WoULd YoU Be WilLing To SacRifice uR frienDHsip witH wHat u Feel??

[rushmore]

Eilo peeps! /*sigh*/ im in a dilemma here! i think m falling for my close friend... should i go through with what i feel or just keep it to myself... hmmmm...

aniwei, if u are in my situation, would you tell her??? or just leave ur friendship as it is ??

[InYUCKi]

oo .. hehe all or nothing na lang ...

[The_Phantom]

Kung ako sa yo pre, subukan mong sumugal para kahit anong mangyari ay alam mong may ginawa ka at alam mo kung ano ang nangyari. Worst scenario na siguro yung iniisip mong masisira ang friendship ninyo na maaring hindi naman ganun kalala ang mangyari. Paano kung pareho pala kayo ng nararamdaman sa isa't isa?

Galing na rin ako sa sitwasyon mo at nagsisi ako sa huli na hindi ko kasi sinabi ng diretso sa girl yung feelings ko dahil lang sa nagbitiw siya (girl) ng salita sa isang kaibigan naming nangligaw sa kanya na ayaw niyang mangligaw sa kanya mga kaibigan niya. Kung kaibigan daw, kaibigan lang! Kung mangliligaw, manligaw! Ang masakit, nung may bf na siya ay bigla niyang sinabi sa akin na LOVE (exact word na ginamit niya) niya ako at nakulitan lang siya kaya niya sinagot bf niya. Kaya paminsan-minsan naiisip ko, ano kaya kung niligawan ko nga siya... ano kaya ang nangyari. Kaya ngayon, puro "ano kaya ang nangyari kung ginawa ko yung ganito o ganyan" na lang ako, tsk tsk tsk.

Ikaw rin, kung hindi ka makikipagsapalaran ay hindi mo talaga malalaman kung ano ang mangyayari talaga. Baka kapag matanda ka na saka ka magsisi na bakit hindi mo ginawa yung ganito o ganyan at ang masasabi mo na lang lagi sa sarili mo "ano kaya ang nangyari kung ginawa ko yung ganito o ganyan". Wag naman sana... GOOD LUCK!!!

[Khell]

If you love someone you say it.. you say it right then,out loud... or the moment just… passes you by.

Regret is one of the worst feeling that we get. Personally, I don't wanna feel that. But it's still up to you if you wanna say it or not. G'luck.

[LaTtE`M]

Originally posted by rushmore
Eilo peeps! /*sigh*/ im in a dilemma here! i think m falling for my close friend... should i go through with what i feel or just keep it to myself... hmmmm...

aniwei, if u are in my situation, would you tell her??? or just leave ur friendship as it is ??

Tantsahin mo muna... if you think she also likes you, go for it. If she obviously likes you more as a friend, sayang lang...

Goodluck nonetheless

[DELISYUS]

honestly....

if you're still a teenager, or in your early 20s.....and not even planning to settle down soon....don't even think of sacrificing your friendship with her.....

probability of you guys going steady is 50-50

but probability of you guys staying together is more slim the younger you guys are

and the chance of staying friends after that, almost nil

sayang lang........for chances are, it is a passing fancy

[density]

HAHAHA... k *** yan pre, no need to be afraid... d ka *** naman nag-iisa...

pero, in my situation naman, M.U. na *** ng girl then biglang one summer ayun... biglang nagbago ugali nya... parang nde ko na sya kilala... as if wala *** pinagsamahan.

tell her *** you feel right away... dont let things come into worst. if she also feels the same way about you... then GOOD for you. if you want to save your friendship with her... keep it in a second person conversion and a "what if" conversion. keeping it low and not so obvious, just to know her reaction.

[BadAssGoddess]

okay lang as long as youre ready to take the risk.. hirap na kase mag-assume and manghula kase iba iba ang perception ng tao.. kung sa tingin mo may patutunguhang maganda kung sasabihin mo then tell it... pero pag sa tingin mo naman alanganin... wag na lang...

[Maru_boy]

Ewan ko, na-kuryente na ako diyan. I had a lady friend and when I began to fall for her and I told her about it, we became some sort of enemies! Sira ang pag-kaibigan.

Sayang, ang ganda pa naman niya. Puede ilaban sa beauty contest.

[pbrg]

go for it!!! you'll never know what will happen... malay mo may feelings din sya. like me, married na ko with my bestfriend...

[rushmore]

Originally posted by The_Phantom
Kung ako sa yo pre, subukan mong sumugal para kahit anong mangyari ay alam mong may ginawa ka at alam mo kung ano ang nangyari. Worst scenario na siguro yung iniisip mong masisira ang friendship ninyo na maaring hindi naman ganun kalala ang mangyari. Paano kung pareho pala kayo ng nararamdaman sa isa't isa?

