View Full Version : how will i entertain my visitors? HELP
jahnna
Mar 14, 2002, 06:52 AM
i have a friend who wants to visit our place (province) and he wants to bring his friends with him. i never met his friends pa but he assured me magugustuhan ko mga friends niya.
Shall i meet his friends muna bago ko sila isama or ok lang na pagpasakay na kami sa bus ko sila i-meet?
di ko rin alam pano sila i-entertain. maraming pwedeng gawin sa amin like swmming, picnics and even hiking ang problema baka ala mga barkada ko don para samahan nila ako sa pagpasyal sa kanila.
probinsyang probinsya sa amin and sila taga-manila lang talaga. gusto raw lina ma-experience life don. ewan kolang kong kaya nila...
pls suggest naman kong ano gagawin ko sa kanila
gamrazec
Mar 14, 2002, 07:05 AM
Be yourself girl... don't be thinkin too hard about those folks... They should be thankful that you are too nice to show them your hood.... I know that you're shy about something but, why be shy for ?... The only thing that matter is you...You are decent person..It doesn't matter where you live or what you do... You are somebody... Now, if they want to check your place out, then let them be.... Just try to entertain them as much as you can.... And since you know your place well... Try to give them the best tour they had in their life...his situation is not hard....believe me...not at all....What you need to do now is make a plan....Like places where you want to take them...food that you guys are going to eat....and some stuff.... You know, it is much more fun to do simple things that is cheaper and more enjoyable i.e videoke or inuman....whatever...then you don't know....you're having fun already.... Do these little things...you'll be good to go...Don't forget to know their interests....But try to know them too at the same time.....Okay !....
Gzec
Fairy_nd_meadow
Mar 14, 2002, 08:05 AM
Ask yourself this - How would you like to be entertained if you're a visitor? I bet you won't expect or ask so much yourself... Better to just be yourself and show them you're comfortable with them around rather than making them feel that you're overly concerned. They might feel they're burdening you too much and that won't make them feel comfy. :shakehead:
Just prepare some nice food, show 'em around, yup you might suggest swimming, visiting some beautiful spots... Tell 'em stories, those stuff.... :tropical:
jahnna
Mar 17, 2002, 07:27 AM
thanks for the replies. i appreciate it so much:)
gamrazec
sa friend ko siguro ala akong problem. i've been very honest to him. on our very first meeting (1 on 1 EB) i've shown him the picture of our house without any fear that he might say something about our house , knowing that he's an architect. i've shown him the best and worst pictures of our place,.he knows how difficult to get there--13 hours bus and 6 hours motorboat. this made him even more curious.
he knows that there's no hotels and resto., no aircon etc and he knows that m not a good cook.
he knows a lot about me and our place ..except his friends...
Fairy_nd_meadow
thanks a lot, actually that's what he told me.
i guess m just too excited about it.
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