how do u attract a MAN at social gathering...

[yuri]

by,
Licking your lips during eye contact.

Looking at him & flipping your hair.

how do u?

[Air_magic]

Try approaching him and start a casual conversation. Then be a little flirty. Little lang not too much and not too obvious.

[clone]

A nice, sincere smile would be a good ice breaker. Then let him follow-through. If nothing happens, maybe it's because he is too shy, too insecure, not interested...or your worst fear came true...he's gay! :eek:

[seafood pasta girl]

major eye contact...then talk about anything...the best would be to start a casual conversation...find out if u have common friends, where does he work, course in college...not being too privy naman pero able to talk about something right? tapos always smile, wag masyadong flirty, iyong normal lang, kase im sure mahahalata niyang if ure flirting with him right?

[spectre]

http://www.pinoyexchange.com/thinker.gifkonting physical contact will do...make sure na namalayan nya ha...but not too much

[Calypso]

Originally posted by yuri:
by,
Licking your lips during eye contact.
Looking at him & flipping your hair.
how do u?

But that's all too sexual, yuri!! I mean, not that I mind trying it, but... y'know... I always thought that looking smart, witty and mature are enough to attract a MAN. If it's boys you're looking for, though, then go for the hormone-surging tactics! ;) :D http://www.pinoyexchange.com/lol.gif

[earlobe]

just be yourself

magpakatotoo ka sister!!!!!!!

[yuri]

Calypso: ur rigghhht i'm to sexual

how about this:
Accidentally brushing up against him.
Dancing alone to the music.

[Cala]

the direct approach works too: talk to him.

[clone]

Yuri: Those kind of initial moves may send the wrong signal, unless the guy is just looking for some cheap thrill. Keep it subtle at first...just use your charm and wit.


Calypso: It sounds like you know how to separate the men from the boys, eh? :)

[Calypso]

Yuri: Yer smokin'! :smoke:

clone: You think so? That's all in theory, though... I haven't really tried the hormone-surging technique. :D

[yuri]

Clone...do u believe,the less u show the more u leave for the imagination?

Cala...are innocence is sexy?

just asking=+++++

[onehitboy]

slip on something short, like a teeny weeny mini skirt.

then get your groove on and shake that booty like a salt shaker!

ooooyeah mama, i'd like to tap that a$s....

[clone]

Originally posted by yuri:
Clone...do u believe,the less u show the more u leave for the imagination?

Yuri: Before I can respond to your question, I need to know if you want to just "attract" a man, or were you hoping to eventually have a more meaningful relationship with the man you have attracted?


Calypso: Really???....Hmmmmm ;)



[This message has been edited by clone (edited 09-16-2000).]

[Cala]

Originally posted by yuri:
Cala...are innocence is sexy?
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the thing is, for both men and women, it's a matter of preference. some men like innocent types, some want the more sophisticated ones. but one thing is for sure, most people can spot a faker, so don't pressure yourself to create a "perfect" mold. i remember reading once, a man can tell the difference between "i like you" and "like me!" -- guess which one will attract him more? so i suppose you can say sincerity is one of the keys. saying that, there is no formula.

(well, unless we're talking about the short-term, short-lived attraction you can raise when in some social situation -- but that's boring, don't you think?)

[yuri]

It's a he-man she-man world; I say there are no rules in the mating game,but u can't win if u don't play the ball.^^^^

affirmative Cala...perfect word

[Calypso]

Originally posted by clone:
Calypso: Really???....Hmmmmm ;)


Heyyy! Wuzzat supposed to mean?! Seriously, though, I don't recall ever purposely attracting a man at a social gathering... :(

[AltarBoy^_^]

Spark a conversation. Eye contact is essential. Don't try too hard, you don't wanna be seen as cheap ok? Peace! http://www.pinoyexchange.com/smokin.gif

[Expat-n-Amerika]

http://www.pinoyexchange.com/reddevil.gif Do a Sharon Stone Maneuver, Basic Instinct, the movie.....YOU WILL GET HIS ATTENTION FOR SURE!!!!GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!

