Is it wrong 2b sweet 2ur friend of the opposite sex evn if hindi kayo mag bf/gf?

[smileygal21]

is it wrong 2b sweet 2ur friend of the opposite sex evn if hindi kayo mag bf/gf? is being sweet to ur friend of the opposite sex already considered flirting?

[LaTtE`M]

If there's no malice to it, nope, nothing wrong with that. Not unless you have sex.... now THAT needs clearing up.

If it's not malicious, it's not flirting.

Open your eyes wide, girl.

[great_escape]

no i don't think its wrong to be affectionate or sweet to your best friend of the opposite sex. your just showing your affection to your friend because you feel so comfortable with him or her and treasure him or her that much. it really sucks when other people put malice in it or tease friends because there not the same sex and are affectionate to one another

[Blister]

theres nothing WRONG with that.
even with flirting. theres nothing wrong with that as well.

as long as wala kayong nasasaktan na ibang tao. and both of you are happy in that kind of situation

[pinoy2781]

nope. i have a male friend, and we're pretty close to the point that other people think we're an item. he's my bestfriend actually. and we both have our own significant others. my bf is comfortable with it because he knows him.

as long as walang malisya, then your fine.

[karla08]

i think there is nothing wrong with that. basta dapat lang na malinaw sa inyong dalawa na walang ibang ibig sabihin yung pagiging affectionate. pag may na-develop na isa sa inyo, MAG-USAP na kayo...

[hennry]

i agree na nothings wrong with it basta malinaw sa inyo yun baka ma mis interpret nya mga ginagawa mo

[mai_doze]

no.

[zero_eight]

as long as d relationship is platonic and wlang malice,its ok.. in my case kc i have a guy bstfriend na sobrang close tlaga ***..kala nga ng iba kami,but we're not..as in lahat ng baho namin alm namin,lahat ng secret,kilalang kilala na **** namin isa't-isa..b4 k sha mging bstfriend nanligaw muna sha *** nung 1st year h.s. p *** pero d nagng ***..den 4th yr h.s. *** nging mag bestfriend..*** ***** pg naaalala namin *** dati na niligawan nya me twa *** *** ng tawa s mga kabudayan at katangahan namin..ours is really a platonic one kaya pg sweet *** no malice n tlaga

[black_angel]

i dont find anything wrong with this situation, lalo na kapag sweet nd caring talaga *** person.

pero in my case, nasasabihan akong equal treatment daw gingawa sa lahat, pero wala nmn talagang malice sakin un. sabi ng guy friends ko, dapat daw hndi ganon, kc mamimis interpret daw un ng iba and ang backfire daw ay sasabihan ako ng flirt or maarte, or malandi.

[smileygal21]

then how will you maintain your relationship with your best friend without making your boyfriend jealous?

[smileygal21]

Originally posted by pinoy2781
nope. i have a male friend, and we're pretty close to the point that other people think we're an item. he's my bestfriend actually. and we both have our own significant others. my bf is comfortable with it because he knows him.

as long as walang malisya, then your fine.

in my case, how will i maintain my relationship with my best friend without hurting my bf who is kind of jealous over the thought of it? di ba dumarating sa point na nagseselos din bf mo sometimes?

[soulthird]

pag sweet sa lahat ok, pero if it's preferential I don't think it's pure friendship.

[tiger8sharky]

my bestfriend kasi is really close with me even before my bf and i met. touchy person kasi yun e nang huhug kahit sa harap ng bf ko. i dont think na my bf is affected by that kasi wala namang meaning yung mga ganon e.

[LokAgiRL19]

hmm... depende.. kung wala kayong commitment sa ibang tao. kse baka naman may gf or bf na kayo pero pag magkakasama kayo eh mas mukha pang kayo nong friend mo ang mag bf/gf. depende kse kung may nasasagasaan na kayong ibang tao. pero kung wala naman.. why not diba? pero kung may gf/bf na kayo eh don na lang kayo sa kanya maging sweet diba.. kahit naman siguro kayo ayaw nyong makita na yong bf nyo eh mas sweet pa sa friend nyang girl kesa sa inyo diba...

[rage_within]

nope, nothing wrong with that.

nasa nagdadala lang iyan... basta alam nyo lang yung limitations nyo... both sides.

[Pointless]

There's nothing wrong with it, although it can be misleading sometimes... I've seen too many topics created by people who are falling for their friends who are extra sweet and affectiionate towards them... They keep obsessing about whether or not those friends feel the same way as they do... As long as you make it clear that you have no romantic intentions, you can be sweet and stuff, but if your friend has no idea about it and is actually attracted to you then you may end up leading him on

[sexychika]

ganto *** yun..kung ala sha bf/gf mas ok...nd it aint wrong..daming ganyan..kse ang gf/bf pwede mapalitan pero kaibigan never..

[biskwit9016]

well, if it has that nega effect on your bf's nerves then i guess you should put the sweetness in moderation to avoid conflicting your relationship.

there is nothing wrong with being affectionate with your guy friend as long as you are not leading him on to thinking that there is more to it than plain friendship. if your relationship with your pal is threatening your relationship with your bf then i guess you better talk to both of them and clarify things. let's just hope that no one would ask you to choose between them. good luck!

-biskwit

[eileen_m]

for me okay lang yon . basta both of you are not attached to anyone . kasi if for instance, i have a bf and my guy is somewhat close to this gurl ,shempre nakakainis diba .
pero pag sweet lang kayo sa isat isa ang walang ibang naaapektohan , okay lang yon