SEX IN THE PEx! - Manila Lifestyle

[DAILO]

Welcome to PEx Sex Talk! That's right, SEX talk. Here we will get inside the world of sex. But of course, while sex can be very serious, it can be just as humorous.

HBO has their SEX IN THE CITY!... so I bring you SEX IN THE PEx! Enjoy my first article and keep those comments and stories coming...

:D :D :D

[This message has been edited by DAILO (edited 09-11-2000).]

[DAILO]

KISS ME...


So let's get started with something simple, like kissing...

Kissing is one of the most basic acts of intimacy. Though it is definitely something you have to learn, the need to kiss and the yearning for close human contact is instinctive and comes naturally. Kissing requires confidence in your skill and technique. There are books and websites that can help you with this, but there's nothing like experience. Still, a little bit of knowledge never hurt anyone!

Why are techniques learned and skills developed? The majority of women decide whether or not they will sleep with a man, based on how well they kiss! If the man is a bad kisser, they aren't just "not turned on", they are completely turned off. First impressions count a lot in the games between the sexes. It just doesn't matter how good looking and full of personality you are. The memory of a first bad kiss will never go away.

Let's say you're on a date. You go to dinner, watch a movie, and get to know one another. Natural human instinct causes your body to react a certain way, and the closer you get, the more your body reacts. Your palms sweat, your heart starts to race, and hormones begin to flow into your bloodstream, inducing a sense of euphoria, and a feeling that is much like hunger. However, it's not a burger you crave, rather it's the desire for smooth, delicate lips and a sweet, velvety tongue.

Of course, there is more to kissing than the physical touch of your lips and tongue. Let's not forget the aching need that made you want to kiss in the first place. Your arms want to wrap around each others bodies to pull yourselves closer...your hands caress...you hear yourself moan as your hunger increases, your breath comes quicker, and now your craving is...well, that's another article for another time, as we all know there are other places to kiss....

Unfortunately, no article, book, video or website can actually teach you how to kiss. Eventually, you develop your own technique, which will go through continuous modifications with each person you kiss.

Tips... Some tips to remember:

1)If you have a funny taste in your mouth, or if you are at all unsure about your breath, POP THAT TIC-TAC. They may not thank you, but you will get kissed again.

2)Understand that the person you are kissing also has his or her own technique. Learn their rhythms and respond to their movements, and be sure to communicate yours as well. The experience will enjoyable for both of you!

3)Two words: SALIVA CONTROL. If I wanted spit all over my face, I'd go kiss my dog.

4)Be confident! Being hesitant or unsure while kissing will only cause you to bump teeth or lose the rhythm.

5)Speaking of rhythm, be easy on the tongue action. You're exploring their mouth, not invading it.

6)Don't be afraid to incorporate other parts of your body into the kiss. Pull them closer, caress their face or neck, and run your hands through their hair... share your pleasure.

Lastly, remember that kisses are also a form of communication in a relationship. They can be pecks on the lips or cheeks when saying hi or bye, or they can convey passion, love, or straight out carnal lust. It's a language worth learning.


Hope you enjoyed the first of Sex in the PEx! :D :D :D




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[KuyaDanny]

I swear...

DAILO is not only better than Bloomberg, he's also better than Dr Ruth!!!

http://www.pinoyexchange.com/lol.gif

[DAILO]

SEX IN THE PEx! :D :D :D

[ChiQui]

Hey, keep them coming DAILO! Galing ah... are you speaking from experience?

[@Avatar@]

hmmm.. very educational...

kiss is a form of communication..
wow. i'll remember that..!!! :)

[Calypso]

Originally posted by ChiQui:
Hey, keep them coming DAILO

Whops! Double entendre, Chix!!! ;)

[DAILO]

Comments? Suggestions? Fantasies?

ATTN: ALL PExRs... give me some feedback, or tell me some stories! And don't be shy, the more explicit, the better.

SEX IN THE PEx! :D :D :D

[DAILO]

Originally posted by KuyaDanny:
I swear...

DAILO is not only better than Bloomberg, he's also better than Dr Ruth!!!

http://www.pinoyexchange.com/lol.gif

HAHAHA! Welcome KuyaDanny! Those are fairly high bars youre benchmarking me against... I wanna take a chance in this Lifestyle forum... I hope ChiQui doesnt mind

GREED IS GOOD! :D :D :D

SEX IN THE PEx! :D :D :D

[DAILO]

Originally posted by ChiQui:
Hey, keep them coming DAILO! Galing ah... are you speaking from experience?

HAHAHA!... Thanks... I'll keep it coming :) But i'll admit this is a change from my GREED IS GOOD! :D :D :D

ChiQui youre more then welcome to contribute your experiences :D :D :D

[ChiQui]

Originally posted by Calypso:
Whops! Double entendre, Chix!!! ;)



http://www.pinoyexchange.com/bop.gif *** talaga ate bibs ha...

[ChiQui]

DAILO,

It's okay. As long as it doesn't get too explicit to the point that it can be called vulgar. Let's not forget, we do have minors viewing this site. :)

As for experiences, sorry, I don't think I can help you with that.

[msflip]

totoo bang mamalasin yung car kung gawin mo don?

ummmm... i've done it sa car, pero i have no news kung minalas yung kotse! break na kasi kami eh!

[clone]

Nice thread, Dailo. Your first installment (kissing) does not just pay lip service to the act of osculation but it also nibbles at the cloak of mystery surrounding this intimate act.

If I may, here are some suggestions for those who are ready to engage in some liplocking exercises:

1) Do not pattern your kisses after those steamy movie scenes. That's unreal. It is much more sensual if you start with light contact around the corners of the mouth while exchanging romantic conversation, then continue with gentle pecks working slowly toward the slightly parted lips. After that, just use your imagination.

2)The secret of a pleasurable kiss is in knowing the right amount of pressure to apply...too little will just tickle, too much may hurt your partner. Never bite someone's lip or tongue unless your intention is to inflict pain. That is not a turn-on.

3) Try to relax. If you don't get it perfect the first time, so what? It's not the end of the world. Just try again, but make it fun. After all, an encore performance is always welcome among couples who enjoy physical contact with each other.

4) Don't apologize even if you feel your kiss was less than perfect (unless, of course, you hurt her/him). Apologizing just makes your partner feel more self-conscious and awkward. Just do it again but at a different angle.

5) If you bump noses, or look at each other crossed-eyed, just laugh or giggle and show that you're having fun.

That's all for now. I gotta go and try out my own advices. ;)

[supergirl]

http://www.pinoyexchange.com/inluv.gif in kissing...

my longest kiss was when my boyfriend and i were in his apartment and he placed this "Cruisin" cd in the player and we just kissed all throughout the 2 cd's of that track!!! that would be around more than 30 minutes or an hour max.!

about doing it in the car, i hope the "malas" thing is true sana malasin nga siya...hehehe.

[Moon Goddess]

Marami akong kakilala rito eh so ndi pwede.

Sorry.

[RöttenMind]

heya DAILO! this is kewl!

me tanong po ako, vaket me mga guys na madaling labasan?

and what can you say about a 5-minute foreplay?

:D

[vega]

you guys and gals would be surprised at the number of people actually viewing this topic but not replying at all. typical pinoy, i think. sex is taboo. sex isn't simply the act itself... kissing is part of sex... a lot of things are too. maybe you can change this to anything that can be a turn on!

it would be fun if a lot more people posts here.

great topic dailo!

[supergirl]

will a 5 minute foreplay work? (maybe unless both of you are really so hot for each other at that moment and there is no need for steaming up anymore!) http://www.pinoyexchange.com/silly.gif

hey guys, what do you think of girls who fake their oragasm? sino ang nagiging masama, ikaw o yung nag-fake?

[clone]

Supergirl: Actually longer foreplays are for the benefit of the girl. Guys usually do not need that much foreplay to get ready.

If the girl does not reach orgasm, who do you think will be left "wanting?" You got that right.

Here's a side question to those who are qualified to answer it: Can women still find "satisfaction" with sexual intercourse even if they don't reach orgasm?

Make the trip as much fun as the destination.

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[Calypso]

DAILO: Hey, i liked reading your piece! When we will be treated to another round of foreplay talk? ;) http://www.pinoyexchange.com/angel.gif

ChiQui: Kunwari ka pa dyan...! ;) And pls. don't 'ate' me when you look more WOMAN than two of me! http://www.pinoyexchange.com/lol.gif

supergirl: **attempts to calculate amount of saliva exchange within 30 mins of nonstop kissing** http://www.pinoyexchange.com/lol.gif Ok yung longest kiss na yan ah! How did it feel afterwards? :) Of course, you may not answer the question...

clone: Hmm, interesting kissing tips. Re: "Guys usually do not need that much foreplay to get ready." Are you really speaking in general terms, or is this based on familiar ground? ;)

[DAILO]

KISS AND MAKE-UP

Be sure the fight is over before the night is through. Most couples agree - you must never sleep on a quarrel.

The rules of engagement (words of wisdom from three couples):

DON'T fight in front of the children
DON'T speak or shout at the same time.
DO give the right of way. If your spouse is talking, shut up and listen.
DO really listen.
DO cool off. Fighting in heat would not get you anywhere.
DON'T panic if you fight about small things. It's normal to disagree.
DO be patient with one another.
DON'T be afraid to express yourselves.
ABOSOLUTELY NO hitting or physical abuse.
DO talk about problems as they come up so that adjustments can be made immediately on both sides.
DON'T let your "sama ng loob" accumulate because, sooner or later, you will explode.
DO try to focus on your partner instead of yourself when you're fighting. Sometimes, it's good to put yourself in your partner's shoes.
NEVER get too set on a particular stance. Remember that whatever it is you're fighting about will pass.
DO agree to a truce when the fighting is really intense. If you still feel strongly about it, remember that you can always take up the issue another time.
DO remember that things are not always what they seem.

This is a good time to practice my kissing suggestions!

SEX IN THE PEx! :D :D :D

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[DAILO]

I want to welcome all of the new SEX PExRs who arent afraid to read and post.

SEX IN THE PEx! :D :D :D

KuyaDanny
ChiQui
@Avatar@
Calypso
alternativity
msflip
supergirl
clone
Moon Goddess
RöttenMind
vega

Lets keep it coming! We'll start off conservatively and build up to more steamy issues :D :D :D Its all foreplay...

SEX IN THE PEx! :D :D :D

[chikitita]

Originally posted by alternativity:
Is there any way you can BOTH enjoy the first time, assuming first timers kayo pareho? I hear it's mostly not enjoyable for the girl.(Hurts, right?)

yeah, any knowledgeable individual..answer this please! curious ako :D

[@Avatar@]

hehehe thanks dialo !...
btw.. minor lang ako.. i'm 4 years old... :)

[clone]

Originally posted by Calypso:

clone: Hmm, interesting kissing tips. Re: "Guys usually do not need that much foreplay to get ready." Are you really speaking in general terms, or is this based on familiar ground? ;)

Calypso: Yes! :D


DAILO: It's my pleasure. :)

[tr|n|ty]

See, I've always been open about sex and i don't really find it kadiri talking about it in a 'matter-of-factly' way, di ba?

some guys are just gross kissers...i swear, too much saliva just kills it..you smell bad after..kadiri talaga. I'm the type of person who likes a lot of tongue action..but tongue does not mean that it's supposed to be dripping wet. And isn't it annoying when you try making silip while kissing and you catch each other..nagkakahiyaan pa daw..biglang piket.. http://www.pinoyexchange.com/lol.gif

Originally posted by clone:
....Actually longer foreplays are for the benefit of the girl.


you got that right.

Originally posted by clone:
Here's a side question to those who are qualified to answer it: Can women still find "satisfaction" with sexual intercourse even if they don't reach orgasm?


Hmm some women find just the whole idea of doing it mindblowing. It goes with this 'philosophy' of the male-female psyche which goes "Men say I love you to have sex while Women have sex just to hear the I love you" or something like that. Women have sex just to feel secure and by that, some just don't care if they get an orgasm or not. I don't think this applies to all women but i do know of a few whose lives seem like they follow that notion. It's weird though. They're pretty self-less , in my opinion. I just think sex should be an experience enjoyed by both consenting adults. It's a whole give-and-take communion. And it gets really irritating (SO I HEARD ;) ) when you're really not into it that much and you just want the guy to just get it done and over with..it's like "doom di doom di doom...can you get it over with and get off me" http://www.pinoyexchange.com/lol.gif That must be awful and boring.

hmm did that answer the question? hehehe

Ay...another thing that irks me sooooooo bad(i dunno if this is related to the whole topic, but i'll go ahead) are the guys who would not do it with their girlfriends because according to them "ayaw nilang galawin kasi pang asawa" BUT they would just do it with any other girl out there. Hey guys, that is soo pathetic. If you really love the girl and she doesn't want to give it up until you get married, respect that. Di ba you love her so much, so dapat you're willing to sacrifice. If you can't handle it, call it quits NOW. You can't have your cake and eat it, too.

[tr|n|ty]

Originally posted by clone:
Here's a side question to those who are qualified to answer it: Can women still find "satisfaction" with sexual intercourse even if they don't reach orgasm?


another answer to that question maybe (naks may maybe http://www.pinoyexchange.com/lol.gif )..some women like the idea of giving her partner either pain or pleasure just by one move. It's a power trip of sorts that gives the 'pleasure'. And you somehow hold the key to that 'paradise'. Hmm there's this one great line from this french film with Vincent Perez and Isabella Adjani called "queen margot" that sums up how people can go gaga over sex..it talks about sex as being in the brink of death and reaching salvation all at the same time in a matter of seconds. It was, of course, said in french..so it was mindblowing just hearing it :)

[Cala]

Originally posted by chikitita:

quote:
Originally posted by alternativity:
Is there any way you can BOTH enjoy the first time, assuming first timers kayo pareho? I hear it's mostly not enjoyable for the girl.(Hurts, right?)


yeah, any knowledgeable individual..answer this please! curious ako :D




i'm not sure if you can generalize. in ways, it differs from girl to girl, a lot of times it differs from partner to partner too. it hurts when the girl is not lubricated enough. let's just say that foreplay is really important for the girl, especially during the first time.

i know girls who had a great first time, and others who just wanted to get it over with.