[Expat-n-Amerika]

http://www.pinoyexchange.com/reddevil.gif Do a Sharon Stone Maneuver, Basic Instinct, the movie.....YOU WILL GET HIS ATTENTION FOR SURE!!!!GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!

[AltarBoy^_^]

Basic CHEAP lines when you attract or try to talk to a man you like:

"Do you have a lighter?"
"Hi there! You're from this University right?"
"Cute naman ng kasama mo papa!" (Yak! Sa linya palang with the term "papa", ewww)
"Can anyone lend me a batt for my 3210?"

and yes girls, these lines work for the innocent men and the wild ones too. But I may be wrong since it works. cheap for me but it works! http://www.pinoyexchange.com/smokin.gif

[clone]

Originally posted by Calypso:
Seriously, though, I don't recall ever purposely attracting a man at a social gathering... :(

Maybe that's because you don't need to be in just a social gathering to attract men?

[Ice Burn]

Uh...I guess I never tried any of those stuff...no eyelash batting, no flirty looks...

I dunno...Perhaps the best thing I ever did was...Talk to them about guy stuff...Video games, cars, Counterstrike, inuman and stuff.

Sometimes a lot of girls glare at me because I don't do anything pretentious to capture a guy's attention. Flirting is usually the last thing which comes to my mind. I genuinely like to talk about such stuff and many guys find it interesting to talk to a female about the stuff they like.

So a tip to all you females out there...Try researching on any of the following...Cars, Basketball, Video Games and Billards if you really want to talk to a guy.


[This message has been edited by Ice Burn (edited 09-18-2000).]

[Calypso]

Altar Boy: http://www.pinoyexchange.com/lol.gif Kakapalan naman yung "Can anyone lend me a batt..."!!

Ice Burn: Naaaaks naman, sure-fire hit ba?!? Is that how you and NeoTemplar hit it off perfectly? ;)

clone: You mean, like, in any setting? I wish it were that easy!! Just think, I'm jogging and I see a cute guy, I try to attract him, and I'm huffing and puffing and sweating and all red... would that make a pretty picture? :rolleyes: Haaay naku... and then when I'm in a social gathering, I go to complete extremes... sometimes I'm a total wallflower and other times I'm right at the center doing impersonations and acting crazy. Either way, I do NOT come off as attractive. At least, not to the straight men! :( http://www.pinoyexchange.com/lol.gif

[Ice Burn]

Originally posted by Calypso:
Ice Burn: Naaaaks naman, sure-fire hit ba?!? Is that how you and NeoTemplar hit it off perfectly? ;)




Well...I suppose...But almost all my friends are guys to begin with. Bihira talagang makakita ng girl with the same line of thought as me. I think I was a guy in the past life http://www.pinoyexchange.com/lol.gif

[clone]

Originally posted by Calypso:

clone: You mean, like, in any setting? I wish it were that easy!! Just think, I'm jogging and I see a cute guy, I try to attract him, and I'm huffing and puffing and sweating and all red... would that make a pretty picture? :rolleyes: Haaay naku... and then when I'm in a social gathering, I go to complete extremes... sometimes I'm a total wallflower and other times I'm right at the center doing impersonations and acting crazy. Either way, I do NOT come off as attractive. At least, not to the straight men! :( http://www.pinoyexchange.com/lol.gif


Perhaps you underestimate yourself. I have witnessed the wit, intelligence and charm in your posts. I'm sure many real men will find that attractive in a woman. Also, did you know that women athletes are considered sexy by a lot of guys? So, seeing you sweaty in your jogging suit may even be a turn-on for some. ;)

[Dharma & Greg]

Would dressing weird count?

