how long do i have to do this? =(

[bhoe]

hanggang kelan nyo kayang maging kaibigan sa best friend mo na mahal mo? i mean... hanggang kelan mo kakayanin na marinig lahat ng kwento nya about another girl and how much he loves her and how long will you endure the pain of giving him advice on how to make things workout with that other girl?

ang sakit noh!!! di ko na yata kakayanin to eh... listening to him talk about this girl and how they spend their day together... as in lahat ng ginawa nila... imagine the pain i felt when he called and told me how perfect their first kiss was... i just cant help it but cry wyl he tells me that "perfect" moment... cyempre nagtanong *** bakit tahimik ako...i just said na i'm just listening coz i've never heard him talk like that...he was so happy... don't get me wrong... I AM HAPPY FOR HIM... he's my bestfriend for goodness sake... but i dont know if i cud still handle this... this pain is just too much... what should i do? i dont know how long i cud keep this up?

[AltarBoy^_^]

cut your ties with your best friend and keep a distance!

[raven23]

"The friend zone" apparently works both ways.

[Khell]

Simple. Just tell him what you feel. If he can't accept the fact and return your feelings, I guess you were just meant to be friends and that you have to move on with your life. Life's really like that ...

[muchas]

we can't expect the bestfriens-fall-in-love fairy tale to work for all of us...
sad pero its true....
khell is ryt to say that if he can't reciprocate your feelings then u were just meant to be friends....

[killua]

Just go a distance... mas mahirap kaseng sabihin mo sa kanya tapos magiging cool ang friendship ninyo... just move a little distance to him.... mas mabuti na yun kaysa sa you endure the pain of waiting.... at least you are very good friends pa rin di ba.... anytime he can come to you... based on my experiene..... (which is girl naman ang bestfriend ko...) I fell in love with her... cutting it short hindi ako nakatiis na mag friend lang kami... I said it to her.... and yet our friendship suffers.... me suffers to the action I had made.... Sana hindi ko na lang sinabi sa kanya yun... atleast sana hanggang ngayon... sana.. may communication pa kami.... Sana... yun ang mga sana na gusto kong makita mo kapag you fell in love sa bestfriend mo....

[scarlet]

maybe you should start moving away... mahirap talaga yung nsa situation na 'yan eh... give a little distance once in a while... it might help you...

[eileen_m]

mahirap talaga pag ganyan . thing is , hindi sha aware tht you have feelings for him , and shempre , ayaw mo rin paalam kasi if he finds out tas hindi ganon yun nararamdaman nya sayo , then you'd get really hurt ryt ?
what you should do is , find a love interest of your own , busy yourself with that , tas wag mo na muna sha kausapin para you could get a hold of yourself .
Tapos , pag ready ka na, na kausapin sha without feeling a tinge of jealousy and control mo na yung feelings mo, then that's the time na ibalik mo yung communication and close bond nyo .
Kasi if you don't give it time, tas ganun lagi yung routine nyo , tas di mo naman alam kung panu mo sasabihin sa kanya yung tungkol sa feelings mo, lalo ka lang mahihirapan and baka may masabi ka pa na hindi maganda and maging cause pa ng away nyo db

[lite]

Either you tell him or not. Just don't kid yourself that you can go on being like this.

[roydz]

ouchies... pero lets face it, you should tell him, though i'm not saying yuo must...

if you tell him what you feel, chances are, he might turn away from his mischievous ways (ideal result)... or he might also be in-love with you, and was just telling you all those stories just to make you jealous... or he might turn around and walk away (i hope this won't happen coz may pinagsamahan naman kayo e...)

if you don't tell him, you'd be deeply wounded and carry the burden for the rest of your life...


change is constant... things will never be the same...

[AimmEMaN]

mala MY BESTFRIEND'S WEDDING ang isyu dito ah...

goodluck!

[mische_15]

been there, i know it's difficult but i think you need some time away from him...

[Hyperion]

Tell him what you feel. Take the risk or regret it later in your life. Malay mo, baka may hidden feelings din sya para sa yo. Kung wala, eh di sorry ka na lang. Pick up the pieces of your heart and move on. That's life ... it's tough, but you must go on.

It is up to him if he can keep a "friend" who has romantic feelings for him. If he does - eh at least, he won't be asking you for advice or telling you about his girl di ba? If he doesn't and he tries to avoid you - eh di you know what kind of a friend he really is ...

If you move away - you will always be thinking of what could have happened if you had told him. You will one day wish na sana you had the guts to tell him. You will feel sorry for yourself lalo na if he is already married to someone.

You are happy that he is happy not because he is your bestfriend but because you love him. Now, fight for your love if you love yourself too.

[JaY_aRe_Dee]

well, it's up to you

either you put up with that, or you come clean with your feelings, it's as simple as that...

[sexychika]

tama..keep ur distance muna..lalo kalng masasaktan..
minsan life's really a b*tch..