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Old Nov 23, 2009, 05:54 PM   #1
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Just in case you have a GF and you found out that she or she used to be an escort, will you automatically break-up with her no matter what?

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Old Nov 23, 2009, 08:07 PM   #2
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nah.. kung masarap naman bakit mo iwan? hehehe
Pero seriously, NO.. mag usap muna kayo.. ask her all the
things you wanna know..then assess mo feelings mo sa kanya
after that.
Para sakin, kahit escort sya before basta true and loyal sya sayo now walang problema
Now if you have very meticulous(tama ba spelling? hehe ) friends and family/relatives, then that can be a problem kung malalaman nila..

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Old Nov 24, 2009, 04:53 AM   #3
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Hello!

Just in case you have a GF and you found out that she or she used to be an escort, will you automatically break-up with her no matter what?

Just need your opinions. Thanks!
well assuming you won't automatically break-up with her, you might as well test her if she answered you for the money. be kuripot for a month but be nice to her. see if she leaves you.
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Old Nov 24, 2009, 05:44 AM   #4
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pagsasawaan ko muna then breakup.
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Old Nov 24, 2009, 02:47 PM   #5
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pagsasawaan ko muna then breakup.
actually that's what happens to a lot of them, but those women never believe that. they actually think the guys love them.
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Old Nov 24, 2009, 05:31 PM   #6
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sabi mo 'used to be an escort' ..bka naman tipong 3 years ago na yun at iba na line of work nya.. tsaka paano mo ba nalaman na ganun nga sya dati? 1st reaction talaga yung mkpgbreak.. pag di na ka galit tsaka ka magdecide..
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Old Nov 25, 2009, 06:43 AM   #7
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well assuming you won't automatically break-up with her, you might as well test her if she answered you for the money. be kuripot for a month but be nice to her. see if she leaves you.
this might be the best answer in this thread. if she is not for the money any more, she loves you, and you don't care about her past ( and I mean you DONT SERIOUSLY care about her dark past, which by the way would cause nightmares for some) then there is little reason to break up with her. Not to mention that you are also getting the good stuff from her: ang masarap na luto ng Diyos.
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Old Nov 26, 2009, 02:07 AM   #8
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as long as i get my boom boom for free, the past doesnt matter anymore.
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Old Nov 26, 2009, 03:35 PM   #9
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this might be the best answer in this thread. if she is not for the money any more, she loves you, and you don't care about her past ( and I mean you DONT SERIOUSLY care about her dark past, which by the way would cause nightmares for some) then there is little reason to break up with her. Not to mention that you are also getting the good stuff from her: ang masarap na luto ng Diyos.
good stuff?

sometimes these people 'change' because they are already over the hill. i heard that a lot of sexy dancers in quezon ave. retire before 20 years old. and seriously with so much young women who want to earn money quick, an escort's value can drop so fast as one ages(as in 25). and if she already has a kid, that can cause her to retire.

so you really can't say that her motives are 'good'. she could just be desperate. and ts here hasn't said anything about her current looks.
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Old Nov 27, 2009, 02:23 PM   #10
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Hi All,

Thanks for sharing your opinions.

rickym,

The girl is pretty at 24 years of age. She came from a middle-class family and graduated in a prestigious university in metro manila. She was an escort for more than two years and decided to quit and she landed in a lucrative job in one of the biggest multinational banks one year after she graduated.
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Old Nov 27, 2009, 03:26 PM   #11
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Hi All,

Thanks for sharing your opinions.

rickym,

The girl is pretty at 24 years of age. She came from a middle-class family and graduated in a prestigious university in metro manila. She was an escort for more than two years and decided to quit and she landed in a lucrative job in one of the biggest multinational banks one year after she graduated.
check if she got the job with her credentials or with her looks. is her job related to her college degree or something which requires her appeal? delikado if its the latter specially if she is in sales.

wait lang, how did you find out? did she tell you or you found out from somebody? if the latter, have your contact give her an indecent proposal and see if she bites. she could also of course not be a prostitute but still give 'services' for favors. that is the growing trend nowadays. the girl will say she is not a prostitute but has 'generous friends'. and legally she is not since money given could always be considered a 'gift'
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Old Nov 27, 2009, 03:46 PM   #12
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Old Dec 2, 2009, 12:21 AM   #13
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I will not break up with her..kasi pag naging GF ko na mahal ko na eh..pag mahal ko na..iba na..
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Old Dec 2, 2009, 03:58 PM   #14
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I will not break up with her..kasi pag naging GF ko na mahal ko na eh..pag mahal ko na..iba na..
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Old Dec 2, 2009, 04:30 PM   #15
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There's no point in moping over what's already happened.

Yan lang.
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Old Dec 2, 2009, 04:59 PM   #16
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What's past is past. Walang sense ang PRESENT ninyo if you focus on the past.

Just spare her feelings and break-up with her if you can't move on.
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Old Dec 10, 2009, 04:11 PM   #17
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weeeew.... Just like me.... GRO ako form 16y.o to 18 y.o.. on and off naman.... pero nagaaral ako sa umaga at after ng school deretso ako sa work. Walang nakakaalam ng trabaho namin magkapatid kundi kapitbahay namin. No choice kasi kami dahil sayang ang talino ko kung hindi ako makakatapos. Since nagcollege ako naging Player ako sa school na parang papalit palit ng BF pero nung nakilala ko yung Husband ko tumigil na ko. Well, virgin pa siya kaya nakakatuwa! hahaha.. so after ng first night namin sinabi ko sa kanya yung totoo na GRO ako and may mga naka-sex na ko para lang kumita ng malaking pera.

Grabe, umiyak siya sa harap ko kasi love na daw talaga niya ko. SO the relationship goes on pero hindi na ko nakikipag-sex sa iba. Honestly speaking ayaw niya sa mama ko dahil mama ko daw ang ganid sa pera kaya kami pinasok sa club. Then the problems pour on us na, nalaman ng Mommy niya kung saan ako galing (Christian Family sila) kaya super ayaw sa akin. Pero wala na silang nagawa kasi on my 18th Birthday nalaman ng mama ko na buntis ako sa kanya at BOOM!! Pinapili ako ng mama ko between them o Hubby ko. Well Hubby ko pinili ko. I already served my family, nakabili na ko ng bahay for them, parang *** nasa isip ko its time na sarili ko naman ang isipin ko..

No choice na sila pareho dahil may bata ng involved. 1month before ako manganak e nagpakasal na kami. Now, full time mom na ako sa 2 kids namin with our own house na din. Maayos na ang lahat pwera na lang sa Hubby ko, still ayaw niya pa din sa mama ko. Hindi makapag-move on...
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Old Dec 10, 2009, 06:50 PM   #18
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weeeew.... Just like me.... GRO ako form 16y.o to 18 y.o.. on and off naman.... pero nagaaral ako sa umaga at after ng school deretso ako sa work. Walang nakakaalam ng trabaho namin magkapatid kundi kapitbahay namin. No choice kasi kami dahil sayang ang talino ko kung hindi ako makakatapos. Since nagcollege ako naging Player ako sa school na parang papalit palit ng BF pero nung nakilala ko yung Husband ko tumigil na ko. Well, virgin pa siya kaya nakakatuwa! hahaha.. so after ng first night namin sinabi ko sa kanya yung totoo na GRO ako and may mga naka-sex na ko para lang kumita ng malaking pera.

Grabe, umiyak siya sa harap ko kasi love na daw talaga niya ko. SO the relationship goes on pero hindi na ko nakikipag-sex sa iba. Honestly speaking ayaw niya sa mama ko dahil mama ko daw ang ganid sa pera kaya kami pinasok sa club. Then the problems pour on us na, nalaman ng Mommy niya kung saan ako galing (Christian Family sila) kaya super ayaw sa akin. Pero wala na silang nagawa kasi on my 18th Birthday nalaman ng mama ko na buntis ako sa kanya at BOOM!! Pinapili ako ng mama ko between them o Hubby ko. Well Hubby ko pinili ko. I already served my family, nakabili na ko ng bahay for them, parang *** nasa isip ko its time na sarili ko naman ang isipin ko..

No choice na sila pareho dahil may bata ng involved. 1month before ako manganak e nagpakasal na kami. Now, full time mom na ako sa 2 kids namin with our own house na din. Maayos na ang lahat pwera na lang sa Hubby ko, still ayaw niya pa din sa mama ko. Hindi makapag-move on...
Baka naman matanda na BF mo at kailangan na magkaasawa! hahaha how old are you now btw? good terms na ba kayo ng mom niya. Naguusap ka kayo ng mom, dad at kapatid mo

In fairness to your hubby. he really loved you.

Wait, GRO ka from 16 to 18 years old. then 18 years old nabuntis ka ng bf mo. so nung naging kayo ng bf mo GRO ka parin? baka naman iba nakabuntis sayo.

Ano na pala work mo ngayon?
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Old Dec 10, 2009, 08:03 PM   #19
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kung kaya ko siyang buhayin sasabihin ko na magresign na siya sa work niya at ako ng ang escort niya habang buhay.
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Old Dec 10, 2009, 08:18 PM   #20
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I will not break up with her..kasi pag naging GF ko na mahal ko na eh..pag mahal ko na..iba na..




I like that
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