[Calypso]

Ice Burn: Well, if you were a guy in your past life, it's a good thing you don't look anything like a 'he' in your present life. ;)

[b]clone[/n] :rolleyes: Yeah, yeah, so my mom says. Now stop pulling my leg. http://www.pinoyexchange.com/lol.gif J/K, but hey, I appreciate the rah-rah. ;) Question is, how would YOU attract a man at a social gathering? ;) http://www.pinoyexchange.com/lol.gif hyuk hyuk hyuk

[yuri]

Calypso n' Ice Burn: :o
how about thissss 'Patting his buttocks'

cool ha!!!!c'mon ;)

[clone]

Yuri: I hate to sound old-fashioned or sexist, my dear girl. Unfortunately (for women) we still live in a society with double standards. Most men prefer to do the chasing, especially if there has been no previously established rapport.

Calypso: Very funny! http://www.pinoyexchange.com/bleh.gif That'll be the day. http://www.pinoyexchange.com/lol.gif

[perth]

i dont know!!!
pero let me share something that i read from a book kung pano mo malalaman if a person would allow u to invade his/her personal space. heres how. try to place ur glass close to his', if he moves his glass away from urs..then ur not welcome. but if he didnt. Girl do u have a chance!! try it!

[Ice Burn]

Kung nakatalikod ako, I look like a guy. I've got a broad back and shoulders and muscular arms. http://www.pinoyexchange.com/lol.gif

Patting a guy's butt? No thanks...I wouldn't want someone to touch my butt so why should guys like it?

Siguro close guy friends, pero that's it...

[requieM]

get the conversational ball rolling by pointing out common interests like documentary movies,sailing,trekking etc....

:)

[FirstLove]

buy him a drink

[AltarBoy^_^]

Originally posted by Calypso
Altar Boy: http://www.pinoyexchange.com/lol.gif Kakapalan naman yung "Can anyone lend me a batt..."!!



A girl from Australia did that to me kasi eh. Oh well, to each his own. :smokin:

[ChiQui]

A smile never fails to work... it's up to you though what kind of smile you'll use... ;)

[maxelyjr]

Kewl! :cool:

[AltarBoy^_^]

Here's one and I dunno if it's a new one or passe since it involves the greatest invention to revolutionize communication between the sexes, cellfones:

Met this girl in the bar through introduction. I'm not the type kasi na bumabati una. After she was introduced to me, hi lang ako tapos alis na ako muna para mag-spin lang. While I was spinning, she grabs my cell, types a few words and hands it back to me and lets me read it, I replied back of course. She asked me though the cel kung bakit di raw ako namamansin, sabi ko lang na hiya ako at baka di na ako makilala after the intro coz I do get that kind of reaction. Well, for me it was good. Kaso, you would need that guy to have his own cel muna. So grab the guy you want through that cellfone! :smokin:

[Expat-n-Amerika]

:) To get my attention, You must be attractive, 36-24-36,
great modern hair-do clean and expensive looking clothes anything with a name brand displayed I usually ignore.. To me its like a walking billboard,..not too much make-up , classy looking.... then I will walk up to you and introduce myself....

[Expat-n-Amerika]

:)( When I was in the phil. visiting I attended a party given by my cousin who is from DLSU, so anyway I went around introducing myself to girls and I've noticed that they all asked ne if I attended the same school as my cousin and when I answered no, they have this disappointed look on their faces... except one who became my dear friend... So what I'm saying is that a lot of pinays have not changed they are still too much into status symbol...OH well..

[JENSIE_G]

For me, the BEST way to attract a man is by showing off that killer smile combined with those perfect set of teeth...

[maxelyjr]

ako attracted ako sa tingin at sa galaw ng lips ng girl.

:cool::cool::cool::cool::cool::cool::cool::cool::cool::cool:

[BaLdoMarO]

Depends what kind of men you want to attract. If you want to attract the "Tambay type" just dress like an Amazonian Warrior and you'll surely be hit with propositions left, right and center. If you try to attract the intellectual type, a nice friendly approach coupled with a radiant aura and articulate manner will score highly. If you want to attract the YUPPY type, exhude confidence, class and poise. Conjure up ideas that are fresh, sharp and spontaneous and never feel intimidated by anyone.

[ohmy]

how about triple back flip? that would surely be the attraction of the night :lol: