my bf wants to do it na pero pero pala siya pera pang motel!

Sailor Moon · Oct 9, 2009, 04:54 PM

laki ng dilemma ko:HELP

Si boyfriend nag-aya na to do it... hindi ako pumayag kasi for 1 virgin pa ako at 26. second, 1 month p lang kami thus my inhibitions pa ako.

i tried to explain to him na kailangan mging comfortable muna ako and he said that i should understand him kasi my pangagailangn din dw siya bilang 1 guy.. so we compromised... we will do it pero wlang intercourse kasi i value nga my virginity...

mga 3 days before the EVENT sabi nya kun pwede daw share kami sa motel!!

...... sya nag aya tapos share kami?... so sbi ko tsaka na lang namen gawin kapag my budget ka siya.. sabi naman niya kun pwede dw sa cheaper place!!..... honestly turn off na ako...

mga pexers anu ba ggawin ko.. how do i tell him im turn off with him at medyo now im doubting his intentions

lancealmekian · Oct 9, 2009, 04:58 PM

Your gut tells you to stop seeing this guy. I'd hate to bash this person because I do not know him, but with the way he told you na may pangangailangan sya and he wants you to split motel fees with him, tingin ko wala syang kwenta at iiwan ka lang nyan pag nakuha nya na ang gusto nya.

Dami pang iba dyan ma'am. Di mo kailangan maghanap dahil kusang lalapit ang para talaga sa iyo.

...wakaranai · Oct 9, 2009, 05:01 PM

first, pursuading you into having psuedo-sex with him, then asking you to share the load with him, and now implying that you do it in a cheap motel? the nerve! if he does not have the money, why can't he suggest his own place? meron nga bang siyang sarili niyang place?

think about this thoroughly girl. the guy smells like a jerk.

pashare · Oct 9, 2009, 05:03 PM

pasali din. sabihin mo sa bf mo jack-off nalang nya, libre pa.
26 ka, malamang mas matanda sayo bf mo. tapos wala syang pambayad ng motel? baka singilin ka pa sa gagamitin nyang rubber?? at pag nabuo yan ano na?

indaclub · Oct 9, 2009, 05:08 PM

Quote:

the guy smells like a jerk.

yoo're right, can smell the stink even from thousand miles away.

do yourself a favor, get rid of him. paking shayt! gusto umiskor wala man lang pera, kung pok-pok nga baka mamura pa sya...

shivaker! · Oct 9, 2009, 05:09 PM

Utang kayo sakin. O kaya ako na lang sama mo sa motel . ommmm!

java_chiq · Oct 9, 2009, 05:10 PM

he's so not worth your first time!

Evey · Oct 9, 2009, 05:13 PM

run girl! run!!! naloka ako sa bf mo.

purpleheadd07 · Oct 9, 2009, 05:15 PM

malamang wala nga pambayad ng gro at pang mot mot yan bi-ep mo kaya ganyan. sabihan mo kaskas na lang muna niya sa pader at libre pa. saka na siya mangarap na ma divirginize ka pag kaya na niyang gastusan ka sa hotel. hotel ha at hindi basta kung saang mot-mot lang. naman.

search555 · Oct 9, 2009, 05:17 PM

aiyoo....1 month pa lang kayo nagde-demand na i-satisfy mo pangangailangan nya? Isip ng mabuti iha. Delikado ka dyan.

CHOLE · Oct 9, 2009, 05:23 PM

hala! sabihin mo sa bf mo kapal ng mukha niya!

shivaker! · Oct 9, 2009, 05:23 PM

don't give in.

