Suicidal People: Crying for help or Should be dumped in the Mental?

[Sweetkay]

i believe its a cry for help. they hurt so much inside that they just want to end it. ayaw nilang mamatay pero gusto nilang matapos na yung sakit.

[juve_grrrl10]

I agree. Kasi daw kung gusto mong magpakamatay, gagawin mo agad, walang second thoughts. Pero kung kailangan mo lang ng karamay, magiging attempt lang siya. halimbawa na lang yung mga taong tumatalon mula sa building, kung magsu-suicide ka talaga, tatalon ka agad, eh pero kung ayan, andyan na yung mga bumbero, pulis, TV crew...you just need help.

[Mudbug]

Yea, is there room for du-kat?

[Assassin_Mage]

Yes, I do believe that it also is a cry for help, a yearning for attention. And usually, the symptoms can be seen long before then, if you only look.


Mudbug:
I do not think your husband wants to commit suicide.. I think it is yo uwho is volunteering him for such. cheer up.. cool it okay? as I alwasy say, smile..

[daeva]

Crying for help.

But if that person attempted suicide for the nth time ... then he/she's CRYING FOR SOME SERIOUS HELP.

[G-MAN]

ive had tons of problems before but i never thought of suicide. it definitely aint a cry for help coz if u do commit suicide, then who would be able to help you then? pag may problema...five thirsty muna

[Sweetkay]

actually it is a cry for help. i have tried to do it several times and quite got to the point na naglaslas na talga pero the thing is, nobody still listens. they all think na baliw na ako. gusto ko lang naman makinig sila at tangapin nila na may problema kaso wala e. alam kong mali pero kung minsan, mas gusto ko na yung physical pain kesa sa sakit sa loob.

[Khaos]

a cry for help...

wanted to end everything to end the pain but theres no point... ill end up hurtin everyone who cared about me...

[virgo14]

Originally posted by daeva:
Crying for help.

But if that person attempted suicide for the nth time ... then he/she's CRYING FOR SOME SERIOUS HELP.

i have a couple of friends who slash their wrists regularly, and then display the band-aid rather prominently the next day. i can understand feeling the need for release, but there has to be a better way. i think inflicting pain to the self stems from low self-esteem. it may be a cry for help, but they gotta help themselves first.

[hanna]

some naman just want attention. they do drastic measures like attempting to commit suicide para lang mapansin. it is very serious kaya dapat give them attention and talk to them pero talk to them heart-to-heart and regularly kasi pag feeling nila hindi na naman sila napapansin, attempt ulit yan...

[patch]

ang mga taong may suicidal tendencies ay dapat tinutulungan ...

i have friends having the same tendency ...
buti na lang at napigilan ko sila ...

dapat kasi, kausapin lang sila at kulitin kung ano ba talaga ang problem nila ... and advise them not to do such a thing kasi wala namang patutunguhan ang gagawin niya ...

well, that was from a personal experience!

[hanna]

pray for them too!

[Sweetkay]

yeah! prayer is a good way of helping them.

nakakaasar lang talaga yung ibang tao na would consider na baliw ka because of that. i mean, they don't know anything baout the situation e di tumahimik na lang sila. di kasi nila maintindihan e.

[Sweetkay]

for some reason, i really wanna kill myself right now. don't know why. the only person in the room is fast asleep and if id onät stop this train of thought, i' gonna do it in a while.

[soulthird]

crying for help. putting them in a mental hosp. will only aggravate the situation. unless of course talagang may sayad na.

[Sweetkay]

but hten again, who are we decide that someone is psycho na? kahapon i was down pero dapat happy ako. now i'm happy pero dapat down ako. lokagirl e no.

[saywhat]

Suicidal People: Crying for help or Should be dumped in the Mental?

Medyo naguluhan ako sa thread title. Anyway, these people are unquestionably crying for help. If their case requires commiting them into a reliable halfway house for treatment, then it should be done so. It's just one way of showing that we care. Otherwise, we'd just let them roam the streets until they turn into "taong grasa". It's unfortunate, though, that the national mental institute has insufficient funds to provide for the complete medical requirements of their patients. hindi naman komo't ipinasok sa mental hospital ay hopeless na. (although we can't deny na may mga kaanak na inaabandon na lang ang pasyente rito.) ginagamot naman sila doon, kaso nga lang napapatagal ang paggaling ng mga pasyente sa kakulangan ng pondong pantustos. of course there are private clinics/hospitals for those who could afford.

[zimdude]

Sweetkay:
Psychologists and psychiatrists do find out if people are "psycho", that's their job.
Perhaps you are bipolar, if your mood swings from up to down for apparently no reason.

I'm bipolar, in fact.

Bipolar people also have high suicide rates, so ingat ka... I suggest you see a mental health professional.

[Eugene]

Suicidal ba kamo? Kung buhay lang sana ang mga teroristang
nag-suicide sa World Trade Center at Pentagon ay tatanungin ko
sila kung bakit.

Tapos ang dami pang mga suicide bomber na Palestinian sa
Israel. Yung recent suicide bombing sa Israel ay me mga Pinoy
na nasawi. Kawawa naman ang kababayan natin na nag-
sakcripisyo *** gaganda ang pamumuhay sa Pilipinas... tapos
naging statistics lang sa mga suicide bombers.

Very tragic indeed.

Ang nasa kanto... Eugene

[SCHAUDENFRAUDE]

Crying 4 help... btw, it's a serious mistake na ppl who really want to do it don't talk about it... in fact those who successfully perform the act are known to have given verbal hints on what they're about to do... Sadly, these "hints" are ignored...