WHY IS IT THAT GIRLS ARE SO DEMANDING....?

[SETH_RAVER]

>>>Why is it that girls are so demanding. dami nilang gusto tpos pag ginawa or binigay mo nmn, minsan di nila naaappreciate. Girls are so fickle minded and they are hard to understand. I need your point of view guys and girls.

[LHFchick]

gurls CAN be demanding, BUT not ALL are and not ALL the time.

it may be part of our charm..:D

look at it this way, if we were like understanding and all that, we'd be under you..the male species!--->hell no! :bleh:

[twisted_hate]

That's coz we Men try so F*cking hard to impress a girl. And girls don't give a F*ck about the inner you- they care about what you can get them. Kapag nabola naman sila ng isang magaling magimpress, pag na*****, iniwan, Magaglit sa buong Male species. Problem with us guys is, in order to get a girl, magtitiis tayo, magcoconform sa needs nila, and we forget ourselves.

Women can be sexists too.

[LHFchick]

Originally posted by twisted_hate
That's coz we Men try so F*cking hard to impress a girl. And girls don't give a F*ck about the inner you- they care about what you can get them. Kapag nabola naman sila ng isang magaling magimpress, pag na*****, iniwan, Magaglit sa buong Male species. Problem with us guys is, in order to get a girl, magtitiis tayo, magcoconform sa needs nila, and we forget ourselves.

Women can be sexists too.

your username really goes with your attitude, u know that? :rolleyes:

[ColdHeartedLisa]

Hey, not all girls are like that twisted_hate. I think the girls just wanted be 100% sure that the guys are sincere and not after only one thing (Im sure you know what Im talking about).

To SETH_RAVER:

You just got to be persistent and give her the benefit of the doubt.

Fickle-minded? Girls are built that way. But don't you worry. Once she falls for you, everything will be okay.

Don't give up.

[SETH_RAVER]

Originally posted by ColdHeartedLisa
Hey, not all girls are like that twisted_hate. I think the girls just wanted be 100% sure that the guys are sincere and not after only one thing (Im sure you know what Im talking about).

To SETH_RAVER:

You just got to be persistent and give her the benefit of the doubt.

Fickle-minded? Girls are built that way. But don't you worry. Once she falls for you, everything will be okay.

Don't give up.



EI! THANKS FOR YOUR HELP! :) THANKS ALSO TO YOU GUYS WHO REPLIED!:)

[Blister]

whine of a softy bf who doesnt know how to handle his bratty gf :glee:

id say, turn the table around.
dont be such a push over.
be a man.

[marieclaire]

quote:
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Originally posted by twisted_hate
That's coz we Men try so F*cking hard to impress a girl. And girls don't give a F*ck about the inner you- they care about what you can get them. Kapag nabola naman sila ng isang magaling magimpress, pag na*****, iniwan, Magaglit sa buong Male species. Problem with us guys is, in order to get a girl, magtitiis tayo, magcoconform sa needs nila, and we forget ourselves.

Women can be sexists too.
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grabe ka. if you find it a problem then, don't do it. but i bet you can't and you won't, because you will go to great lengths to impress a girl, magtitiis ka (in your own words) so that in the end, you'll get your ultimate desire: getting a girl to go to bed with you. and then you'll move on to the next.
and what did you say, you guys forget yourselves in the process of wooing a girl? give me a break! most men are like little boys who want to get pampered, understood, and lavished with love and attention. they don't want to give more of themselves bec. of this machismo thing. men don't want to love so much bec. they're afraid that they will lose a part of themselves. which is why they don't grow up.

[JENSIE_G]

not all girls naman ang like that...

marami lang kaya na-brand sila as such...

