Please...i Need Your Help!!!

[t33kYLa]

Virginity matters to my boyfriend kasi ako yung first nya pero ako i had an experience na before ko pa siya makilala. Ngayon, we're always arguing about that kasi bakit hindi ko daw sa kanya nabigay...dun ko pa nabigay sa hindi ko boyfriend na may gf pa. Ang ***** ***** ko daw to think na that guy loved me. Buntis na ako ngayon bec. of my boyfriend, pero hindi pa rin nya matanggap yung maling nagawa ko dati. Sobrang nasisira yung relationship namin lalo pa at nakikita niya minsan yung naka devirginize sa akin. Paano ko ipaparealize sa kanya na siya lang talaga ang lalakeng minahal at minamahal ko ng ganito? Natatakot kasi siya na baka daw bigla ko na lang siya ipagpalit dun sa guy na naka-devirginize sa akin...

[Mickey2000]

Sabihin mo sa boyfriend mo,hindi ka naman kamo ganoon katanga na sasama sa nakadevirginized lang sa iyo instead doon sa nakabuntis,ano pa kinai-insecure nya,eh nabuntis ka na nga nya,Bakit,ikaw ba nakadevirginized sa boyfriend mo?kung hindi,ano karapatan nya na isumbat sa iyo yung nangyari noon?or kaya naman sabihin mo sa kanya style nya bulok,baka nagdadahilan lang sya at dahil buntis ka na?

[t33kYLa]

eh eto nga eh, talagang sinadya niya na mabuntis ako!!! tsaka ako ang naka-devirginize sa kanya...tingin ko ego lang nya yan eh. sobrang niyayaya na nga niya ako magpakasal pero hindi daw niya matatanggap na di ko sa kanya nabigay yon!!! MALOLOKA NA TALAGA AKO!!!

[Mickey2000]

he he he,kaya naman pala lakas ng loob nya manumbat eh,pero hello naman,buntis ka na,ano pa dinadrama nya,tama ka,ego nya lang iyon.

[SunnySideUp]

I believe your BF is just trying to see a way out from your relationship. Kung talagang mahal ka niya, matatanggap ka niya magin sino ka man.

[tsaka_doll]

[tsaka_doll]

baka naman bakla bf mo? at gusto niya sya makadevirgin dun sa lalaking nakadevirgin ***.. ehhehe loko lang....
nag-iinarte lang ang bf mo.... tapos sabi mo sobrang yaya pakasal... for me di muna papakasal sa immature na lalaking un...
1. kung di ñ matanggap na sya nakauna ***,bat sya nakipagsex *** n binuntis ka pa?
ans: ibig sabihin gusto din ñ makaisa ***... kaya lang nabuntis ka kc ***** sya....
2. yan lang ang lagi ñ pagtatalunan at baka sabihin pa ñ na di ñ anak ang dinadala mo kc may nauna sa ka ñ.
3. immature masyado bf mo at baka nagkamali sya ng taon sa time machine na cnakyan ñ.

if i wer u... di muna me papakasal at baka pagsisihan mo!!....

[powerpuff]

either he accepts u for who u r or not. if he does love u, he'd accept everything about u. how can he live in the future n enjoy the present if he can't accept your past? right now, he's ruining the present. kung d nya matanggap, i suggest u get out of it. habang buhay na ipapamuka sayo yan.

[rodex]

oy nde ka ***** noh?.., *** nabubuntis na nde kasal lang ang *****.

[partida]

Originally posted by t33kYLa
eh eto nga eh, talagang sinadya niya na mabuntis ako!!! tsaka ako ang naka-devirginize sa kanya...tingin ko ego lang nya yan eh. sobrang niyayaya na nga niya ako magpakasal pero hindi daw niya matatanggap na di ko sa kanya nabigay yon!!! MALOLOKA NA TALAGA AKO!!!

um from the look of things, it would seem like your boyfriend is a complete airhead and a nutcase first because if he is mature enough, he should be able to realize by now how much he means to you more than the guy you gave your um virginity to because you even agreed to have a baby from him (you agreed about it right?) which is i believe not really a very easy choice for a girl(even if i'm a guy) because of the responsibility in it. Second, with the way he keeps on putting it up to your face that he is not the one who was able to devirginize you or that any crap reasons of his right now it would really look like either he is trying to get away from your relationship maybe because 'nakaexperience na siya' and he really doesn't love you or he is a complete bonehead for feeling lost or whatever stupidity it is he is feeling just because he is not the one you lost your virginity with. Virginity shouldn't be an issue when it comes to love and responsibility, the other posts here may also be true like maybe he is too 'gay' to accept such responsibity over the baby you have, besides would you want to marry that kind of guy who is like little child crying just because of your virginity?...i'll pray you get over with it ms...

[Nils]

girl... u have one big problem... tinotopak na pala bf mo dahil nde sya nakauna sa iyo... dinagdagan mo pa... nagpabuntis ka pa...

at para naman sa bf mong ****... sabihin mo, kung hymen lang ang habol nya sa iyo, di dapat nung una pa lang yun na ang tinanong nya, hindi na nya hinabol na mahalin mo sya... **** pala sya eh

[the_shining]

Originally posted by t33kYLa
Virginity matters to my boyfriend kasi ako yung first nya pero ako i had an experience na before ko pa siya makilala. Ngayon, we're always arguing about that kasi bakit hindi ko daw sa kanya nabigay...dun ko pa nabigay sa hindi ko boyfriend na may gf pa. Ang ***** ***** ko daw to think na that guy loved me. Buntis na ako ngayon bec. of my boyfriend, pero hindi pa rin nya matanggap yung maling nagawa ko dati. Sobrang nasisira yung relationship namin lalo pa at nakikita niya minsan yung naka devirginize sa akin. Paano ko ipaparealize sa kanya na siya lang talaga ang lalakeng minahal at minamahal ko ng ganito? Natatakot kasi siya na baka daw bigla ko na lang siya ipagpalit dun sa guy na naka-devirginize sa akin...

