Basted!

[king_of_pain]

^^ this is so true. Kaya ako walang record na "basted". Wehehehe Kapag alam ko na wala ako pag-asa, Ito ang drama ko "I realized that we'll be better as friends." Tapos smile yung babae kasi siguro nabawasan yung burden nya na masasaktan nya ako. Wehehehe

Tapos tatawagan ko yung mga barkada ko. "Inom tayo, pre." Weheheheh

[cantitos]

^^ this is so true. Kaya ako walang record na "basted". Wehehehe Kapag alam ko na wala ako pag-asa, Ito ang drama ko "I realized that we'll be better as friends." Tapos smile yung babae kasi siguro nabawasan yung burden nya na masasaktan nya ako. Wehehehe

Tapos tatawagan ko yung mga barkada ko. "Inom tayo, pre." Weheheheh

same here man. same here.

[pokerbuff]

The first one hurt like hell! Mas masakit kesa sa magpatuli ng walang anesthesia(?)... (not that I experienced it that way ). I cried for 2 days after that, and was bitter for weeks. But I'm glad I'm adjusted na to not take being basted personally.

[psychosonicindy]

^^hahaha tuli na walang anesthesia


whassup? you think girls don't get busted too? where I grew up, girls and guys asked each other out. none of this "courting" business except among the pinoy crowd so it was a definite possibility that a girl could get turned down

did I ever get turned down? yep!
how'd I get over it? tell myself : well, he's got the brains of an old-world primate, anyway. if I got turned down by one of the brainy crowd, I'd tell myself.................
wait! I never got turned down by one of the brainy crowd! hahaha
(lot of them were my friends)

[munkytek]

old-world primate

^^^yes ma'm oooohhggg aahhhhgg......

di kita i-tuturn down Ms.cindy...promise

[crazy4ken]

the guy who was courting me for about a month texted me last night. What he said was: I dont think im the man who deserves you *my name* Im sorry.

Parang ako yung nabasted eh. lol.

I told him it's okay, I understand and maybe he's getting tired na rin of waiting. Maybe nafi-feel narin niya na medyo distant ako sa kanya and that im not really into him. But I told him na we can still be friends and sana wag na kami mgka-ilangan or something.

[king_of_pain]

^^^yes ma'm oooohhggg aahhhhgg......

di kita i-tuturn down Ms.cindy...promise

Wehehehhehe

Best attempt mo kay cindy, pre!

I think this sums up my day

Good night people!

[munkytek]

thank you. bow....

[psychosonicindy]

why do I feel like I'm between a rock and a hard place with you, munky and you, king_of_pain?


pasaway kayo, ah!


I'll bet neither of you've ever been turned down by an aussie-accented fugly biatch, huh?

I welcome the opportunity - shall I turn you down online or in person? in person na lang para makita ninyo that you're not missing out on much wehehehehehehehehe

[sugaDaddy4u]

Hey, be positive! Get used to it.

Bat ka ba na-basted? Kung wala naman bf yung girl 'di ka naman bastos e, just continue courting her.

Just stand up and try again. Kapag nakita ng girl na persevering ka e mahuhulog din siguro yan.

Eto secret: Manood ka ng Shawshank Redemption para makita mo kung gaano kakulit si Tim Robbins para makakuha ng books para sa prison library nila.

I'm sure pag nagawa mo ng tama panliligaw dahi persistent ka, iisip-isipin din yan ng babae at eventually she'll get used to it and if you'd stop it abruptly, hahanap-hanapin niya ikaw. Alam mo yun--withdrawal synptoms.

Sige, set mo mabasted ng 20 times sa kanya. 19 more to go...

[Grundig]

nagdadalawang isip tuloy ako kung liligawan ko pa yung girl na gusto ko... may BF siya, kaya lang wala naman kwenta BF niya, according sa mga kwento niya sa akin kaya nasasabi ko na walang kwenta..

[rabbaddal]

/\/\

Objectively speaking, what advantage do you have over her current BF?