[DAILO]

Lets all welcome

tr|n|ty
Cala

to SEX IN THE PEx!

Thanks for all your comments and please continue... I think we all appreciate the input. :D :D :D

[chikitita]

one of my fave shows here in tate is Sex and the City..grabe, ang blatant nila dun in a very comical way. and it's very educational too :D kainis nga lang kasi my dad thinks it's obscene. oh well, generation gap kasi. :rolleyes:

[clone]

Originally posted by tr|n|ty:
Hmm there's this one great line from this french film with Vincent Perez and Isabella Adjani called "queen margot" that sums up how people can go gaga over sex..it talks about sex as being in the brink of death and reaching salvation all at the same time in a matter of seconds. It was, of course, said in french..so it was mindblowing just hearing it :)

tr|n|ty: Did it sound anything like this? "étant dans le bord de la mort et atteignant le salut tout en même temps dans une question des secondes."

It sounds so romantic and mermerizing but it is just a movie line... it is not real. There's a big disappointment awaiting anyone who expects real relationship to feel that way. Many factors come into play to achieve a genuinely satisfying experience. It starts with each partner's attitude and their willingness/ability to communicate their feelings to each other.

Most women are reluctant (or shy) about letting the guy know how he can please her better. They take a passive role, expecting the guy to know all the "moves," then get disappointed if the sexperience did not turn out all that it was hyped out to be.

Some guys are also shy or inexperienced, so the women need to participate actively in the act. Most guys would even find it exciting if the girl shows him what he can do to get her more stimulated. If, on the other hand, the guy thinks he will come across as macho by being too rough, the girl should speak up if she does not find that acceptable. Otherwise, he will be convinced that the brutal techniques he saw in the movies is what pleased his partner the most.

This next advise is just as important. DO NOT FORGET THE POST-PLAY. This can be just as pleasurable. Sadly, most people neglect it.

[whoboatwhobad]

my 2 cents worth: usually after a couple's big fight when they have reconciled, kissed and made up, there's a bigger fight that looms ahead... and that is S E X

:D http://www.pinoyexchange.com/silly.gif http://www.pinoyexchange.com/bop.gif

[tr|n|ty]

Originally posted by clone:
tr|n|ty: Did it sound anything like this? "étant dans le bord de la mort et atteignant le salut tout en même temps dans une question des secondes."


yah sounds something like that...i will rent the video again to get the line down pat...my school girl french is just very bad. i can't even form coherent sentences.

anyways....


I do agree that sex involves more than mere words or just plain action. Heck, i agree to everthing clone had said in his post. It is an interaction. But to the average joe, sex is a selfish act. They would get their fill first before thinking of satisfying the partner. And i think the keys to mindblowing sex are in the ability of both participants to let go of their inhibitions and great communication. There should be some sort of vulnerability and sensitivity to the other's likes and dislikes.

Yes girls...we do have to tell our partners what WE WANT. I hate the idea of faking it. We have as much right to the pleasure that sex has to offer. Damn, the point of sex is for BOTH OF YOU. Don't be like a rag doll just spreading your legs (sorry to be graphic) and waiting for him to get it over with.

See, smart guys please their women first before themselves. Smart guys are way sexier than gwapo guys....u can quote me on that. :)

[AltarBoy^_^]

Hmmmmmmmm.......nice thread! Keep it up people! http://www.pinoyexchange.com/smokin.gif

[aticus]

My philosophy has always been: Make the girl happy.

You see, I believe (and I hope this doesn't come across as misogynistic) that women are more sensitive and more attuned to their sexuality and that of their men. In other words, they are aware of what makes (their) men happy and are often willing to do what it takes.

So as long as I take care of her needs, and make her happy, I am always confident that she will happily return the favor. I don't even worry about my own "needs" or whatever you want to term them. Frankly, a happy woman will always take care of you.

And just on the subject of five minute foreplays... are you kidding me??? Unless you BOTH want it that badly, I've always believed that women deserve to be pleasured WAY longer than that. And guys, don't use the excuse that you couldn't help it. Frankly, five minutes should be an embarassment. Try for thirty or more, unless she wants release a bit earlier. :)

[yax-ytterp]

wow... very educational... i'll post sumthin else later on... :D

[DAILO]

Now that you’re all appreciating the sensuality and sexiness of a good kiss, Give me some feedback, or tell me some stories! And don't be shy, the more explicit, the better.

SEX IN THE PEx! :D :D :D

[DAILO]

Originally posted by alternativity
Until then, well, is this REALLY the place to ask, i just wanted to know?
(ooops. i gotta read the privacy notice again...)

The Internet is the place.... and PEx is where to ask... anonymity and bola at its best...

[DAILO]

Originally posted by aticus
My philosophy has always been: Make the girl happy.

You see, I believe (and I hope this doesn't come across as misogynistic) that women are more sensitive and more attuned to their sexuality and that of their men. In other words, they are aware of what makes (their) men happy and are often willing to do what it takes.

So as long as I take care of her needs, and make her happy, I am always confident that she will happily return the favor. I don't even worry about my own "needs" or whatever you want to term them. Frankly, a happy woman will always take care of you.

And just on the subject of five minute foreplays... are you kidding me??? Unless you BOTH want it that badly, I've always believed that women deserve to be pleasured WAY longer than that. And guys, don't use the excuse that you couldn't help it. Frankly, five minutes should be an embarassment. Try for thirty or more, unless she wants release a bit earlier. :)

The time it takes to learn the art of pleasing a woman is a worthwhile investment. Not only does it take skill to know how to do it right, but it also shows that you are an unselfish lover, which I personally believe is a highly valued quality.

[DAILO]

PARENTAL DESCRETION ADVISED - NOT SUITABLE FOR MINORS

Any sexual advice originating from this thread are purely opinions. If you make a sexual decision based on the information from this forum, you do so at your own risk. I will not be liable for any damages you may sustain in the field.

The discussions on this site is adult oriented and/or sexually explicit, and is related to material of an adult nature.

Should you become offended, move on to another forum. If you become the SEXBOMB of the century then stay. Either way, I won't mind if you share your experiences here in this thread as a testimonial of SEX IN THE PEx! :D :D :D

GOOD LUCK IN YOUR ADVENTURES!

[DAILO]

ChiQui

Is it okay now that i have included a disclaimer? I tried to add it to my first post so its in the front however my 1000 minutes lapsed.... can you help me with it. :D :D :D

[DAILO]

Thanks everyone for all your emails and comments... Now that you’re all appreciating the sensuality and sexiness of a good kiss, let’s move further down the female body. Follow the graceful line of her neck down… past the lush and beautiful breasts that always deserve attention… further down the smooth skin of her belly... following in a straight line down to...

...before I continue I want everyone to read my disclaimer. Should I continue or are we pushing the limit? It seems that all the questions I received are from males... any curious females out there?

[supergirl]

Calypso: how did that longkiss felt? blissfully exhausted!!!
you should try it,with a different cd though,try with Rivermaya, the more acidic the tune the better,hehehehe. Also try it with the girl sitting on your lap, it will be sweeter.

Ey clone, you know, i sometimes enjoy it without the benefit of the big O (orgasm). Ever heard of Tantric sex? Although it was supposed to give the girl a from-the-tip-of-the-spine-down-to-the-toes orgasm, the mere waves of pleasure she gets from it enough to make her extremely happy. so now you know and therefore apply it, hehehe...

[supergirl]

hay naku DAILO, malay mo the females are not really curious, baka naman they know more na kaya they don't bother asking, hehehehe...

i have question though, would you want a virgin or a non-virgin for a wife? HONEST answers pls!!! don't give answers that are too good to be true, or you guys are just being nice.

next question, this may be too explicit for the others but for the others who are already open to these things..."to swallow or not to swallow?" :)

[DAILO]

Before I go on, please understand there are many sides to the acts involving sex. Simply broken down, there’s f@#king and there’s making love. I can describe making love in the most beautiful and flowery prose available in my vocabulary, but when talking about f@#king, it’s just like the act itself, straight and to the point, no holds barred. And there you have it – my attempt at a disclaimer to let you know that I never intend to offend anyone’s delicate sensibilities. With that being said...

[Assassin_Mage]

nice topic..
I have gone to this before much.. since it was but starting then.. and I felt no need to say anything..

I also think that it is time that Pilipinos be more open about and sexuality. For it is but a natural act and denying it will not do any good..

******************

But as to the question of whether a female can enjoy her first time....

Yes, but it all depends...

With a knowledgeable partner, it can be a very satisfyingly enjoyable act. With the partner who knows how to pleasure his partner before pleasuring himself, it can be one great act.

The usual problem about most first time couples is the lack of knowledge about the act itself. What most people think is that u just undress, kiss fondle a bit and then bang away.. and presto, u enjoy yourselves.

for males, it can be.. But for females, not necessarily so..

Iwould love to include a list of suggestions.. Maybe I will later on.. :)

[DAILO]

Originally posted by Assassin_Mage
nice topic..

The usual problem about most first time couples is the lack of knowledge about the act itself. What most people think is that u just undress, kiss fondle a bit and then bang away.. and presto, u enjoy yourselves.

for males, it can be.. But for females, not necessarily so..

Iwould love to include a list of suggestions.. Maybe I will later on.. :)

The time it takes to learn the art of pleasing a woman is a worthwhile investment. Not only does it take skill to know how to do it right, but it also shows that you are an unselfish lover, which I personally believe is a highly valued quality. For most females I know, they say if a guy is a lousy lay, but can eat ***** like a champ, they'll forever remember him as a great lover.

Guys (or girls), if you’re looking for techniques, there’s no rulebook out there. Women are like snowflakes (no, not fragile) – there are no two of them alike. The skills you need that I spoke of before are not in the just in the act, but in the willingness to please by paying close attention to your woman’s reactions.

Generally, women have the ability to achieve orgasm from vaginal, clitoral, G-spot, and anal stimulation. Any one of the four ways will do, and it is up to you to find out which she prefers. Different women will tell you different things, such as, “I can only cum when I’m on top,” or “I can only come if you eat me out.” The average woman loves sex as much as any guy, and whether she’s f@#king you or making love to you, the physical goal is the big “O.”

Stay tuned for a list of suggestions! :D :D :D

[DAILO]

Originally posted by supergirl

hay naku DAILO, malay mo the females are not really curious, baka naman they know more na kaya they don't bother asking, hehehehe...

i have question though, would you want a virgin or a non-virgin for a wife? HONEST answers pls!!! don't give answers that are too good to be true, or you guys are just being nice.

next question, this may be too explicit for the others but for the others who are already open to these things..."to swallow or not to swallow?" :)

Perhaps they do :D :D :D

To be honest with you it doesnt matter to me... i would just want a wife who loves me and who allows me to love her. In love you love a person for who they are... but to make it last you love them for who they arent. :D

That question is a level of comfort between the two parties involved... of course there has to be consent but i wouldnt force anyone to do something they arent comfortable with.

[Calypso]

Originally posted by supergirl
Calypso: Also try it with the girl sitting on your lap, it will be sweeter.


Thanks for the tip, supergirl... I'll keep that in mind... ;) hehehe.. girl sitting on my lap, you say? Cool... the better to heighten my lesbian tendencies... :lol:

[ChiQui]

Originally posted by DAILO
ChiQui

Is it okay now that i have included a disclaimer? I tried to add it to my first post so its in the front however my 1000 minutes lapsed.... can you help me with it. :D :D :D

I don't think I can help you with that as it seems that we will be adjusting something in the software to accommodate your request. And since I'm not really a technical person... ehaehe... :)

As for your disclaimer, it does set a lot of would-be issues to rest. However, we cannot restrict minors from viewing your thread as all threads here in PEx are for public viewing. So, as I've said before, please just refrain from being "too graphic" that it will be considered as vulgar. :) So far, you've been very conscientious with this as I have not deleted anything yet. Thanks! :)

[supergirl]

HAHAHAHAHAHAHA, Calypso, sooooooo sorrryyyyy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
ok this is way too much now, but sorry anyway, unless...you're not being a hypocrite...aint sure.

[DAILO]

Originally posted by ChiQui
I don't think I can help you with that as it seems that we will be adjusting something in the software to accommodate your request. And since I'm not really a technical person... ehaehe... :)

As for your disclaimer, it does set a lot of would-be issues to rest. However, we cannot restrict minors from viewing your thread as all threads here in PEx are for public viewing. So, as I've said before, please just refrain from being "too graphic" that it will be considered as vulgar. :) So far, you've been very conscientious with this as I have not deleted anything yet. Thanks! :)

No problem.... I really want to know how hungry our fellow PExRs are with this topic.... it seems there are alot of views but not too many posts.... I find it a challenge to change that!

SEX IN THE PEx! :D :D :D

[DAILO]

Originally posted by DAILO

Guys (or girls), if you’re looking for techniques, there’s no rulebook out there. Women are like snowflakes (no, not fragile) – there are no two of them alike. The skills you need that I spoke of before are not in the just in the act, but in the willingness to please by paying close attention to your woman’s reactions.

Generally, women have the ability to achieve orgasm from vaginal, clitoral, G-spot, and anal stimulation. Any one of the four ways will do, and it is up to you to find out which she prefers. Different women will tell you different things, such as, “I can only cum when I’m on top,” or “I can only come if you eat me out.” The average woman loves sex as much as any guy, and whether she’s f@#king you or making love to you, the physical goal is the big “O.”

Stay tuned for a list of suggestions! :D :D :D


Thanks for staying tune... I will list guidelines, cool techniques, and random thoughts on the female sex drive... However, I will only post it 1 by 1 unless I get a sudden response of posts, questions, comments, and the like... to fulfill your curiosity... be more active in here!

BASIC GUIDLINE TO PLEASURING THE FEMALE SEX DRIVE

1) Pay attention to her reactions. Self-explanatory. In case it’s not, let me explain it for you - don’t be a clueless dumb@ss. If she’s moaning and writhing when you touch or lick a certain spot, remember this, because THIS IS A GOOD THING, and you will want to repeat it.

SEX IN THE PEx! :D :D :D [/QUOTE]

[Leeloo]

this is a neat thread, i must say! hehe

hey, dailo, what bout tips in pleasuring the male naman? (as asked by a clueless female) i mean would a bj be the be all and end all of sex as they know it, or do they also look for extended foreplays?

