Surviving a LONG Distance Relationship

[dabbydabs]

very inspiring stories ...

i'm going through mine ... it sucks like hell .. like now i really feel the distance tapos lagi pa siyang busy , tapos me issue pa sa office about internet usage ..nakaka-stress . minsan i can't help but entertain negative thoughts na baka hindi naman talaga siya busy ... na he's busy with someone else na .. , pero he assured me naman na busy lang siya talaga sa work niya ....
mahirap talaga ang ganitong situation , like sa min ang daming restrictions ...

i try not to think of him much , kaya lang can't help it talaga ...

minsan ayoko na lang din mag-expect ... nakakafrustrate lang ...
kaya i just let the days go by na lang ...

haayzz..

its so hard... really...
trust is a big issue sa long distance relationship..
what you should do is make yourself busy para di na lang siya yung parating nasa isip mo,,
but always make yourself available pag may time na siya sayo..
tama yan.. don't expect anything para di ka masaktan..
it's a choice to be in that situation.. and its a decision if you will stay.
good luck!... to us

[herido]

Super Challenging. 8 months and going stronger...
Constant communication, openmindedness, updating each other, finding time, the desire to stay strong. Sobrang hirap pero kapag gusto n'yo talaga magtagal eh pareho kayong magpapakatatag.
It's never easy.
Meron ngang iba magkasama na sa bahay, magkasama na dito sa Pinas di pa rin nagwo work.
Kung nasa play stage pa kayo then mag open relationship na lang kayo. Pero kung gusto n'yo ng matagalan at pareho kayong 'yun ang goal then nothing to worry about. Temptation should be something to discuss. It will help us deal with it.

[Pretty_Wings]

LDRs are not for the faint of hearts...

[ladyrevolver]

my ex and I were able to survive this for one year because of constant communication. but because of a single major argument regarding "trust" issue, he got really mad. he claimed wala raw akong tiwala sa kanya. and so, ako na lang ang nag-sorry, and explained extensively that the reason behind my "inquiries" is because i just wanted to understand him better because i love him. unfortunately, all landed on deaf ears. he kept silent for 3 days, afterwhich, lahat na ng means of communication ginawa ko just to reach him and ask him if galit pa sya. but to no avail. his uncooperativeness, coupled by our "other" unresolved issues, made me give up...i broke up with him.

but alas, after two weeks of silence, he suddenly spoke up, and reasoned that he was really hurt, thus, the absence. there was no sign na gusto nyang makipagbalikan, so i clarified to him na break na nga kame. he replied, "kung yan ang pasya mo, di kita masisi para mas makilala pa natin ang isa't isa. magkaibigan pa rin ba tayo?" without thinking, i just said "oo naman".

i really didn't know what to expect in his proposed friendship after a break-up, but napansin ko na bumalik ang communication namin, and along with it, bumalik ang "fire" (at least on my part). i wanted him back. and so, i ate all my pride and told him that i still love him and gusto kong makipagbalikan sa kanya. he merely said, "pwede bang friends na muna tayo ulit?" from then on, i decided to move on and hindi na muling aasang magbabalikan kame. ergo, kung sakaling magka-bf ako ulit, ayoko na talaga sa LDR, never again.

[Gspotter69]

It's been a while since I visited the site. How's everyone goin?

I'm on LDR right now and yeah it really sucks when it comes to arguments but the thing is WE are all holding up to the person wherever they are. I'm almost a year far from my heart but the constant video calls and phone calls makes our promises to be clear for each other.

And yes, not to loose the heat of fire sometimes we do some kinky stuff over video calls and it really flare up the fire. we miss each other so much that we sometimes cry on the phone. i just always hold on to her promises and deeply trust her heart.

I never cheated on her for the past nth month and i'm proud of myself. Sometimes I just drown myself with any reading materials and some games online and of course the PEX site with a good chat with anyone with sense. Sigh.. Can anyone feel me?

[rainbow78]

my bf now my husband works as a seafarer in a cruise ship. Mag-bf pa lang kami alam ko na yun ang work nya. We promised each other not to break each others TRUST and RESPECT para mag-work ang aming marriage. Mahirap na masarap ang situation namin - mahirap kasi magkalayo kayo at mag-isa mo papalakihin ang mga junakis namin, masarap naman kasi pag-uuwi sya eh parang mag-gf/bf ang turingan namin sa isa't isa kumbaga lovey-dovey :-)

[popular10]

ako naman ldr kami ng fiancee ko..she decides to work abroad kasi breadwinner sya..mahal na mahal ko sya kaya naiiyak ako pag naalala ko.5 taon na kami nagsasama at ngayon lang talaga nagkalayo

parang nawalan ako ng ate,nanay,asawa,kaoatid,bestfriend at higit sa lahat ang buhay ko.sana matiis ko tong tagal na to.

[fetish_bby]

Im with my bf for 9 yrs and 3 months now, 2007 he left to work in uae, i thought at first ldr doesnt work but it does. We see each other then every 6 months.. Though my doubts ako pero stil we continued 2009, i went abroaf na nrn curently im here in nz.. Still im stil with him.. Constant communication *** ****, trust and lalo na sacrifice.. Super sacrifice ****.. But i think, if you are really meant for each othwr *** ****..

[kiwikiwi]

Just broke up with my bf for 4 years because of this kind of situation. Iniwan nya ko. Well, naprove ko lang na mas strong ako

[Great_HO]

Yep. Still going strong.

[sexy_bluegurl]

Not that easy though it can work..Iba lang din talaga yung lagi kayo mag-kasama..

[enaej426]

^ if you entertain those thoughts in your mind it will eat you alive ...
unless your LDR Partner do those things...
then it will be a choice to stay or not ...

As for me .. I don't .. I trust him
And if there'll comes the time that he'll disappear and not hear from him for a long time say a month without any valid reason....
it will be my choice to stay or not ....

communication is very important and vital in an LDR .
with the technology today , it's so easy to find ways ....
if you really want to communicate ..
even for a couple of minutes...

sigh .. sigh ... sigh .....

[cryinoutloud]

survive a long distance relationship? you can't!!!

either break or magsacrifice ang isa at sumunod sa kung nasan ang isa...

[hathaway]

it didn't work for me.

[nntndds]

Kung walang gaanong libog sa katawan., madali ang ling distance relationship...


Although viber helps a lot...

[lovejones]

long distance relationships don't work

you can only f.uc.k each other online for so long and there will come a time when you'll start thinking "what the f.uc.k am i doing? i badly need to hump somebody"

sex is a biological need.a finger or a hand can only do so much

[nntndds]

Then one could go fcuk every **** and ***** you see, even dogs for all one care, but it does not mean uour relationship with your partner can't work, either one can keep it a secret and vow to stop as soon you are together, or your partner will understand,

[happyhaus97]

maximize the power of modern technology.

make a video for your love one.
write down notes.
send a message through facebook
talk via skype
sing a song while talking.

sabi nga, if there's a will there will always be a way to connect and find time for your love one =)

[eureka_07]

magpapa member na nga ako dito..

[sarge200]

subscribing! I am into this kind of relationship. 1 year and 3 months. Its really hard.