CHOLE · Oct 9, 2009, 05:26 PM

nalokah talaga ako sa bf niya......

girl......... humanap ka ng iba........

ibaonmopa · Oct 9, 2009, 05:27 PM

di mo kailanagan sabihin na na turn off ka. iwasan mo nalang...

pangangailangan ba? hindi nya naisip na mas nangangailangan sya ng pera? uunahin pa nya pangangailangan sa l!b0G?...

tubong_batasan · Oct 9, 2009, 05:40 PM

TS, iwanan mo na yan!
Wala kang mapapala dyan.

franz_cutieboy · Oct 9, 2009, 05:43 PM

Wag mo isuko sa kanya ang "bataan". It only shows na hindi siya responsableng bf. Kapalmuks pa!

blue_tracer · Oct 9, 2009, 05:54 PM

jusco duy.. sobra-sobrang mahal ng presyo (virginity) ibabayad mo dito hija para lang sa love.. tsk.. mag isip-isip ka muna.

GrieverLion · Oct 9, 2009, 06:03 PM

The other's have already said it. "NO"

What an excuse, 1 month palang kayo and he's in a hurry. You are going to this just once in your life. Why not try to do it the right way?. There is something definitely wrong with this scenario. It's quite obvious what he wants is only that.He does not love you nor respect you. Do what you feel is right, not because everyone is doing it it must be right eh?

BTW, I remember you posted sometime ago here in dilemma. Don't quite remember what it was about. not related?

jed_allan · Oct 9, 2009, 06:07 PM

ilang buwan bago mawala inhibitions mo,TS?

boyaxx · Oct 9, 2009, 06:17 PM

ts sinagot mo na sya in the first place, ibig sabihin nahumaling ka rin sa kanya at kilala mo na sya ng lubusan. Hindi mo yan sasagutin kung di mo pa kilala yan. Then DO it. Try in your place kung walang tao, doon kayo. Libre pa.


Oct 9, 2009, 04:54 PM	#1
Sailor Moon out of reach Join Date: Aug 2009	my bf wants to do it na pero pero pala siya pera pang motel! laki ng dilemma ko:HELP Si boyfriend nag-aya na to do it... hindi ako pumayag kasi for 1 virgin pa ako at 26. second, 1 month p lang kami thus my inhibitions pa ako. i tried to explain to him na kailangan mging comfortable muna ako and he said that i should understand him kasi my pangagailangn din dw siya bilang 1 guy.. so we compromised... we will do it pero wlang intercourse kasi i value nga my virginity... mga 3 days before the EVENT sabi nya kun pwede daw share kami sa motel!!...... sya nag aya tapos share kami?... so sbi ko tsaka na lang namen gawin kapag my budget ka siya.. sabi naman niya kun pwede dw sa cheaper place!!..... honestly turn off na ako... mga pexers anu ba ggawin ko.. how do i tell him im turn off with him at medyo now im doubting his intentions


Oct 9, 2009, 05:03 PM	#4
pashare Member Join Date: May 2009	pasali din. sabihin mo sa bf mo jack-off nalang nya, libre pa. 26 ka, malamang mas matanda sayo bf mo. tapos wala syang pambayad ng motel? baka singilin ka pa sa gagamitin nyang rubber?? at pag nabuo yan ano na? Last edited by pashare : Oct 9, 2009 at 05:05 PM. Reason: no need for arrow sign


Oct 9, 2009, 04:58 PM	#2
lancealmekian Suck my RagingBull u fagg0t Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: Everywhere	Your gut tells you to stop seeing this guy. I'd hate to bash this person because I do not know him, but with the way he told you na may pangangailangan sya and he wants you to split motel fees with him, tingin ko wala syang kwenta at iiwan ka lang nyan pag nakuha nya na ang gusto nya. Dami pang iba dyan ma'am. Di mo kailangan maghanap dahil kusang lalapit ang para talaga sa iyo.


Oct 9, 2009, 05:01 PM	#3
...wakaranai Geek In The Pink ♥ Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: C20-143/Pioneer	first, pursuading you into having psuedo-sex with him, then asking you to share the load with him, and now implying that you do it in a cheap motel? the nerve! if he does not have the money, why can't he suggest his own place? meron nga bang siyang sarili niyang place? think about this thoroughly girl. the guy smells like a jerk.


Oct 9, 2009, 05:09 PM	#6
shivaker! the name you can trust Join Date: Sep 2009 Location: my motorcycle	Utang kayo sakin. O kaya ako na lang sama mo sa motel . ommmm!


Oct 9, 2009, 05:10 PM	#7
java_chiq B A N N E D for life Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: bilangguan	he's so not worth your first time!


Oct 9, 2009, 05:13 PM	#8
Evey Not Always but Often Join Date: Sep 2009	run girl! run!!! naloka ako sa bf mo.


Oct 9, 2009, 05:15 PM	#9
purpleheadd07 sunchaser Join Date: Mar 2005 Location: beneath blue skies	malamang wala nga pambayad ng gro at pang mot mot yan bi-ep mo kaya ganyan. sabihan mo kaskas na lang muna niya sa pader at libre pa. saka na siya mangarap na ma divirginize ka pag kaya na niyang gastusan ka sa hotel. hotel ha at hindi basta kung saang mot-mot lang. naman.


Oct 9, 2009, 05:17 PM	#10
search555 Member Join Date: May 2002 Location: not_in_the_Phil	aiyoo....1 month pa lang kayo nagde-demand na i-satisfy mo pangangailangan nya? Isip ng mabuti iha. Delikado ka dyan.


Oct 9, 2009, 05:23 PM	#11
CHOLE Have Faith! :) Join Date: Oct 2006 Location: BGA, KW.	hala! sabihin mo sa bf mo kapal ng mukha niya!


Oct 9, 2009, 05:26 PM	#13
CHOLE Have Faith! :) Join Date: Oct 2006 Location: BGA, KW.	nalokah talaga ako sa bf niya...... girl......... humanap ka ng iba........


Oct 9, 2009, 05:27 PM	#14
ibaonmopa Member Join Date: Nov 2007	di mo kailanagan sabihin na na turn off ka. iwasan mo nalang... pangangailangan ba? hindi nya naisip na mas nangangailangan sya ng pera? uunahin pa nya pangangailangan sa l!b0G?...


Oct 9, 2009, 05:40 PM	#15
tubong_batasan JustMyOpinion Join Date: Aug 2008	TS, iwanan mo na yan! Wala kang mapapala dyan.


Oct 9, 2009, 05:43 PM	#16
franz_cutieboy Member Join Date: Jun 2009	Wag mo isuko sa kanya ang "bataan". It only shows na hindi siya responsableng bf. Kapalmuks pa!


Oct 9, 2009, 05:54 PM	#17
blue_tracer soundscapes Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: behind d waterfall	jusco duy.. sobra-sobrang mahal ng presyo (virginity) ibabayad mo dito hija para lang sa love.. tsk.. mag isip-isip ka muna.


Oct 9, 2009, 06:03 PM	#18
GrieverLion promise Join Date: Mar 2009 Location: Balamb Garden	The other's have already said it. "NO" What an excuse, 1 month palang kayo and he's in a hurry. You are going to this just once in your life. Why not try to do it the right way?. There is something definitely wrong with this scenario. It's quite obvious what he wants is only that.He does not love you nor respect you. Do what you feel is right, not because everyone is doing it it must be right eh? BTW, I remember you posted sometime ago here in dilemma. Don't quite remember what it was about. not related?


Oct 9, 2009, 06:07 PM	#19
jed_allan The Mentalist Join Date: Apr 2006	ilang buwan bago mawala inhibitions mo,TS?


Oct 9, 2009, 06:17 PM	#20
boyaxx i eat cannibalz Join Date: May 2007 Location: rurok ng ligaya	ts sinagot mo na sya in the first place, ibig sabihin nahumaling ka rin sa kanya at kilala mo na sya ng lubusan. Hindi mo yan sasagutin kung di mo pa kilala yan. Then DO it. Try in your place kung walang tao, doon kayo. Libre pa.