[supergirl]

Hey DAILO, i like that..."women are like snowflakes"...it's so true!!! "different strokes for different folks", right?
:)

[supergirl]

yeah, what about pleasing the male? what do guys REALLY WANT? does that also depend on the guy? do guys like to do it when they are a bit tipsy or something?

[AltarBoy^_^]

I suggest to you all to read books like "The Sensuous Man" and "The Sensuous Woman." Informative and they do tackle the problems in terms of dating, copulating, satisfying and maintaining your sex drive. Peace! :smokin:

[DAILO]

Thanks for staying tune... I will list guidelines, cool techniques, and random thoughts on the female sex drive... However, I will only post it 1 by 1 unless I get a sudden response of posts, questions, comments, and the like... to fulfill your curiosity... be more active in here!

BASIC GUIDLINE TO PLEASURING THE FEMALE SEX DRIVE

2) TEASING

Another good thing. It’s foreplay to foreplay, and is a great warm-up. Now, the thing with teasing is that it’s cute, and it gets a girl flowing, but tease too much and there’s 2 possible reactions: 1) they get forceful, which in turn will turn YOU on, or 2) they’ll get bored, and that’s never good.

Stay tuned for more!

SEX IN THE PEx! :D :D :D [/QUOTE] [/QUOTE]

<I'm sorry but I had to edit out a few of your sentences. It was getting a bit too graphic. Hope you understand.>

[Edited by ChiQui on 10-05-2000 at 01:17 AM]

[DAILO]

Originally posted by Leeloo
this is a neat thread, i must say! hehe

hey, dailo, what bout tips in pleasuring the male naman? (as asked by a clueless female) i mean would a bj be the be all and end all of sex as they know it, or do they also look for extended foreplays?

WELCOME Leeloo to SEX IN THE PEx!

I will post several tips on pleasuring the Male sex drive after my conclusion of the Female sex drive.... I'll go into the tips and techniques most Males prefer... stay tuned! Feel free to ask more questions...

SEX IN THE PEx! :D :D :D

[DAILO]

Originally posted by supergirl
Hey DAILO, i like that..."women are like snowflakes"...it's so true!!! "different strokes for different folks", right?
:)


:D :D :D yes they are... women are like snowflakes... unique and special...

[DAILO]

Originally posted by supergirl
yeah, what about pleasing the male? what do guys REALLY WANT? does that also depend on the guy? do guys like to do it when they are a bit tipsy or something?

Stay tuned next week as we explore the art of pleasuring the Males sex drive and what guys really want...

Kepp the questions coming....

SEX IN THE PEx! :D :D :D

[DAILO]

Originally posted by alternativity
Originally posted by DAILO
...from vaginal, clitoral, G-spot, and anal stimulation. Any one of the four ways will do, and it is up to you to find out which she prefers.


The difference between o #1 and o # 3 being? Isn't #3 in found... in #1? Or have i got my research wrong?

thanks

And oh, yeah, hi chiqui.

And DAILO, have i said this is a cool thread? 'Cause it is, man. Keep it comin'.

the G-spot is usually found deep within the inside front of the vagina... but from what i know several degrees of the "O" can be achieved within the vagina without hitting the G-spot which is a different "O" all together, just as the clitoral and anal. You'll need to find out what your partner is most comfortable with and which she prefers.

I understand ChiQui moderates this thread... and is amenable to us speaking freely here which i appreciate... but she deserves a more personal greeting... perhaps we shall make a ChiQui Fan Club forum :D :D :D

it is noted... cool as ice :D :D :D Keep the questions and comments coming!

SEX INT EH PEx! :D :D :D

[DAILO]

Originally posted by AltarBoy^_^
I suggest to you all to read books like "The Sensuous Man" and "The Sensuous Woman." Informative and they do tackle the problems in terms of dating, copulating, satisfying and maintaining your sex drive. Peace! :smokin:

Thanks AlterBoy... keep us posted on other books that could be beneficial to the forum!

SEX IN THE PEx! :D :D :D

[RöttenMind]

Originally posted by supergirl

next question, this may be too explicit for the others but for the others who are already open to these things..."to swallow or not to swallow?" :)

to gargle! :D

[DAILO]

Originally posted by RöttenMind
Originally posted by supergirl

next question, this may be too explicit for the others but for the others who are already open to these things..."to swallow or not to swallow?" :)

to gargle! :D



PHahaha... if youre comfortable and thats your preference then more power to you!

SEX IN THE PEx! :D :D :D

[supergirl]

hmmm...to gargle so that would mean after swallowing, hehehe. but what do guys prefer? honestly, it makes me gag, but i can take it if the guy's my boyfriend, i wonder why this is so...

[DAILO]

Originally posted by supergirl
hmmm...to gargle so that would mean after swallowing, hehehe. but what do guys prefer? honestly, it makes me gag, but i can take it if the guy's my boyfriend, i wonder why this is so...

supergirl:

you do have special powers! you ask what do guys prefer... well i believe guys are already greatful if you do the deed... and its a bonus to guys when you continue up to the point where they ejaculate... the follow through of swallowing is your preference.... you are one supergirl :D :D :D

would you mind sharing your technique to avoid gaging?

SEX IN THE PEx! :D :D :D

[ChiQui]

People,

Please PLEASE keep in mind that this is board is open for public viewing. Public, meaning, minors included. Let's not be too graphic okay?

Thank you.

[DAILO]

Originally posted by ChiQui
People,

Please PLEASE keep in mind that this is board is open for public viewing. Public, meaning, minors included. Let's not be too graphic okay?

Thank you.


ATTN: EVERYONE

As much as our thread, "SEX IN THE PEx!" is educational and entertaining, We have been asked,(me included) to refrain from being too graphic. As moderators go, ChiQui is one of the most lenient. She has reminded us that there are minors who visit the site. She won't be closing our thread just yet, but would like us to please be more conscientious of our terms. We must please avoid using vulgar words such as "*****". (I think thats a STRIKE for me!)

Just to let you know she appreciates our help in the growth of her forum.

Thank you.

STRIKE ONE! for SEX IN THE PEx! :D :D :D

[ChiQui]

:bop: DAILO

Nagbibilang ka ng strike ha! Lolz!

[supergirl]

DAILO: I dunno what to say, I'm kinda flattered...thank you!!! I mean it does not take a lot of superpowers to do that...:*)

Oh and I don't know what technque I use not to make myself gag...you want a demo? :lol: :lol: :lol:

[chikitita]

ChiQui..sumisipsip lang si DAILO sa 'yo para di mo isara yung thread niya:lol::lol::lol: nice thread though, mala-Doc Margie Holmes si DAILO :D

[DAILO]

Originally posted by ChiQui
:bop: DAILO

Nagbibilang ka ng strike ha! Lolz!

:D :D :D how many strikes do we get?

[DAILO]

Originally posted by supergirl
DAILO: I dunno what to say, I'm kinda flattered...thank you!!! I mean it does not take a lot of superpowers to do that...:*)

Oh and I don't know what technque I use not to make myself gag...you want a demo? :lol: :lol: :lol:

SuperGirl: Ummm... I dunno what to say, but it may take several sessions to determine the technique!!! :lol: :lol: :lol:

SEX IN THE PEx! :D :D :D

[supergirl]

DAILO: Several sessions would be ok with me...hehehe :lol:

[angeleye]

do you guys feel/know when your partner really did cum? not fake orgasm - what do you think Dailo?

[jlife]

Originally posted by RöttenMind
heya DAILO! this is kewl!

me tanong po ako, vaket me mga guys na madaling labasan?

and what can you say about a 5-minute foreplay?

:D

one word para sa 1st Q: pacing

[jlife]

Originally posted by supergirl
will a 5 minute foreplay work? (maybe unless both of you are really so hot for each other at that moment and there is no need for steaming up anymore!) http://www.pinoyexchange.com/silly.gif

hey guys, what do you think of girls who fake their oragasm? sino ang nagiging masama, ikaw o yung nag-fake?



fake orgasms: sakit sa ulo nun pag nalaman nung partner

[jlife]

Originally posted by chikitita
Originally posted by alternativity:
Is there any way you can BOTH enjoy the first time, assuming first timers kayo pareho? I hear it's mostly not enjoyable for the girl.(Hurts, right?)

yeah, any knowledgeable individual..answer this please! curious ako :D



situation: kung pareho kayong nag agree na dapat walang keme and dapat parehong ready and eager to explore <mind & body> ang bawat isa -- GUD! and dapat mas matagal ang foreplay pero not to the extent na pareho na kayong pagod sa tagal.

[jlife]

Originally posted by aticus
My philosophy has always been: Make the girl happy.

You see, I believe (and I hope this doesn't come across as misogynistic) that women are more sensitive and more attuned to their sexuality and that of their men. In other words, they are aware of what makes (their) men happy and are often willing to do what it takes.

So as long as I take care of her needs, and make her happy, I am always confident that she will happily return the favor. I don't even worry about my own "needs" or whatever you want to term them. Frankly, a happy woman will always take care of you.

And just on the subject of five minute foreplays... are you kidding me??? Unless you BOTH want it that badly, I've always believed that women deserve to be pleasured WAY longer than that. And guys, don't use the excuse that you couldn't help it. Frankly, five minutes should be an embarassment. Try for thirty or more, unless she wants release a bit earlier. :)



i agree with aticus.

[jlife]

Originally posted by supergirl

hay naku DAILO, malay mo the females are not really curious, baka naman they know more na kaya they don't bother asking, hehehehe...

i have question though, would you want a virgin or a non-virgin for a wife? HONEST answers pls!!! don't give answers that are too good to be true, or you guys are just being nice.

next question, this may be too explicit for the others but for the others who are already open to these things..."to swallow or not to swallow?" :)

Q1's answer: it really doesnt matter.

Q2's answer: NOT TO SWALLOW!

[Calypso]

:eek:
:crazy:
Nakaka-hyperventilate tong thread na to! :lol:

[jlife]

Originally posted by DAILO
Originally posted by DAILO

Guys (or girls), if you’re looking for techniques, there’s no rulebook out there. Women are like snowflakes (no, not fragile) – there are no two of them alike. The skills you need that I spoke of before are not in the just in the act, but in the willingness to please by paying close attention to your woman’s reactions.

Generally, women have the ability to achieve orgasm from vaginal, clitoral, G-spot, and anal stimulation. Any one of the four ways will do, and it is up to you to find out which she prefers. Different women will tell you different things, such as, “I can only cum when I’m on top,” or “I can only come if you eat me out.” The average woman loves sex as much as any guy, and whether she’s f@#king you or making love to you, the physical goal is the big “O.”

Stay tuned for a list of suggestions! :D :D :D


Thanks for staying tune... I will list guidelines, cool techniques, and random thoughts on the female sex drive... However, I will only post it 1 by 1 unless I get a sudden response of posts, questions, comments, and the like... to fulfill your curiosity... be more active in here!

BASIC GUIDLINE TO PLEASURING THE FEMALE SEX DRIVE

1) Pay attention to her reactions. Self-explanatory. In case it’s not, let me explain it for you - don’t be a clueless dumb@ss. If she’s moaning and writhing when you touch or lick a certain spot, remember this, because THIS IS A GOOD THING, and you will want to repeat it.

SEX IN THE PEx! :D :D :D [/QUOTE]


3 words: observe and learn.

practice to perfect the act to please your partner.

[Maven]

im sexually inexperienced, but i dont find it taboo. naiinis din ako dun sa mga taong nandidiri when you say the word... or natatawa. ang labo eh... parang hindi nila gagawin yun. im also okay with the premarital sex thing, i dont think it's immoral. i might even engage in it, when im ready, but i doubt i'll be.

anyway, i liked that article about kissing... i dont have the faintest idea if im kissing right and stuff... i just... well... KISS. whenever i feel like it. (with someone of course) but i sure would like some more tips... about kissing and other sexually-related stuff... for future references. ;p thanks, dailo. :þ

[BchyGrl]

See, smart guys please their women first before themselves. Smart guys are way sexier than gwapo guys....u can quote me on that. :) [/QUOTE]

truly!

[ChiQui]

Originally posted by DAILO
:D :D :D how many strikes do we get?

Don't count. :) Just play it safe.

[RöttenMind]

wut if a pexer wants to sleep with you? :smokin:

and san ulet ang g-spot? why di mahanap ng aking mga kamay? :lol:

[LetsPlay]

Originally posted by RöttenMind
wut if a pexer wants to sleep with you? :smokin:

and san ulet ang g-spot? why di mahanap ng aking mga kamay? :lol:

rottenmind: Depends entirely on you.. its whether you like to sleep with the guy or not.. also depending on the purpose of sex.. is it just for pleasure with no strings attached.. then if its the case y not... :evil:

[Uncle Johnny]

this is so cool! way to go...i'll post my reactions later....need to study for my finals tom. :)

[AlphaMale]

And to start off, Id like to give my views re foreplay.

To me, this is the most important part of sex. You see, I think sex involves interaction as a whole, from the moment you meet, throughout the day, all until you finally get in bed.

I love turning my partner on. I usually do it when she least expects it. When we're shopping for things at the mall, when she's reading a book, or my personal favorite, when she's speaking to someone on the phone and has to pretend nothing's happening. It's fantastic to watch her struggle to keep herself from screaming as I tear off her.... waitaminit hold on, Im getting ahead of myself *whew*...

I had an ex who loved doing the same to me. She'd wear these tight skirts or loose sleeveless blouses and cross her legs, knowing I was looking, and always when there when it was impossible to do anything about it, until later of course. The suspense would just kill me!

In any case foreplay involves flirting, a lot of touching in the right places at the right time, pushing, pulling, and a great deal of kissing. It's fantastic!

Your comments?

[jlife]

Originally posted by RöttenMind
wut if a pexer wants to sleep with you? :smokin:

and san ulet ang g-spot? why di mahanap ng aking mga kamay? :lol:

A for Q1: it depends

A for Q2:Clitoris

The clitoris is a small projection at the front of the vulva between the labia minor. Although most of it is embedded in surrounding tissues, it is usually about 2 cm long and 0.5 cm in diameter. The clitoris corresponds to the penis in the male and is somewhat similar in structure. It is composed of two columns of erectile tissue, which are separated by a septum and are surrounded by a covering of dense, fibrous connective tissue. At the root of the clitoris, the columns of tissue diverge to form "crura," which in turn are attached to the sides of the pubic arch. At the front, a small mass of erectile tissue forms a "glans," which is richly supplied with sensory nerve fibers.