Galing na rin ako sa sitwasyon mo at nagsisi ako sa huli na hindi ko kasi sinabi ng diretso sa girl yung feelings ko dahil lang sa nagbitiw siya (girl) ng salita sa isang kaibigan naming nangligaw sa kanya na ayaw niyang mangligaw sa kanya mga kaibigan niya. Kung kaibigan daw, kaibigan lang! Kung mangliligaw, manligaw! Ang masakit, nung may bf na siya ay bigla niyang sinabi sa akin na LOVE (exact word na ginamit niya) niya ako at nakulitan lang siya kaya niya sinagot bf niya. Kaya paminsan-minsan naiisip ko, ano kaya kung niligawan ko nga siya... ano kaya ang nangyari. Kaya ngayon, puro "ano kaya ang nangyari kung ginawa ko yung ganito o ganyan" na lang ako, tsk tsk tsk.

Ikaw rin, kung hindi ka makikipagsapalaran ay hindi mo talaga malalaman kung ano ang mangyayari talaga. Baka kapag matanda ka na saka ka magsisi na bakit hindi mo ginawa yung ganito o ganyan at ang masasabi mo na lang lagi sa sarili mo "ano kaya ang nangyari kung ginawa ko yung ganito o ganyan". Wag naman sana... GOOD LUCK!!!

***** u have a point there pare! haaay! kasi, natatakot *** ako na mwala sya.. pero tama ka den.. kung di ko ren sasabihin baka puro "what if" then ako... salamat pare! : )

[rushmore]

Originally posted by pbrg
go for it!!! you'll never know what will happen... malay mo may feelings din sya. like me, married na ko with my bestfriend...

dude, bute na *** happy ending *** sayo! sana ganun den sa akin... thanks pare!

[kikaiArcher]

Originally posted by rushmore
Eilo peeps! /*sigh*/ im in a dilemma here! i think m falling for my close friend... should i go through with what i feel or just keep it to myself... hmmmm...

aniwei, if u are in my situation, would you tell her??? or just leave ur friendship as it is ??

same situation tayo...and i dont know either if i should tell him...after all, its been four years of friendship, sayang naman diba?

[kikaiArcher]

eh pano if you fell for your best friend (guy) na head-over-heels for your other best friend(girl)?

[The_Phantom]

Originally posted by rushmore
***** u have a point there pare! haaay! kasi, natatakot *** ako na mwala sya.. pero tama ka den.. kung di ko ren sasabihin baka puro "what if" then ako... salamat pare! : )

Masaya ako kung sakali mang nakatulong nga sa yo ang mga opinyon namin. Sa amin ay konting idea o payo lang ang lahat ng mga ito ayon sa palagay o experience namin pero sa yo pa rin ang huling desisyon.

Sana lang din, kung anuman ang maging sagot niya sa pagtatapat (kung magtatapat ka) mo ay matutunan mong tanggapin at igalang/irespeto yun. Sa gayun mas hindi maapektuhan ang friendship ninyo.

It hurts to love someone and not be loved in return. It's even more painful to love someone and... never find the courage to let that person know just how it is you feel.


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[naknampoo]

TAKE THE CHANCE!!!!!

nothing is worst than thinking what if i asked her?could it have been us?

and kung anu man mangyari, it's what was meant to be.

[uniten_nations]

ei, from a girl's opinion ur ryt. Sa effort mo sa kasi to tell her what you feel malalaman kung gaano ka ka-willing mag-sacrifice for that girl. If u think u'r willing to face d consequences of *** u're goin to do, then go for it. pero kung sa tingin mo u're not ready to face any hardships then it means na hindi pa enough *** feelings mo para mag-take risk sa ganong situation!

[seeker89]

if you think may pag-asa ka, tell her.

if you're not sure if she likes you in a romantic way, make her fall for you first. madali lang yun kc friends naman kayo. be sweeter to her...be nicer...dapat mas gentleman ka around her and other girls na rin as well...medyo paramdam ka. if after exerting these efforts to win her affection, she starts avoiding you...obvious di ka nya type. now if she's happy to see you everytime you get together and sounds eager to talk to you on the phone etc., i'm pretty sure she's starting to fall for you, too. once that happens, be brave enough to tell her what you feel.

good luck

[flick10]

if you dont do anything, u might regret it later. that sucks the most, knowing you could have done something but didnt.

[jeje]