What Is She Keeping From Me....? Please Let Me Know.....

[Pierre-Laurent]

Ok ok, here goes.....

























Ok, ok. I know very well that I posted yet another thread. But please bear with me. After all, it has been almost a month already since I last made a thread.

I have been (formally) courting this lady (named Selena) since Aug. 30 or 31, 2009. That means, it's been a month na nililigawan ko siya.

Please, dear fellow pexers, I really need your help.

What does she really feel about me?

Please help me decode her:

1. We've been going out on dates. Usually mga restaurants. Ako ang nagbabayad madalas (pero there was a time na pareho kaming nagbayad).

2. She asked me if I COULD VISIT HER AT LEAST ONCE A WEEK DAW. ( up to now I don't know why she asked that).

3. She also asked me when I was going to see her (last week niya tinanong kasi bumabagyo and I didn't visit her for a week).

4. She suggests that I change my cellphone sim to Sun from globe, kasi nakasun siya. Para raw magkausap kami sa cellphone instead of texting.

5. We've been texting each other everyday. We talk about what's happening daily in our lives.

6. One time, nung hindi ako nagtext, she texted me saying "I haven't heard from you today ah."

7. Selena also gave me pasalubong from Cebu, when she went there.

8. Selena who's now living in her sorority house, of course introduced me to her sorority sisters. When her housemate suddenly left the house, kaming dalawa lang ang naiwan sa sorority house! Pero she didn't seem to mind it.

9. She also let me walk her to the sorority house after a dinner.

10. AFter our dates, she usually sends a message texting me "thank you for being there for me, thank you for your acts of service, for your time, for checking over me.. etc. (kasi ang mga text ko yung tipong kumain ka na ba, etc.)

11. She also said, "thank you" nung binigyan ko siya ng white roses (again).

12. When she was not responding warmly to my text one day, she said, "pasensya ka na kahapon, i was feeling low" and explained why she was feeling low (because of a certain failure).

13. From my sources, I discovered that she is extremely busy, usually her work would last from 7 am and extend to 5 pm of the next day (dun na siya natutulog sa work). Yet, unbelievably, we regularly text each other. She finds time to text parang ganun.

14. She tells me na magpatawa because she wants her "lovelife" daw to be a sunny side up.

15. She texted me "sweet and poetic daw" when I texted her my own crafted poem for her (4 lines lang naman).

16. She invited me to go to church. To pray with her on this and that. She invited me to go to their house.

17. She told me she wants to meet my own set of friends.

18. She said she would like to hear my playing the piano as it would soothe her daw. (masyado kasi siyang busy). Selena also told me I'm a good man daw. (She told me of Rico, our friend who she liked before, good man daw yun).

BAsta magdagdag na lang ako pag may naalala ako.

The question that lasts in my heart up to now is, WHAT does Selena really feel toward me?

Nung sept 10 or so, I asked her that, basta parang evasive siya.

I know, jed allan, purplehead, nagpost na naman ako. But i just want to rest my heart, kahit konti lang. To diminish, kahit konti, what is unsettled.


Follow-up question, could Selena be entertaining me, even if she's really not smitten with me, kasi natatakot siya na baka ako na ang last chance niya, na baka maging spinster siya? We all know she's not very young na. Malapit na sa 30s. And tatlo na ang binusted niya na guy, one of which she also liked (Sonny).

Maraming salamat po.

[Roasted Manok]

Ang haba, a.

Di ko na binasa lahat.

At wala rin akong advise.

Gusto ko lang sabihin na mahaba ang post.

[cyberfunk]

She's just being herself. Mukhang ok naman ang lagay mo eh.. Patience.. Try to be subtle sa mga advances mo. She knows and can read you more than you know.

[keyjey]

hello ulet kuya pierre

wala naman po makaka-alam talaga ng nararamdaman niya kung di siya lang eh

pero may tanong muna ako sayo,
base sa mga isinulat mo, ano sa tingin mo ang nararamdaman nya towards you? at masaya ka ba sa mga ngyayare?

[kreuk]

yes... gustong gusto ka ni selena without a doubt!!! tingin ko mahal na mahal ka niya at gusto ka niyang pakasalan. kaya pierre go lang ask mo na siya if u want!























joke lang! dude... if someone else asked u those questions... masasagot mo ba for them?! but since u put in a lot of effort to post... then i might as well take ur post seriously. it seems that she does like you... if she's not the egoistic kind of girl then this girl is showing signs of liking you. pero ingat ka nalang... may mga players parin lurking. it's not only guys who know how to play. so far... i didn't see any sign that would say she likes you deeply... but i don't see any signs either that would say she doesn't like u deeply. ul know a girl likes you when she's considerate of your feelings and is willing to sacrifice or undergo some inconvenience in your behalf.

[kiliti]

ngayon ikawa habol kanya... pak siya abot kwarenta... siya habol iyo. hawak nya shotgun.

sya gusto sa ikaw. ikawa ta-nga. ikawa bigkas kanya iyo loob. now na!

kee lee ty

[Pierre-Laurent]

Let me add one confusing detail.

Yesterday, I received a text message from Diane. (Ok, sasabihin na naman ni purplehead, bagong character, pero what can I do, ngayon lang siya nagfigure).

Who is Diane? She's Selena's close friend. Yes, I and Diane know each other. But we only spoke once, and that was in a resort in Batanggas. 2 years ago pa yun.