[blackblade21]

Originally posted by AlphaMale
...In any case foreplay involves flirting, a lot of touching in the right places at the right time, pushing, pulling, and a great deal of kissing. It's fantastic!

Your comments?



I think this depends on your pakner.... err partner. There are some girls who hate it when you tease them in public... they say its nakakahiya, manyakis ka and everything... not all the time naman, paminsan pag natyetyempohan mong .... ok naman :D

pero i wish to have somebody who would do that... a lot of teasing, flirting etc.... would definitely spice up everything :D

<The quote's too long. - ChiQui>

[Edited by ChiQui on 10-13-2000 at 02:36 AM]

[Calypso]

jlife, Rottenmind: The clitoris (that female body part with the bundle of nerves that has no other purpose but for pleasure... DAW) is not the G-Spot (so I hear, ha! ;)). The female G-spot is supposedly located inside, not outside, the female opening...

But don't take my word on that... I have very little knowledge on the topic! :rolleyes: Yaks! Hiya ako to talk at length...!:*)

[jlife]

Originally posted by Calypso
jlife, Rottenmind: The clitoris (that female body part with the bundle of nerves that has no other purpose but for pleasure... DAW) is not the G-Spot (so I hear, ha! ;)). The female G-spot is supposedly located inside, not outside, the female opening...

But don't take my word on that... I have very little knowledge on the topic! :rolleyes: Yaks! Hiya ako to talk at length...!:*)

AYOS!

[scarab]

Originally posted by jlife
Originally posted by Calypso
jlife, Rottenmind: The clitoris (that female body part with the bundle of nerves that has no other purpose but for pleasure... DAW) is not the G-Spot (so I hear, ha! ;)). The female G-spot is supposedly located inside, not outside, the female opening...

But don't take my word on that... I have very little knowledge on the topic! :rolleyes: Yaks! Hiya ako to talk at length...!:*)

AYOS!

yup the clitoris is not the g-spot, it is located inside the vagina. yes, and there is only one g-spot for women. don't confuse the g-spot with the e-zones.

[jlife]

Originally posted by scarab
Originally posted by jlife
Originally posted by Calypso
jlife, Rottenmind: The clitoris (that female body part with the bundle of nerves that has no other purpose but for pleasure... DAW) is not the G-Spot (so I hear, ha! ;)). The female G-spot is supposedly located inside, not outside, the female opening...

But don't take my word on that... I have very little knowledge on the topic! :rolleyes: Yaks! Hiya ako to talk at length...!:*)

AYOS!

yup the clitoris is not the g-spot, it is located inside the vagina. yes, and there is only one g-spot for women. don't confuse the g-spot with the e-zones.

for more info, kindly visit this link:

http://www.madsci.org/posts/archives/feb99/918497689.An.r.html

trivia: what's in the name?
"G-spot" or “Grafenberg’s Spot” after A German medical doctor named Ernst Grafenberg. :zzz:

[zimdude]

Cosmo Philippines Female Sex Survey Results

http://www.femalenetwork.com/cosmosexsurvey/tally/index.hperl

[bröödscrëëp]

Hi! It looks interesting ah! Nakakatawa *** ibang mga tips. :D :D :D

[hobbes20]

hello... i want to learn more about threesomes... lifetime fantasy ko yon eh... 2 girls i boy ha...

[kerb]

im curious about the opinion of vegetarians on the issue, "to swallow, or not to swallow" :).

[supergirl]

I know what you mean about vegetarians and the "swallow or not to swallow" thing. But you see, it's protein-packed and only 5 calories, isn't that wonderful??? :D :D :D

About the three-some fantasy...it's quite thrilling but do you really think that you could focus on multiple partners in one intance? I think it's too tiring (except if you have been good at multi-tasking for a long time!) and too burdensome!!! Some of my "active" friends could attest to that and that is the reason why when they offer me to try it with them, i decline, it's just too...complicated.
Wouldn't you think a one-woman-man deed is sweeter and more special? :sweet:

[daeva]

I hate giving blowjobs! I don't know about you girls but I really hate it. I know guys love it. My boyfriend does. I used to think it's ok before but I've seen movies and television shows were men treat blowjob scenes as degrading acts women do. After I've realized that, I've hated doing it!

So .. any comments on that?

Chiqui ... uhmmm .. I'm not sure if I can even say "blowjob" here but if it's not allowed .. please feel free to delete my message!

[BeaconNewsMag]

grabe,i like reading your articles,grabe very interesting,yuruan mo ako

[Expat-n-Amerika]

:) On the subject of kissing, I for one hate it when the girl tries to kiss me on the lips after giving me head!!!!
specially if she swallows my bodily fluids....:angry: .....

[ChiQui]

Originally posted by Expat-n-Amerika
:) On the subject of kissing, I for one hate it when the girl tries to kiss me on the lips after giving me head!!!!
specially if she swallows my bodily fluids....:angry: .....

Some said that's the true test if a guy loves you or not... if he kisses you after you perform fellatio on him, he loves you, if he doesn't... well..

[zedrik]

Originally posted by ChiQui
Originally posted by Expat-n-Amerika
:) On the subject of kissing, I for one hate it when the girl tries to kiss me on the lips after giving me head!!!!
specially if she swallows my bodily fluids....:angry: .....

Some said that's the true test if a guy loves you or not... if he kisses you after you perform fellatio on him, he loves you, if he doesn't... well..

does that work the other way around... with cunnilingus?

after a good muff dive... would you still kiss a man as passionately?

...just a thought :)

[Expat-n-Amerika]

:evil: lol, touche!! nice one zedric!!!!To ChiQui, I'd rather go down and work on her to make her come, its psych really. the thought of tasting my .....magmumumog muna kami before kissing and look at each others eyes and whatever......

[maxelyjr]

quote:
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Originally posted by chikitita:

quote:
Originally posted by alternativity:
Is there any way you can BOTH enjoy the first time, assuming first timers kayo pareho? I hear it's mostly not enjoyable for the girl.(Hurts, right?)


yeah, any knowledgeable individual..answer this please! curious ako


--------------------------------------------------------------------------------

I think the best way to enjoy sex, for the first time or for the nth time for that matter, is being comfortable with your partner. When you're comfortable with each other, you cna explore each other's bodies without feeling shy. You can even commit mistakes, (teeth bumping to each other's for example) but you won't feel bad about it coz your partner doesn't mind at all. You'll both laugh about it I'm sure. All part of the experience.. =)


And about the kissing thing, many people say it's rude to stare.. But there are some people who enjoy looking at their partner's face while kissing him/her. I don't mind that at all. I've had a girlfriend who likes to peep while kissing and I just enjoy making her enjoy the experience. Get what I mean??


Anyway, nice thread DAILO!! I'll view the 2nd and third pages next time!! Ciao everyone!!

[DAILO]

Hello PExRs! Im back after a long vacation... alot has changed since i left... well let me catch up on everything...

SEX IN THE PEX! :D :D :D

[zimdude]

if you don't mind backing off a bit... how do you get started, for people from me who have no one to have sex with... :|:lol:

[spamkin101]

and i thought this was all about sex! buti na lang may part about kissing (well actually most of it)!
galeng ng tips!!!
i luuuuvvv gentle kisses=*

[ChiQui]

Originally posted by zedrik
does that work the other way around... with cunnilingus?

after a good muff dive... would you still kiss a man as passionately?

...just a thought :)

I would.

[ChiQui]

Originally posted by Expat-n-Amerika
:evil: lol, touche!! nice one zedric!!!!To ChiQui, I'd rather go down and work on her to make her come, its psych really. the thought of tasting my .....magmumumog muna kami before kissing and look at each others eyes and whatever......

To each his own na lang siguro. I talked to my friends about this and they said that since you're partner is willing to go down on you, kissing him/her is like returning the "favor".

[Expat-n-Amerika]

:) yer right there ChiQui, depends on one's own taste.......
Another pet peeve of mine is when I'm going on a date I always spend a lot of time making sure I look good and smell good, and I always bring a small vial of my favorite cologne of the month, now its Emporio by Armani, that i put a small dash on my wrist after washing my hands whenever I go to the bathroom, and when I end up with a woman I put a small dash on my private parts, So what I'm saying is I'm always prepared, What I hate is when the woman is not, meaning she stinks down there, "mapalot", I hope that is the right word..though I give them enough chance to redeem themselves in the course of the night, they just seem not to care, and They wonder why I don't call back.......MInd you, It has happened quite a few times with american girls but not with filipino girls who are always mabango....

[maxwell]

nice thread.

here's my 2 cents worth:

for the guys:
most men tend to be selfish when it comes to foreplay, this is a definite no-no. women love to be pleasured as much as men. like the other posts, men should be aware of the women's reaction to his touch. explore different possibilities like kissing the back of a woman, at the spinal area, inner thighs, etc. teasing also does a lot of help. pleasing does not really mean that you have to go directly to the known e-zones. women have more e-zones than you think.

for the women:
one mistake take that most women commit in foreplay is grasping the male reproductive organ like it was a baseball bat. please remember that it still made up of muscles and ligaments. grasping it gently is more pleasurable. though we may be men, we also like things nice and slow.

also, do not forget that we too are sensitive to touch. sometimes, men even quiver when kissed at the right spots.

don't be ashamed to take a peek once in a while, the sight of what is being done and your partner's reaction also adds to the stimulation.

[DAILO]

Alright…the tips section is written by you PEx men who have been sending me SEX IN THE PEx! e-mails. Thank you for your contributions!

“1. We don't like our hanging friends to get cold. I.E. do something with our scrotum, and yeah, they need affection too. Besides, it enhances the sensual feeling while the key part is under immediate attention.
2. NO TEETH. Absolutely without a doubt, no teeth. I've had, on more than one occasion, ladies grinding and tearing the s**t out of one of my most prized physical possessions (others being brain, and tongue). When they think "cheese grater," it really doesn't fly with me.
3. Sucking. Harder is better. But it is understandable that women are not Dirt Devils.
4. Rhythm. A good rhythm is enjoyed by any person in any physical situation.
5. It is understandable that some ladies don't do it, yes, some guys disagree, but it's not a must.
6. No spitting on the equipment. Lube is in the form of whipped cream or cherry syrup, flavor is up to her, it is her mouth, but please don't spit on it, it's kind of degrading.
7. Swallowing is an option. If she doesn't want it in her mouth, I'm more than happy to let her know I'm about to reach fruition by tapping her shoulder or in any other viable manner. C'mon, I'd rather know ahead of time, than having a wad spat in back my face.
8. Post-bliss, some guys don't wanna kiss. I personally have no problem with it, but some guys just aren't cool with their own fluids (i.e. pre-nut).
9. In my opinion, the favor shall be returned. But that's my personal opinion.
10. If a guy clenches his teeth, it's probably a key to stop and make sure he's o.k.
11. Most guys feel that there is nothing worse (and I must admit, I agree), than a lady that keeps on trying to go down when she doesn't do it right. Honestly, I think any guy would teach a lady, all they need to do is ask. Like women, some of us like it different ways. Don't be afraid to ask waht we prefer.
12. First-timers, don't be afraid to let us know it's the first time. At least that way you have an excuse if you make him numb.

SEX IN THE PEx! :D :D :D

[RöttenMind]

do you guys love giving oral sex? do you guys like the smell of a girl down there? does it smell ba?

(grabeh mga q's ko noh.. la lang.. continuation lang nung sa cosmo sex forum this dec issue.. :D)


hehehehe..


:smokin:

[Assassin_Mage]

personally Ruth, I like to go down.
as for the smell, yes, I like it too.
But I am speaking of women of regularly wash okay?

So please all you women, do not forget to wash there.
nothing can be more sexually unstimulating than an
unwashed private part.

[DAILO]

MERRY CHRISTMAS EVERYONE!

SEX IN THE PEx! :D :D :D

[RöttenMind]

:lol:

raffel! next time *** na magbaon ng lactacyd and betadine feminine wash! :D

[holypride]

Originally posted by RöttenMind
do you guys love giving oral sex? do you guys like the smell of a girl down there? does it smell ba?

(grabeh mga q's ko noh.. la lang.. continuation lang nung sa cosmo sex forum this dec issue.. :D)


hehehehe..


:smokin:



well i do...a lot. and the smell, well, based on my experience, ive never come across a bad smelling :*) flower :*) but there are times when it doesnt have any smell, as well as times where it smells really great.

you uhh, worried about that rottenmind? :D

[holypride]

hmmm, this topic looks really nice. im sure i have a lot to share. oh and the g-spot, as they say, is USUALLY around two inches inside from the vaginal opening on the upperwall if youre lying on your back.

[DAILO]

Originally posted by DAILO

Thanks for staying tune... I will list guidelines, cool techniques, and random thoughts on the female sex drive... However, I will only post it 1 by 1 unless I get a sudden response of posts, questions, comments, and the like... to fulfill your curiosity... be more active in here!

BASIC GUIDLINE TO PLEASURING THE FEMALE SEX DRIVE

1) Pay attention to her reactions. Self-explanatory. In case it’s not, let me explain it for you - don’t be a clueless dumb@ss. If she’s moaning and writhing when you touch or lick a certain spot, remember this, because THIS IS A GOOD THING, and you will want to repeat it.

SEX IN THE PEx! :D :D :D

Im back peeps... Wow it's been awhile since i've been posting... Thanks for keeping the forum up... I never did get to share DAILO's BASIC GUIDELINES AND TIPS... well here they are below: Enjoy and be safe!!!

2) Teasing… another good thing. It’s foreplay to foreplay, and is a great warm-up. Coming so close to her "flower" that she can feel your warm breath… then moving away with little kisses along her inner thigh. Even kissing her outer lips, or running your tongue lightly along her slit with no applied pressure – this feels good they say, but not good enough, which can be frustrating in that oh-so-good way. Now, the thing with teasing is that it’s cute, and it gets a girl flowing, but tease too much and there’s 2 possible reactions: 1) they get forceful, which in turn will turn YOU on, or 2) they’ll get bored, and that’s never good.

3) Clitoris… learn where it is and treat it well. When they’re aroused, their clitoris becomes engorged, and the more engorged the clit, the more sensitive to the touch. BUT, before you touch this sweet little bud of theirs, remember that clits don’t have their own juices, and the natural lubrication that women produce does not flow UP.(remember gravity) So make sure your finger is moist before you touch it.

4) Pressure… Don’t start our by immediately mauling her "flower". Even if she likes it rough, you need to work your way up to it. Don’t aim right for the clit and go for it. You’ll get there in time, and like I said before, teasing can be a great build-up for a better and more immediate reaction once your tongue finally gets to the clit. Don’t just lick. A friend once told me, “He went down on me, but he was just licking me. No change in tempo, speed or pressure. I felt like a Popsicle.”

5) Use your fingers… Lick her "flower" and finger her clit. Finger her "flower" and lick her clit. Lick her up and down from anus to clit, fingering one or the other, or both. If she doesn’t protest your fingers near and around her anus, try pushing into it a little… or a little more. Of course, women have their personal preferences and favourites, but if you’re paying attention to her reactions, your fingers and tongue will find their respective spots. Oh, and make sure your hands are clean - even the clueless don't need that one explained.


heehee... I forgot how many strikes ChiQui gave me so im trying to keep it less detailed

SEX IN THE PEx!!! :D :D :D

[DAILO]

A couple of cool techniques I'd like to share...

Licking the Alphabet – Sam Kinison’s own suggestion – You lick each letter of the alphabet, one at a time, on and around her clitoris or vulva. Basically you need to keep a regular, rhythmic motion, but in some sort of pattern that isn’t repetitive (therefore boring), but different enough to keep her excited. You can also use numbers.

Heat – Cough drops, Altoids, lifesavers, Certs, the tic-tac you popped before you kissed her… The same menthol in these minty-fresh treats that make your mouth feel cool and tingly will work the sensitive skin around the vaginal area. While it doesn’t help with bringing a girl to orgasm, it’s definitely an added bonus to the stimulation. (Also helpful if you don’t particularly like the “taste” of eating her "flower").

Cold – Ice is another stimulation that changes the pace. Use a piece of ice to cool your mouth down before licking her, or you can use the ice itself, once you’ve used your mouth to melt it down a little. Special note to the clueless: Melting it down a little helps in that it takes away the sharp edges, and also gives it that outer layer of water that keeps the direct contact of the ice cube from being uncomfortably cold.

DAILO's ADVICE

1) If you think that biting, using your teeth, or sucking really hard on the clitoris is stimulating, think again. The clitoris is the most sensitive spot on their bodies. It is to be treated with respect and care, and is NOT a buffalo wing to be gnawed on. Remember, sharp pain: BAD.

2) If you’re not sure what you’re doing, or not sure if she’s enjoying it, never be afraid to ask. Any female seeking pleasure is more than happy to tell you exactly what she likes.

3) For you shy girls, don’t be afraid to move his head where you want it, don’t be afraid to say “Oh yes, right there!” and if he has the balls to ask you what to do, have the nerve to tell him. One of your reasons for being in bed with each other is for pleasure. And if you want it - girl, you better make sure you get it.

4) Communication is a vital aspect of ANY relationship. When it comes to sex, the scale of communication goes from conveying passion through kisses to telling your lover how to DO YOU RIGHT.

5) The vagina is a moist area, and secretions happen. So ladies if you think you smell, or if you’re simply not as confident as you’d like to be about having someone’s face there, there’s nothing wrong with excusing yourself for a quick wash. If all you can manage is a quick swipe with a moist wad of toilet paper, so be it.

6) Again, ladies are not built the same way. (remember my thing about snowflakes) The next girl whose "flower" you find your face in may actually like a little bit of teeth, or she may like your tongue in places you never thought it belonged. And on that note, if her tastes in what she likes done to her are freaky, just imagine how she’ll reciprocate!

Guys, if you have any questions, and girls, if you have any additional thoughts, preferences, or personal experiences you’d like to share (and I hope you do!), post or write me! Also, an article on the art of giving a good blowjob will follow soon. Guys, write me with your preferences and any helpful hints for the ladies! Tell me about your likes and dislikes, and feel free to include any stories about good or bad experiences. Your name will not be included in the article if you don’t want it to be.

SEX IN THE PEx!!! :D :D :D

[PinkTootsies]

When going down on a girl, do guys like it hairy or straight up smooth and hairless? Just curious.

[latepinoy93]

DAILO: They sure as hell don't call you DAILO for nuthin'!!! Great suggestions there and I must say, you are definitely spot on with your advice! Most of it, if I may add, is VITAL to a healthy and mutually pleasurable session of lovemaking! (Never thought that I'd read about the "inner leg lick" 'round here!)

FYI, "DAI LO" in Cantonese means "Big Brother"! Used commonly to refer to someone as a leader/boss/kingpin/know-it-all-streetsmart-person! Just wanted to see if you knew!

[holypride]

Originally posted by PinkTootsies
When going down on a girl, do guys like it hairy or straight up smooth and hairless? Just curious.

i prefer it to be less hairy especially near the clitoris. too much hair tends to get in the way of things.

[latepinoy93]

Originally posted by PinkTootsies
When going down on a girl, do guys like it hairy or straight up smooth and hairless? Just curious.

Hairless would be the ultimate thing, but it's a bit difficult to convince ladies to shave it all off! Truly something that would benefit both partners!

[DAILO]

Originally posted by PinkTootsies
When going down on a girl, do guys like it hairy or straight up smooth and hairless? Just curious.

Its all preference to the guy... i've seen some really long haired and some smooth and shaved... however if youre asking me what i prefer then id have to say i enjoy it nicely manicured and trimmed... :D

Lets take a survey... guys and/or girls what do you think... i'd like a prespective from both sides... Guys, what do you like? Ladies what do you prefer?

SEX IN THE PEx!!! :D :D :D

[DAILO]

Originally posted by latepinoy93
DAILO: They sure as hell don't call you DAILO for nuthin'!!! Great suggestions there and I must say, you are definitely spot on with your advice! Most of it, if I may add, is VITAL to a healthy and mutually pleasurable session of lovemaking! (Never thought that I'd read about the "inner leg lick" 'round here!)

FYI, "DAI LO" in Cantonese means "Big Brother"! Used commonly to refer to someone as a leader/boss/kingpin/know-it-all-streetsmart-person! Just wanted to see if you knew!



Hahaha.. Thanks LatePinoy93 and welcome to SEX IN THE PEx! Feel free to add comments or your own experiences here :D

Ive been called DAILO by all my friends however i dont think of myself as some kingpin or leader.. hahaha.. the name just kinda stuck with me throughout school.

SEX IN THE PEx!!! :D :D :D

[DAILO]

HAHAHA!!! Everyone is reading but no one is posting... there has been over 150 views since i last posted... dont be shy let me hear your comments or questions!

SEX IN THE PEx! :D :D :D

[sunfish]

a nice and strong tongue can get you places. oh yeah.

[dee-dee]

i like this thread...no, i'm beginning to luv this thread.

[DAILO]

Originally posted by dee-dee
i like this thread...no, i'm beginning to luv this thread.

Welcome Dee-Dee :D

Tell me why you are begining to love this thread... inquiring minds want to know... do you find it informative, and entertaining... what can we talk about to make you really love the thread :D :D :D

Im here to please :D Only a few people post but as of this reply their are already 1776 views... I appreciate your comments , if only everyone else would as well...

Thanks Dee-Dee

SEX IN THE PEx!!! :D :D :D

[Dean]

I prefer the hairless look.

[winterswirl]

Originally posted by DAILO

BASIC GUIDLINE TO PLEASURING THE FEMALE SEX DRIVE

....
SEX IN THE PEx!!! :D :D :D


wow :eek: hehehe...nice one DAILO!

winterswirl=good girl :angel:

<The quote's too long - ChiQui>

[Edited by ChiQui on 01-12-2001 at 12:06 AM]

[dee-dee]

i want some more...

i luv this thread kasi napaka-informative niya!!! magiging maligaya ang future bf ko dahil dito!!! :lol: :lol: :lol:


:devil:

[Billy]

Pwede kayang mag ala SOP dito sa pex??????? :smokin:

Tipong cybersex? :lol:

[DAILO]

Originally posted by winterswirl

wow :eek: hehehe...nice one DAILO!

winterswirl=good girl :angel:

Thanks winterswirl for the comments :D Im sure youre a good girl :D Stay tuned for more :D

SEX IN THE PEx!!! :D :D :D

[DAILO]

Originally posted by dee-dee
i want some more...

i luv this thread kasi napaka-informative niya!!! magiging maligaya ang future bf ko dahil dito!!! :lol: :lol: :lol:


:devil:

I'll give you more... all you have to do is say please :D Who else wants more... stay tuned for my postings on fellatio… that’s right, it’s the long awaited blowjob article for the ladies to reciprocate. Now that will be informative.

Post here if you want more! so who wants to read more?

SEX IN THE PEx!!! :D :D :D

[Edited by ChiQui on 01-03-2001 at 11:22 PM]

[knoty-boy]

nice topic...

dami kong natutunan... hehehehe

keep on posting Sir DAILO... who knows baka magamit namin ang mga natutunan nami sa iyo :)

[cakes]

GEE!!! I never thought this topic exists before! Buti nalang nag surf ako sa ibang forum!!! Kala ko pang Wats up Doc lang ako!!!

Dailo: Thanks for starting this thread! SEX IN THE PEX!!!

Il have my share next tym... i still have to compose myself after reading this long thread! Napagod ata ang mata ko eh!

Till next tym:)

[maxelyjr]

It's been a whole page since my last post ata.. (Or is it two?) Anyway, My vote for the survey is not there. I like it with a little hair.. short and well-trimmed if you ask me.. But if the hair is not soft anymore, I think I'd go for the shaven one.. Cyah all! Gotta log out now! :cool:

[DAILO]

Originally posted by knoty-boy
nice topic...

dami kong natutunan... hehehehe

keep on posting Sir DAILO... who knows baka magamit namin ang mga natutunan nami sa iyo :)



Thanks... i just want to be able to provide a forum in which we can all share our views, thoughts, experiences, and questions about a taboo subject... HBO has their SEX IN THE CITY so I felt we should have our own SEX IN THE PEx!

Share your experiences with us.

SEX IN THE PEx!!! :D :D :D

[DAILO]

Originally posted by cakes
GEE!!! I never thought this topic exists before! Buti nalang nag surf ako sa ibang forum!!! Kala ko pang Wats up Doc lang ako!!!

Dailo: Thanks for starting this thread! SEX IN THE PEX!!!

Il have my share next tym... i still have to compose myself after reading this long thread! Napagod ata ang mata ko eh!

Till next tym:)

Youre most welcome cakes! Please share with us your experiences... looking foward to read your experiences and comments.

SEX IN THE PEx!!! :D :D :D

[DAILO]

Originally posted by maxelyjr
It's been a whole page since my last post ata.. (Or is it two?) Anyway, My vote for the survey is not there. I like it with a little hair.. short and well-trimmed if you ask me.. But if the hair is not soft anymore, I think I'd go for the shaven one.. Cyah all! Gotta log out now! :cool:

Thanks maxelyjr for your comments... much appreciated...

the survey so far is leaning towards a more of hairless or well manicured... what do you ladies have to say about that?

SEX IN THE PEx!!! :D :D :D

[DAILO]

Originally posted by DAILO

I'll give you more... all you have to do is say please :D Who else wants more... stay tuned for my postings on fellatio… that’s right, it’s the long awaited blowjob article for the ladies to reciprocate. Now that will be informative.

Post here if you want more! so who wants to read more?


[Edited by ChiQui on 01-03-2001 at 11:22 PM]

ChiQui,

I noticed you did a little editing here... sorry for that... i guess i can get a little out of line.. heehee.. i'll try and keep it clean fun. I didnt know you were still monitoring the thread...

SEX IN THE PEx!!! :D :D :D

[ChiQui]

What made you think I was no longer moderating the thread? *** ha... me thinks you've been a naughty boy... hehehe... Apology accepted. :)

[teardrp]

hairless?shaven?isnt that itchy?

good thread!too bad i cant use what i have learned.

[witty_gal]

hhhmmm...I think they've said it all na...
anyway...it's good ha! very informative.

[Dean]

teardrp..acc. to my gf, the hairless look is really itchy and annoying. However, I prefer that clean and smooth look..nice to touch and nice to look at. But nowadays she sports well trimmed pubes w/c she is really comfortable with. I can't complain since it's still a thing of beauty and a joy to behold.

[s_abella]

hmmmm.....first time ko dito a!

"bakit ngayon lang kita nakita...."

well, i like the girl's flower trimmed.....
NASAN na yung mga advice for guys......
sarap magbasa.....

[PinkTootsies]

Pero it hurts nga when you shave cuz it grows stubble diba...waxing down there hurts...ouch...tried it and the skin is too sensitive down there it gets burnt red. Any tips on how to manage it from girls who've had theirs hairless?

