Surviving a LONG Distance Relationship

[mOOgliEzeth]

LDR is a perfect way to test the gravity of love a couple feel for each other.

[anthraxgal]

well for me, unluckily, after 2 yrs, he gave up.

[victoryliner]

@anthraxgal


sweet naman ng relationship ninyo

[semikotne]

well for me, unluckily, after 2 yrs, he gave up.

tagal din pala... atleast di umabot ng 4 or 5 years baka naisipan mo na mag-madre na lang kapag nagbreak kayo...

[anthraxgal]

@victoryliner paano naman naging sweet yun?

@semikotne ganun ba yun...d ko alam...mala vic sotto ata naging boyfriend ko eh...wala plano talaga mag asawa hahahaha

[semikotne]

ay ganon ba... panong vic sotto ba? alam ko my anak si vic sotto so meron na din ba si boyfriend mo? di kaya mala-piolo pascual? peace

[IwantTObreathe]

i gave up after 2 years. and i regret it.

[lucas_scott]

not for me. LDRs take a lot of trust, discipline and commitment. only a select few could make it work - imho

[anthraxgal]

ay ganon ba... panong vic sotto ba? alam ko my anak si vic sotto so meron na din ba si boyfriend mo? di kaya mala-piolo pascual? peace

wala ata plano mag settle down talaga kaya ko nasabing vic sotto

[lucas_scott]

i gave up after 2 years. and i regret it.

what made you regret it?

[IwantTObreathe]

what made you regret it?

I lost him completely. I thought I fell out of love. I felt numb maybe because of the distance factor, I still love him up to now, and might be loving him for the rest of my life. A one-sided love. Painful.

[lucas_scott]

I lost him completely. I thought I fell out of love. I felt numb maybe because of the distance factor, I still love him up to now, and might be loving him for the rest of my life. A one-sided love. Painful.

hmm.my bad.i thought you regretted giving up. but it seemed you regretted being in that LDR in the first place

[johnpiolo]

hi guys share ko lang ang story ko...

3 months pa lang kami ng partner ko ngayon, yung 1 monthsary and 2nd monthsary ok kami.
pero itong lang week na 2 may nagbago naging cold na siya mga 1 week na =( sobrang nasasaktan ako ngayon nagtetext ako sa kanya everyday pero lately isang reply na lang na rerecieve ko. medyo busy daw siya sa work niya ngayon kaya daw hindi siya masyado nakaka reply sakin..

ngayon katatapos lang namin magusap sa ym tinatanong ko siya kung bakit nagiging cold siya, sabi ko masyado ako nasasaktan. alam ko na sstress siya sa work niya at lagi siyang pagod kaya paguwi niya natutulog na din siya agad hindi na nga niya ako tinatawagan =( kahit gusto ko naman siya tulog naman siya ayoko naman siya istorbohin dahil alam ko naman pagod siya..

ang sabi ko lang naman sa kanya ayoko na sstress siya kasi mas lalo akong nahihirapan kasi ang layo niya hindi ko alam kung pano siya cocomfort kahit gusto ko siya yakapin hindi ko naman magawa, sabi ko kung my problema ka nandito na naman ako sabihin mo sakin at kung na sstress ka nandito ako patatawanin kita. pero iba ang sagot niya masyado na daw ako ma reklamo =( grabe ang sakit pero sabi ko ok lang pahinga ka na lang naiiyak tuloy ako habang nag ttype.. sorry guys wala kasi ako masabihan i need advice thank you again..

[IwantTObreathe]

hmm.my bad.i thought you regretted giving up. but it seemed you regretted being in that LDR in the first place

maybe. I don't know. I regret all the same. If I didn't engage in that LDR, I wouldn't be hurting this much.

[try_0]

Mahirap mag survive. . . ang kanta ko nga ngayon ay "Chasing Pavements "

[Imen]

Ay mas active pala tong thread ng LDR na to kesa dun sa isa. Anyway here goes my story im in a relationship with this guy bago palang mga 1 month palang. He went home (dito sa manila) because sumubok mag-model dun nakadepend yung pag-stay nya dito unfortunately di pinalad puro VTR and photoshoot lang nangyari so he decided to go back to UK muna bumalik muna sa work nya.

Hindi namin napagusapan ng masinsinan kung pano iwowork out yung relationship since malayo sya and eto pa yung nakakabaliw na part dun he grew up in UK (half brit/pinoy) so obviously medyo westernized tong lalakeng to hes the type na more on calls lang di mahilig magtext.Maski nung nandito pa yun sa pinas di yun mahilig magtext tatawag lang yun sakin. Basta sabi lang nya saken nung hinatid ko sya airport well make it work hindi nyako iiwan hell be back in 4 months.