[tamisguy]

Originally posted by marieclaire
grabe ka. if you find it a problem then, don't do it. but i bet you can't and you won't, because you will go to great lengths to impress a girl, magtitiis ka (in your own words) so that in the end, you'll get your ultimate desire: getting a girl to go to bed with you. and then you'll move on to the next.
and what did you say, you guys forget yourselves in the process of wooing a girl? give me a break! most men are like little boys who want to get pampered, understood, and lavished with love and attention. they don't want to give more of themselves bec. of this machismo thing. men don't want to love so much bec. they're afraid that they will lose a part of themselves. which is why they don't grow up. [/B]


Very well written. Girls will try to get away with anything that you let them get away with. Try to set some limits to what she can and can not have. Try not to over pamper her. It will just cause more problem later. I know. Been there than that. :)

[purple_lover]

nde lahat ng girls demanding... guys din... minsan mas demanding pa nga guys eh...
:spinstar:

[aNgeLFire_bLue]

Oo nga may demanding din na mga guys. May mga nagger din na guys.

SETH_RAVER - That's what makes everything so much more fun :belat:

[LaTtE`M]

Girls love such attention ;)

[blackgulaman]

Hindi kami demanding..KAYONG MGA LALAKE ANG TAMAD.

[LaTtE`M]

Originally posted by blackgulaman
Hindi kami demanding..KAYONG MGA LALAKE ANG TAMAD.

Presenting Exhibit A, Miss Sugar Rush. :lol:

[blackgulaman]

tamad naman talaga kasi eh..tapos sila may gana magsabing demanding ang girls?!

utang na loob lang.

[mozart]

i kinda like it when my gf tries to be demanding. i think it's cute. maybe it's coz i grew up w/o anyone being able to control me. that doesnt mean i follow every word she tells me though

[LaTtE`M]

Originally posted by blackgulaman
tamad naman talaga kasi eh..tapos sila may gana magsabing demanding ang girls?!

utang na loob lang.

Case to case basis din. Mayroon ding girls na demanding lang talaga.

[eekk]

well, maybe because in a beginning of a relationship the guy spoils the girl...then later on the guy changes...ganun naman talaga eh, best foot forward ang guy...well if guys don't like demanding girlfriends...the guys should be consistent.

[aina_crazy_girl]

why am i demanding?

because i deserve everything the world has to offer and i should be spoiled...

kasi, i spoil him din eh..
pero sa totoo lang, sobrang spoiled ko na .. natatakot na nga ako eh.

[jaeze]

hmm... i only demand my SO of his time. i don't ask for any material things. just his TIME! ^_^

[refinnej]

Originally posted by LHFchick
gurls CAN be demanding, BUT not ALL are and not ALL the time.

tama! tsaka may guys din naman na demanding. :rolleyes:

[the_shining]

Originally posted by SETH_RAVER
Girls are so fickle minded and they are hard to understand.

:grinroll:

Another of those lame @ss generalizations.

Iho, mag-isip ka muna.

:grinroll:

[wicked_lianne]

sometimes i can be demanding (especially during the time of the month :) )
hehehe...

:D

[lovelessmimie]

must admit demanding nga ko.., nakasanayan eh.., spoiled..,


eh baket kayong mga guys super seloso.., makita lang na me kasamang ibang guys mag iisip na ng kung ano, tapos bigla na lang tatahimik nag seselos na pala.., its unfair!!! :mad:

[powerpuff]

most women are demanding, not all.

look at it this way, if u demand a lot, like call me or visit me today, guys would be annoyed kasi you're trying to monopolize their time. minsan iisipin nang iinis ka pa kasi sinisira mo sched nya. pag pinabayaan mo naman, sasabihin wala kang paki n u don't care. e ano ba talaga? :confused: :lol:

[roadrunner0501]

originally posted by aina_crazy_girl
because i deserve everything the world has to offer and i should be spoiled...
wow, modesty is dead. long live modesty!:bungi::bungi:

[CyberFish]

Originally posted by roadrunner0501
wow, modesty is dead. long live modesty!:bungi::bungi:

hmmm.....i think this will be an interesting thread....

[chill_2029]

in fairness, not all girls are demanding!!

[Alfie1975]

Why are girls so demanding? coz most of them are attention ******.

[cutie_8]

some are moody i guess...

[Tee_Z28]

Why do I think that some of us are demanding?


Alam mo... pag iniisip ko, dapat nga medyo ika laki ng ulo niyo *** pagigin demanding namin eh (irony noh?! kakainis!)... kasi po sa tingin ko, depende sa sitwasyon ah, pag may boyfriend kami, we give our 'security' sa taong yun as in naka rely dun. Kaya if we don't demand parang nawawala yung security namin. pArang dun makikita na parang he would do anything just to keep me happy in our relationship (babaw noh?)