[Expat-n-Amerika]

:) Personally, I like it with hair but the smooth and soft kind.. I had a gf who had nice ones that was smooth and grew close to the skin and shaped like a fan. :yum:..nice to look at,:yum: Because I trim mine short to give a tickling sensation when I grind on her,:evilgrin: she decided to shave hers... big mistake as when it grew back It was shaped lika a big afro bush same like Kobe Bryant's hair do...not only that its all tangled up so its harder to dental floss while eating her....hehehe Not long after that We broke up..I still dream about that fanned shaped pubes.....ahhh what a waste.....:bleh:.....:lol::lol:

[blue messiah]

i think it's not just the technique which plays a big role in sexual stimulation. the situation (time, place, clothes worn, etc.) is a big factor for me.

personally, it's very sexy to do foreplay outside the bedroom. i tried it in school but i made sure that no one saw or heard us, of course. i think it's the thrill of doing something so private in such a public place.

one night, my bf and i were supposed to study together. for some reason, i felt kinda naughty and wicked at that time so i wore my sexiest underwear under my soft white skirt. i then told him what i was wearing underneath while we were walking around the campus. he cautiously felt for it and it drove him nuts! the panty ended up in his pocket. :*)

[shazlene]

:eek::eek::eek:

[RöttenMind]

Originally posted by holypride

well i do...a lot. and the smell, well, based on my experience, ive never come across a bad smelling :*) flower :*) but there are times when it doesnt have any smell, as well as times where it smells really great.

you uhh, worried about that rottenmind? :D

im not worried about anything holypride. i just wannah know what do you guys have to say since i cant ask my partner about that. he just loves going down there.. :bleh:

:smokin:

[DAILO]

SEX IN THE PEx!!! :D :D :D

[blue messiah]

Originally posted by RöttenMind

im not worried about anything holypride. i just wannah know what do you guys have to say since i cant ask my partner about that. he just loves going down there.. :bleh:

:smokin:

well, my ex liked going down there. actually, like is such a mild word. it's more like, he loved it! :yum:

there were times when he would just stare at mine as if it's some impressionistic art he just had to ponder on. it made me uncomfortable first. but he later assured me that he finds it fascinating.

what else can you ask more when the person you love is crazy about giving you the most intense pleasure possible? :love:

[anorexic]

stumbled upon this thread lang. since i'm here na, might as well ask a few questions that has been bugging me ever since. dunno if i seem too naive or something. anyway, my question is what is a female orgasm? i've heard so much about it but i still don't know what it is. how will i know if i'm experiencing it already? sa guys diba it's easy to know. how does one fake it rin?
sorry sa questions. just had to ask.

[tokwa]

thank heavens for this thread! wow DAILO, okay to a. very informative! :D

i just have a question that anyone could anwer.

for girls: how do you know it when you're reaching the BIG O?

for guys: masakit ba (physically) pag nabibitin kayo??

:silly:

[Billy]

You know. Whenever I have sex with my girl, I make sure that she gets satisfied first ***** till she reaches her orgasm.

I'll wait for a few minutes to allow her to rest, then we have sex.

Actually, for me, it's more enjoyable because I know that she will keep wanting for more in the future.

<It's a bit too graphic. -- ChiQui>

[Edited by ChiQui on 01-11-2001 at 11:58 PM]

[Jopaul]

SeX in the PeX

<Sorry, we can't allow sex animation - ChiQui>

[Edited by ChiQui on 01-14-2001 at 11:19 PM]

[Billy]

:grrr::grrr::grrr::grrr::grrr:

2000++ views pero 160++ replies lang... ano ba kayo? mga duwag o talagang wala lang sexual experience?

:grrr::grrr::grrr::grrr::grrr:

[blue messiah]

Originally posted by anorexic
stumbled upon this thread lang. since i'm here na, might as well ask a few questions that has been bugging me ever since. dunno if i seem too naive or something. anyway, my question is what is a female orgasm? i've heard so much about it but i still don't know what it is. how will i know if i'm experiencing it already? sa guys diba it's easy to know. how does one fake it rin?
sorry sa questions. just had to ask.

what is a female orgasm? :ahh:

there is this sudden rush of undescribable feelings washing over you which leaves your knees shaking.

i never had full sex though i tried other stuff so i'm not sure if the orgasm due to real sex is different. i guess it's the same.

actually i didn't know what it was until i experienced it. i bet you'll find out once you reach it. as they say, experience is the best teacher! ;)

[RöttenMind]

:lol:

hello billy.. kamusta na ba si gracia? heheehh!!

hayaan nyo na madaming views.. gusto lang nila matuto, la sila mashare and some prefer not to talk about their sexual experiences..

SEX IN THE PEX!!!! :D :D :D

where's dailo?

[dee-dee]

what is a female orgasm? :ahh:

uhuh...gusto ko ng scientific explaination and definition...

[teardrp]

sige explain mo nga dee dee.females have multiple orgasms right?but then guys tend to reach climax faster than women.so sino ang mas lamang?

[anorexic]

Blue Messiah: Thanks for the extra insight. Still don't understand what it is pero I'm a little bit enlightened na. Thanks ulit.

[Billy]

Ma: Hello Billy, virgin pa ba si Gracia?
Billy: Ma naman?!!

[Dean]

A Girl's Guide to faking the Big O:
1- Keep on making moaning sounds of approval better yet throw in his name from time to time..for effect u might wanna do this in a mala THX fashion. Enough to wake up the kapitbahay.
2- Act dazed and confused.. During and after the Big O, a woman's awareness of her surroundings diminishes.

Those are the only 2 ways that i know a woman can fake the Big O. Of course there might be some other ways, so pls jump in anytime. Para naman malaman ko kung niloloko lang ako o hindi.

I hope this helps u out Anorexic.

[Dean]

hello tokwa
Ang scientific name nito ay Blue Balls, and no one likes blue balls hanging on their christmas tree..ito ay masakit. This happens to the male of the species right after a heavy session of petting and gropping and no sexual release whatsoever. The increased flow of blood towards the genital region of the male makes the testicles feel as if they weigh like canon balls. And with no relief in sight, the poor guy is left w/blue balls and an abnormal walk.
Kahit na excruciatingly painful ang nasabing blue balls ay up to this day ay wala pang namamatay dito..Buti na lang we wouldnt like to see our streets littered w/ bodies of horny teenagers baka mapasama pa ko doon.
Dr. Dean

[blue messiah]

Originally posted by teardrp
sige explain mo nga dee dee.females have multiple orgasms right?but then guys tend to reach climax faster than women.so sino ang mas lamang?

the guys might reach climax very fast but females experience orgasm much longer! it's like this intense wave of pleasure caressing you for a long time, leaving you dazed and in an out-of-the-world feeling.

[shazlene]

gusto mo billy ng reply? ayan sige reply ako.. view lang kasi ako dati dahil wa ako masabi.. pero since ayaw mo ng tingin lang.. reply ako.. this thread is very informative..
hehehe ayan! :|

[Expat-n-Amerika]

Originally posted by DAILO
A couple of cool techniques I'd like to share...

Licking the Alphabet – Sam Kinison’s own suggestion – You lick each letter of the alphabet, one at a time, on and around her clitoris or vulva. Basically you need to keep a regular, rhythmic motion, but in some sort of pattern that isn’t repetitive (therefore boring), but different enough to keep her excited. You can also use numbers.

Heat – Cough drops, Altoids, lifesavers, Certs, the tic-tac you popped before you kissed her… The same menthol in these minty-fresh treats that make your mouth feel cool and tingly will work the sensitive skin around the vaginal area. While it doesn’t help with bringing a girl to orgasm, it’s definitely an added bonus to the stimulation. (Also helpful if you don’t particularly like the “taste” of eating her "flower").

Cold – Ice is another stimulation that changes the pace. Use a piece of ice to cool your mouth down before licking her, or you can use the ice itself, once you’ve used your mouth to melt it down a little. Special note to the clueless: Melting it down a little helps in that it takes away the sharp edges, and also gives it that outer layer of water that keeps the direct contact of the ice cube from being uncomfortably cold.

DAILO's ADVICE

1) If you think that biting, using your teeth, or sucking really hard on the clitoris is stimulating, think again. The clitoris is the most sensitive spot on their bodies. It is to be treated with respect and care, and is NOT a buffalo wing to be gnawed on. Remember, sharp pain: BAD.

2) If you’re not sure what you’re doing, or not sure if she’s enjoying it, never be afraid to ask. Any female seeking pleasure is more than happy to tell you exactly what she likes.

3) For you shy girls, don’t be afraid to move his head where you want it, don’t be afraid to say “Oh yes, right there!” and if he has the balls to ask you what to do, have the nerve to tell him. One of your reasons for being in bed with each other is for pleasure. And if you want it - girl, you better make sure you get it.

4) Communication is a vital aspect of ANY relationship. When it comes to sex, the scale of communication goes from conveying passion through kisses to telling your lover how to DO YOU RIGHT.

5) The vagina is a moist area, and secretions happen. So ladies if you think you smell, or if you’re simply not as confident as you’d like to be about having someone’s face there, there’s nothing wrong with excusing yourself for a quick wash. If all you can manage is a quick swipe with a moist wad of toilet paper, so be it.

6) Again, ladies are not built the same way. (remember my thing about snowflakes) The next girl whose "flower" you find your face in may actually like a little bit of teeth, or she may like your tongue in places you never thought it belonged. And on that note, if her tastes in what she likes done to her are freaky, just imagine how she’ll reciprocate!

Guys, if you have any questions, and girls, if you have any additional thoughts, preferences, or personal experiences you’d like to share (and I hope you do!), post or write me! Also, an article on the art of giving a good blowjob will follow soon. Guys, write me with your preferences and any helpful hints for the ladies! Tell me about your likes and dislikes, and feel free to include any stories about good or bad experiences. Your name will not be included in the article if you don’t want it to be.

SEX IN THE PEx!!! :D :D :D
another hint is to use all 5 digits of your hand, thumb for the folds near the clit, 2 fingers in & out of her vag, last 2 around her rectal opening. make sure all your fingers are well lubricated. move your hands nice and slow..

[DAILO]

PLEASURING THE MALE SEX DRIVE! PART 1

Fellatio, blowjob, hummers... that’s right, it’s the long awaited blowjob article!

Sex/Foreplay is as much in the mind as it is in the physical pleasure we get from it. As he watches you wrap your lips around him and feels your warm mouth and busy tongue slip over his shaft until your nose is buried in his pubic hair... look into his eyes at this point, and you will plainly see his lust and passion. Personally, I also think men like the look of a woman kneeling in front him, almost in worship. A feeling of power is another part of sex being as mental as it is physical and emotional. And ladies, let them feel as powerful as they want – you WILL benefit from it! Oral sex is a very intimate sexual act. Slipping his penis into your mouth involves all five senses being put to use at once. Your touching, tasting and smelling him all at once, and by all means, watch him enjoy it! Men feel a sense of power in having a woman kneeling before them or straddled over him as they suck, lick and swallow, but the real power is you, with him, right there in your mouth. That phrase, “I’ve got him by the balls” is a good one to remember. You’ve got his penis surrounded by your mouth. It’s hot, it’s hard, and you can feel him throbbing on your tongue to the rhythmic beat of his heart. Now that’s power. Just like I said in the ”Pleasuring the Female Sex Drive”, if you completely suck in bed but you can give good head, you’ve got a man that will NEVER forget you.

The fifth and final sense involved is hearing. Listen for his moans and sounds of enjoyment. Listen when he tells you what he likes and doesn’t like. Don’t be afraid to discuss such a passionate and thoroughly enjoying sexual act!

STAY TUNED FOR PART TWO!

SEX IN THE PEx!!! :D :D :D


[Edited by ChiQui on 01-12-2001 at 12:02 AM]

[RöttenMind]

:lol:

ok where's part 2?!? :D

[dee-dee]

part 2! part 2! part 2!

:devil:

[ChiQui]

Let's keep this thread in good taste okay? Please keep in mind that we DO have minors viewing this thread.

[DAILO]

Originally posted by ChiQui
Let's keep this thread in good taste okay? Please keep in mind that we DO have minors viewing this thread.

Sorry about that ChiQui, I understand... :D Lets keep it clean people :D

All you viewers under 18 please get your parents permission before entering this thread... some information may be beyond our moderators acceptance levels.

PART TWO coming soon! In the mean time post your thoughts and comments regarding the information on this site... Please i need your inputs to continue.

SEX IN THE PEx!!! :D :D :D

[cakes]

Now i understand why he loves looking at the mirror while m "busy" worshipping him! :):):) ;)

[YoBaKs]

I've never visited this thread before 'coz i thought it was all too vulgar and explicit, just like most of the stereotypes sex related topics here in PEX. I never thought that this thread can be very informative and educational regarding sex related topics to an innocent mind like mine. :D

keep those informations flowing...

Question: Is it really true that women are...teka tsaka na lang! basahin ko pa yung iba...baka nasagot na eh! EVER! :lol:

DAILO cool!!! boboto kita na moderator pag nagkaroon ng SEX FORUM dito sa Pex!

[marlon3452]

Originally posted by dee-dee
what is a female orgasm? :ahh:

uhuh...gusto ko ng scientific explaination and definition...

from the Perry and Whipple study, there are 3 kinds of female orgasm: a. the vulval or clitoral orgasm, b. the uterine or vaginal orgasm, and c. the blended orgasm which is a combination of the first two.

The vulval orgasm (as described by masters and Johnson)or the clitoral (as referred to by Freudians) has as its trigger point the clitoris. Muscle response is focused on the pubococcygeus muscle and is characterized by slight contractions localized in the genitals to vibrations in every muscle of the body. The major nerve involved in this type of orgasm is the pudendal nerve, which enervates most of the PC muscle. It detects stimulation around the clitoral, labia, vaginal entrance and anus, and sends signals to the brain. Signals from the brain to the PC muscles are responsible for the rhythmic contractions associated with this type of orgasm. During orgasm, the vaginal orgasm constricts, forming what is called an "orgasmic platform". A "tenting effect" also occurs when the inner portion of the vagina expands as a result of the lifting up of the uterus inside the abdomen. Women in this type of stimulation can experience one or more orgasms.

The uterine (as described by Singer) or the vaginal orgasm is centered on the G-spot. Response is felt in the uterus although the upper vagina, the bladder, and supporting muscles may also be involved, especially during ejaculation. The pelvic nerve and hypogastric plexus provide the major nerve pathways. During orgasm, no orgasmic platform is formed, instead the muscles relax and the vaginal entrance opens. Instead of the tenting effect, an "a-frame effect" occurs wherein the uterus is pushed down and the upper portion of vagina compresses. Sometimes, there is also the feeling of a downward pressure associated with the emptying of the bowels. There is no rhythmic contractions as in the clitoral type but the feeling is described as a deeper form of orgasm. Women experiencing this kind of orgasm attains satiation, that is when you had one you wont want one or need another for many hours.

Lastly, the blended type is the combination of the two and comprises most of the orgasm felt by women.

Hope this has been of help. :)

[marlon3452]

Originally posted by Dean
A Girl's Guide to faking the Big O:
1- Keep on making moaning sounds of approval better yet throw in his name from time to time..for effect u might wanna do this in a mala THX fashion. Enough to wake up the kapitbahay.
2- Act dazed and confused.. During and after the Big O, a woman's awareness of her surroundings diminishes.

Those are the only 2 ways that i know a woman can fake the Big O. Of course there might be some other ways, so pls jump in anytime. Para naman malaman ko kung niloloko lang ako o hindi.

I hope this helps u out Anorexic.



how to tell if a woman is faking an orgasm? (read this one from somewhere)
1. she quickly hops out of bed after sex. is she had one, she will need a couple of minutes to catch her breath and allow the blood to circulate back to her legs.
2. her cheeks lack color. during orgasm, her cheeks changes color due to increased blood flow.
3. her eyes doesnt look dazed. the eyes relax and look dazed seconds after an orgasm.
4. her toes doesnt curl. there is loss of muscle control during orgasm and majority of women curl their toes during one.
5. her moaning is constant and periodical, or she's making noise mechanically, like the ones you hear in porno films. ooh...yeah...ohh...yeah... (get it? :) )

[tokwa]

kewl info about fellatio.. :*)

[tokwa]

Originally posted by Dean
hello tokwa
Ang scientific name nito ay Blue Balls, and no one likes blue balls hanging on their christmas tree..ito ay masakit. This happens to the male of the species right after a heavy session of petting and gropping and no sexual release whatsoever. The increased flow of blood towards the genital region of the male makes the testicles feel as if they weigh like canon balls. And with no relief in sight, the poor guy is left w/blue balls and an abnormal walk.
Kahit na excruciatingly painful ang nasabing blue balls ay up to this day ay wala pang namamatay dito..Buti na lang we wouldnt like to see our streets littered w/ bodies of horny teenagers baka mapasama pa ko doon.
Dr. Dean

thanks.. :D

[Expat-n-Amerika]

:) OK GUYS, I've been keeping this knowledge for myself but after reading the responses I've decided to share it with you guys...slide a finger inside her vag. , half way up on the front wall you should hit a small mass of spongy material, that is the G spot. continue upward to find her cervix which will feel round like the end of your nose, move your finger out halfway between the G spot and the cervix is where you will find her A spot (Anterior formix erogenous zone) which was newly scientifically discovered ..move your finger clockwise over that spot and see what happens... Oh by the way, duck when she explodes..Happy hunting .......
this message will self destruct in 5 seconds......
:evilgrin:

[bonehead]

the thing to do is tell him/her where it feels good.. when he/she is *groping* for things.. give a sign that he/she *reached* it. :D

[dee-dee]

hmmm...now i know all i need to know on how to fake an orgasm...hehehehehhehe.

:devil:

[hey_babe!]

Originally posted by Jopaul
SeX in the PeX

...
cool! where did you get this?

i tried going to sextoon.com but i'm not allowed since i have SmartFilter... how can I disable this?



[Edited by ChiQui on 01-14-2001 at 11:24 PM]

[bonehead]

hey DAILO! where's part 2?? :D

[Jopaul]

To hey_babe!:

A friend of mine just emailed it to me. It's from Sextoon.com. I have no idea how to disable Smartfilter. Sorry.

[allene]

ey....
there was this guy i was like going out. he always had this thing looking into my eyes and touching my chin, putting his face near mines............................................................................................... ..............
i was scared because i know that he was going to kiss me.

then he did. ha!
i had no idea what i was doing.
but it felt good!

i wasn't sure if i was doing the right thing
because hindi naman kami.

but now that he's gone,
ive been missing those kisses.

it might not be the contact that includes the tongues
but somewhat i know i wish he was still beside me to do it once again.

[maxelyjr]

Originally posted by Expat-n-Amerika
:) OK GUYS, I've been keeping this knowledge for myself but after reading the responses I've decided to share it with you guys...slide a finger inside her vag. , half way up on the front wall you should hit a small mass of spongy material, that is the G spot. continue upward to find her cervix which will feel round like the end of your nose, move your finger out halfway between the G spot and the cervix is where you will find her A spot (Anterior formix erogenous zone) which was newly scientifically discovered ..move your finger clockwise over that spot and see what happens... Oh by the way, duck when she explodes..Happy hunting .......
this message will self destruct in 5 seconds......
:evilgrin:



That's a nice piece of information there mate! can't wait to try it.. :cool::cool::cool:

[maxelyjr]

Originally posted by allene
ey....
there was this guy i was like going out. he always had this thing looking into my eyes and touching my chin, putting his face near mines............................................................................................... ..............
i was scared because i know that he was going to kiss me.

then he did. ha!
i had no idea what i was doing.
but it felt good!

i wasn't sure if i was doing the right thing
because hindi naman kami.

but now that he's gone,
ive been missing those kisses.

it might not be the contact that includes the tongues
but somewhat i know i wish he was still beside me to do it once again.


Why not try going out with other men allene? maybe you'll develop the same feelings towards another one and eventually do things you want to do with him. as in anything! di ba? :cool::cool::cool:

[punk ass]

Originally posted by supergirl

hay naku DAILO, malay mo the females are not really curious, baka naman they know more na kaya they don't bother asking, hehehehe...

i have question though, would you want a virgin or a non-virgin for a wife? HONEST answers pls!!! don't give answers that are too good to be true, or you guys are just being nice.

next question, this may be too explicit for the others but for the others who are already open to these things..."to swallow or not to swallow?" :)


i would prefer a virgin......honestly!

[maxelyjr]

supergirl: honestly i'd prefer a virgin too!!:cool:

[Expat-n-Amerika]

:) It is essential to a woman's sexual self esteem that all the parts of her body gets the same attention as her sexual zones..one should start with a foot massage, by taking one of her feet in your hand, use your thumb to massage the base of the 2nd smallest toe, this should put her in the mood 4 love, next, move to the middle of the foot. alternating between long, short and circuar strokes. pay special attention to the heel as the nerves there lead directly to her flower, after you have done both feet, go up to her legs leading to the back of her knees , there are pressure points there that prime the pelvis so caress it lightly, then go to the tender tendon at the top of her inside thigh, just short of the sweet spot, alternate between soft caress and kisses,. then check your watch and tell her you have to leave...and watch her scream.....

[Expat-n-Amerika]

:) ladies, your guy is laying there spent and you are not yet satisfied, to get him going again try pressing, rubbing
or licking the triangular spot between the two hip points right below the waist and the tailbone, this is the 2nd erection center according to the ancient chinese...also the hole in the hair at the top of the head is actually the meeting point of the bodys masculine energy, by stimulating it, you move energy back down to his body making his belly , hips and genitals tingle, To stimulate it press your fingertips and thumb together at the tob of his scalp then slowly open your hand scratchig the scalp outward...lastly,
glide your hand upward along the sides of one foot progressively going upward with each stroke it wakes up a body part you dont usually equate with sensuality so try it and see which part that is... have fun :evil:

[dee-dee]

Originally posted by maxelyjr
supergirl: honestly i'd prefer a virgin too!!:cool:


why? is it really a big deal or something? isn't it a little bit sexist?

[maxelyjr]

Originally posted by dee-dee


Originally posted by maxelyjr
supergirl: honestly i'd prefer a virgin too!!:cool:


why? is it really a big deal or something? isn't it a little bit sexist?

no naman.. di siya sexist kasi females lang naman ang gusto ko eh.. :)

discrimination siguro? no din. kasi i said i'd prefer a virgin too meaning okay lang din sa akin ang virgin pero given a choice di ba? syempre mas gusto ko yung mas mas_k_p kesa yung me nakagamit na.. (pwede ba tong mga words ko dito??

:cool::cool::cool:

[tr|n|ty]

jeez....these guys give the male of the species a bad name. that's as babaw as anybody can get.

[anorexic]

Nairita ako. Ang babaw talaga ng guys who would prefer a virgin if given a choice, especially if sya mismo ay experienced na. I mean, hello?! Does it make a difference? No!

[xyzseaman]

Tendency kasi ng mga lalake na maka-isa sila pero, ayaw nilang sila ang maisahan. It's like having an investment, but in this case, Virgin chicks. He knows that one day he'll get sick and tired of the usual routine and decides to settle down. And then, of course ang gusto nila, "inosente" pa. He will be protective of that girl (getting all pissed off when the girls talks to her male friends) while that guy tries to score with the other chicks.

[maxelyjr]

Originally posted by anorexic
Nairita ako. Ang babaw talaga ng guys who would prefer a virgin if given a choice, especially if sya mismo ay experienced na. I mean, hello?! Does it make a difference? No!

actually it does make a difference.. how should i say this.. uhmmm... it's a boost to the ego.. thinking that you're the one she wants to take her first.. that's already a turn on. i dunno. that's what i think.. :)

[tr|n|ty]

that's one ego i would never want to booste nor mingle with. gosh, do you live in the 19th century? or maybe a sick head? i suggest you watch the movie 'Kids' because you have a distinct similarity with the main character and it's nothing to be proud of.

[maxelyjr]

sorry if you think so trin..

[dee-dee]

Originally posted by tr|n|ty
that's one ego i would never want to booste nor mingle with. gosh, do you live in the 19th century? or maybe a sick head? i suggest you watch the movie 'Kids' because you have a distinct similarity with the main character and it's nothing to be proud of.

i completely agree. i find it really sick that most guys still cling to this idea. virgin or not, what's the big deal?

[maxelyjr]

*sigh*

think of it this way.. you girls also have preferences about your partner right? you might prefer a large penis, or a not so hairy one.. we males also have our own preferences about you girls.. you should understand that. although it might be okay for you if your boyfriend has a small tool, you'd still prefer if it was bigger right? you have your own reasons for that. same way with us guys. it's okay if our partner is not a virgin anymore, it's also fine if she is. we'd like it better if she is. and we have our own reasons although we really don't know what they are coz we really don't think much about it. i was just giving a possible reason why we prefer the virgin.. i didn't say it IS the reason..

I hope you understand better.. look at the situation from our point of view.. :)

i hope i'm not offending anyone. i'm just writing my opinion and what i think about the topic..

[dee-dee]

well yeah, there are preferences...but your answer was not exactly pointing to that direction about preferences. it was kinda sexist. especially when it got to that ego stuff...it irks me.

i always think that such "preferences" can be overlooked if sex is great. one very important trait i guess would be, being really imaginative and working to reach that peak, so to speak.

[maxelyjr]

Originally posted by dee-dee
well yeah, there are preferences...but your answer was not exactly pointing to that direction about preferences. it was kinda sexist. especially when it got to that ego stuff...it irks me.

i always think that such "preferences" can be overlooked if sex is great. one very important trait i guess would be, being really imaginative and working to reach that peak, so to speak.


about the ego thing.. you can forget about it. i just don't really know why i have that preference and as i said i dont really think about that much.. :)

can you smile now? pleae? :)

[tr|n|ty]

of course there are preferences.. but your answer is far from being a preference to be respected. i agree with dee-dee about the whole ego thing was too damn sexist for me. to be frank, you don't sound like you're quite experienced at all. your preference for virgins on the basis of being mas_k_p is really awful, to say the least. it's the way you work it, boy.


...i just don't really know why i have that preference and as i said i dont really think about that much..


then why have those preferences at all if you don't have logical and rational reasons behind it? it's like saying i don't like cars even if i haven't even seen a car. isn't it a tad stupid for you put up certain checklists when you don't have any clue what you're talking about?

[maxelyjr]

Originally posted by tr|n|ty
of course there are preferences.. but your answer is far from being a preference to be respected. i agree with dee-dee about the whole ego thing was too damn sexist for me. to be frank, you don't sound like you're quite experienced at all. your preference for virgins on the basis of being mas_k_p is really awful, to say the least. it's the way you work it, boy.

uhmmm well.. yes. nasa diskarte nga naman yun..

teka, i was merely suggesting possible reasons why we men prefer virgins..

my own reason is having the honor of having my partner's trust.

[tr|n|ty]

discrimination siguro? no din. kasi i said i'd prefer a virgin too meaning okay lang din sa akin ang virgin pero given a choice di ba? syempre mas gusto ko yung mas mas_k_p kesa yung me nakagamit na.. (pwede ba tong mga words ko dito??



coming from your post up there, i don't think your first reason for wanting a virgin is the whole trust bit. you can't take back your words here, it's all writings on the wall, if i may say so myself. your thought process and your moral stand scare me.

[maxelyjr]

ok. can't do anything about that anymore if that's really the way it is..

got to sleep now..

[scarab]

oh sh*t...it's this virginity thing again...

[Expat-n-Amerika]

:) Forget about whether she is or she is not a virgin, As long as she agrees to give me head at least once a week after marraige and this will be one of the stipulations in the prenuptial agreement....hehehehe.....:evil::lol:

[guyver]

this thread is really very informative. even though i can't relate to it physically. maybe in the near future.

virginity must not be an issue. just please put in mind that not all men think as such. especially in making love. and if you really, really love the person.

i have a question? coming from a completely inexperienced, respectful, of legal age, young lad.

what about those very delicate yet firm chest? i do understand that this is also a part of foreplay. without being disrespectful, how can we appreciate them without being rude? also, if girls have a choice, would they rather not have this as a part of foreplay?

i believe that we are in the 21st century and we must be mature about these things. :)

[Ms. Hoity_Toity]

AKO MAY TANONG:
Bakit pag early morning yong ano ng lalaki nakaerect. talaga bang ganon? Normal ba or arouse siya? Most guys do ba or yong iba lang?


ANOTHER ONE:
Pag lasing ba ang lalaki hirap siyang labasan or di siya nilalabasan? Ganon ba talaga?


sorry sa mga tanong ko.. anyway.. just want answers kasi :)

[walangdila]

wow.. hot topic.. anyway, virginity is not a big deal to me.. but i would still be quite archaic in my belief because, ideally, i want to have sex only with a person i love and loves me in return.. i don't and won't go for one-night stands.. although if a bizarre and irresistable temptation insists, geez, why not? what the hell.. passion and lust are like chocolates and cakes - you are tempted to bite..

virginity is upheld only by puritans and pseudoconservatives.
sad thing - they still exist.
___________________________


about the questions asked above this post by Ms. Hoity_Toity:

1. yup, i think men generally have erections in the morning. it's just the way it is.. not that we feel instantly aroused as soon as we wake up, but it just happen that our morning boner kinda reminds us of our youthfulness, adrenalin stuff, etc.. erections just happen.. not necessarily when we, men, are aroused..

now i am wondering if other men get a hard-on when getting off a jeepney or is it just me - now that's trivial.. :lol:

2. i remember one time i was drunk and i masturbated right away in a rest room.. it's not really na mahirap labasan ang lalake pero siguro distracted or sexually dizzy lang kaya mahirap magconcentrate sa sex/sexual partner or have sexual fantasies while masturbating.. i find it harder to have a satisfying orgasm in the morning.. the climactic feeling is weird..