So eto na ang dilemma hes been in UK for a couple of weeks na nung first 2 weeks medyo okay nakakapagfacetime kami nakakapagusap kami he keeps on telling me na homesick na sya he misses me,his friends his family.. pero after a week (he got promoted kasi) naging busy na sa work to the point na siguro sa isang linggo mga twice na lang kami naguusap tapos parang pagod na pagod pa sya parang walang kagana-gana.

Syempre ako im trying to make it work kahit di yun matext i make sure every morning and gabi i text him ingat bla bla i miss you ganyan just to let him know na im here pero yun di marunong magreply as in once in a blue moon lang magreply. Nakakainis na part is nalalaman ko yung pinsan nya tinatawagan nya pag-gising nya sa umaga, tinetext nya tapos ako di man lang matext.

So one time nagrequest ako maayos naman actually pabiro pa nga nung sinabi ko na Ui if ever di ka makakatawag kasi pagod ka na or whatever just text me (thru viber kami nagtetext/call) para naman di ako nagwoworry. Ayun nagalit di daw ako supportive sa LDR na to bla bla. Dumugo ilong ko english e hahahaha. Pero eventually napagusapan din namin ang naintindinhan daw nya is nagdedemand ako na magtext/call sya everyday so I just scratched the idea and told him okay sige di na kita ippressure magtext ka na lang pag free ka tawagan moko pag free ka anyway alam mo naman when is the best time to call and he was like okay (as in parang robot na okay).

Sad is I really want to make this work I want to talk to him seriously pero once I start na magsalita ng seryoso nagsisimula na sya na parang nawawalan na ng gana yung boses parang pagod na ewan.

Hay ang hirap. Minsan parang gusto ko na bumitaw pero naisip ko ano ba ilang linggo palang bibitaw nako? Saka di ko talaga magets yung style nya na no text/call ekek! ano ba yun! ano ba dapat ko gawin? sorry nobela. Kailangan ko lang to ivent out.

[purpleheadd07]

ganun talaga. pag adik ka sa text nakakabaliw din yung di ka rereplyan minsan. eh not all guys are texters. eventually though masasanay ka din. learn to live with it. wag gaanong mam-pressure. wag masanay na may schedule.

take things slow especially ganyan na bago pa lang. learn to accept that even if you are together you still have two different worlds. ibang time zones, ibang cultures, ibang atmospheres.

it's hard but we just have to learn how to relax and trust each other, and the world, and the entire universe that maybe, just maybe, this could eventually work.

[Buere01]

wow my thread pa lang ganto newbie ako sa pex pero isa ito sa nag highlight na thread until now nasa long distance relationship ako mag 3yrs na kami my mga ups and down pero kailangan patibayan ang isat isa..
madami ako matutunan dito

[Imen]

ganun talaga. pag adik ka sa text nakakabaliw din yung di ka rereplyan minsan. eh not all guys are texters. eventually though masasanay ka din. learn to live with it. wag gaanong mam-pressure. wag masanay na may schedule.

take things slow especially ganyan na bago pa lang. learn to accept that even if you are together you still have two different worlds. ibang time zones, ibang cultures, ibang atmospheres.

it's hard but we just have to learn how to relax and trust each other, and the world, and the entire universe that maybe, just maybe, this could eventually work.

Oo nga e im really trying my very best to understand the whole situation yung culture and time differences namin, minsan lang parang naiisip ko parang walang effort on his side although tunatawag naman yun pag may freetime sya. Bago pa kasi kami parang getting to know stage saklap pa kasi di ko makilala ng lubos coz hes not here kinakapa kapa ko lang yung situation.

Ngayon talaga im trying to accept the fact na hindi talaga sya matext alam mo naman tayong mga pinoy haha adik sa te text. One step at a time lang siguro

Im trying to keep my self busy para di ko naman masyado maisip yung situation namen at di ako mafrustrate.

Thanks dear

[pinkstainedglass]

hi guys! im new here.
just wanted to share some light on LDR. my husband and I were HS friends and has been apart for 15 years before we get intouch again. Naging bf/gf kami while he was abroad and went home after 6mos to marry me and went back again. Mahirap ang LDR, I feel for those who felt neglected dahil busy ang partner sa work, di nagttxt, di nakaka OL. It takes a lot of understanding and patience to survive this, TRUST is also a big thing. Smen siguro ang naging best na way para walang sakitan ng loob is to expect less from your partner, mahirap man pero you always need to remind yourself na wag magdemand, the pain and the longing kills us, not just ourselves but also our partners.
Kaya pag may effort na sila naman magdemand ng time natin, we feel happier
We're all in this together, kaya wag na masad. Sabi nga db? Waiting is being faithful to the promise once said.