i am in love with my old suitor (talk about karma?)

whatagirlwants · Aug 9, 2009, 02:35 PM

when i was in 7th grade, i was 12 back then i had a suitor. he's also 12 year-old back then, he's my batch mate and he was from the other class. he was actually cute, chubby and chinito. he was super "feeling pogi" (they used to call him) and super kulet. he was a naughty boy back then, a joker of their class.
i never allowed him to court me, basta lang nya ginawa. everyday, he would always come to our class and greet me. every special occasions like birthday, christmas, v-day, he would always give me some gifts. and one ordinary day, he gave me a box of chocolates and 3 roses with a note. he gave it to me during class time, even our class adviser received a gift from him.
since wala pa sa isip ko ang magkaboyfriend that time and bawal pa until i turn 16, kaya i rejected him in a nice way naman. syempre, di maiiwasan na masaktan sya. but we became friends, okay na din.

during our freshman year in high school, we became classmates and seatmates. he was still chubby and immature. in the middle year, he had a girlfriend and lasted for 5 months. then i had 2 suitors, but i rejected them.
on our sophomore year, he's not chubby anymore, he's so handsome and hot. he had a girlfriend again from the other class. their relationship lasted for 8 months and he's courting a new girl again (what a playboy)
on our junior year, he had a girlfriend again and their relationship lasted for about 6 months. after that, wala na sya niligawan ulit. he became a campus heartthrob. yung mga sinasabihan sya dating "feeling gwapo", dead na dead na sa kanya.
on our senior year, we became close friends. some people would say that we're best friends and some would say we're bf-gf. sometimes, he would act sweet with me. then suddenly, i just realized that i'm starting to like him. then i had a suitor again, he did "harana" inside our classroom. he was from the other class. but i rejected him agad.
on our freshman year in college, we're now attending different school. we still have contacts with each other and sometimes we hang-out with our friends. every time we go out, he would always take me home.
and i am slowly falling in love with him. but as far as i know he likes someone else. (talk about karma?) what should i do? it feels awkward.

one time, he asked me this question "have you ever had a boyfriend?" WALA. he said "mahilig ka kasi mambasted eh"

i don't actually believe in karma, but is it really true?

kreuk · Aug 9, 2009, 04:27 PM

yea i believe in karma but i guess what happened between u is not up for karma. bata bata niyo pa that time noh!

why do u like a playboy?!

pinakanapansin ko sa lahat ng sinabi mo is... what ur feeling seems more like infatuation. ur infatuated kasi gwapo at campus crush.

madating siya siguro. pero he can't keep a relatioship?! hehe... baka ikaw kasi iniisip niya

joke lang yun pero malay natin! just beware. he srounds like a playboy.

based on ur kwento... parang 'pretty' ka urself. ma-appeal. so why don't u try... charming ur way?! mag-ayos ka

kung walang mangyari.... ur young?! so enjoy mo lang college life noh!!!!!!!!!! date around para makilala mo rin sarili mo. mukhang di mo pa kilala sarili mo eh... infatuation = love?! hindi noh!

wag mashadong hung up on just one guy since wala ka namang BF kaysa malumot ka sa kakaisip sa kanya.

uyy!!! pwede na siya magka-BF! best of luck.

show_pao · Aug 9, 2009, 05:53 PM

^ Yeah, make him court you... AGAIN.

blue_tracer · Aug 9, 2009, 06:28 PM

baka naman hindi case ng karma ito..

nagkita kayo ulit.. kung mag court siya.. at kung sa tingin mo maganda ang chemistry ninyo, eh di tanggapin.

paoloxiao · Aug 9, 2009, 07:16 PM

why not give a chance po?

infinite_trial · Aug 9, 2009, 08:38 PM

hihi parang kwento naman ito sa romance novel. ganyang ganyan yung mga plot ng nagkakagustuhan

siguro like ka pa din nya, yun nga lang nabasted mo na sya dati baka magdalawang-isip yan kung mangliligaw ulet. like kreuk said, bata pa naman kayo noon kaya di naman natin masasabing karma yan.

baklita · Aug 10, 2009, 01:03 AM

kung liligawan ka niya at sasagutin mo siya... be prepared to
break up with him in a matter of few months. sinulat mo yan
tungkol sa kanyang lovelife history, noh!

siguro nga mabuti na matikman kaysa maglalaway, de vaah?

aihihihi!!!

baklita

RedhotOne · Aug 10, 2009, 02:57 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by whatagirlwants

i am slowly falling in love with him. but as far as i know he likes someone else. (talk about karma?) what should i do? it feels awkward.

one time, he asked me this question "have you ever had a boyfriend?" WALA. he said "mahilig ka kasi mambasted eh"

i don't actually believe in karma, but is it really true?