Why is it not being appreciated? IT IS! di lang namen naipapakita kasi kasi kasi.... ummmm.... hahah mabagal ma register sa utak namin? di biro lang... It seems that it is not being appreciated kasi pagkatapos naming magdemand, dinadagdagan namin nang dinadagdagan. Bakit nga ba? Tanong mo kasi GF mo? may kanya kanyang reason yan... but if i would be demanding? i would be very appreciative pag ginawa na ng bf ko yun... kasi di ako madalas mag demand if i do demand, it's something that i really need that time...

ayaw ko mag demand kasi ayaw ko din na dinedemandan dan...

[onwils]

I have never had a demanding girlfiend :D .

The only reason why women become so demanding is partly because, early in the relationship you succumb to their every whim & desire.

Who hasn't heard of this line "Hindi ka naman dati ganun". It's okay to give in ocassionally but once you overdo it, expect to be "UNDER".:)

[twisted_hate]

Damn, this must be a really old thread. It still has my past anger and bitterness. Don't worry guys, I've changed.

[twisted_hate]

Well, not all girls are like what I accused them of. But I still believe that there exists shallowness in a woman's heart, justv like in men's. Either way, it really depends on the girl you're going for. Actually, you don't have to aim to impress her, just do your best to treat her with care and respect and she'll be impressed with you soon enough.:)

[Blister]

Originally posted by twisted_hate
shallowness in a woman's heart, MIND not heart :bungi:

[twisted_hate]

If she stays that way long enough, I think it becomes heart.

[Blister]

Originally posted by twisted_hate
If she stays that way long enough, I think it becomes heart. our minds do the thinking.
heart... well you know what it does :glee:

[twisted_hate]

I concede.:)

[m_i_c_o_y]

talagang swertihan lang talaga kung makameet ka ng girl which is mabait at very supportive and can sense kung ano yung problema mo so she can help you.

I WISH sana makameet ako ng ganon.

[doomsdayer]

not all are demanding mind u...***** most lang ...dunno y ***** they just love all the attention..but hey, guys also love attention esp. praises and all thatll make them look like some greek god..not that im compalinin but each gender has its own weakness so try to live with it na lang:uhhuh:

[Tee_Z28]

we are jsut made so... k?

And guys were made to meet the demands.. kasi the girls are trying if the guy can give them the same securities that they have nung nasa puder sila ng ama nila habang nasa puder sila ng magulang niya...:D :rotfl:

[angel_88]

because girls are very emotional..gusto natin gagawin din sa tin nung guy yung mga ginagawa natin sa kanila which normally hindi talaga nila ginagawa..some girls naman nag - iinarte lang!

[LaTtE`M]

Yeah, nag-iinarte.

They just want attention. :glee:

[baby_07]

Originally posted by LaTtE`M
Yeah, nag-iinarte.

They just want attention. :glee:

hey ur being mean...hehehe :shy:

we NEED attention..that's why we tend to be demanding..sympre sometimes, we feel unhappy and who else pa ba ang pwede naming takbuhan kundi ang mga prinsipe ng aming mga buhay diba??

kayo naman kasi reklamo kayo agad...lambingin nyo nalang *** pag ganun...papacute na nga e...hihihi :D

[eudemon]

Originally posted by ColdHeartedLisa
Hey, not all girls are like that twisted_hate. I think the girls just wanted be 100% sure that the guys are sincere and not after only one thing (Im sure you know what Im talking about).

To SETH_RAVER:

You just got to be persistent and give her the benefit of the doubt.

Fickle-minded? Girls are built that way. But don't you worry. Once she falls for you, everything will be okay.

Don't give up.

tama!!