[mr.6footer]

share ko lang story q.,

i have this girl whom i really attracted.,we met at the bible study here in iloilo.,so i asked for her number and then we became friends., i really like her.,matalino ksi tga-UP siya..,

after a few months of getting to know each other., i decided to court her sa birthday pa niya.,i gave her chocolates.,she said kita *** daw *** ulit nxwk sa bible study kung anu mgging desisyon niya kung pwde ko b **** sya ligawan.,kung oo or hindi.,

then.,this time came., ntpos na ang bible study.,i approached her but she keeps on distance to me.,i really don't know why.,i texted her whats wrong.,i've w8ed for her answer about courting her.,and then she replied that she was very sorry 4 what had happened.,then naging okay n ***.,i thought pwde ko na siyang ligawan.,palagi ko pinupuntahan bhaws niya to visit her.,at first d siya pwede ksi mysakit siya,she cant entertain me.,next visit., my exam daw sia hindi pwde.,palaging ganun,parang nag-iba ang treatment nia sa akin.,

then nxmonth.,birthday ko and day rin ng bible study nmin., i was on a hurry bcoz i was very l8.,then habang naglalakad patungo sa place ng BS., i saw her with the other guy.,nakaholding hands pa.,i examined it clearly kung sia ang gurl,umakyat ako sa 3rd floor ng BS nmin.,parang magugunaw ang mundo ko sa nakita siya nga ang girl at kasama niya ang guy.,then at middle of the bible study.,i walked out.,i really can't take it.,ayoko ko magpakahipokrito na okay *** sa akin ang nakita.,she really fools me., sinabi niya sa akin na wala siyang bf or even some1 special.,nag-mukha akong *****.,

hanggang ngayun.,*** kming closure sa isat-isa.,ayoko ako mismong lumapit sa knya para sa explanation.,dapat siya.,yan ang nakatatak sa utak ko.,madalang na akong bumisita sa bible study na yun.,nwlan na ako ng appeal na umatend dhil sa ginawa niya sa akin.,she's very religious person at ngayon iba na ang pagtingin niya sa akin.,(any comments will be highly appreciated

[nutriban]

bakit kailangan pang tanungin kung pwedeng ligawan o hindi? ganon na ba talaga ngayon?

[mr.6footer]

she's very religious person at ngayon"IBA NA ANG PAGTINGIN NIYA SA AKIN"

sorry it shud b"IBA NA ANG PAGTINGIN KO SA KANYA"

[loveguru33]

nagdadalawang isip tuloy ako kung liligawan ko pa yung girl na gusto ko... may BF siya, kaya lang wala naman kwenta BF niya, according sa mga kwento niya sa akin kaya nasasabi ko na walang kwenta..

na experience ko to....

mahirap umasa!

Dont expect too much from her, she's probably just looking at you as a friend...

gud luck!

[zevil89]

its not really about the first time or the second time, the more na nafall in love ka sa babae at nakilala mo, the more na mas masakit. Well just think of it as things in life dont usually go according to plan, but later you'll see it might not be as bad as you thought it would be

[rekscreamo]

Once pa lang ako nabusted, and yet sobrang sakit.. Masakit kasi yung ego mo nasaktan, and not to mention lahat ng efforts mo ay parang balewala lang.. The bad part in my experience was, the girl already told me that she still needs time and space because she just broke off with her first bf, and yet here I am very pesky and determined to win her heart in a very quick way, that in the end she find it very irritating and, ayun busted ako!

So far, hindi pa naman nauulet kasi I'm very careful na when it comes to courting girls. But I wouldn't want to experience that ever again!

[2424]

Got so used to it before that moving on was like a snap of a finger to me.

But I did learn better.

haha same here its easy to get over these days, unlike before kung ayaw ng chicks di wag, its their loss not mine. They will never get the chance to meet the real me

[kimi17]

kaya ayokong nanliligaw e,parang binibigyan mo ng permiso yung girl na gawin ka niyang tuta,maganda yung paparamdam mo nalang and let the relationship develop,enjoy ninyo lang isat isa,nabasted narin ako,mas marami pa nga failures ko kesa success e,pero pag success naman,kahit pagsama samahin mo beauty ng mga nag basted sakin walang panama sa nagging gf ko,kaya pag failed,move on agad,hanap uli ng bago,iwasan mo nalang mag drama.magpakalalaki dapat!! hehehe