Kawawa naman kayo.

Ang babaw ng pinag-aawayan niyo.

Humantong sa pagkabuntis mo, pero di pa rin ng bf mo naisantabi ang nakaraan mo.

[kewl_freeme]

First and foremost, you did not state your age. But then, i almost believe that you're both young pa. I don't think your bf is man enough to face his obligation. Sana lang, before you did it you think a hundred times my dear.
Most men are driven by EGO. And sometimes they make some excuses just to escape from the things he couldn't accept. Hey, your bf doesnt LOVE you....believe me, He is just after the virginity or sex thing! Look, if i were you iiwanan ko yang baklang yan! And i don't think your relationship would last. Marrying him is not the answer moreover, it would only put you into hell. Why would you bother to marry a guy who doesn't know how accept the truth and obligation? Kukuha ka lang ng batong ipupokpok sa ulo mo. Believe me, it would only end sa hiwalayan lang.
All you have to do now is to face the consequence. You did it without thinking kung anong pedeng mangyari. Try to be brave facing the new chapter of your life. Leave him! He's probabaly not a big lost on your part. And let him realize that you're a big lost to him instead.

[bjnuza]

hey guys lets not be judgmental on his boyfriend, there may be a reason behind his giving importance with the virginity thing either he is just a conservative or a traditional type of guy. lets also consider the fact that our fellow pexer here loves the guy thats' why she is trying her best to work this out by asking our help. you know what girl i've been in the same shoes as you are now, having a partner that have this big issue when it comes to virginity...we fought about it until there is a time that i gave up explaining my side and im ready to accept whatever decision he makes. and by that way he was the one who realized by himself that virginity shouldn't be a thing that breaks a relationship apart. girl you need some time for him to be able to accept the fact that he is not the first person in your life, the only thing that saddens me is the pregnancy thing having his child will not give you an assurance that he will forget the virginity issue. you should not make the problem much worse by marrying him...not yet...you have to be sure that when you take that move he accepts you for who and what you really are. my boyfriend and i were still together for almost five years, i can say that he was able to overcome the issue after 2 years...for now when i asks him about it he always assured me that it is not an important matter for a relationship and he regrets how he treated me before. if you really seek our help please listen...dont marry yet, give him enough time to accept the truth and let him gain more confidence and security for the relationship to work. goodluck girl!!!

[d_i_a_n_e_s]

u know ***? nde ikaw *** *****, *** bf mo! sori for this pero the way i see it napaka immature ng bf mo...kung lagi nyo pagtatalunan un then nde magiging masaya pagsasama nyo anyway tapos na un forget the past *** is important naman is ur future.
Masyado ka naman nya inaapi nyan, na lagi nya nlng brought up *** pagkakamali mo nde tama un kc that simply means na nde ka nya nirerespeto or *** sya respect sayo. Wlang kwenta *** mga ganong tao sarado *** utak.
I understand na mahal mo sya pero i think its not too late para mag isip-isip ka na, bago mo sabihin sa sarili mo na ang *****-***** mo nga dahil nde mo iniwan agad yang bf mo.

[LaTtE`M]

Immature yang boyfriend mo. Huwag mo yan pakakasalan. Masisira lang ang buhay mo.!

[nek_02]

mejo makitid utak ng bf mu, pare. una sa lahat, kung mahal ka nia talaga..tanggap nia dpat lahat ng tungkol sayo. lahat. kung tutuusin..kung talagang maayos takbo ng isip niya, hindi na dapat issue yang virginity mu, eh. siguro nga sapul lang ang ego nia kse ikaw ndi na virgin samantalang sha, ikaw ang una.

pangalawa, niyaya ka nia magpakasal dba? eh kung di nia ma-get over *** past mu at pinapamukha nia un *** every chance he gets..eh bat ka pa nia yayayain to get married? di ka ba nag-d-doubt sa sincerity niyan?

saka tanung ko ***..given this situation, bat ka pumayag magpabuntis (if ever nga na alam mung balak na nia mgka-baby sayo)? kse hirap niyan e..nagdagdag sha ng responsibility eh its pretty obvious he's not mature enough to have any.

[rodex]

Originally posted by LaTtE`M
Immature yang boyfriend mo. Huwag mo yan pakakasalan. Masisira lang ang buhay mo.!

tama! and abort na rin *** baby, hirap na lumabas tulad daddy

[cherrybreaker]

Ei g-a-g-o ka pala eh, PAPATAYIN NIYA sariling anak niya?

Originally posted by rodex
tama! and abort na rin *** baby, hirap na lumabas tulad daddy

[cherrybreaker]

Normal lang na ganyan pakiramdam ng BF mo.

Lilipas din yang selos pag labas ng baby.

Ano pa ba ang tunay na pruweba ng iyong pagmamahal kundi ang sanggol ninyong dalwa?