[LaTtE`M]

Originally posted by baby_07
hey ur being mean...hehehe :shy:

we NEED attention..that's why we tend to be demanding..sympre sometimes, we feel unhappy and who else pa ba ang pwede naming takbuhan kundi ang mga prinsipe ng aming mga buhay diba??

kayo naman kasi reklamo kayo agad...lambingin nyo nalang *** pag ganun...papacute na nga e...hihihi :D

You just proved my point :lol:

[Ur_bestBud_08]

girls tend to be demanding because they want their guy's attention. In one way or another, if their wishes were granted... they feel that their guy loves them enough to satisfy all their wants... and needs (probably)

[janeth2323]

Originally posted by Ur_bestBud_08
girls tend to be demanding because they want their guy's attention. In one way or another, if their wishes were granted... they feel that their guy loves them enough to satisfy all their wants... and needs (probably)

this is BULLSH - !!!!!!!
:mad:

first things first: "GIRLS" are females under 13. Can we all please start addressing us as "WOMEN" or "LADIES", and not girls ??? Where's the respect?

Anyway, women are not demanding because they want attention. To be demanding IS TO KNOW EXACTLY WHAT ONE WANTS. I for one, am VERY demanding because I DO NOT EXPECT ANY LESS from a man who has the fortune to even be with me.

Nonetheless, whichever man thinks that women are so "demanding", that person ought to look at himself in the mirror, and consider for a moment that maybe he's not a real man after all. :o

And women, PLEASE !!! It's time to speak up. SO what if your man thinks you're too demanding??? If he cant' keep up, then why would you even want to have anything to do with him??

We can't keep on encouraging men and making them fall for the stereotype that women are nothing but passive, monotonous, and oblivous beings. We all need to know that all women are beautiful, headstrong, and intelligent. We do not need anybody else but ourselves to go on living. :)

[bcharmed23]

not ALL girls are demanding. but sometimes we tend to be one at times - when the situation asks us to.sample, pag hindi na-meet *** needs namin or when we're taken for granted. AbA! hindi pde sakin un!

men should be be open-minded & try to have a heart in understanding kung *** ganun. this is the modern time! women won't juz keep quiet - we're still the same but we don't want to be played around.

you can tell her naman pag sobrang demanding na sya noh! men can also be demanding at times - mas nakakainis yata un.

[d_i_a_n_e_s]

no we're not! we only want to get what we deserve...to be treated nice:)

[g_anne]

no all girls are demanding. it also depends sa lalaki. a man should be sensitive din kasi with what a girl wants. so when the time comes that the girl realizes that you have no plans to be sensitive enuf to know what she wants, then she'll start demanding.

[g_anne]

not all girls are demanding. it also depends sa lalaki. a man should be sensitive din kasi with what a girl wants. so when the time comes that the girl realizes that you have no plans to be sensitive enuf to know what she wants, then she'll start demanding.

[LaTtE`M]

g_anne

You girls should tell us what you want. We guys don't have *******. We don't know what kind of itch you have down there.

It's not a matter of sensitivity. Even if I hear a tribal african clearly speaking his/her own language, I won't understand a word. If you translate "hearing" to "feeling", it's the same thing for both sexes: it's a totally different language.

Teach your guy on how to understand you.

[GINGERSIES]

No we're not :ayaw:


we just want more attention :D

[reilan]

and what is the reason for that you need more attention??
well i guess girls want they are the only one na bine-baby sila at gusto nila na lagi sila na nasusunod, parang mga bata, but not all naman... i think....

[JustinTyler]

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Originally posted by janeth2323

this is BULLSH - !!!!!!!


first things first: "GIRLS" are females under 13. Can we all please start addressing us as "WOMEN" or "LADIES", and not girls ??? Where's the respect?

Anyway, women are not demanding because they want attention. To be demanding IS TO KNOW EXACTLY WHAT ONE WANTS. I for one, am VERY demanding because I DO NOT EXPECT ANY LESS from a man who has the fortune to even be with me.

Nonetheless, whichever man thinks that women are so "demanding", that person ought to look at himself in the mirror, and consider for a moment that maybe he's not a real man after all.

And women, PLEASE !!! It's time to speak up. SO what if your man thinks you're too demanding??? If he cant' keep up, then why would you even want to have anything to do with him??

We can't keep on encouraging men and making them fall for the stereotype that women are nothing but passive, monotonous, and oblivous beings. We all need to know that all women are beautiful, headstrong, and intelligent. We do not need anybody else but ourselves to go on living.
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janeth2323,

If you want respect from others, even from us men, better avoid using what you have just typed in the first line of your post. You don't even give this thread some respect upon posting. You don't know what I'm talking about? Let me grab your head and smack you to the first line.