Suddenly, I received a message from Diane saying, di raw tuloy ang meeting.

Huwat? I texted her, who is this?

She said, "si Diane. sino pa?"

Then I said, "huh? Diane of _____ and I mentioned their church.

At that, she replied, "Pierre, ikaw pala yan. Sorry, i missent the message".

And then kamustahan na kami.

But the bottomline is, paano niya nalaman ang cellphone number ko? And why would she have my cellphone number? In no way did I give my number to Diane.

Again, close friend si Diane ni Selena.

[purpleheadd07]

di pala na post yung sinulat ko kanina.

welcome back, Pierre!

oo, one month ka ng nanliligaw, one month mo na ding dilemma dito sa pex kung paano siya i decode. sigurado ka ba tao yan si Selena? kasi kung oo, malabo yang decode decode na iyan. unless robot siya, tingnan mo baka may manual sa likod niya.

may isang TS dito, si jljlly, nangangailangan ng script para sa bf niya baka pwde mo matulungan. word for word, scene by scene please ha.

[Pierre-Laurent]

well, yah, I predicted that would be your post, purplehead. Something to that effect. Ok lang.

[Lucid Interval]

Pierre, tanungin mo na lang kase si Selena kung gusto ka nya at kung may pag-asa ka sa kanya. At least you'd get the answer directly from her instead of playing this unending "guessing game" that you're running. Nobody can decode her because we don't even know her.

[Pierre-Laurent]

as I said sa post ko, Lucid Interval, I did ask Selena.

But she was evasive.

However, she told me she's seriously considering me but we need to know each other more ( I don't know what that means).

[Lucid Interval]

It means she needs more time to ascertain if she really is into you. Baka naman friendship lang nararamdaman nya sayo at nako-confuse nya lang yon sa love or something special. She's probably weighing things thoroughly if you're better off as a friend or as a boyfriend. She is not rushing so you should do the same. Baka naman sya yong type ng girl na prolonged courtship ang preferred kaya prepare yourself for a long and agonizing courtship.

[kreuk]

Originally Posted by Pierre-Laurent

well, yah, I predicted that would be your post, purplehead. Something to that effect. Ok lang.

dudes...

grabe ka!!! u think too much.

if diane is not important to you then why do u have to know pa why she texted you... your guess is as good as ours. it's very generic to send sms. generic means = unspecific. we cannot associate it with a single cause. hence conclusions you can get from that is also either unspecific or too degenerate. gets?! masyadong madaming possibilities each of which has equal likelihood that's it's quite futile to list down which is which cause in the end you cannot make any functional conclusion anyway. it will just add nervous tension on your part.

there's nothing much to say other than... she texted you for some reasons that cannot be determined. if it's something more than that... then only diane can know.

[jed_allan]

Pierre,pinoproblema mo pa nga yang si Selena,parang ini-entertain mo pa ang idea na may gusto rin sa yo yung Diane.

ang yabang mo. maganda naman lahat ng sinabi o reactions ni Selena na nabanggit mo eh.dude,wala kang problema. enjoy the dating stage. pag kayo na,mas magiging complicated buhay mo.baka once a week,meron kang bagong thread dito.

[infinite_trial]

napepredict kong magkakaapo muna tayo lahat, bago sagutin ni selena si pierre

[JUST_JT]

I don't see a dilemma here. She likes you ... so keep seeing her.

-Just_JT
It's.that.simple.

[Meanie!!]

Tell her she'll know you better kung kayo na. Works for me everytime. Be a man and use logic to your advantage

Bilib nga ako sa effort mo parekoy e...yun lang baka sumosobra at natatak na sa isip niya na lagi ka lang nandyan kaya hindi na niya kailngan gumawa ng decision about the two of you kasi comfy na siya na suitor ka lang 'forever?' Make her work for your attention din. Be less available kahit konti.

Have you kissed her yet?

[boiling point]

dear pierre,

Be patient.. 1 month ka pa lang nanliligaw.. ako nga 7 months ako nanligaw, pero di ko naramdaman na matagal kasi parehas lang naman ang ginagawa namin nung nanliligaw ako at nung naging kami hanggang ngayong 4 years na kami...

bat ka ba nagmamadali? gusto mo na ba ng s3x? ng sloppy french kiss? kung seryoso ka kay Selena, makakapagantay yan..

Si Diane, pwedeng si Selena din yan.. isang "pain" (bait in english).. or basta anjan yan para icheck ang loyalty mo kay Selena..

yun lang,
bp

[blue_tracer]

where's the dilemma here?

malaki ang chance mo dito. magandang indication yung gusto ka niya makausap on a regular basis.

just like your other threads, na-over analayzed mo na lahat. inaabangan mo lagi mga next scenes. at pag hindi nag match doon sa mga inaasahan mo (kahit pa hindi naman negative), nababahala ka.

be calm. step by step ito. kaunting patience. maganda nga yan nangyayari, natural lang ang flow.

hindi ka na namin e-goodie lak kasi kumbaga sa lucky nine, hindi na bababa pa sa 8 ang baraha mo. unless.. ha ha ha

[jed_allan]

oo nga eh,kung ako si Pierre,siguro ganadong ganado ako, lagi nakangiti at kahit di ko muna makita mga barkada ko.