do you hate your dad?

[PrNcZ]

YES..... but I respect him enough to be willing to forego all the negative implications he has brought upon me and my mom's life..

[katrix_17]

i don't really hate my dad. it's just that sometimes he treats us or talks to us as if we're on the same level (level as in experience-wise, or career-wise). sometimes i wish that he and my mom would just go on their separate ways. he doesn't want to listen to other people's side. all that matters to him is his opinion, everything he says is the law. i hate it everytime we say our side of the story or our opinion, he always butts in and says "no, no". grrr!!!

[HoRnY4NiE]

nope... i love my father very much...

[TheDreamer]

I don't exactly HATE my Dad coz its such a strong word. Tampo would be the right word for what I'm feeling for the past 3 years.

See my Dad wasnt there during my growing up years coz he's always out of the country for work (and oo nga pala, he wasnt there when I born). By the time he eventually settled down here in Manila, I was already in HS and my relatives from Sydney were already pressuring them to send me for studies there. We can afford it, my mind can take it and I'm independent for my age at that time. I super love learning new cultures and saw this as a way for me to help my family get a better life by studying and eventually working there.

He refused.

Year after year came the offer of sponsoring my travel, he would say no and muse "someday".

I'm in college now and my younger brother is living my dream. Nagtatampo ako ng tahimik coz he sounds so proud of my brother and all. I really cant help feeling this way towards him lalo na when I learned of these 2 reasons why he couldnt let go of me:

1. Kasi I'm the panganay and he wants me to guide my 2 lil sisters.
2. Kasi he wants to spend more time with me before I get too old.

Dont get me wrong, I super love my pops but sometimes, I just feel that he deprived me of a great chance.

[kaze]

no, I love my dad so much he is God blessing to us (my family)

[Purple_Snow]

i do..although i hope that someday i would stop feeling this way towards my dad. we never jived..we always clash! i hate his being irresponsible, insensitive and how he fools around w/o even bothering to hide it frm me or my mom. walang sinabi si dolphy or erap sa kanya..mas grabe pa! (no exaggerations here)

i just hope that i wouldn't enp up marrying someone who's like my dad..sorry but i really despise him......

[xxhtownpnaixx]

well, i dont hate mah dad. he juz sumtimes pisses da hell outta meh. i hate it when he's being insensitive, and unrealistic about the things that happens around him. mah mom's kinda like that too. he can't deal with the fact that things juz happens no matter how he tries to manage it the way he wanted it to be. most of the time, he's a perfectionist; wanting us juz to be like him. he's also a high maintenanced type of dad. he can't socialize with anybody who is below our standard of living. oh wellz, i have no choice but to deal with it since im gonna be living with him till i get married...

[Romancon]

Ako minsan na bu bwiset ako sa dad ko!

[SiMpLeNgMaLuPiT]

i have a question: how can i deal with an irresponsible father? Irresponsible in the sense na hndi nya kme (the family) pino-providan financially (tska emotionally na rin kc lge syang galit smen eh..bsta *** tipong perfectionist nga n *** namn s lugar) I know i shouldn't hate him bcz he is still my father. Pro kc naiinis kc ako everytime i see him dhil naalala ko *** mga ginwa nya eh...

[PsykoKrap]

Let me ask you a question: Are you a homosexual?

[rage_within]

anyone here wanna exchange dads?

[heavenhoney]

no...ilove my dad...

[Fenix]

Originally posted by rage_within
anyone here wanna exchange dads?

me! me! I'd prefer a dead one. at least he won't bother anyone anymore. that is, if anyone would be willing take my so called "father"
To those who have caring, responsible fathers, you're so lucky. they are indeed very rare.

[incu_freak]

well, i hate my dad because i think he's gay.. not gay gay... gay because he ran away from his responsibilities for me.... and he is not a good provider, too. he always thinks he's right though he's wrong.... he is such a perfectionist... and lastly, he petitioned me for states to end the responsibilities he has not started.... i'm an illegitimate child... eventhough i'm not part of real family i guess i deserve to be loved by a father... i've been longing for that since i was a child... he treats me like i don't know thing in life.... he thinks i'm a dumbass....

[PinayAngel]

I never had a dad to hate. I'm a child out of wedlock It's been 20 years and my mom tells me that my dad knows I exist but I guess he's just not interested in finding out how I am now. Never met him. Dont know what he looks like. Don't know how he sounds like. But my mom told me he was a handsome man and he sang on the radio and stuff like that... I dont hate him. I just want to know why he left and hasnt returned yet.

k bye.

[1126]

there are times na *** dad ko pero sometimes, ok naman eh.

[beebideebabeediboo]

wow! this thread is a real headshot!!!
i hate my dad coz of what he is...he just can't stop womanizing... jumping from one woman to another... he doesn't care if we're already a broken family... he still continues being a jerk!
i don't think we'll ever understand each other...he's attitude is sooo unpredictable... he's undescribable!!! dunno what negative term i should use for him...
i appreciate the things he do though...but everybody needs a good father...

a good father is a lil' bit of a mother" -unknown

[Jacqueline_3]

I do not hate my dad... but before I did. Chickboy kasi e...

and I laud my mother for not being a martyr.

Men can get really messed up yknw...

too bad he won't have memories together. But I don't really care.I grew up without him anyway

[Econ_major]

well. honosetly speaking i do hate him. i blame him for all the bad things that i turned out to be.

[11# UST_guard'98]

Dati nong hs ako oo, pero ngayon hindi na. Napaka strict nya kasi talaga eh nong hs pa ako.