Oh, so you may think I'm being rude? Well, who was rude in entering this thread? and then trying to put a smilie at the end of your post ? Is that really a genuine one?

And of course I forgot! First things first! You know what, The thread starter for this wasn't actually ignoring his respect for WOMEN as you called, How can he know the age of women around here? How can he be sure that every women as you called is over 13 here, just because the PEX has this rule about the account holder?

Who are you? A person who has all the fortune or fame or something? At least we, men, are FORTUNATE enough not to have the FORTUNE to be with you because we don't want our sons and daughters to inherit the same old perception you have now.

Who are you to tell us, the men, what to do in front of a mirror? If I knew that a woman is very demanding, Then I won't have time to think if we are, WHAT?! Did I just saw that you opt to let us consider for a moment that maybe we are not real men? When in history did women learn how to teach a boy to become a guy then become a man?

What is this, are you campaigning for some women power sort of thing here? take note i didn't say girl power! You know what I'm talking about. Do you still want me to elaborate on this issue?

When did men, at least for me, ever surrendered in keeping up with the expectations of the women? We don't just think, We talk straight to the women we think that they are too demanding. Why? You are being selfish. Excessive demands of something from someone never failed to ignite chaos in a relationship. So you are saying that you have nothing to do with men who can't keep up with you? Well, I pity my fellow brothers. They better leave this nothing but demanding woman behind to rot in the sewer... As if everything in a relationship is all about demanding something.

Stereotyped men? We are not. In the first place, Who actually said that you women were passive, oblivious and monotonous? We never looked down on you because we consider you as partners. I just don't know where did those stupid perceptions came from. If you don't need anybody else but yourselves to go on living, Better not to have any relationship with any men you may encounter because you think you are strong right? So you also have to avoid men even as friends just to keep you safe. It's good you know, at least there won't be any offspring/siblings that will inherit your stupid perception.

Or are you thinking another way? Making friends with some men and playing them around(Btw, only stupid men fall for some shallow games played by women as if I don't know that), and then here comes the offspring and something happens and leaving the offspring to you to pamper it with your weird ideas about men.

Whatever the case maybe...

Women who are beautiful - Not all beautiful women are 'genuinely beautiful' as a whole person.

Women who are headstrong and intelligent - Well, Maybe too headstrong to be subjected to other peoples ideas and too intelligent to play superficial games with men which I don't think will ever work on me at least.

[CSA]

girls are demanding...women just know what they want in their man...tama?! ive been with Ladies before who know what they want...and im telling you they dont demand, they just let you know or make you feel what is lacking..if you cant get a hint..that could turn ugly...sensitivity plays a big part in this point in time and you've gotta have at least half of this for you to survive in love...

tama ba?

[criskyut]

DI NAMAN LAHAT! hirap senyong mga guys e mahilig kayong mag-generalize!

SOME girls seem to be so demanding because they feel you don't love them enough. yung mga paghatid-hatid sa bahay, dapat lang naman gawin yun ng isang guy diba?

but i must admit there are SOME girls who do not care whether their guys have more important stuffs to do...

[JustinTyler]

That's one of my point, SOME women really don't know that time doesn't belong only to them. Males and Females are human beings that have the right to do what they NEED to do with time. It is not right to monopolize a man what to do at this hour and the next and so forth and so on - only for HER.

Women cry out because they think they are 'under' men?! What are these women doing now if they are too demanding and needs a man to keep up with their demands? Time obviously is running short for the men with these types of women, to the point that in order to keep up with the demands of women, Other important things that need to be settled are not given attention.

So, what are they trying to imply, to follow each and every demand they command? Hell with them! We are not 'under' women who doesn't know that time exists for both of us and not only and solely for their demands!

[reilan]

....crizkyut......

kayo din naman, MAHILiG MaG GENERALIZE......
GRLS ALWAYS SAID: PAREPAREHO LANG YANG MGA LALAKE, PURO MANLOLOKO!!!

tama b ako???