:crazy:

[Saundra]

Originally posted by Expat-n-Amerika
:) Forget about whether she is or she is not a virgin, As long as she agrees to give me head at least once a week after marraige and this will be one of the stipulations in the prenuptial agreement....hehehehe.....:evil::lol:

As long as you'll return the favor then I'm sure you won't have any problems.... :evil:

[Saundra]

Originally posted by guyver

i have a question? coming from a completely inexperienced, respectful, of legal age, young lad.

what about those very delicate yet firm chest? i do understand that this is also a part of foreplay. without being disrespectful, how can we appreciate them without being rude? also, if girls have a choice, would they rather not have this as a part of foreplay?

i believe that we are in the 21st century and we must be mature about these things. :)

First of all, I have to say that this is really a very interesting thread... not to mention informative.

There's really no patented way how to do it. It really differs from woman to woman. Some like it when men get rough (i.e. grabbing her breast, pinching her nipples, etc.), some like it soft and smooth (kneading it like dough or something, kissing the underside of the breast)... it really depends on the woman. And the best way to find out is to ask her. Or if you're shy or she is (or both of you are), why not listen to her. Be sensitive to the sounds she makes or the way she moves her body and try to react to it. If you don't have any experience at all or no possibility to try it out, grab an orange (or a melon... depends on your size preference ;) )and play with it...

I hope this helps a bit.

p.s. Do you know that there are women who cum when men caress their breasts??? I mean without penetration or clitoral stimulation. I think it's amazing.

[Ms. Hoity_Toity]

Originally posted by walangdila


about the questions asked above this post by Ms. Hoity_Toity:

1. yup, i think men generally have erections in the morning. it's just the way it is.. not that we feel instantly aroused as soon as we wake up, but it just happen that our morning boner kinda reminds us of our youthfulness, adrenalin stuff, etc.. erections just happen.. not necessarily when we, men, are aroused..

now i am wondering if other men get a hard-on when getting off a jeepney or is it just me - now that's trivial.. :lol:

2. i remember one time i was drunk and i masturbated right away in a rest room.. it's not really na mahirap labasan ang lalake pero siguro distracted or sexually dizzy lang kaya mahirap magconcentrate sa sex/sexual partner or have sexual fantasies while masturbating.. i find it harder to have a satisfying orgasm in the morning.. the climactic feeling is weird..
:crazy:


walangdila, thank so much. Now I know why. :)

[walangdila]

you're welcome.. :D

!shibby!
:crazy:

[dee-dee]

here's one thing i learned from my prof: one-night stands are not sex in the purest sense because you just gave your partner a peek into your soul. unlike having sex as in sex, whether may halong love o wala, kasi it's like your opening your entire being to your partner...

hmm...come to think of it...hindi ko yata ma-getz yun. obviously, wala pang experience...something i cannot fake.

:lol:

:bop: :bop: :bop:

->i said, i am not meant to be celibate! :evilgrin:<-

[difenbaker]

MAN!! I like this thread!!! Quite cute and funny, but informative.

Keep 'em coming! (or should I say cumming? hehehe...)

:D
:D
:D

[ric101]

Originally posted by msflip
totoo bang mamalasin yung car kung gawin mo don?

ummmm... i've done it sa car, pero i have no news kung minalas yung kotse! break na kasi kami eh!
if he's drunk driving maybe mamalasin sya

[ric101]

Originally posted by RöttenMind
heya DAILO! this is kewl!

me tanong po ako, vaket me mga guys na madaling labasan?

and what can you say about a 5-minute foreplay?

:D
if u don't mind i would like to answer ur question regarding "guys na madaling labasan". for some who play a joke w/ it, they will tell na kulang lang sa practice yan. for some reasons its true, for not so experience guys they tend to give pleasure to themselves not to their partner. also they concentrate on the act so much( be playful can help). and accdg to sex therapist, if the guy is well-desensitize and he knows how to control his orgasm then its good for him and his partner for they will enjoy their sex life better.

[ric101]

Originally posted by supergirl
will a 5 minute foreplay work? (maybe unless both of you are really so hot for each other at that moment and there is no need for steaming up anymore!) http://www.pinoyexchange.com/silly.gif

hey guys, what do you think of girls who fake their oragasm? sino ang nagiging masama, ikaw o yung nag-fake?

it depends on the situation, women usually fake their orgies just to finish it or baka nahihiya na sabihin that they haven't attain the climax gayong nilabasan na yong guy. things like this happens but can be resolved.

[ric101]

Originally posted by chikitita
Originally posted by alternativity:
Is there any way you can BOTH enjoy the first time, assuming first timers kayo pareho? I hear it's mostly not enjoyable for the girl.(Hurts, right?)

yeah, any knowledgeable individual..answer this please! curious ako :D


talk to ur partner, knowing what pleases u both will help.
do u like to have a long foreplay? dance is considered a foreplay. whatever u do don't rush things u'll regret it. since ur 1st timer, u may not like oral sex so its better u talk to ur partner about it. for further info just email me ok.

[ric101]

Originally posted by tr|n|ty
Originally posted by clone:
tr|n|ty: Did it sound anything like this? "étant dans le bord de la mort et atteignant le salut tout en même temps dans une question des secondes."


yah sounds something like that...i will rent the video again to get the line down pat...my school girl french is just very bad. i can't even form coherent sentences.

anyways....


I do agree that sex involves more than mere words or just plain action. Heck, i agree to everthing clone had said in his post. It is an interaction. But to the average joe, sex is a selfish act. They would get their fill first before thinking of satisfying the partner. And i think the keys to mindblowing sex are in the ability of both participants to let go of their inhibitions and great communication. There should be some sort of vulnerability and sensitivity to the other's likes and dislikes.

Yes girls...we do have to tell our partners what WE WANT. I hate the idea of faking it. We have as much right to the pleasure that sex has to offer. Damn, the point of sex is for BOTH OF YOU. Don't be like a rag doll just spreading your legs (sorry to be graphic) and waiting for him to get it over with.

See, smart guys please their women first before themselves. Smart guys are way sexier than gwapo guys....u can quote me on that. :)

this is certainly right, thats what separates the man from the boys...i prefer to please my woman 1st of course.

[ric101]

Originally posted by Leeloo
this is a neat thread, i must say! hehe

hey, dailo, what bout tips in pleasuring the male naman? (as asked by a clueless female) i mean would a bj be the be all and end all of sex as they know it, or do they also look for extended foreplays?
the penis is a nice, long and thick shaft,,,the head is the most sensitive of all. try playing w/ the balls while doing a bj ok.

[pinhead]

tips ko:

1. kiss your gf minsan sa public (malls,fx,bus,jeepneys, anywhere) i know mabibigla sya pero i'm sure gusto nya yun.

2. talk/embrace after ng sexual acts (important to!)

3. If your married na, try nyo kahit once a year sa motel (yes motel!) why?.. basta! hehehe

4. para di kayo magkasawaan sa sex life nyo, think of something new and exciting (dance ala beerhouse dancer in front or ala macho dancer if your male, do it not only sa bed room there's other room in the house to "sexplore", play strip poker... kami ni esmi strip tong-its nga eh,)

5. isip pa ako...

[DAILO]

Bump bump bump... be back in a bit.

SEX IN THE PEx!!! :D :D :D

[LaDY_DaWN]

huwaw...my eyes got tired from reading all of those posts...i never finished an entire thread pa..eheheh...this is so cool...wtg DAILO...about the sex things naman, i just have a few q's:

1. how can i please a guy...aside fr giving him a bj...
2. my man loves me kissing his ears while doing it...is this normal?
lastly, how can i tell him without offending his feelings/ego/pride na he's not that good?

more power sa thread na to...its really informative, and nde sha offensive...

WTG Dailo!!!

keep it comming!

[Charmed_2001]

The first time I made love with my ex was something that I still treasure up to now. Actually, I cannot imagine making love with somebody else except him. It is not so much the act that turns me on whenever I remember it but I think it is more of what transpired before the act itself.

I fondly remember his scent. I love his perfume!!! The texture of his skin is amazing, it is so smooth and yet very manly. I remember how his lips slowly moved inside my mouth while he caressed my back. I also love the sound of his voice while he whispered words in my ear. I loved touching him, his skin, his face. The entire pre - love making ritual was highly orgasmic.

There were times when we had lusty sex but we also had loving sex. I loved both.

But we are no longer together that's why. Not only do I remember the sex but the good times as well!

[Chesca84]

my first kiss was long ago but i remember it clearly because it was so .. rare , i guess . We were vacationing in Portugal , and we were staying over at my bestfriend's house , whose family happens to be bestfriends with mine . Monica ( my bestfriend ) had this neighbor , a guy i don't even know the name of . He only spoke portuguese so we didn't understand each other , but it didn't prevent us from making out ... at one point he stopped and said something i obviously didn't get , and i just nodded and we went back to each others' lips . I never saw him again .

Ever since then , i've done stranger things regarding sex , but hey it's a crazy world . All i know is that there's no such thing as a simple kiss . A kiss is never just a kiss . There's something underneath the moment that just gives me goosebumps . Sex is great , don't get me wrong , but kissing is much more fun .

I think there's something about the first kiss with someone , the way you close in on each other , the look in your eyes , the breath catching in your chest , the uncertainty in your movements , the need to just inch forward , the knowledge that things are going to change after this first kiss . Some kisses are rough , some are wet , some are breathy , some are too gentle ( almost no tongue at all ), some are pure magic .

You can tell everything from that first kiss . I've kissed plenty :-) but there's this one kiss i can't get out of my head , and though it was about two months ago , i'm still awestruck and lingering . Unfortunately it looks as though there won't be another kiss with said person ... oh well , i can still play the moment over and over in my head , and that's enough .

[ironman]

Originally posted by anorexic
stumbled upon this thread lang. since i'm here na, might as well ask a few questions that has been bugging me ever since. dunno if i seem too naive or something. anyway, my question is what is a female orgasm? i've heard so much about it but i still don't know what it is. how will i know if i'm experiencing it already? sa guys diba it's easy to know. how does one fake it rin?
sorry sa questions. just had to ask.

Orgasm - as in "ecstacy" - description: a feeling you feel that you feel you're going to feel a feeling that you feel you've never felt before!"

al b bak

[Beans]

DAILO,

Some of your posts (actually the useful ones) are taken from http://www.adolescentadulthood.com

People using the words taken from another source should respect the Intellectual Property Rights Law. The site has a copyright notice below. If you had said in your first (and your other succeeding) post that you took your message from the site, then it would be ok.

Just informing you man!

Peace!

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NIL DESPERANDUM
Beans

[supergirl]

hey peeps!!!

wow, its been a long time since i posted...i didnt know this wil reach around 6 pages!!!
hey dailo, i missed ya, that is if you still remember me...i'm one of the first few posters in this thread!
so, i guess people are not that shy anymore to speak their minds huh? KEEP IT UP SEXERS, uh, i mean PEXERS! hehehe...

i'll share next time...

[ironman]

Originally posted by Ms. Hoity_Toity
Originally posted by walangdila


about the questions asked above this post by Ms. Hoity_Toity:

1. yup, i think men generally have erections in the morning. it's just the way it is.. not that we feel instantly aroused as soon as we wake up, but it just happen that our morning boner kinda reminds us of our youthfulness, adrenalin stuff, etc.. erections just happen.. not necessarily when we, men, are aroused..


walangdila, thank so much. Now I know why. :)

Ms. Hoity_Toity, if you still visit this thread, here's the real answer to your question:

Men generally have erections in the morning because that's our biological bladder control mechanism .... so that we don't wet our bed. As babies and toddlers, our hormonal clocks have not yet reached the time when we can have erections to control our bladders, that's why we we wet our beds. You'll be surprised that boys as young as 6 or 7 years old can have erections, but that doesn't mean that they're sexually aroused already. So there.

[proging69]

just registered here and had the chance to read Sex in PEx. how about sharing 'same sex' experiences?

[bonehead]

what happened to this thread???

[maxelyjr]

it seems this thread has been under the covers for too long... i know many people are still interested about this. some friends and i were talking about this just yesterday. i decided to bring it up again...

okay i'm the one giulty of chauvinistic remarks. i hope i won't piss off anyone anymore... i'm trying to remove that side of me... so please bear with me for a while if i do make some more remarks of the kind...

*keep this on top* :lick:

[dee-dee]

Originally posted by maxelyjr
it seems this thread has been under the covers for too long... i know many people are still interested about this. some friends and i were talking about this just yesterday. i decided to bring it up again...

okay i'm the one giulty of chauvinistic remarks. i hope i won't piss off anyone anymore... i'm trying to remove that side of me... so please bear with me for a while if i do make some more remarks of the kind...

*keep this on top* :lick:

yan!! nabuhay ulit ang pinaka-fave kong thread sa PEx! :weg:

san na si DAILO?

[fReAk]

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[cybelle]

dailo and expat-n-amerika are great! very informative and direct
i just wish my boyfriend would read this thread :p
keep it coming guys!

do men generally think that it is ok for women to talk about it outside of bed and ask for the things that they want? how would men take it if us girls confess that we most of the time, don't experience the Big O with them?

[dee-dee]

well... this is the 21st century, hindi dapat maging masyadong submissive tayong mga babae sa mga sexual partners natin! a little bit of aggressiveness on our part should show them who should be on top!!! it usually depends on your partner whether or not he/she feels comfortable about you discussing it with other people. you should talk it over first.

[FunanI]

i'm just wondrin'...

is it true na that guys can only do 3 rounds??? yun na ang maximum?? i **'t know if the girl will agree with me na we can do maybe more than 5 and we're not even tired... or is it just me???