i a ma born-again christian and being a homosexual is a sin...God only created man and woman...what i am right now is not God's opinion...tell me what to do!!!at night,i don't ask forgiveness co'z i know i am still living in the sin and i don't have the face to asked God's forgiveness...i just always ask for His understanding...and i always feel that i want to cry...so painful for my heart and my conscience...

you know, God loves you so much that He has given you the spirit of conviction. i'm glad you know that something is wrong and that it doesn't please God in any way. God's exposing this area of your life because He wants to deal with it. He wants to set you free from this sin. talk to your pastor and seek godly counsel. i'm with you in prayers!

[tsaka_doll]

dont use religion to solve ur prob... it will only make it harder for you to accept who u are or what u are... be urself... does it say in the bible that men should always be men and women should always be women? what if happiness resides in your other personality? what will u do? i know its hard.. but its much harder to lie about it.. and for me i think thats the sin.. God sees no men and women in us.. for we are all his children and he accept us for what we become... it is up to us on how we play the part.. be urself dont be ashame.... dont let other people look down on you..... be proud of what u are and its Gods choice...
remember... di lahat ng nasa simbahan ng diyos e lalaki o babae.... nde mo lang din alam pero baka may kasama ka din na ganyan ang nararamdaman... nde kasalanan ang pagiging bi... walang ***** ang diyos tungkol dyan.. shame on un discriminating people out there!........... ur not perfect! nobody's perfect were only human! and we make a lot of mistake.... but we are still accepted and forgiven...

[blackgulaman]

sorry pero this is a perfect example WHY christianity is total BS. okay lang sana if it doesnt affect your happiness pero tingnan mo! nagkakaganyan ka.

kung di mo kaya magpakatotoo, mag-sprite ka. seriously, tama ba yan nangyayari at pinaggagagawa mong ikahiya ang pagkatao mo? your an embarassment to the bi-community!

esep esep.

[lost_kitten]

if u juz feel that way bcoz what other ppl think or say.. naku! yaan mo sila noh!!! kung di ka nila matanggap.. problema na nila un! importante tanggap mo sarili mo and happy ka sa gingawa mo.. basta ba wala kang inaapakang ibang tao e..

haaay....

[LaTtE`M]

Originally posted by blackgulaman
sorry pero this is a perfect example WHY christianity is total BS. okay lang sana if it doesnt affect your happiness pero tingnan mo! nagkakaganyan ka.

Hindi naman total BS. It's just that people have their own interpretations of it. Kaya nga even within Christianity maraming paksyon, dahil sa mga "interpretations" na yan.

[Baby_Leech]

i don't think you can change your sexual preference

eventhough you don't practice your sexual thoughts, that's still in your subconscious mind.

better change your religion.

[lost_kitten]

Originally posted by blackgulaman
sorry pero this is a perfect example WHY christianity is total BS. okay lang sana if it doesnt affect your happiness pero tingnan mo! nagkakaganyan ka.

kung di mo kaya magpakatotoo, mag-sprite ka. seriously, tama ba yan nangyayari at pinaggagagawa mong ikahiya ang pagkatao mo? your an embarassment to the bi-community!

esep esep.

uhmm... comment ***...

im a xtian kse.. nd i dnt think **** that xtianity is total BS.. sobrang dami *** ***** tlgang xtians na puno ng S..

di naman kse siguro ** magkakaganyan kung hindi ** jinajudge ng mga nakapaligid sa kanya..

kse di ba sabi **** ng xtianity God is love..? it follows **** siguro na d ganun kasama si God para isumpa nya *** anak nya for being bi.. d naman nya ginusto **** magin bi d ba?

*** lang...