[GINGERSIES]

Originally posted by reilan
and what is the reason for that you need more attention??
well i guess girls want they are the only one na bine-baby sila at gusto nila na lagi sila na nasusunod, parang mga bata, but not all naman... i think....


it feels good to be loved and treated like royalty :glee:

but hey, not all girls, not all the time ;)

[olechflakez]

impression lang yun, pa dominant effect. On my end, i'm just testing the guy kung oo lang ng oo, kung ganun, eh di kayang kaya ko pala siya. I'd rather have someone who answers back, someone who wants to argue, after all, at the end of the day, siya na ang masusunod.

[RedHotNSpicY]

women has always been and always will be fickle-minded, just like men has always been and forever will be ego-centric. nobody just likes to admit it. women will always change their minds.. men would always think their heaven's gift to women. these traits might come in big or small doses, but it's always there.

women (some of them) are demanding because men tends to become abusive when you show them that you're someone they can push around.

just my two cents.. peace.

[naemich05]

so my mga girls na demanding and meron din na mga guys na demanding. pare-pareho lang nmn yan e...hndi sa gender nakabase ang pagiging demanding ng isang tao kundi sa personality nito. kadalsan kung demanding ang isang tao malaki ang insecurities sa buhay *** nga *** laht na binigay mo di mo pa rin masasatisy *** tao kc nga nothing satisfies him/her.


so hndi lang girls ang demanding okei....mas mukha lang clang mas demanding kc mas vocal ***.

[Tee_Z28]

ayoko ng guy na mas madalas pang nag-iinarte kesa sakin... yung ayaw mo lang sundin saglit tatampo! Bwisit!

[glims]

...they thought they're entitled to it. :rolleyes:

[gELsR0cK]

siguro sa p0V ng guys...girls are demanding

where actually, it is the relationship/commitment that places them in that position, the position to get demanded. If they want to stay commited, hey surprise! they should actually commit...not only to their girlfriend but to their relationship. Ah kung di naman kayo, wala namang karapatan ang babae na humingi ng onting panahon or kung ano pa man sa guy diba. Same as you guys, I'm sure you won't just go into a relationship and be on the losing side di ba? as much as possible, you benefit (sorry for the term) from it. Think about it, siguro naman meron din kayong demands...wag na lang magbilangan *peace*

[baby_07]

Admittedly, ako may pagka-demanding..:rotfl:

But with the right reasons..:bleh:

:tinyangel:

[LaTtE`M]

Originally posted by baby_07
Admittedly, ako may pagka-demanding..:rotfl:

But with the right reasons..:bleh:

:tinyangel:

Yeah right :taunt: :rotflmao:

[baby_07]

:bleh:

[john_mkt]

sometimes we guys dont realize choice din natin gawin yung alam natin na idedemand ng mga babae not knowing na hindi naman pala dine-demand and sometimes IMHO i feel the love of my girl pag nag de-demand sya sa akin. :)

[fairychild]

Whoa! All that ruckus in this thread...

Hey, we (women, ladies, girls, females, etc.) can be quite demanding depending on some factors:

1. The men (males, boys, etc.) we're with can be quite insensitive to our needs and wants

2. Blame it on PMS (temporary insanity)

3. Blame it on menopause

4. An individual characteristic is really being demanding

5. Durnit!Basta!

[LaTtE`M]

Originally posted by fairychild
1. The men (males, boys, etc.) we're with can be quite insensitive to our needs and wants


Girls want men to read their minds. Men don't understand the needs and wants of women because they're NOT women.

[baby_07]

But aren't they willing to know and be concerned about our needs and wants? Do we really have to demand it? :shrug:

[LaTtE`M]

Originally posted by baby_07
But aren't they willing to know and be concerned about our needs and wants? Do we really have to demand it? :shrug:

Because it's difficult.

It's actually very difficult to figure it out. So sometimes, yes, you have to tell it to us. Besides, why don't YOU girls try to figure out our needs and wants? It's usually difficult for girls to understand why guys need to spend so much time with their barkada or spend so so time in basketball and stuff. It's same banana the other way around.

Tell us in a nice way. Don't demand it like a nagging wife would. That'd only make things harder.