As the song goes, "What's love got to do with it?" I tend to agree with kreuk's observation about this being a case of infatuation rather than real love.

TS, hindi yan karma pero baka humantong sa kama. hahaha

youknowhatido · Aug 10, 2009, 05:28 AM

Be sure of what you really feels,
it's probably not love,
but if it's really love,
mag-ingat ka sa kanya,
mukhang playboy nga,
ang bilis maka-recover sa mga break ups

enjoy your life being a single and young!
good luck!

whatagirlwants · Aug 10, 2009, 12:04 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by kreuk

yea i believe in karma but i guess what happened between u is not up for karma. bata bata niyo pa that time noh!

why do u like a playboy?!

pinakanapansin ko sa lahat ng sinabi mo is... what ur feeling seems more like infatuation. ur infatuated kasi gwapo at campus crush.

madating siya siguro. pero he can't keep a relatioship?! hehe... baka ikaw kasi iniisip niya

joke lang yun pero malay natin! just beware. he srounds like a playboy.

based on ur kwento... parang 'pretty' ka urself. ma-appeal. so why don't u try... charming ur way?! mag-ayos ka

kung walang mangyari.... ur young?! so enjoy mo lang college life noh!!!!!!!!!! date around para makilala mo rin sarili mo. mukhang di mo pa kilala sarili mo eh... infatuation = love?! hindi noh!

wag mashadong hung up on just one guy since wala ka namang BF kaysa malumot ka sa kakaisip sa kanya.

uyy!!! pwede na siya magka-BF! best of luck.

sa tingin mo infatuation lang? hindi naman sa looks nya..i think? kasi i started having a feelings for him ever since we became close friends, and yung pagiging sweet and gentleman nya to me. pero siguro nga infatuation lang, if hindi naman, ganun pa rin kasi hindi naman sya nanliligaw.

thank you sa advice

gardy · Aug 10, 2009, 04:16 PM

kapag niligawan ka nya sagutin mo na sya...

timothytim · Aug 10, 2009, 05:03 PM

wala naman mali sa ginawa mo noon para maging karma yan eh. bata pa kayo noon at hanggang ngayon.
gaya din ng sabi ng mga post dito, baka nga infatuated ka lang. pero if ever man na manligaw sya, magpakipot ka muna at kilalanin syang mabuti bilang isang boyfriend/lover at hindi bilang kaibigan.
parang playboy eh. magingat ka!

innerchild · Aug 10, 2009, 06:04 PM

bakit ka naman makakarma, naging NICE ka naman sa kanya saka hindi mo naman siya pinaasa.

I don't think he's a playboy, bata pa naman siya kaya hindi naman dapat nagseseryoso pa muna sa pakikipagrelasyon.

Tingin ko may gusto pa rin siya sa'yo. Hangga't hindi siya nanliligaw sa'yo, enjoy mo na lang yung company niya. Kapag niligawan ka na niya, give him a chance na.

stepehenyan@12 · Aug 10, 2009, 06:42 PM

karma has got nothing to do with this you made the right choice for not accepting any suitors when you were in highschool. may i suggest make him crawl and beg kung talagang kayo magiging kayo pero sa tingin ko hindi pa napapanahon wag magmadali marami ibang lalake dyan.

depo_medrol · Aug 10, 2009, 10:03 PM

i dont think this is a karma...
at least honest ka sa mga manliligaw mo at di mo sila pinaasa...
if ever manligaw siya, grab it malay mo magclick kayo ... goodluck

toynbee · Aug 11, 2009, 11:35 AM

malayo sa karma toh....

1feistyazn · Aug 11, 2009, 11:59 AM

when he asked you those questions you would have replied. "why don't you try again and you might be my first" haha kidding

tenaciouskid · Aug 13, 2009, 04:25 AM

hindi karma yan, you were just being a responsible and obedient girl.
now, you're saying that you're in love with him na? are you really sure na LOVE nga yan?
tulad ng sinabi ng iba, baka infatuated ka lang sa kanya? pero kung love na nga talaga, eh ang tanong gusto ka pa ba nya?
if ever man na manligaw sya again sayo, magpakipot ka muna at tingnan natin kung tatagal ba yan, eh mukhang playboy eh.

gooodluuck!

arvyt** · Aug 19, 2009, 04:57 PM

dito na papasok yun dalagang pilipina mode! if you really like him you will put him into test! as for the guy if she like you di ka nyan titigilan hehe!


Aug 9, 2009, 02:35 PM	#1
whatagirlwants love me for a reason. Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: uptown	i am in love with my old suitor (talk about karma?) when i was in 7th grade, i was 12 back then i had a suitor. he's also 12 year-old back then, he's my batch mate and he was from the other class. he was actually cute, chubby and chinito. he was super "feeling pogi" (they used to call him) and super kulet. he was a naughty boy back then, a joker of their class. i never allowed him to court me, basta lang nya ginawa. everyday, he would always come to our class and greet me. every special occasions like birthday, christmas, v-day, he would always give me some gifts. and one ordinary day, he gave me a box of chocolates and 3 roses with a note. he gave it to me during class time, even our class adviser received a gift from him. since wala pa sa isip ko ang magkaboyfriend that time and bawal pa until i turn 16, kaya i rejected him in a nice way naman. syempre, di maiiwasan na masaktan sya. but we became friends, okay na din. during our freshman year in high school, we became classmates and seatmates. he was still chubby and immature. in the middle year, he had a girlfriend and lasted for 5 months. then i had 2 suitors, but i rejected them. on our sophomore year, he's not chubby anymore, he's so handsome and hot. he had a girlfriend again from the other class. their relationship lasted for 8 months and he's courting a new girl again (what a playboy) on our junior year, he had a girlfriend again and their relationship lasted for about 6 months. after that, wala na sya niligawan ulit. he became a campus heartthrob. yung mga sinasabihan sya dating "feeling gwapo", dead na dead na sa kanya. on our senior year, we became close friends. some people would say that we're best friends and some would say we're bf-gf. sometimes, he would act sweet with me. then suddenly, i just realized that i'm starting to like him. then i had a suitor again, he did "harana" inside our classroom. he was from the other class. but i rejected him agad. on our freshman year in college, we're now attending different school. we still have contacts with each other and sometimes we hang-out with our friends. every time we go out, he would always take me home. and i am slowly falling in love with him. but as far as i know he likes someone else. (talk about karma?) what should i do? it feels awkward. one time, he asked me this question "have you ever had a boyfriend?" WALA. he said "mahilig ka kasi mambasted eh" i don't actually believe in karma, but is it really true? Last edited by whatagirlwants : Aug 9, 2009 at 02:52 PM.


Aug 9, 2009, 04:27 PM	#2
kreuk pex addict Join Date: Nov 2001 Location: kusina sa bahay	yea i believe in karma but i guess what happened between u is not up for karma. bata bata niyo pa that time noh! why do u like a playboy?! pinakanapansin ko sa lahat ng sinabi mo is... what ur feeling seems more like infatuation. ur infatuated kasi gwapo at campus crush. madating siya siguro. pero he can't keep a relatioship?! hehe... baka ikaw kasi iniisip niya joke lang yun pero malay natin! just beware. he srounds like a playboy. based on ur kwento... parang 'pretty' ka urself. ma-appeal. so why don't u try... charming ur way?! mag-ayos ka kung walang mangyari.... ur young?! so enjoy mo lang college life noh!!!!!!!!!! date around para makilala mo rin sarili mo. mukhang di mo pa kilala sarili mo eh... infatuation = love?! hindi noh! wag mashadong hung up on just one guy since wala ka namang BF kaysa malumot ka sa kakaisip sa kanya. uyy!!! pwede na siya magka-BF! best of luck. Last edited by kreuk : Aug 9, 2009 at 05:00 PM.


Aug 9, 2009, 05:53 PM	#3
show_pao Member Join Date: Dec 2008	^ Yeah, make him court you... AGAIN.


Aug 9, 2009, 06:28 PM	#4
blue_tracer soundscapes Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: behind d waterfall	baka naman hindi case ng karma ito.. nagkita kayo ulit.. kung mag court siya.. at kung sa tingin mo maganda ang chemistry ninyo, eh di tanggapin.


Aug 9, 2009, 07:16 PM	#5
paoloxiao nahuhulog kasi ako sa'yo... Join Date: Jul 2009 Location: San Juan,M.M	why not give a chance po?


Aug 9, 2009, 08:38 PM	#6
infinite_trial いつもそばにいるよ Join Date: Jun 2005 Location: skag valley	hihi parang kwento naman ito sa romance novel. ganyang ganyan yung mga plot ng nagkakagustuhan siguro like ka pa din nya, yun nga lang nabasted mo na sya dati baka magdalawang-isip yan kung mangliligaw ulet. like kreuk said, bata pa naman kayo noon kaya di naman natin masasabing karma yan.


Aug 10, 2009, 01:03 AM	#7
baklita taas kilay Join Date: Dec 2003 Location: byuti parlor	kung liligawan ka niya at sasagutin mo siya... be prepared to break up with him in a matter of few months. sinulat mo yan tungkol sa kanyang lovelife history, noh! siguro nga mabuti na matikman kaysa maglalaway, de vaah? aihihihi!!! baklita


Aug 10, 2009, 05:28 AM	#9
youknowhatido chea! Join Date: Dec 2008 Location: °†° Studio Ð °†°	Be sure of what you really feels, it's probably not love, but if it's really love, mag-ingat ka sa kanya, mukhang playboy nga, ang bilis maka-recover sa mga break ups enjoy your life being a single and young! good luck!


Aug 10, 2009, 04:16 PM	#11
gardy trendy man Join Date: Jul 2009	kapag niligawan ka nya sagutin mo na sya...


Aug 10, 2009, 05:03 PM	#12
timothytim Member Join Date: Jul 2009	wala naman mali sa ginawa mo noon para maging karma yan eh. bata pa kayo noon at hanggang ngayon. gaya din ng sabi ng mga post dito, baka nga infatuated ka lang. pero if ever man na manligaw sya, magpakipot ka muna at kilalanin syang mabuti bilang isang boyfriend/lover at hindi bilang kaibigan. parang playboy eh. magingat ka!


Aug 10, 2009, 06:04 PM	#13
innerchild Member Join Date: Aug 2009	bakit ka naman makakarma, naging NICE ka naman sa kanya saka hindi mo naman siya pinaasa. I don't think he's a playboy, bata pa naman siya kaya hindi naman dapat nagseseryoso pa muna sa pakikipagrelasyon. Tingin ko may gusto pa rin siya sa'yo. Hangga't hindi siya nanliligaw sa'yo, enjoy mo na lang yung company niya. Kapag niligawan ka na niya, give him a chance na.


Aug 10, 2009, 06:42 PM	#14
stepehenyan@12 haremnojutsu Join Date: Mar 2005	karma has got nothing to do with this you made the right choice for not accepting any suitors when you were in highschool. may i suggest make him crawl and beg kung talagang kayo magiging kayo pero sa tingin ko hindi pa napapanahon wag magmadali marami ibang lalake dyan.


Aug 10, 2009, 10:03 PM	#15
depo_medrol adrenal corticosteroid Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: 22-gauge needle	i dont think this is a karma... at least honest ka sa mga manliligaw mo at di mo sila pinaasa... if ever manligaw siya, grab it malay mo magclick kayo ... goodluck


Aug 11, 2009, 11:35 AM	#16
toynbee Member Join Date: Apr 2009	malayo sa karma toh....


Aug 11, 2009, 11:59 AM	#17
1feistyazn Member Join Date: Aug 2009	when he asked you those questions you would have replied. "why don't you try again and you might be my first" haha kidding


Aug 13, 2009, 04:25 AM	#18
tenaciouskid iknowbecauseiloveyougirl Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: whereromancestarts	hindi karma yan, you were just being a responsible and obedient girl. now, you're saying that you're in love with him na? are you really sure na LOVE nga yan? tulad ng sinabi ng iba, baka infatuated ka lang sa kanya? pero kung love na nga talaga, eh ang tanong gusto ka pa ba nya? if ever man na manligaw sya again sayo, magpakipot ka muna at tingnan natin kung tatagal ba yan, eh mukhang playboy eh. gooodluuck!


Aug 19, 2009, 04:57 PM	#19
arvyt** Water Resources Engineer Join Date: Mar 2009	dito na papasok yun dalagang pilipina mode! if you really like him you will put him into test! as for the guy if she like you di ka nyan titigilan hehe!